Podcast
Executive Coaching for Corporate Leaders: The 5% Club
I’m Shayla King, a former C-suite executive turned Performance + Happiness Coach. This is the podcast for leaders who want it all: the promotions, the paychecks, and luxurious amounts of time for what matters most.
Each week, I’ll teach you the mindset, skillset, and systems from my proven Performance + Happiness Formula to help you rise to the top without burnout or overwhelm.
Work less, make more, and design a life you love—that’s exactly what we do in the 5% Club.
Let’s Go, or Let's evolve together!
- Episodes
- 95
- Releases
- Weekly
- Typical length
- 21 min
- On air since
- 2025
- Latest episode
- 19 hours ago
Episodes
95 episodes, newest first
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14 min
Want a Raise or Promotion? Make Your Case Before Your Review
Episode 91
Show notes
Are you ready to make another $20K, $30K, or even $40K? Then it's time to start making a stronger case for yourself. Your performance review isn't just a chance to look back on what you've accomplished. It's an opportunity to demonstrate your value, prepare your boss to advocate for you, and position yourself for your next raise or promotion. In this episode, I break down how to document your accomplishments, connect your work to measurable business results, and give your boss the evidence they need to make your contributions visible during compensation discussions. Tune in to learn how to make sure your work is seen, remembered, and rewarded.
In This Episode, You Will Learn
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How to prepare for compensation calibration before decisions are made.
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The 1-3 most important outcomes to highlight in your performance review.
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The SHOW framework for communicating your impact.
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Ways to quantify your contributions through revenue, cost savings, time recovered, and risk reduction.
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How to connect your results to business priorities.
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What to include in a one-page case for a raise or promotion.
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How to align with your boss on support, expectations, and next steps.
Resources + Links
Ready to reclaim your time, peace, and power? Join my No-vember Challenge HERE!
Ready to make more, work less, and design a life you love? Go tohttps://shaylaking.com and join the waitlist to be the first to know when there are openings to work with me through 1:1 coaching or the Performance and Happiness Lab.
Find more resources on our website http://shaylaking.com
Follow
Shayla on LinkedIn: @shaylamking
Shayla on Instagram: @shayla_king_executive_coach
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10 min
Learn to Say No in Every Area of Your Life: How Executives Get the Career AND the Life
Episode 90
Show notes
You want the career, the life, and the time to actually enjoy both. So what needs to change? In this episode, I introduce my November challenge, a 4-week reset designed to help you say no to the things taking up too much of your time, energy, and attention. I break down 4 areas where saying no can help you stop getting pulled in every direction and start making room for what matters most. Tune in to learn how saying no to the wrong things can help you say yes to the life you actually want.
In This Episode, You Will Learn
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The 4 areas where saying no can help you reclaim your time, peace, and power.
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How to recognize when being helpful is keeping you from what matters most.
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A new way to approach other people’s expectations without sacrificing your peace.
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Why clearing one small area of clutter can help you create more calm.
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What to do when your inner critic tells you that you’re not enough.
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How to become more intentional about the work, expectations, and distractions you take on.
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The November challenge and how to start making room for what matters most.
Resources + Links
Join the No-vember Challenge: https://shaylaking.com/no-vember-challenge
Ready to make more, work less, and design a life you love? Go to https://shaylaking.com and join the waitlist to be the first to know when there are openings to work with me through 1:1 coaching or the Performance and Happiness Lab.
Find more resources on our website http://shaylaking.com
Follow
Shayla on LinkedIn: @shaylamking
Shayla on Instagram: @shayla_king_executive_coach
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29 min
How to Land Your Next Executive Role: The 5-Step System
Episode 89
Show notes
Being great at your job doesn't automatically mean you'll land the executive role you deserve. If you've spent years building an impressive career but feel overwhelmed by the thought of updating your résumé, navigating interviews, or competing for your next big opportunity, this episode is for you. As a former Chief People Officer who's spent decades on the other side of executive hiring decisions, I'm sharing the exact 5-step strategy I teach inside Land the Role to help experienced leaders position themselves for higher-paying opportunities, stand out to decision-makers, and confidently land their next leadership role. Whether you're ready for a promotion, considering a move to a new company, or looking for a role with more money, influence, and freedom, you'll learn what actually matters in the executive hiring process, what you can stop wasting time on, and how to make your next career move one that upgrades your whole life.
In This Episode, You Will Learn
00:00 Why being a successful executive doesn't guarantee you'll land your next big role.
05:00 Step 1: Show your value so hiring teams understand what you're worth.
08:15 Step 2: Position your résumé and LinkedIn profile to attract the right opportunities.
11:00 Step 3: Use your professional relationships to unlock executive opportunities.
13:30 How one leader secured a promotion and $35K raise after three years of trying.
14:30 Step 4: Build a leadership brand that makes you unforgettable.
16:00 Step 5: Nail your executive interview with confidence.
17:15 Get clear on the role, compensation, and lifestyle you actually want.
18:00 How one career move gave a client $90K more and fewer working hours.
19:15 Negotiate your executive compensation without leaving money on the table.
20:30 Protect your confidence and standards throughout the hiring process.
22:30 How to use AI to accelerate your executive job search.
24:00 Inside Land the Role: The Hiring Room and ongoing coaching support.
26:30 The hidden financial, professional, and personal costs of staying in the wrong role.
28:00 Why your next career move could change your entire life.
Resources + Links
Ready for your next big leadership role? Stop wasting time on a hiring process that isn't getting you results. Inside Land the Role, I'll give you my proven five-step executive hiring strategy, AI tools, and ongoing coaching support to help you land the role, compensation, and lifestyle you actually want.
Explore Land the Role:https://shaylaking.com/land-the-role
Ready to make more, work less, and design a life you love? Go tohttps://shaylaking.com and join the waitlist to be the first to know when there are openings to work with me through 1:1 coaching or the Performance and Happiness Lab.
Find more resources on our website http://shaylaking.com
Follow
Shayla on LinkedIn: @shaylamking
Shayla on Instagram: @shayla_king_executive_coach
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24 min
Lessons from Times Square, Part 5: Buy Back Your Life
Episode 88
Show notes
You don't need a smaller career. You need a better way to run your life. If you're an ambitious woman who wants the next promotion, a bigger paycheck, and more time for your family, health, and the things you love, this episode is for you. In the final installment of my Lessons from Times Square series, I'm challenging the belief that having it all means doing it all. I'm sharing how to buy back your time, get the support you need without feeling guilty about it, and create more capacity for the career and life you actually want. Because the goal isn't to become more efficient at doing everything. It's to build a life where you can have extraordinary success AND luxurious amounts of time to enjoy it.
In This Episode, You Will Learn
• Why having it all was never supposed to mean doing it all.
• How to build a life that supports your biggest career ambitions.
• Why buying back your time is worth investing in.
• How to reclaim your time without spending more money.
• The hidden cost of doing everything yourself.
• How to get support and create more capacity for your career and life.
• The mistake ambitious women make when they finally get time back.
• Why greater efficiency shouldn't mean more work.
• 5 steps to having the career, money, freedom, and happiness you want.Resources + Links
Ready to make more, work less, and design a life you love? Go tohttps://shaylaking.com and join the waitlist to be the first to know when there are openings to work with me through 1:1 coaching or the Performance and Happiness Lab.
Find more resources on our website http://shaylaking.com
Follow
Shayla on LinkedIn: @shaylamking
Shayla on Instagram: @shayla_king_executive_coach
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20 min
Lessons from Times Square, Part 4: How Executive Women Build Capacity for the Next Promotion
Episode 87
Show notes
What happens when life goes sideways and you still have to lead? In Part 4 of my Lessons from Times Square series, I’m talking about capacity: not how much more you can cram into your life, but how much life you can hold without losing your performance, your peace, or yourself. I share the “glass of matcha” lesson that changed how I think about leaving room for the unexpected, why being a little more unbothered is actually a performance skill, and what capacity has to do with reaching your next level. I’m breaking down what it takes to keep your glass from overflowing when life gets messy. Tune in for a new way to think about capacity, ambition, and your next level.
In This Episode, You Will Learn
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The saying from my grandpa, Popsie King, that became part of my 5% mindset.
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The “glass of matcha” lesson and why leaving room matters.
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What your everyday frustrations show about your capacity.
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Why not every problem needs to become an emotional event.
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The “it’s just a Tuesday” mindset for handling change and pressure.
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What executive composure has to do with your next level.
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The mental and physical capacity required to perform at your best.
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The questions to ask when you need to understand where your capacity is going.
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Why the goal isn’t to do more, but to hold more well.
Resources + Links
Ready to make more, work less, and design a life you love? Go tohttps://shaylaking.com and join the waitlist to be the first to know when there are openings to work with me through 1:1 coaching or the Performance and Happiness Lab.
Find more resources on our website http://shaylaking.com
Follow
Shayla on LinkedIn: @shaylamking
Shayla on Instagram: @shayla_king_executive_coach
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21 min
Lessons from Times Square 3: How Successful Women Set Boundaries Without Guilt (NO More People Pleasing)
Episode 86
Show notes
What would you do differently if you stopped treating someone else’s disappointment as proof that you made the wrong choice? In this episode, I’m breaking down the invisible emotional labor so many high-performing women carry every day: scanning the room, overthinking our decisions, overexplaining ourselves, and trying to make sure everyone is comfortable with the choices we make. From relationships and friendships to work and everyday decisions, I’m sharing what it looks like to trust yourself even when someone else doesn’t understand. Get ready to protect your energy, stop abandoning yourself for other people’s approval, and become a little more unbothered.
In This Episode, You Will Learn
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How to reclaim the mental energy you’re spending managing everyone else’s reactions.
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What becomes possible when you stop needing people to understand your decisions.
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How to make choices from self-trust instead of fear of disappointing someone.
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The shift that helps you protect your time and energy without becoming selfish or inconsiderate.
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How to stop replaying conversations and worrying about how every interaction was perceived.
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What it looks like to choose yourself even when the people you love disagree.
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How becoming more “unbothered” can create more freedom in your career, relationships, and everyday life.
Resources + Links
Ready to make more, work less, and design a life you love? Go tohttps://shaylaking.com and join the waitlist to be the first to know when there are openings to work with me through 1:1 coaching or the Performance and Happiness Lab.
Find more resources on our website http://shaylaking.com
Follow
Shayla on LinkedIn: @shaylamking
Shayla on Instagram: @shayla_king_executive_coach
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27 min
Lessons from Times Square 2: Stop Being the Supporting Character in Your Own Life
Episode 85
Show notes
What if being the woman everyone can count on is actually keeping you from the life you want? In episode two of my Lessons from Times Square series, we’re talking about the invisible roles ambitious women take on at home and at work, and what it costs when being capable turns into carrying everything.
I’m challenging the belief that being a great mom, partner, or leader means making everyone else’s life run smoothly at the expense of your own. Because your exhaustion is not proof of how much you love your family, and being indispensable is not the same as being valuable. This episode is your invitation to stop automatically stepping in, fixing, remembering, and carrying, so you can put yourself back inside the big life you’re working so hard to build.
In This Episode, You Will Learn
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How to create more space for your career, relationships, health, and the dreams that belong to you.
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The hidden cost of becoming the person everyone depends on to keep life moving.
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Where being highly capable may actually be creating more work and responsibility for you.
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How to be a deeply involved mother without making exhaustion the price of admission.
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What your kids learn when they see you build a full, happy life of your own.
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The difference between being valuable and making yourself indispensable.
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Where your desire to help may be keeping the people around you from becoming more capable.
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How to recognize when you’ve quietly become the safety net at home or at work.
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What changes when you stop treating every problem you notice as yours to solve.
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How doing less for the people you love can create more room for connection, leadership, and your own life.
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The question that can reveal how much of everyone else’s life is currently running through you.
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What we’re tackling next in Lessons from Times Square, including approval, “good girl” conditioning, and building a life without needing everyone else to approve it.
Resources + Links
Ready to make more, work less, and design a life you love? Go tohttps://shaylaking.com and join the waitlist to be the first to know when there are openings to work with me through 1:1 coaching or the Performance and Happiness Lab.
Find more resources on our website http://shaylaking.com
Follow
Shayla on LinkedIn: @shaylamking
Shayla on Instagram: @shayla_king_executive_coach
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19 min
Lessons from Times Square 1: You Can Have It All
Episode 84
Show notes
What would you allow yourself to want if you knew you couldn’t fail? In the first episode of my Lessons from Times Square series, I’m challenging the belief that ambitious women have to choose between extraordinary success and a life they actually enjoy. You don’t need to want less. You need to get honest about what you actually want and stop confusing “having it all” with doing it all for everyone else.
I’m sharing why putting myself on a billboard in Times Square was about so much more than visibility, the beliefs I had to unlearn after building a successful life that felt terrible to live, and what may actually be standing between you and the next level you know you’re capable of. This is your permission to want the promotion, the money, the health, the family, the time, the fun, or the ridiculously big dream you’ve been negotiating down before you even give yourself a chance to go after it.
In This Episode, You Will Learn
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The difference between “having it all” and the exhausting version ambitious women have been taught to pursue
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What my Times Square billboard taught me about owning a dream before knowing how to make it happen
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The hidden responsibilities successful women carry that were never actually part of the life they wanted
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The belief about success I had to unlearn after reaching the C-suite and realizing something still wasn’t working
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The question that reveals where you may be negotiating your own life down
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What changes when you stop giving other people voting rights in your biggest decisions
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The reason capability alone may no longer be enough to get you to your next level
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What the people doing extraordinary things understand about what’s available to them
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The uncomfortable desires that may be pointing directly toward your next chapter
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The 25-things exercise to uncover what you actually want before worrying about how you’ll get it
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What we’re tackling next in Lessons from Times Square, including visibility, approval, capacity, and resourcing yourself for a big life
Resources + Links
Ready to make more, work less, and design a life you love? Go tohttps://shaylaking.com and join the waitlist to be the first to know when there are openings to work with me through 1:1 coaching or the Performance and Happiness Lab.
Find more resources on our website http://shaylaking.com
Follow
Shayla on LinkedIn: @shaylamking
Shayla on Instagram: @shayla_king_executive_coach
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26 min
Chief HR Officer Shares 5 Career Trends Keeping Corporate Women Leaders Overworked, Overlooked & Stuck
Episode 83
Show notes
You know you’re capable of more. So what’s actually keeping you from your next level? After conversations with high-performing women across Corporate America, I kept hearing the same patterns again and again. Brilliant, accomplished women are overworked, underutilized, overlooked, exhausted, or staying in careers they’ve already outgrown.
In this episode, I’m breaking down five of the biggest patterns I see holding ambitious women back and what to do differently. We’re talking about knowing when you’ve outgrown a role, protecting your energy from workplace nonsense, rebuilding a life that actually gives something back to you, and the “tragedy of the high performer” that can keep your hard work from translating into your next promotion. If you have that itch that you’re meant for something bigger, this episode is your reminder to stop waiting for someone else to notice what you’re capable of and start positioning yourself for what’s next.
In This Episode, You Will Learn
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How to know when it’s time to change your positioning inside your company or take your talent somewhere else
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What to do when you’re so tired that even the thought of fixing your life feels overwhelming
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The one question to ask yourself when you can’t remember the last time you had real energy
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How to start taking back your calendar when everything feels equally urgent
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The “tragedy of the high performer” that can quietly stall your career
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What senior leaders actually need to know about you before they see you at the next level
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The difference between being known as someone who gets things done and someone who can lead at the next level
Resources + Links
Ready to clear your plate, take back your time, and get focused on what actually matters?Join the waitlist for The Executive Reset
Find more resources on our website http://shaylaking.com
Follow
Shayla on LinkedIn: @shaylamking
Shayla on Instagram: @shayla_king_executive_coach
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50 min
When Success Has Cost You Too Much: How High-Performing Women Can Have More Without Doing More with Rowsha LaBranche-Thompson
Episode 82
Show notes
What if getting everything you want in your career didn’t require sacrificing everything you love about your life? In this episode, I sit down with my client Rowsha LaBranche-Thompson, a corporate development executive, wife, and mom of two, who found herself on the path to partnership while working 70+ hour weeks and realizing she had nothing left to give.
Rowsha shares what happened when she stopped following the career path she thought she should want and started asking what she actually wanted instead. We talk about building a career around your real priorities, making extraordinary money without accepting miserable conditions, letting go of the pressure to do everything yourself, and creating a life where your ambition, family, health, and happiness no longer have to compete. If you’ve ever wondered whether wanting more success and more life is asking for too much, this conversation is for you.
In This Episode, You Will Learn
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The career “trade-off” high-achieving women have been taught to accept
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The question successful women are afraid to ask that you should be asking (it changes everything)
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The surprising truth about making great money and having boundaries
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The sign that the career path you worked so hard for might not be the one you actually want (and what to do about it)
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The success metric that could be pushing you toward burnout instead of your best life
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What becomes possible when you stop believing you have to “do it all”
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The non-negotiables every ambitious woman should define before making her next career move
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How to create more time for your family without shrinking your professional goals
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The belief about high-paying jobs that could be keeping you trapped in a career you’ve outgrown
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What opens up when you stop living by everyone else’s definition of success
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The permission ambitious women need to want more from their careers and their lives
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Why the next level of your career might look completely different than you expected
Resources + Links
Want the promotion, the pay, AND the freedom to enjoy your life?Join the Happiness + Performance Lab NOW! Doors close September 2nd.
Find more resources on our website http://shaylaking.com
Follow
Shayla on LinkedIn: @shaylamking
Shayla on Instagram: @shayla_king_executive_coach
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18 min
Protect the Asset: Why Buying Back Your Time Is the Smartest Investment You'll Make
Season 2, Episode 81
Show notes
You are the asset. So why are you the only thing in your life nobody's maintaining?
In part two of the Promotion + Happiness Method, Shayla King closes out the three-shift system with Shift 3: Protect the Asset. This is the episode for the woman doing two full-time jobs in one 24-hour day and calling her exhaustion a personal failure. It isn't.
What you'll learn:
• Why buying back your time is good economics, not extravagance
• The real math behind the dual-career household, and why what you're carrying has never been done before at this scale
• How to buy back time through money or through community, whichever lever is actually available to you
• Why sleep, movement, and regulation are performance strategy, not self-care
• How Shayla builds 10 epic, non-negotiable adventures into her year, on purposePerformance and happiness are not opposites. You can have the career and the life. Both.
Catch up on part one if you missed it, then hit play here.
Register for the FREE Promotion + Happiness Method Live Masterclass at shaylaking.com/2026-promotion-playbook.
The Performance + Happiness Lab is open for enrollment now at shaylaking.com/phlab.
Book your decision call here.
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12 min
Burn the Broken Playbook: The Real Executive Skill That Gets You Promoted
Season 2, Episode 80
Show notes
Work like you don't have kids. Parent like you don't have a job. Today, we're burning that playbook.
In this episode, Shayla King teaches the first two shifts of her Performance + Happiness Method, the framework built for senior female leaders who refuse to choose between the promotion and the life.
• Why your exhaustion is a design flaw, not a personal failure
• The one-page exercise to find what you're carrying that nobody actually assigned
• Why regulation, not hustle, is the promotion skill nobody put in your job description
• Three real scenes for staying powerful under pressure, from the meeting where someone talks over you to the 3am spiral that won't let you sleep
• How to press stop on the doom loop and choose where your brain goes nextDo the one-page exercise. Circle your three. Then come back next week for Shift Three: Protect the Asset.
Register for the FREE Promotion + Happiness Method Live Masterclass at shaylaking.com/2026-promotion-playbook.
The Performance + Happiness Lab is open for enrollment now at shaylaking.com/phlab.
Book your decision call here.
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38 min
How I Lost 35 Pounds: My Health & Wellness Routine from Hot Mess Mom to Strong, Fit & Happy
Season 2, Episode 77
Show notes
I didn't lose 35 pounds by finding the perfect diet. I lost it by deciding who I was first.
In this episode, executive coach Shayla King shares her actual health and wellness routine, the one behind her transformation from "hot mess mom" to strong, fit, and calm while leading a high-powered career.
Here's what she covers:
• Why identity work has to come before any workout or eating plan for it to stick
• How she built a consistent workout habit while relearning to walk after her coma
• Her simple, high-protein food philosophy (dessert included)
• The micro-breaks she uses to reset her energy between meetings and calls
• Why managing her inner dialogue changed her life more than anything else on this list
• What's actually in her green water, morning and afternoonWhat's In My Green Water:
Every morning before the gym, Shayla mixes creatine, Perfect Aminos, and Amino Energy in green apple. The creatine and Perfect Aminos support muscle. The Amino Energy is her pre-workout, that's where the caffeine lives. In the afternoon, she repeats the creatine and Perfect Aminos, minus the caffeine. In addition to building muscle, new studies have shown that creatine is great for brain support. Shayla use it twice a day and it keeps her mentally sharp in the afternoon.
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→ Amino Energy, Green Apple (Optimum Nutrition): https://www.optimumnutrition.com/en-us/products/essential-amino-energy-pre-workout-powderSome links above are affiliate links, which means Shayla may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you.
This is not a diet episode. It's a design episode. Performance and happiness are not opposites, and neither are ambition and health.
Ready to build your own plan? Join the Performance + Happiness Lab at https://shaylaking.com/phlab
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37 min
Almost 30's Krista Williams: Why the World Loves a Suffering Woman (Female Friendship + Nervous System Work) | Part 2
Season 2, Episode 78
Show notes
"The world loves a suffering woman." A line that opens one of the deepest episodes yet.
Part two with Krista Williams (author, speaker, host of Almost 30) goes deep. Real deep.
What we get into:
• Why the world doesn't always know what to do with a happy, thriving, confident woman, and the "suffer to deserve it" programming behind it
• Why success makes men more likable and women less likable at work, and how to catch yourself doing it to other women
• Moving from volume-based friendships to depth, and why outgrowing people is part of growth, not a red flag about you
• Setting a boundary with a parent, and why "family" doesn't mean you don't get a choice
• Krista's story about her dad, a Jaguar, a smashed mailbox, and the kind of love that becomes a generational gemIf you've ever felt smaller for being confident or unsure what to do with a friendship that no longer fits, hit play.
Join the Performance + Happiness Lab: https://shaylaking.com/phlab
More from Shayla: https://shaylaking.com
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14 min
What If It Could Be Easy? How High-Performing Women Can Stop Over-Functioning
Season 2, Episode 77
Show notes
You don't have to want it to be hard. You're just allowed to want it to be easy.
This week Shayla King gets personal. The survival identity she built as a kid. The moment on a college tour with her daughter that hit her sideways. And the concept currently rewriting her life: the separation of tasks. What's actually yours to carry, and what was never yours to begin with.
What you'll take away:
• Why over-functioning feels like personality but is usually just old wiring
• The difference between helping from steadiness and helping from guilt
• A real coaching example: 3 options for supporting aging parents without resentment
• Why "I have to" is almost never actually true
• Permission to want ease, not just earn rest after you've proven enoughPerformance and happiness are not opposites. You can be excellent and rested.
Ready to go deeper?
The Performance + Happiness Lab is enrolling now for our September cohort: https://shaylaking.com/phlab
#TheFiveClubPodcast #WomenInLeadership #ExecutiveCoaching #Overfunctioning
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12 min
The $200,000 Pool With No Instructions: A Customer Service Lesson for Corporate Leaders
Season 2, Episode 76
Show notes
It's not the most talented person in the room who gets promoted. It's the easiest person to work with.
This week Shayla breaks down three leadership lessons from a year of contractor chaos (a pool guy, a countertop crew, and a whole lot of missed windows) to teach the executive presence skill most leaders never name.
• Communicate in the format the other person actually needs, not the one that's easiest for you
• If people can't get real access or real answers from you, they'll quietly go find someone who gives it to them
• Do what you say you're going to do, exactly when you said it, not eventually
• Why this pattern is the hidden reason smart women get stuck in middle management
• Ease of doing business with you is a trainable, promotable skill, not a personality traitCapable. Credible. Easy.
That's the combination that gets you trusted with more.
Ready to build this into your leadership? https://shaylaking.com/phlab
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1 hr 4 min
The Proof: “You Can’t Have It All at Once” Is a Lie
Season 2, Episode 75
Show notes
Everyone says you can have it all, just not at once.
Lynn didn't listen.
She wasn't looking for a new job.
She found one anyway, at a company whose culture she actually loves.
She started dating again as a single mom.
She golfs, does Pilates, takes real trips, and has actual fun with her actual friends.
Not someday. Now. All of it. At once.
Lynn Mulligan, PH+ Lab graduate, walks through how she built a life where performance and happiness stopped competing with each other, and what changed when she stopped treating fun like something she had to earn first.
What we get into:
• Why the best opportunities show up when you stop chasing them
• Dating, single motherhood, and refusing to shrink
• The executive communication skill that got her called out by a senior leader mid-interview
• What it actually looks like to build fun into the operating system
• How emotional regulation shows up in job interviews, dating, and parenting simultaneously
• What the PH+ Lab peer room feels like from the inside
• The shift that made everything else possibleIf you've been told the "not at once" line one too many times, this one is for you.
Ready to build your own version? Join the PH+ Lab: https://shaylaking.com/phlab
Learn how to work with Shayla at https://shaylaking.com/
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15 min
Villains, Victims, and Your Happiness: How Corporate Women Give Away Their Power (And How to Take It Back)
Season 2, Episode 74
Show notes
If there's a villain in your story, you're in the victim seat.
And the victim seat is the most expensive place you can live.
Shayla King breaks down the one habit that quietly costs high-performing women their power, peace, and happiness: the villain story.
You probably don't know you're running it. Most women don't. This episode shows you exactly how to spot it and get out.
What we get into:
• The single question that reveals whether you're in victim mode right now
• The three villain story types: active, passive, and emotional
• Why the language shift from "I am angry" to "I notice anger" changes everything
• How to redirect a low-frequency conversation without lecturing anyone
• The weekly practice that starts taking your power back todayPlus a personal update on intentional spending, the new pool, and the Resourcing Workshop coming soon.
Ready to do this work inside a room built for women at your level? Join the PH+ Lab at https://shaylaking.com/phlab.
And be the first to know when the Resourcing Workshop drops: https://shaylaking.kit.com/ec64d55e8f
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1 hr 1 min
Almost 30's Krista Williams: Why Ambitious Women Stay Stuck (Mother Wound + Nervous System Work) | Part 1
Season 2, Episode 76
Show notes
The mother wound isn't just a therapy concept. It's the reason high-performing women over-function, over-perform, and can't stop being the good girl in the boardroom.
Shayla King sits down with Krista Williams, host of Almost 30 (120M+ downloads), to go deep on the invisible patterns underneath ambitious women's biggest stuck points. Shayla had been avoiding the mother wound topic. Once she went there, it became one of the most important conversations she's recorded.
What we get into:
• What the mother wound is and why corporate women especially need to look at it
• How Good Girl Conditioning plays out at work: office housework, boundary leaks, over-functioning
• IFS (Internal Family Systems) and parts work as tools for senior women leaders
• The "even if" practice for breaking the performing-for-love loop
• Ancestral burdens vs. ancestral gems: what gets passed down cuts both ways
• Becoming your own inner mother and what that actually looks likeThis is Part 1. Part 2 goes into why the world hates a successful woman, adult friendships, and when it's time to cut someone out.
CONNECT WITH KRISTA WILLIAMS
Almost 30 Podcast: https://almost30.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itskrista/
Website: https://itskrista.com/Ready to do this work inside a room built for women at your level? The PH+ Lab is where it happens. https://shaylaking.com/phlab
Work with Shayla: https://shaylaking.com/
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25 min
5 ways life can actually be easier and lighter for Female Executives in corporate
Season 2, Episode 72
Show notes
You're not too ambitious. You're just running the wrong playbook.
In Part 2 of the Lighter Life series, executive coach Shayla King gets specific. Five real ways life gets lighter when you step into the 5% life. Not theory. Not soft self-care messaging. The actual shifts her clients make that change everything.
What you'll take away:
• You have more choice than you think. In your schedule, your kids' activities, your obligations. Reclaiming that changes your entire experience.
• Needing people to like you is costing you your career. Stop proving. Start positioning.
• You are probably the emotional air traffic controller in every relationship in your life. You can exit that triangle.
• Self-criticism is not growth. Intellectual honesty is. Learn the difference and your confidence skyrockets.
• Your health is not a reward for finishing. It is the foundation. Protect the asset.We're grateful and we want more. This is your 5% life. Not someday. Right now.
Learn more about the PH+ Lab: https://shaylaking.com/phlab
Join the Resourcing Workshop waitlist: https://shaylaking.kit.com/ec64d55e8f
Work with Shayla: https://shaylaking.com
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