Become who you are

My key learnings from 4-5 years of posting online and building an audience of 44K on Twitter/X and 14K on Substack about how to be yourself on the internet (and in real life). If you've ever felt scared to be yourself, or caught yourself censoring your thoughts until they sound like someone else's, these reflections are here for you. This is everything I wish someone told ME at the start of my journey. The internet wants you to be who you ACTUALLY ARE! Timestamps below.

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Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
02:55 Say what you mean not what you think will make sense to everyone
03:54 Be willing to repel people who are not aligned with you
05:24 Practice showing up
05:43 Learn through iterations
07:41 Be willing to mess up and not do things perfectly
08:06 Accept all parts of the journey
08:18 Develop a positions practice that feels pleasurable
11:52 Manage your content consumption
12:51 View your platform through your inner gaze (post yourself
13:28 View your internet presence as a log of your consciousness
14:19 People on the internet want the authentic version of you
14:42 Allow yourself to not make sense to everyone
16:37 Record your ideas
18:13 Be willing to be yourself
18:47 Summing it all up
19:40 Be yourself!

We're back in the park! Themes discussed: the larry ellison paradox, going viral, motherhood as a creative act, balancing love & work

Time stamps & themes discussed:
0:45 — staying grounded while sharing on the internet
1:45 — wanting to see and read more hopeful books
5:20 — being at the eye of an internet storm
7:38 — the world I want to live in
9:05 — speaking as potently as you can when trying to share your message
11:57 — motherhood as the greatest creative act
21:18 — the ‘larry ellison paradox’ (also the richest man in the world, as of yesterday!), or: why super successful people often struggle with love

If you enjoyed this episode and want my guidance navigating the terrain of your inner world to achieve what you want while cultivating balance, connection and alignment, apply to work with me 1:1: https://www.isabelunraveled.com/clarity-coaching#application

To dive deeper into my work, you can find me on:
Substack: https://read.isabelunraveled.com/
X: https://x.com/isabelunraveled
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@isabelunraveled

You can explore my 1-1 coaching offerings, my Creative Liberation course, and my free live workshop on unblocking yourself and expressing freely, all on my website here: https://www.isabelunraveled.com/

Thank you for watching! More coming soon.

Welcome to my first Countryside Q&A!

Time stamps and questions below:
2:42 — Q1: how to stay magnetic, calm and centered amidst chaos?
11:00 — Q2: Dating advice for women?
18:32 — Q3: Advice on leaving the default path and pursuing a life rooted in your own interests?
26:06 — Q4: How to know where to start?
29:27 — Q5: How to have glowing skin?
36:20 — Q6: What is a big giant vision you have?
43:35 — Final thoughts & Conclusions

Tell me your thoughts, or leave a question below for me to answer in the next episode (or at the anonymous link mentioned at in the video). The more specific and context-rich the question, the better.

I'll be sharing more audio/video content privately on my substack, so if you enjoy this format and want more of it that won't be posted here — join me there: http://read.isabelunraveled.com

Hello! Welcome to my corner of the internet. My work centers the ambitious idea of crafting a life that feels authentic to you, that reflects the truth of your ambition, and that keeps you feeling connected to yourself in the process.

I am interested in how we can summon agency and craft internal narratives that move us closer to the inner and outer experiences we desire.

In this episode, I explore a few different themes that have been on my mind lately. Timestamps and labels below:

1:47 — theme 01: entropy & order
6:00 — theme 02: karma & closing loops
13:22 — theme 03: being honest with friends while still being a safe space
19:49 — theme 04: boundaries
24:09 — theme 05: victimhood & agency
40:38 — theme 06: writing & 1:1 coaching as narrative cleansing

To dive deeper into my work, you can find me on:
Substack: https://read.isabelunraveled.com/
X: https://x.com/isabelunraveled
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@isabelunraveled

You can explore my 1-1 coaching offerings, my Creative Liberation course, and my free live workshop on unblocking yourself and expressing freely, all on my website here: https://www.isabelunraveled.com/

Thank you for watching! More coming soon. Let me know how this landed with you.

Hello! Trying something new here! This is a conversation with Douglas Gillette, Co-author of the famous book King, Warrior, Magician, Lover that dives deep into the masculine psyche and its four key archetypes. Doug and I got connected earlier this year and have discussed the work he did with Robert Moore to build a map of the masculine psyche a few times now. This is the first time we sat down officially to have a conversation I could share with you!

We cover a number of topics, and also get to talking about his new book Soul Making, which I would describe as an overlap between a personal set of reflections on Doug’s spiritual and mystical experiences as well as a bold attempt to describe the contours and dimensions of reality that are not clearly visible to us moment to moment. I talk more about my specific thoughts on both Soul Making and King, Warrior, Magician, Lover at the end of our conversation [starting at the 1:16:36 time stamp].

Some of the topics we explored in this conversation:

• A high-level overview of King, Warrior, Magician, Lover and the strengths, weaknesses and symbolism of each archetype
• The shadow expressions of the archetypes
• How these archetypes are showing up in the modern world in areas like politics, technology, finance, academia, etc.
• What keeps us unconscious as a society, and why there seems to be so much division within the collective
• How we can raise the collective consciousness
• Non-dualism, non-locality, and other concepts that approach the sense of oneness characterized by intense religious, spiritual and mystical experiences
• Lots more!!!

Additional resources:

Sign up to get my free masculine archetype guide: I have created an introductory guide to King, Warrior, Magician, Lover, which outlines the key qualities of each archetype and exercises you can use to begin understanding how they each show up in your own life. Think of this as a gentle way to approach the archetypes, which can act as a companion to the book or an introduction to it. I will be sending that guide out next week! Sign up here to get it in your inbox when it’s published.

Learn more about Men to Kings: my 1-1 work designed specifically for men, incorporating the four masculine archetypes to help you harness your natural strengths, tap into the archetypal energies you are more distant from, and cultivate more self-understanding, balance and alignment in your life. Get more information and a link to book an introductory call to explore working with me here.

You can also learn more about my 1-1 Clarity Coaching designed to help you cultivate more clarity, intention and alignment with what you truly want here.

If you liked this format and want me to host more conversations like this one, please let me know in the comments! I am starting to get excited about the idea of doing more video/audio content, and I would really love to hear what this sparks for you :)