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90 Day Fiancé: Reality In-Laws
One expat, her new brother-in-law, and the absolute messiest couples on television.
Welcome to the family! Reality In-Laws is your go-to 90 Day Fiancé Recap Podcast and your home for all things 90 Day! It's hosted by real-life in-laws Melissa and Kappie.
Melissa drops her standard counselor persona to deliver the sharpest roasts, pulling from her own unique perspective as an American living abroad.
Kappie, who recently married Melissa’s sister, is a New Yorker who "loves love," and who brings his natural performer's eye to the screen, breaking down the couple's communication habits and core relationship dynamics.
Whether you are tracking the latest cultural clashes, relationship standoffs, or messy backstage Tell-All confrontations, you are officially pulled up to the dinner table.
New recap episodes drop weekly!
- Episodes
- 27
- Releases
- Weekly
- Typical length
- 1 hr 34 min
- On air since
- 2026
- Latest episode
- 6 days ago
Episodes
27 episodes, newest first
-
57 min
90 Day Fiance The Other Way S08E04 Recap: Schnapps on the Rocks “8PM Cappuccino”
Episode 27
Show notes
Get your two-year old bottle of wedding schnapps, burglarize your lover’s apartment, cry like a big baby, get on your Ducati, and ride over to the in-laws’ to discuss where Nigel’s sticking his didgeridoo!
The in-laws break down this doozy of an episode, and consider how these relationships often disguise control and present it as 'care,' and also feature wildly different definitions of commitment.
Timestamps
9:20–20:28 · Jessy & Vittorio - Funny cartoon character or scary man?
20:36–29:42 · Jon & Ally - Baby daddy or big baby?
29:42–40:42 · Niles & Matilda - Gift-giving or shakedown?
40:42–47:37 · Michelle & Felix - Burglary or prank?
47:37–54:05 · Andy & Nigel - Azriel as fling or competitor for Nigel’s heart?
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Reality In-Laws: A 90 Day Fiancé Recap Podcast is your home for all things 90 Day, hosted by real-life in-laws MD Kappie (a comic actor) and Melissa (a guidance counselor).
Together, they deliver a heartfelt & philosophical relationship breakdown of 90 Day Fiancé and its spin-offs, such as The Other Way.
Melissa drops her standard counselor persona to deliver the absolute funniest, sharpest roasts of the night, pulling from her own unique perspective as an expat living abroad. Kappie, who recently married Melissa’s sister, brings his natural performer's eye to the screen, breaking down the couple's communication habits and core relationship dynamics. New recap episodes drop weekly!
With Appreciation
-Bayes, Nora, “Cow Bells” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922
–Jones, Isham, “It Had to Be You” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924 -
1 hr 3 min
90 Day Fiance The Other Way S08E03 Recap: No Shoes, No Trust, Big Problems: "Hall Pass"
Episode 26
Show notes
The Americans arrive in their new homes, and the in-laws break it down:
Timestamps:
7:17 — Andy & Nigel: Eggs, fines, and red flags
29:23 — Ally & Jonathan: 2 baby daddies, lots of prawns, and 1 rogue cockroach
42:20 — Jessy & Vittorio: A Tuscan villa-sized surprise
50:42 — Niles & Matilda: Do two lies negate each other?
62:34 — Zuri & Ben: Champagne meets French homework
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Reality In-Laws: A 90 Day Fiancé Recap Podcast is your home for all things 90 Day, hosted by real-life in-laws MD Kappie (a comic actor) and Melissa (a guidance counselor).
Together, they deliver a heartfelt & philosophical relationship breakdown of 90 Day Fiancé and its spin-offs, such as The Other Way.
Melissa drops her standard counselor persona to deliver the absolute funniest, sharpest roasts of the night, pulling from her own unique perspective as an expat living abroad. Kappie, who recently married Melissa’s sister, brings his natural performer's eye to the screen, breaking down the couple's communication habits and core relationship dynamics. New recap episodes drop weekly!
With Appreciation
-Bayes, Nora, “Cow Bells” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922
–Jones, Isham, “It Had to Be You” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924 -
1 hr 34 min
90 Day Fiance The Other Way S08E02 Recap: Kiasu, Kancheong & Carry On! “Buongiorno, Bitches!"
Episode 25
Show notes
Buongiorno, bitches! The Americans head to the airport to start their new lives abroad! Ready or not, let the sh*t show begin!
90 Day Fiance - The Other Way Recap S08E02
Timestamps:
00:00 — Intro, Episode Overview, & Melissa-splains moving abroad
23:32 — Jonathan & Ally: “The floater fine.”
39:20 — Jessy & Vittorio: “Buongiorno, bitches!”
52:02 — Andi & Nigel: “It’s worth the risk.”
69:06 — Zuri & Ben: “I love love.”
84:46 — Niles & Matilda: “She can’t be mad forever.”
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Reality In-Laws: A 90 Day Fiancé Recap Podcast is your home for all things 90 Day Fiance, hosted by real-life in-laws MD Kappie (a comic actor) and Melissa (a guidance counselor).
Together, they deliver a heartfelt & philosophical relationship breakdown of 90 Day Fiancé and its spin-offs, such as The Other Way.
Melissa drops her standard counselor persona to deliver the absolute funniest, sharpest roasts of the night, pulling from her own unique perspective as an expat living abroad. Kappie, who recently married Melissa’s sister, brings his natural performer's eye to the screen, breaking down the couple's communication habits and core relationship dynamics. New recap episodes drop weekly!
With Appreciation
-Bayes, Nora, “Cow Bells” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922
–Jones, Isham, “It Had to Be You” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924 -
1 hr 16 min
90 Day Fiance The Other Way S08E01 Recap: Love, Lies, and La Dolce Vita - “I’m a lot to handle”
Episode 24
Show notes
90 Day Fiance...The Other Way Season 8 Begins!
Love, lies, and questionable sodas! Let’s get into it.
Timestamps:
• 9:34–28:32 — Jessy & Vittorio: 25% gay
• 28:32–49:11 — Andi Jane & Nigel: Timeshares and lovers
• 49:11–65:32 — Jonathan & Ally: You’re not my mom
• 65:32–73:56 — Niles & Matilda: Ranch SodaJoin the Family Dinner Table:
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Reality In-Laws: A 90 Day Fiancé Recap Podcast is your home for all things 90 Day, hosted by real-life in-laws MD Kappie (a comic actor) and Melissa (a guidance counselor).
Together, they deliver a heartfelt & philosophical relationship breakdown of 90 Day Fiancé and its spin-offs, such as The Other Way.
Melissa drops her standard counselor persona to deliver the absolute funniest, sharpest roasts of the night, pulling from her own unique perspective as an expat living abroad. Kappie, who recently married Melissa’s sister, brings his natural performer's eye to the screen, breaking down the couple's communication habits and core relationship dynamics. New recap episodes drop weekly!
With Appreciation
-Bayes, Nora, “Cow Bells” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922
–Jones, Isham, “It Had to Be You” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924 -
1 hr 15 min
90 Day Fiance S12 Tell All Part 3: Don’t be an LA Boy - Thomas & Paula In the Hot Seat
Episode 23
Show notes
Subscribe and stay tuned for next week's recap of The Other Way!
Timestamps:
• 00:00 - Kappie’s opening question
• 05:35 - Melissa’s hypothetical: Melissa makes Kappie play “F, Marry, Kill”
• 14:25 - Marissa & Edward: What’s the role of powerful emotions when making major life decisions?
• 22:10 - Melissa’s hypothetical: Which cast member would the in-laws choose as a houseguest?
• 24:50 - Mallorie & Rashit: Does Mallorie act like Rash’s mommy?
• 30:00 - Lunch break + Is it OK to have feelings for an ex? + Kappie’s 3 C’s Moment
• 41:00 - Thomas & Paula: crazy glue, 100K, babies with nationality-reveals? Melissa’s pro-Thomas rant
• 1:00:00 - Debby & Mido: Shea breaks down Mido’s virginity claim
• 1:06:15 - Ashia & Maxwell: Great candidates for The Other Way?
• 1:10:30 - Thank you + Coming Up Next Week: 90 Day….The Other Way!Join the Family Dinner Table
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Welcome to the family!
Reality In-Laws: A 90 Day Fiancé Recap Podcast is your home for all things 90 Day, hosted by real-life in-laws MD Kappie (a comic actor) and Melissa (a guidance counselor).
Together, they deliver a heartfelt & philosophical relationship breakdown of 90 Day Fiancé and its spin-offs, such as The Other Way.
Melissa drops her standard counselor persona to deliver the absolute funniest, sharpest roasts of the night, pulling from her own unique perspective as an expat living abroad. Kappie, who recently married Melissa’s sister, brings his natural performer's eye to the screen, breaking down the couple's communication habits and core relationship dynamics. New recap episodes drop weekly!
With Appreciation
-Bayes, Nora, “Cow Bells” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922
–Jones, Isham, “It Had to Be You” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924 -
1 hr 15 min
90 Day Fiance S12 Tell All Part 2: Catie & Shea Walk into a Bar (Power, Corruption & Lies, Oh My!)
Episode 22
Show notes
The In-Laws disagree a lot today as they consider life’s pressing questions:
TIMESTAMPS
01:25 - Mallorie & Raşit: Should Mallorie have hidden the pregnancy scare?
07:11 - 90 Day Fiancé Tell All Part 2 recap starts and who is the worst friend of the season?
15:23 - Josh and Catie: Why are they traveling with a big green glass toy?
23:17 - Thomas and Paula's Vape Gate Breakdown: Did Thomas overreact -- or did Paula?
36:44 - Relationship Standoffs: Why don't couples stick up for each other in public?
46:50 - Why does Edward vent to Mallorie and Raşit?
50:11 - What’s really behind Marissa and Edward’s fight over Michael?
56:10 - The Guys' Chat: Are the men of 90 Day Fiance Season 12 giving Josh good intimacy advice?
1:02:16 - Why does Josh really dislike Ryan?
1:06:02 - Should Annabelle confront Shea about being unfaithful?
1:07:20 - Ashia & Maxwell: How did Ashia suddenly become so cool?
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Welcome to the family!
Reality In-Laws: A 90 Day Fiancé Recap Podcast is your home for all things 90 Day, hosted by real-life in-laws MD Kappie (a comic actor) and Melissa (a guidance counselor).
Together, they deliver a hilarious, heartfelt, and philosophical relationship breakdown of 90 Day Fiancé and its spin-offs, such as The Other Way.
Melissa drops her standard counselor persona to deliver the absolute funniest, sharpest roasts of the night, pulling from her own unique perspective as an expat living abroad. Kappie, who recently married Melissa’s sister, brings his natural performer's eye to the screen, breaking down the couple's communication habits and core relationship dynamics.
Whether you are tracking the latest cultural clashes, relationship standoffs, or messy backstage Tell-All confrontations, you are officially pulled up to the dinner table. New recap episodes drop weekly!
With Appreciation
--Bayes, Nora, performer. “Cow Bells.” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922.
–Jones, Isham, composer. “It Had to Be You.” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924. -
43 min
90 Day Fiance, S12: Tell All Part 1 Recap - Josh's $800 Journalism Office
Episode 21
Show notes
Timestamps:
00:00 — Intro and Debby & Mido: Mido doubles down on virginity claim.
16:25 — Edward & Marissa: Edward has a Green Card and a job, but Marissa thinks his English should be better.
23:59 — Paula & Thomas: Rașit gives Thomas the hug smelled ‘round the world.
27:11 — Shea & Annabelle: Mommybelle has to sit through Allison and Nicole
30:02 — Catie & Josh: Catie doesn’t want to be married, and Josh keeps an $800 “Journalism Office” to escape her.
35:22 — Ashia & Maxwell: Ashia shocks the in-laws with her A+ guidance!
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Reality In-Laws: A 90 Day Fiancé Recap Podcast is your home for all things TLC, hosted by real-life in-laws MD Kappie (a comic actor) and Melissa (a professional guidance counselor).
Together, they deliver a hilarious, heartfelt, and philosophical relationship breakdown of 90 Day Fiancé and its spin-offs, such as The Other Way.
Melissa drops her standard counselor persona to deliver the absolute funniest, sharpest roasts of the night, pulling from her own unique perspective as an expat living abroad. Kappie, who recently married Melissa’s sister, brings his natural performer's eye to the screen, breaking down the couple's communication habits and core relationship dynamics.
Whether you are tracking the latest cultural clashes, relationship standoffs, or messy backstage Tell-All confrontations, you are officially pulled up to the dinner table. New recap episodes drop weekly!
With Appreciation
--Bayes, Nora, performer. “Cow Bells.” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922.
–Jones, Isham, composer. “It Had to Be You.” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924. -
1 hr 15 min
90 Day Fiance, S12E18 Recap: “Am I ready for Forever?” - Elephant in a Mouse
Episode 20
Show notes
Final episode before the Tell-Alls!
The couples get married (surprise, surprise!), and Kappie bawls his eyes out! The in-laws break down the most memorable (and also want-to-forget) moments.
Timestamps:
16:05 — Ashia and Maxwell’s wedding night: “Elephant in a Mouse”
20:03 — Mallorie and Rașit’s relationship: “Longest one night stand in history”
23:36 — Debby and Mido’s wedding night: “just so-so”
43:14 — Catie and Josh’s wedding: “I don’t want any bottom licking”
52:02 — Marissa and Edward’s wedding: “Go down there and just give it a shot”
66:56 — Thomas and Paula’s wedding vows: “I found a lost bird wandering the beach”
Reality In-Laws: A 90 Day Fiancé Recap Podcast is your home for all things TLC, hosted by real-life in-laws MD Kappie (a comic actor) and Melissa (a professional guidance counselor).
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Melissa drops her standard counselor persona to deliver the absolute funniest, sharpest roasts of the night, pulling from her own unique perspective as an expat living abroad. Kappie, who recently married Melissa’s sister, brings his natural performer's eye to the screen, breaking down the couple's communication habits and core relationship dynamics.
Whether you are tracking the latest cultural clashes, relationship standoffs, or messy backstage Tell-All confrontations, you are officially pulled up to the dinner table. New recap episodes drop weekly!
With Appreciation
--Bayes, Nora, performer. “Cow Bells.” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922.
–Jones, Isham, composer. “It Had to Be You.” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924. -
1 hr 41 min
90 Day Fiance S12E17 Recap: "Are We Really Doing This?" - A Good Day to Start Drinking
Show notes
-Surprise! Debbie and Mido tie the knot!
-Catie has penis on the brain.
-Ashia’s a gorgeous bride, but she fears Maxwell’s endowment.
-Thomas worries about Paula’s waffling…oh and are those waffles gluten free?
-Mallorie and mom have a teary talk.
-Marissa’s mom engages in gentle sabotage, and Edward takes the boys to the Dominican Barber.
And oh yeah, we're now onFacebook!
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--Bayes, Nora, performer. “Cow Bells.” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by --Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922.
Jones, Isham, composer. “It Had to Be You.” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924. -
1 hr 35 min
90 Day Fiance S12E16 Recap: "Last Fling Before the Ring" - Third Time's a Charm
Episode 18
Show notes
Thomas and Paula don’t see eye to eye…and neither do the In-Laws!
Kappie is spicy today
and sister-in-law Melissa eggs him on
as they break down:
–Marissa’s mom sips wine and dishes out the sabotage
-Rașit learns to pole dance and Brandy is proud
-Mommybelle and Shea get hitched
–Josh endures (or enjoys?) more humiliation
-Ashia listens to reason (Just kidding!)
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--Bayes, Nora, performer. “Cow Bells.” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by --Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922.
Jones, Isham, composer. “It Had to Be You.” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924. -
1 hr 43 min
90 Day Fiance S12E15 Recap: "It's Better to Bend than Break" - Deodorant Auditor
Episode 17
Show notes
Wipe your face on someone's face because this episode is FUBAR!
From deodorant auditors to hashing out Marissa’s behavior, the in-laws get revved up over this particularly outrageous episode.
And oh yeah, we're now on Facebook!
Join the fam as the in-laws break down:
• Is Debby’s son a Tom Cruise look-alike actor or a flat handkerchief?
• Kappie predicts Paula and Thomas will not get married.
• Kappie revisits his position on Marissa and Edward.
• Mallorie and Rașit strike a deal - but is it an equal compromise?
• Josh’s family comes to town to prep for a classroom wedding.
• Shea and Annabelle are the episode’s sweethearts…and Madison steals our hearts!We learn new words today!
--Kappie army-splains "FUBAR"
--Melissa doubles down that "deodorant auditor" is not a real job...but is it?
--And what is "psychosis"...really?
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--Bayes, Nora, performer. “Cow Bells.” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by --Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922.
Jones, Isham, composer. “It Had to Be You.” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924. -
1 hr 28 min
90 Day Fiance S12E14 Recap: "On Borrowed Time" - Craving the Chase
Episode 16
Show notes
The In-Laws Break Down:
• Is it us, or are Ashia and Maxwell the most stable couple?
• When you invite eight in-laws to live in your tiny apartment, what could go wrong?
• Catie craves the chase, and somehow Josh is blindsided!
• Mido tells Debby he loves her.
• Marissa is a great barre instructor, but she turns out to be a terrible date.Join the Family:
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--Bayes, Nora, performer. “Cow Bells.” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by --Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922.
Jones, Isham, composer. “It Had to Be You.” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924. -
1 hr 42 min
90 Day Fiance S12E13 Recap: "Do I Stay or Do I Go" - Death to the Ho Life
Episode 15
Show notes
The In-Laws Break Down:
• According to Maxwell, 4 out of 10 of his compatriots are scammers, but don’t worry about Maxwell being one of them, because Ashia is smart.
• Annabelle lures Shea into the shower and Shea tries to broker a peace deal
• Thomas and Paula are back in LA arguing about perfume and eating cake
• Rașit gives Mallorie an ultimatum.
• Marissa wonders who she is, and together she and Edward create an ultimatum list.
• Catie buries her ho era and opens her open-marriage era.Join the Family:
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--Bayes, Nora, performer. “Cow Bells.” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by --Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922.
Jones, Isham, composer. “It Had to Be You.” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924. -
1 hr 25 min
90 Day Fiance S12E12 Recap: "So Help Me God" - I'll Organize the Therapy
Episode 14
Show notes
Catie will gather the Easter eggs,
Josh will organize the therapy,
Mido will deliver the schadenfreude,
Paula will make the peace,
Marissa will say YES to the dress and MAYBE to the man,
And the in-laws will break it all down!Watch this episode on Youtube
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--Bayes, Nora, performer. “Cow Bells.” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by --Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922.
Jones, Isham, composer. “It Had to Be You.” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924. -
1 hr 46 min
90 Day Fiance S12E11 Recap: "Meeting the Family" - That is the Problem
Episode 13
Show notes
Today the in-laws break down: Brandon is a hopeless romantic, Edward doesn't jump in the pool, Catie's Mom doesn't hold back, Ashia and Maxwell's mom bond over their shared love language, Shea takes Anabelle to disco church, and Mido has his "I'm the problem, it's me" moment!
Watch this episode on Youtube
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• Bayes, Nora, performer. “Cow Bells.” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922.
• Jones, Isham, composer. “It Had to Be You.” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924. -
2 hr 15 min
90 Day Fiance S12E10 Recap: "I'm Questioning Everything" - Tiny Pig Suitcases & Trash Pandas
Episode 12
Show notes
From Trash Pandas to Beer Funnels, this episode takes us out of our comfort zone and into the great outdoors! Join the fam as the in-laws break it down and ponder: Who is the better relationship saboteur disguised as a confidant: Shea’s daughter or Marissa’s mom? And why isn’t it Catie’s friend, Ryan? Put down that suitcase full of tiny pigs, pull up a camping chair, and pour a bat of beer!
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• Bayes, Nora, performer. “Cow Bells.” Music by Al Piantadosi, lyrics by Sidney D. Mitchell, Columbia, 1922.
• Jones, Isham, composer. “It Had to Be You.” Lyrics by Gus Kahn, Brunswick, 1924.Also discussed in this episode:
• Getting Unstuck by Pema Chodron: Breaking Your Habitual Patterns and Encountering Naked Reality https://pemachodronfoundation.org/product/getting-unstuck-audio-download/
• Maya Angelou https://www.mayaangelou.com/ -
1 hr 54 min
90 Day Fiance S12E09 Recap: "Actions Speak Louder than Words" Happy Birthday Shea-55 is the New 35!
Episode 11
Show notes
Who will receive the inlaws first “Friends and Family Award” for best supporting friend/family member in this episode? Leave us a comment with your response or take our Spotify poll!
Who wins the Reality In-Laws friends and family award for this episode?
• Dorothy from Kleinfeld’s (Our favorite Brooklynite [outside of our family!])
• Rini (Thomas’s made-for-reality-TV stepmom)
• Blond Jäger bomb buddy at Shae’s party
• Captain James of the Queen Mary (is he a better salesman or actor?)
• Allison… Allison… Allison… (She’s definitely Shea’s daughter!)
• Or write in your own response!Join the family as they break down life’s big issues, such as:
• Mallorie and Rașit: You say, “bidet.” I say, “F-You!”
• Ashia and Maxwell: When God says there’s a southern woman for you, who are you to doubt it?
• Thomas and Paula: Do tiny toilets manifest RV tank toilets?
• Marissa and Edward: Does Jersey really smell that bad?
• Catie and Josh: Does Catie have her “It’s me, I’m the problem, it’s me” moment?
• Shea and Annabelle: What happens when your fiance sees what happens at the lake?Join the Fam: –Now on Youtube!
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1 hr 15 min
90 Day Fiance S12E08 Recap: "Love is a Work in Progress" - Building Fences & Crossing Boundaries
Episode 10
Show notes
Kappie joins us from his honeymoon (in Melissa’s house!) where he tries a bidet (inspired by Mallorie and Rașit,)!
Join the family as the In-Laws break down:
• Paula manifests a new table…in her neighbors’ apartment!
• Edward builds a fence…out of living room molding!
• Mallorie and Rașit use a bidet…without leaving the store!
• Annabelle goes to the supermarket and finds some peppers… and also an unlikely ally in Allison!
• Josh attempts to put his foot down…and Catie responds by attempting to make out with Ryan!
• Ashia and Maxwell engage in retail therapy… while Maxwell's father mansplains menopause to Ashia's mom!Dearest Family, we are sorry about the audio fluctuations in these last couple of episodes– we will be back to our normal audio once Kappie returns from his honeymoon next week! Enjoy the episode and thank you very much for listening!
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1 hr 23 min
90 Day Fiance S12E07 Recap: "Ball and Chain" - Ryan Crashes Catie's Birthday Bash
Show notes
The In-Laws break down the human condition through the chaotic relationships in 90 Day Fiancé, Season 12, episode 7.
Also, Kappie finally marries Melissa’s sister!
The in-laws also discuss Love Island french fry dipping; Paula buys a rock; Catie self-sabotages; Shea tries to get up off the floor; Mido is still in New Orleans; Marissa’s mom is not a believer, and speaking of believers: Ashia believes Maxwell doesn’t know what he wants and Maxwell’s mom believes her son could do better! Oh, and Rașit still believes “F— Brandy!”
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2 hr 7 min
90 Day Fiancé S12E06 Recap: Rașit's Tailgate Showdown + Love Island
Episode 8
Show notes
The in-laws discuss 90 Day Fiancé, Season 12, episode 6, “When Two Worlds Collide,” AKA “Fiancés in Cars Getting into Fights!”
They play a Love Island-style re-coupling game with the 90 Day Fiance couples and ask life’s big questions such as, “Do you want a little crazy glue to go with that perfume bottle?” and “how did we get on Brandon’s side?”
They also discuss Love Island, Zach and Kayda canoodling, Love After Lockup…And Kappie has 88 hours until he ties the knot!
Approximate Time Stamps:
• 0:00 The kick off: Kappie’s final wedding preparations + American breakfast!
• 7:30 Melissa-splains Love Island + Zach and Kayda
• 18:00 Recoupling the 90 Day Fiance Couples (Love Island-style recoupling game)
• 34:00: Debby and Mido’s car fight
• 420: Kappie-splains “the cardinal sin of acting”
• 46:00: Kappie’s Corner: Why acting is an art
• 1:00:00 Love Island rituals
• 1:03:00: Catie and Josh’s car fight
• 1:13:00 Shea and Anabelle: Angie is a sweetheart!
• 1:22:00 Marissa and Edward: Edward takes the back seat
• 1:38:00 Rașit and Brandon’s Tailgate fight
• 1:50:00 Thomas crazy glues a perfume bottle
• 2:00:00 Kappie-splaines Love After Lockup
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