Dear Future Husband

Can you guard your heart so much that you actually become afraid of love? And what happens when God's plan for your life looks nothing like the one you imagined?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with former Miss Tennessee USA and author Justice Enlow Kuehl to talk about her journey from pageantry and feminism to embracing biblical femininity, marriage, and motherhood.

Together, they unpack the dating lessons they had to unlearn, how purity culture can shape our relationships, the difference between guarding your heart and dating out of fear, and what it looks like to surrender when God takes your life in an unexpected direction.

Whether you're navigating singleness, learning to trust God with your future, or discovering who He created you to be, this conversation will encourage you to trade fear and control for faith and freedom.

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What happens when everyone has an opinion about your relationships, your choices, and who you should be dating?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Sadie Robertson Huff for an honest and reflective conversation about dating in the public eye, the lessons she learned during singleness, and what she would NEVER do again. Inspired by Sadie's new book, It's Not Personal, they unpack the freedom that comes when you stop letting other people's opinions define your life.

In this episode, you'll hear:
1. What Sadie would do differently if she were single again
2. How to navigate dating when everyone has an opinion
3. Why we take things so personally and how to stop
4. Learning to trust God's voice over the expectations of others

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What do you do when the story you prayed for starts falling apart?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with Susie Larson for a powerful conversation on faith, marriage, surrender, and what it looks like when God meets you in the middle of deep disappointment. Susie shares the story of a painful season in her marriage, the moment she told her husband to divorce her, and how God began to heal what looked too broken to restore.

This conversation is not just for married women. It is for anyone who has ever wondered if God still sees them, if healing is possible, or if the hard season they are walking through can become holy ground.

Christian and Susie talk through her story of brokenness, healing, thoughts of divorce, and unanticipated breakthrough. Whether you are single, dating, engaged, or married, this episode will remind you that God is still writing in the places you thought were over.

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Have you ever felt like your desire for love was too much?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian Bevere sits down with bestselling author Stasi Eldredge, known for Captivating, to talk about the way women are wired for love, connection, beauty, and deep relationship.

Together, they unpack why your longing for love is not something to shame, bury, or ignore, but something to understand through the lens of God’s design. They also talk about communicating your needs, navigating disappointment, and learning how to let God shape your heart without shutting it down.

If you’ve ever wondered why men don’t always “get” what you’re trying to say, why your heart feels so deeply, or how to hold your desire for love in a healthy way, this conversation is for you.

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What does faithfulness look like when what God asks you to do does not make sense to everyone else?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with Faith to talk about the moment she felt led by God to begin handwriting the Bible for her future husband while still single. What started as a private act of obedience quickly went viral on TikTok, bringing both encouragement and criticism from people who thought it was “too much.”

Together, Christian and Faith talk about preparing for marriage without idolizing it, staying present in singleness, and trusting God with the timing, the person, and the process.

Whether you are single, dating, engaged, or learning how to trust God with your future, this episode will encourage you to live with faith and surrender right where you are.

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What do you do when the life you worked so hard to create still doesn’t give you peace?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian sits down with Madison Crossan for a vulnerable conversation about manifestation, surrender, anxiety, faith, and what it means to trust God with the future you deeply desire.

Madison shares how she went from a high-achievement mindset and manifestation business, asking the universe for the life she wanted, including a husband, to encountering Jesus in a way that changed everything. She opens up about striving for success, wanting control, the anxiety that eventually brought her to a breaking point, and the moment she cried out to God asking Him to show her He was real.

What to expect in this episode:

• Why manifestation can look empowering but still leave you exhausted
• How to release control when you want marriage, success, or clarity
• Madison’s story of trying to manifest a husband
• The difference between striving for peace and receiving peace from God
• How faith reshaped her marriage, motherhood, and identity

Whether you’re single, dating, married, or simply trying to stop carrying the pressure of your future alone, this conversation is a reminder that God is not asking you to manufacture the life He’s already able to lead you into.

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What do you do when you deeply desire marriage, but you do not want to miss the beauty of the season you are living right now?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with Ruth Chou Simons, author of GraceLaced and This Moment Matters, for a tender and honest conversation about longing, waiting, beauty, and learning to live fully in the in-between.

Ruth shares wisdom for the woman who wants marriage but is tired of feeling like her life is on pause. Together, Ruth and Christian talk about how to honor the desire for a future relationship without letting that desire become the only thing you live for.

What to expect in this episode:

• How to hold hope for marriage without losing yourself in the waiting
• Why contentment does not mean pretending you do not have longing
• How to stop over-romanticizing the future or your current season
• The beauty of small, faithful moments that shape who you are becoming
• Encouragement for the woman who feels behind, stuck, or unsure what this season is for

Whether you are single, dating, or simply learning how to live with hope while trusting God’s timing, this conversation will remind you that this moment matters too.

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Have you ever wondered if something you’re doing in dating is quietly pushing a good guy away?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian sits down with Arden for a playful but honest conversation inspired by How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. They unpack the things single women can unknowingly do that create distance, confusion, or pressure in dating, and the things women are often scared to say or do that may actually invite the right man closer.

What to expect:

• The dating habits that can accidentally push good men away
• Why playing it “cool” can sometimes block real connection
• What a good guy may actually be looking for on a date
• The difference between being intentional and being intense
• How to show interest without performing, chasing, or settling
• The things women fear saying that can actually build trust

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Sometimes the clarity you need comes through the people God places around you.

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian is joined by Rebekah Lyons for a heartfelt conversation on relationships, wisdom, and the voices we allow to shape our decisions. Rebekah shares the motherly advice she gave her daughter before getting married young, how to handle conflict with humility, and why no woman should have to process love, dating, or marriage alone.

Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or praying for the right relationship, this conversation will remind you that wise counsel matters, community matters, and God often uses trusted voices to help us see clearly.

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What if engagement season has more in store than you've prepared for?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere talks about what to do, what not to do, and what many couples miss during engagement. From handling pressure and expectations to building healthy communication, preparing spiritually, and keeping your focus on the covenant ahead, this conversation will help you approach engagement with wisdom and peace.

Whether you’re engaged, dating seriously, or praying for your future husband, this episode will help you think deeper than the wedding day and prepare for the marriage God is building.

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Could dating be wasting your money? 🫨

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with Anthony O’Neal to talk about money, dating, and preparing for marriage with wisdom.

From spending too much on dates to recovering from past financial mistakes, Anthony shares practical advice for singles who want to build a healthier relationship with money before marriage. They also discuss investing, breaking generational cycles, stewarding what God has given you, and why your financial choices now can shape the future you’re praying for.

Whether you’re dating, waiting, or hoping to build a strong foundation for marriage, this conversation will help you think differently about money, purpose, and preparation.

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What if the story you never would have chosen became the place where God met you most deeply?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with Alexa PenaVega for a heartfelt conversation about faith, surrender, marriage, motherhood, and trusting God through the seasons that don’t make sense.

Alexa shares how she came to know Jesus, what God taught her through her first marriage and divorce, how she met her husband Carlos, and the ways God has carried their family through both beautiful and heartbreaking moments, including the loss of their infant daughter.

This conversation is honest, hope-filled, and deeply encouraging for anyone learning to trust God with their past, their future, and the parts of their story they never expected.

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Heartbreak... No one's friend or favorite word. It can leave you questioning your worth, your future, and even whether love is worth pursuing again. But there's a purpose past the pain and a joy set ahead!

In this episode, we talk about the reality that rejection isn't always fair—but it doesn't have to define your story. We'll explore how God can redeem even the deepest pain, use it to shape your purpose, and restore hope without hardening your heart. If you're healing from disappointment or wondering whether to believe in love again, this conversation is for you.

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Christian dating can be fun, honest, and full of surprises.

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere brings back the single men and women’s panel for Part 2, where they play dating icebreakers, answer real questions, react to each other’s responses, and explore what actually helps Christian singles connect.

You’ll hear funny first impressions, honest thoughts on chemistry, what makes someone easy to talk to, and how men and women approach dating differently.

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Will They Be Blinded By Love or Blind-Sided by the Others' Answers?!

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere hosts our first blind-dating panel, where single men and women answer honest questions about attraction, standards, communication, and what they’re really looking for before meeting face-to-face.

From funny first impressions to surprisingly honest reveals, this conversation opens up the dating questions Christian singles are often thinking but rarely ask out loud.

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What if your waiting season is revealing where your trust truly lies?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with worship leader Rita Springer for an honest conversation about singleness, surrender, longing, and refusing to settle.

Rita shares what it looks like to stay desperate for Jesus, not marriage, when the wait feels longer than expected. Together, she and Christian talk about unmet desires, the temptation to lower your standards, and how to trust God when the timeline still has not changed.

If you’ve ever wondered how to keep hoping without becoming desperate, this conversation will remind you that Jesus is not a backup plan. He is the prize.

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What if men are not as hard to read as women think?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband Podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Jeff Bethke for an honest conversation about men when it comes to dating, attraction, and communication. Together, they unpack the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations, why men need to open up rather than hide behind “guarding their heart,” and how women can avoid overanalyzing mixed signals in dating.

Bethke shares a male perspective on the questions so many women are asking:

• How can you tell if a man is interested?
• Why do some men seem emotionally guarded?
• What qualities should actually matter when you’re looking for a husband?
• And are some standards helping you discern wisely, while others may be keeping you stuck?

If you’ve ever wondered, “Is he interested, or am I reading this wrong?” this episode is for you.

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Are you choosing from peace, or is loneliness choosing for you?

In this episode of the Dear Future Husband podcast, Christian Bevere sits down with author and speaker Ashley Hetherington for an honest conversation about singleness, dating, discernment, and becoming the woman God is forming you to be.

Together, they talk about why singleness is better than the wrong relationship, how to recognize the difference between a Christian guy and a truly godly man, and why faith talk is not the same as fruit. Ashley shares wisdom from her new book, The Sowing Season, helping women see this season not as a punishment or a pause, but as a time to sow, grow, heal, and prepare with purpose.

If you’ve ever felt like the last single friend, wondered if you’re being too picky, or been tempted to settle for an almost-godly guy, this conversation will encourage you to stop wasting your waiting and start trusting what God is growing in you.

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What do single women really wish men understood about dating—but rarely get asked directly?

In Part 2 of our Single Women’s Panel, the conversation gets even more honest. This time, men get to call in and ask the questions they’re usually too scared, hesitant, or unsure to ask women face-to-face.

Christian is joined by three single women representing different seasons of life—in their 20s, 30s, and 40s—for a raw, thoughtful, and faith-filled conversation about dating, relationships, pursuit, communication, expectations, and what women are truly experiencing in today’s relationship culture.

From what makes a woman feel pursued to what men misunderstand about singleness, standards, emotional maturity, and readiness for marriage, these women share their real reflections with honesty, grace, and vulnerability.

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What are single women really thinking about dating, waiting, men, marriage, and the season they’re in?

In this episode of Dear Future Husband, Christian sits down with a panel of single women from different seasons of life — women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s — for an honest conversation about modern dating, singleness, frustration, hope, and what they’ve learned along the way.

They talk about the questions many women are carrying quietly:

• Why does dating feel so complicated?
• What should women do with disappointment?
• How do you stay hopeful when waiting feels longer than expected?
• And what does it look like to trust God with your future while still being honest about your desires?

This conversation is thoughtful, funny, vulnerable, and deeply encouraging for any woman navigating singleness, dating, or the tension between contentment and longing.

Whether you’re single, dating, waiting, healing, or simply trying to understand this season better, this episode will remind you that you’re not behind, you’re not forgotten, and your story is still being written.

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