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Sports can teach grit, teamwork, and how to lose. We value those lessons. But we question when paying for sports turns into chasing a scholarship without a career goal. Work and real responsibility can build those traits, too. We share one mother's account of putting about $42,000 in travel baseball costs on credit cards.

Her son received offers, but no full ride. That story raises a bigger question: are you weighing the chance of a scholarship against the money you're spending? A partial award at a costly school may still leave your family paying more. If playing sports is your child's goal, look at that goal on its own.

We talk about supporting a baseball path outside college, including living costs and a second job. The plan should fit what your child wants from life. That leads us to young adults who want stable work and parents worried about AI. We share an example of a family looking for new opportunities and useful skills instead of trying to avoid AI.

We also push back on Scott Galloway and Rep. Tom Suozzi's mandatory national service proposal. Drawing on family experiences, we question treating military service as the answer to college costs or a lack of direction. We recall a young man considering the Army to pay for a PhD without knowing what he wanted to study.

Start with the life your child wants. Find work that fits. Then check what skills, training, or degree that work actually requires. This is part one of a two-part conversation, with more on AI next week.

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The Duffy family's debate about Harvard starts with the school's values. I think it starts too late. Before asking which college is safe for your daughter, ask what she needs college to do. A school name or a shared faith doesn't answer that question. I've worked in AI and machine learning software without buying a degree.

I've also written books and built a business. College wasn't the starting point for those results. Sending a young woman to college without a clear goal can cost her time and limit her choices. Debt can add pressure to take work that doesn't fit her family plans. A career-focused daughter also needs a path built around the work she wants.

I draw a line between a legal degree requirement and an assumption about what employers want. Buying more degrees won't change what a job pays. Parents need to look at the actual work, its pay, and the training needed to enter it. Start with your daughter's needs for income, schedule, work setting, and location.

Find careers that fit. Then check the skills, licenses, and training each path needs. Look at current entry-level openings, paid training, and apprenticeships. Get her around people doing the work. If her chosen career legally requires college, choose a school with that goal in mind.

The goal comes first. The school comes later.

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Your teen needs to choose their career path. You can help them weigh the facts, but choosing for them can leave them with a plan they won't follow. I talk with Nickelle about staying involved while giving your young adult room to be honest. That starts with the life they want. Do they want to travel?

Stay near family? Work outside or on a small team? We use those answers to set limits around the search. A job title can sound great until your teen learns it means heights, a screen, or moving away. Nickelle compares careers using pay, demand, daily work, and the skills needed to start.

She includes paths the teen already wants so they can weigh them against new options. They can say no without worrying about hurting her feelings. Creative goals need the same honest look. I share how one young artist could build steady income while pitching murals to local restaurants.

Learning to sell and run a business supports the art. It doesn't have to replace it. I also talk about treating siblings as separate people, even when they're twins or triplets. The right timing depends on their confidence and family dynamic. Local contacts, job shadowing, and self-study can help them start building skills before formal training begins.

For teens drawn to content creation, I want to see them practice the work. Filming, editing, and marketing take effort. A useful skill or a job can give them something to make content about while they build an audience.

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College and education are not synonyms. I question the idea that a degree proves someone can think, learn, or do useful work. Harvard's grade debate shows how much pressure students face when their future rests on a number. Protecting that number can take the place of learning. A clip from Joe Rogan and Caleb Hammer raises the status gap between degree holders and people who work in trades.

I connect that to the gap between what young adults expect to earn and what entry-level jobs pay. The New York Fed's labor market data and Strada's research show why a degree alone cannot promise the work a graduate expects. I also question what colleges mean when they promise to teach critical thinking.

I look at Academically Adrift and the debate over how its learning results were measured. My concern is what families can see their child actually do. Debt can also leave young adults with less time and money for books, tutors, lessons, and learning they choose for themselves. Steve Irwin learned through years of animal work.

A cattle farmer I met built deep knowledge through tests, records, and daily practice. Those examples show why I won't let a college define who gets to be educated. Ask whether your child can explain an idea, solve a problem, take feedback, and change their mind when the evidence calls for it.

Education should show up in their actions.

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Your child doesn't need to turn every interest into a job. I want parents to look at what their teen does, what they need from work, and what life they want. Those answers tell us more than a favorite class. Nickelle shares how three 16-year-old brothers chose three different paths.

One wanted to work on boat heating and cooling systems. Another chose engineering technician work. The third chose revenue operations. They wanted to stay close, but each needed his own plan. Another family wanted to help their daughter prepare for Claude Corps. Nickelle found that it sought applicants with less than two years of full-time work experience.

That changed the plan. Rather than adding years of work first, the teen could build a portfolio through useful AI projects. Helping a nonprofit or small business improve a process could show both technical skill and an understanding of real needs. I also talk with Nickelle about skills that carry across industries.

Nondestructive testing is one example. Technicians check materials for flaws without breaking them apart. Seeing how one skill can serve different fields can help a young adult feel less trapped by a first choice. The same goes for creativity. It belongs in technology, product work, and business too.

Art can stay a hobby. If your teen wants it as a career, look for steady action outside class. Making work, sharing it, and learning to sell it give parents something real to support.

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College just in case is a purchase, not a plan. I agree with George Kamel that a young woman needs more than the hope of marrying rich. But telling her to buy a degree skips the question that matters: what work would help her build the life she wants? A real backup plan has to work.

Can she support herself? Can she get hired? Can she build a skill? Can she change direction without wrecking her finances? A degree only makes sense when there is a clear career goal that calls for it. Agatha Christie gives us a different way to think about work. She read, wrote, studied music, and gained life experience.

During World War I, she worked in a hospital dispensary and learned about medicines and poisons. That knowledge helped her write The Mysterious Affair at Styles. Technical work gave her material for a creative career. Your daughter's first job does not have to look like her final goal.

It can help her earn, build useful skills, and learn what she is good at. Start with the income, schedule, work environment, and location she wants. Then look for in-demand entry-level work that fits. A backup plan should help her support herself and keep her future choices open.

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Being good at high school sports can turn college into the next automatic step. We see families chase a scholarship, choose a school for its team, and assume a good career will follow. But playing a sport and building a career are two different goals. Your family needs to know which one is driving the choice.

We break the decision into four parts: cost, the goal, money and time already spent, and risks versus rewards. Tuition is only part of the bill. Housing, meals, travel, equipment, and time away from paid work can still matter. Check what an actual scholarship covers. We also question the hope that NIL deals, pro sports, or future contacts will make the choice pay off.

Years of practices and travel don't mean you have to keep going. Your child's grit, teamwork, and work ethic stay with them when sports end. We share how a former varsity basketball player used those traits to pursue a competitive first job without a college degree. Start with the life your child wants: schedule, income, work environment, and location.

Then choose work that fits and find out what it requires. An impressive job title isn't a plan. Ask why your child wants that work before paying for the path. Have this talk early, around age 16. The last competitive game can be hard for the whole family. But your child can still enjoy sports through clubs and adult leagues.

Be clear about what you're buying and why.

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A $5,000 award can feel like a win. But it doesn't answer the question that matters: why is your child going to college? I share a call with an 18-year-old and her parents. Her school cost about $19,000 a year. She had no major picked out and no clear career goal. Her parents were worried about the cost, but they didn't want to lose the merit aid.

I see that discount as a sales tool. Colleges want students to enroll. An award can make a family feel chosen and make walking away feel like a loss. I break down the gap between a big sticker price and the bill you're still agreeing to pay. Saving money on a degree your child doesn't need is still spending money.

Before you read an award letter or tour a campus, ask what your child wants their life to look like. Use the Degree Free 4: work schedule, income, work setting, and location. Those answers help you find careers that fit. Then check whether a degree is required and whether the cost makes sense.

If your child has no clear reason to go, help them find direction and useful entry-level work first. College can come later if a career calls for it. The point is to buy training for a clear purpose, instead of letting a discount choose your child's next step.

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Most families plan the college step before they plan the career. We think that is the root problem. The FutureEd report "Future Shock: The Crisis in Career Navigation" shows how few teenagers feel ready to choose a career, even while many plan to buy a college degree. School counselors cannot solve this alone.

The average counselor serves hundreds of students while also handling college advising, mental health needs, and urgent crises. There is no realistic way for one person in that role to research a custom career plan for every young adult. Parents also confuse career options with training options.

College, trade school, and the military are ways to get somewhere. They are not careers. Start with what your child wants their work and life to look like. Then find careers that fit. After that, identify the skills, licenses, certifications, or degree each career truly requires.

We also explain why vocational creativity matters. Young adults choose from the work they can see. Parents can expand that view by pointing out the people behind everyday work and by helping their child try small, real actions. A young person who wants to create content should start posting, not buy a content creation degree first.

The goal comes first. The method comes second. The credential comes last, if it is needed at all.

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I watched George Kamel ask a high school student about her plans. She said she had to go to college to get paid, then named pediatric sonography. When asked about debt, she said she would borrow up to $300,000 because she expected her degree to pay it back. Her answers show what happens when young adults are asked to choose a career before they know what they need from work.

I don't blame her. Adults reward answers that sound impressive. They also offer a narrow choice between college and trades such as plumbing or electrical work. Those trades may fit some women. But they are only a few of the paths open to your daughter. Sales, technology, and other skilled work may fit her goals too.

The point is to find the fit before choosing a path. The sonography example makes the cost of guessing clear. Diagnostic medical sonography can often begin with an associate's degree or a certificate, rather than the four-year degree and huge debt the student imagined. But even a less costly program is a poor choice if the hours, setting, or work itself do not fit her life.

Liking children or wanting to help people is not enough to settle those questions. Start with four things: schedule, income, work environment, and location. Ask your daughter which matters most and what she needs from each. Then look for careers that match, check the real entry requirements, and work backward to the classes, training, and first job she can pursue now.

A clear plan protects more of her choices than a degree bought on a guess.

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Colleges are facing a financial reckoning. Moody's expects more private colleges to run at a loss, and closures can leave students with debt but no credential. We share one case where a nearly finished dental hygiene student lost her program overnight. If your child needs a degree for a licensed career, checking the school's finances now belongs on the list with income, schedule, work environment, and location.

Student debt does not disappear when borrowers get older. Millions of Americans over 60 still owe student loans, and some face collection through Social Security. Younger borrowers hold larger balances while wages have not kept pace. That means today's families are taking on more risk than the generations already struggling to retire.

Trust in elite colleges is falling too. We trace that loss of trust back to price, value, and accountability. A famous name cannot protect a family from a bad purchase. And switching the default from a four-year college to community college or trade school does not fix the core problem.

Start with your child's goals. Ask what they want from their location, income, schedule, and work environment. Then work backward to the education, license, skill, or experience that serves that goal. The destination comes first. The institution comes last.

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Parents worry that skipping college will trap their teen in a job with no future. But a job is only a dead end when it does not serve a clear goal. The same grocery store role can become a holding pattern for one young adult and the first rung of a management career for another. I call the right starting point strategic entry-level work.

A young adult starts with the life they want, finds work that can provide it, and then identifies a role they can enter now. From there, they build skills, earn certificates or licenses, gain experience, and move up. Starting at 18 also gives them time to test a path while their costs and obligations are low.

College graduates still need strategic entry-level work. They often reach that starting line years later with debt, higher pay expectations, and little work experience. Meanwhile, an 18-year-old can spend those same years getting paid and building a track record. The test is simple.

Ask what job your child would take next month. Then ask what that job builds toward. If they can name the skill, experience, promotion, or career it leads to, the job may be strategic. If they cannot, even an impressive title can become a dead end. A clear goal protects them, not a piece of paper.

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Recent college grad underemployment is at 42.5 percent, but that problem did not begin with AI. Many grads leave school without work experience, expect pay their skills do not support, and struggle to get the first job that can shape the rest of their career. Colleges would rather blame AI than admit their product is not preparing many young adults for work.

The fear also looks bigger because the loudest layoffs get the most attention. University staff and other online professional groups receive long news stories when their jobs disappear. Other workers often lose jobs with far less coverage. AI companies added to the fear by promising that their tools would replace whole groups of workers.

Those same companies still hire highly paid engineers. What we see instead is a low-hire, low-fire market. Companies know AI will change jobs, but many still do not know which tasks it should handle, what it will cost, or which people they need around it. The tools can produce more work without producing better business results.

We expect work to change and grow, not vanish. That makes direction more urgent for your child. One family waited more than a year for clarity to appear on its own. Their hardworking young adult stayed employed but had no career target. Parents do not become job market analysts overnight.

Once you know direction is the problem, shorten that lost window. Turn goals into a clear plan with real next steps.

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Parents often say they do not want college for their child, but they still fear taking away the college experience. I break down what that phrase really means. Most families are thinking about friends, parties, games, an apartment, independence, and time around other young adults.

None of those things require enrollment. The two things that create this experience are proximity and free time. Your child can move to a college town, live in many of the same off-campus apartments, and find strategic entry-level work. They can join a gym, sports league, church, volunteer group, class, or professional meetup.

They can also build the skills, licenses, and certificates that help them move forward at work. After four years, they can have the same social life as enrolled students plus work experience, a professional network, a resume, and savings. College enrollment is facing a demographic decline, but many college towns still draw new residents.

The town and the age create the experience. A degree is not the price of admission. I also explain how a clear 12-month plan can tie the move, the job, the skills, and the social life together. Your child does not have to choose between independence and a career. With some planning, they can build both without the debt.

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Merit aid sounds like a reward. We think parents should see it as a sales tool. We start with a Ramsey Show caller whose family already has $200,000 in debt, student loans, a home equity loan, and a large mortgage. His daughter receives merit aid, and that small discount helps make another round of borrowing feel reasonable.

But nobody asks the first question: What career does she want, and does it require a degree? We explain why merit aid works like a coupon. The college attaches status to the offer, tells your family the award reflects your child's hard work, and makes walking away feel wasteful. Colleges can also study a family's income, work, and assets to estimate what they may pay.

The aid is not the value of the degree. It is the discount the school believes may close the sale. Then we look at the college enrollment cliff. Fewer young adults are reaching college age, but many families are also choosing to leave the college line. The University of Oregon expects far fewer nonresident freshmen and a major tuition gap.

Hannah warns that colleges will chase new sources of full-price tuition as that pressure grows. We close with one practical test for degree holders who cannot get hired: make a second resume without the degree and compare the response. Stop defending sunk costs. Test what employers value now.

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Parents hear engineering and picture one path: choose a major, buy a four-year degree, then apply for a job. That skips the most important question. What type of engineering fits the life your child wants? I explain what a Professional Engineer license is and why most engineering work does not require one.

Then I walk through roles beyond civil engineering and architecture, including industrial, manufacturing, field service, HVAC, sales, security, and automation engineering. Many of these paths start with technician work. Your child can enter early, gain real experience, and learn whether the field fits before paying for school.

The Degree Free Four gives your family a place to start. Define the schedule, work setting, income, and location your child needs. Then research the engineering category that matches those needs. Use the rest of high school to build useful proof through shop classes, certifications, internships, and part-time work.

I also share Aiden's story. He left Texas A&M, built a plan around his real goals, and started a field service engineering role without a degree. The point is not that nobody should buy a degree. It is that college can wait until your child knows exactly why they need it. Start with the goal.

Then shorten the distance to the right entry-level work.

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The degree-free shift is not just happening in the United States. China removed or suspended more than 12,000 undergraduate programs while adding new programs tied to fast-moving technical fields. In South Korea, SK hynix removed degree rules from major technical roles. In the United Kingdom, Marks & Spencer opened 1,000 training places for young adults.

Even Trend Hunter now uses "degree-free" to describe this change. There is a reason this is happening. Technology moves faster than college programs can update. Employers need people with specific skills, not four years of broad coursework and no work experience. Paid training lets a young adult learn the job, build useful skills, and grow inside a company without starting adult life in debt.

We also wrestle with what "educated" actually means. A degree is not proof of literacy, critical thinking, or job readiness. We do not fully agree on the best way to measure education, but we agree colleges should define what they sell and be held to that standard. Cutting a bachelor's degree from 120 credits to 90 does not fix the value problem by itself.

Parents still need to start with the life their child wants, find the work that fits it, and question every requirement before buying a degree.

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The college experience is not something a school owns. It is the pattern of life many young adults enter between 18 and 22. They have more freedom, more time, and more chances to try new things. That is why this age can bring close friends, a spouse, a network, and real growth with or without a campus.

I share what happened after I left college. I moved out, worked full time, lived with roommates, learned to pay bills, handled conflict, and met my husband before I turned 21. Those friendships lasted because we built a real life together, not because a school scheduled us into the same place.

College friendships often scatter after graduation, while local ties can keep getting stronger. Parents can help create this pattern on purpose. Start with strategic entry-level work, roommates when that makes sense, and two or three recurring groups. Toastmasters, dance lessons, maker centers, language meetups, community groups, hobbies, and volunteer work all put young adults near people who can teach them and open doors.

The choice is not college or isolation. Your child can build community, skills, work history, and independence at the same time, without taking on debt for access to this age experience.

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A father earning $140,000 a year feels guilty because paying for his children's college could put him in debt. That guilt is common. Parents are told that buying a degree proves they love their child and protects their future. But signing a loan without a clear career reason can put retirement, savings, and the whole family at risk.

We also look at the gap between what college students believe and what employers see. Ninety-three percent of undergraduates feel ready for work, but only 54 percent of employers agree. About 70 percent of employers say recent graduates need extra training. Ryan lived that gap himself.

He felt ready after college, yet his internship and first jobs showed him how little he knew about doing real work. College is not job training. Employers used degrees as an easy hiring shortcut, and families paid the price. Now more companies are removing degree rules and bringing training back inside the business.

They need people who can do a specific task well, communicate, learn, and add value. The best move is to shorten the time between high school and your child's first strategic role. Let work build the wider knowledge that college promises but often fails to give.

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I am talking about young men whose sadness, anger, or anxiety comes from being stuck without a clear goal. I am not talking about a diagnosed mental health disorder. For a son in this situation, the feeling that he is going nowhere may be accurate information about his life. Talking can help him carry that feeling, but it will not give him a path.

The answer is not any random job. Busywork still feels pointless when it has no goal attached. I call the better option strategic entry-level work. It is a real role that leads toward a career he chose. It lets him earn money, build useful skills, gain experience, and get honest feedback from the world.

That progress creates a positive loop. He sees why the work matters, so parents do not have to nag or push. I also lay out the three moves that keep young men stuck: sending them to another school without a goal, treating a direction problem as something talk alone can fix, and giving them more time with no plan.

The better move is to start with the life your son wants. Define his income, schedule, work setting, and location. Then work backward to careers, required skills, ways to learn them, and the first strategic role. He does not need to reach the finish line right away. He needs ownership of a plan and proof that he is moving.