Podcast

Graceful Atheist Podcast

Philosophy, Religion, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture

A secular humanist podcast about Secular Grace after deconstruction and deconversion. The podcast takes an honest look at stories of faith transition from a life-altering faith, to doubt and deconstruction, to deconversion, and finally, to a thriving graceful life post-deconversion. My name is David, and I am trying to be the Graceful Atheist. Join me and be graceful human beings. https://gracefulatheist.com/ Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist

Religion chart
#44
Episodes
201
Releases
Every two weeks
Typical length
1 hr 2 min
On air since
2019
Latest episode
1 day ago

Episodes

201 episodes, newest first

  1. Susan Huckle: The Earth Is Flat?!

    Season 2, Episode 212

    Show notes

    Susan Huckle is a comedian and author of The Earth Is Flat?! And other things my mother told me. She grew up in an evangelical home, experienced peak purity culture. Later in life her parents began to believe conspiracy theories including a flat Earth. She tells her story with comedy, join and poignancy.

    Susan Huckle is an actor in Los Angeles, but that wasn’t self-indulgent enough, so she wrote a memoir. She grew up in Santa Maria, CA, and earned her B.A. in Journalism and Dramatic Art from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, as well as a Master of Sustainable Tourism from Arizona State University. Her TV credits include Jane the Virgin, The Mindy Project, Nickelodeon shows, and hosting L.A. This Week for the city of L.A.

    Links

    INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/suzhuc/

    FACEBOOK https://www.facebook.com/suzhuc

    TIKTOK https://www.tiktok.com/@suzhuc

    LINKTREE https://linktr.ee/susanhuckle

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    Interact

    Show Notes

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/11/02/susan-huckle-the-earth-is-flat/

    Join theDeconversion Anonymous Facebook group!

    Support the podcast

    Patreon https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist

    Paypal: https://paypal.me/gracefulatheist

    Deconversion

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Secular Grace

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

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    53 min
  2. Matt Sanderson on Spirituality Without the Supernatural, Wonder, and Meaning After Faith

    Season 2, Episode 211

    Show notes

    Matt Sanderson is the author of I Wonder: Notes on Spirituality without the Supernatural. My conversation with Matt is poignant and vulnerable touching on his loss of faith, the loss of his mother and his search for meaning without dogma and the supernatural.

    Matt tells us his faith journey from an atheist upbringing into evangelical/charismatic Christianity, drawn by community and an intense prayer experience, then later unraveling beliefs after being challenged, doubling down, and gradually deconverting through wider reading (philosophy, neuroscience) without a dramatic exit. Matt explains the book began as an attempt to sort through accumulated ideas, intensified after his mother’s death and his reflections on grief without belief in an afterlife. He discusses religious experiences as common human phenomena (via William James), religion’s techniques for evoking awe, non-reductionism, meaning as created (influenced by Viktor Frankl), the value and challenges of secular community, and joy/comedy as truth-telling. He frames wonder as both questioning and awe.

    Links

    https://mattsanderson.co.uk

    https://mattsanderson1.substack.com

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    I Wonder: Notes on Spirituality without the Supernatural

    https://link.amazon/B0dtMgo6T

    Interact

    Show Notes

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/10/13/matt-sanderson-i-wonder/

    Join theDeconversion Anonymous Facebook group!

    Support the podcast

    Patreon https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist

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    Deconversion

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Secular Grace

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

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    1 hr 16 min
  3. Stella McCormick: Surviving a Single Family Cult

    Season 2, Episode 210

    Show notes

    Author Stella McCormick has written a powerful memoir, Deliver Us From Mother: Faith, Fear, and the Family Cult That Broke Me. The story she tells in the book and shares with us on the podcast is one of surviving a single family cult, purity culture, sexual assault and desconstruction.

    Stella is more than a survivor. She has thrived. Today she is a sexual assault advocate for the Army where she helps other victims of sexual assault process their experience.

    Links

    Stella on TikTok

    https://www.tiktok.com/@stella_mccormick

    Amazon Paid Links

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    Amazon Commissions Earned:

    Deliver Us From Mother: Faith, Fear, and the Family Cult That Broke Me

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    Interact

    Show Notes

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/09/14/stella-mccormick-surviving-a-single-family-cult/

    Join theDeconversion Anonymous Facebook group!

    Support the podcast

    Patreon https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist

    Paypal: https://paypal.me/gracefulatheist

    Deconversion

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Secular Grace

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

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    1 hr 11 min
  4. Clearly Written By Boys

    Season 2, Episode 209

    Show notes

    Karis Burkowski and ​David Fitzgerald have written an amazing book called Clearly Written by Boys: A Woman’s Guide to the Bible. The book takes this question seriously:

    What if women mattered, really mattered, to the authors that wrote our Bible? Not just the queens and concubines, harlots and handmaidens, and barren women in need of a son’s miraculous birth; not just the unnamed mothers, wives and daughters; but all women?

    Clearly Written for Boys is a book about the Bible, and Christianity, and the problematic relationship both have had with women throughout their histories. Karis and David come from Christian backgrounds and are “cleaning up their own house.”

    Join me in hearing from these two amazing authors and the critical message they have about women in Biblical history and for women of today.

    Links

    https://www.clearlywrittenbyboys.com/

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    Clearly Written By Boys: A Women's Guide to the Bible

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    Interact

    Show Notes

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/07/20/steve-ghikadis-humanism-from-the-heart/

    Join theDeconversion Anonymous Facebook group!

    Support the podcast

    Patreon https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist

    Paypal: https://paypal.me/gracefulatheist

    Deconversion

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Secular Grace

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

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    38 min
  5. Steve Ghikadis: Humanism From the Heart

    Season 2, Episode 208

    Show notes

    Steve Ghikadis is the author of Humanism From the Heart: Building Bridges Beyond Belief.

    Steve Ghikadis is a Humanist Officiant, who conducts secular marriages, memorials, and many more meaningful life-affirming celebrations.

    Raised as a freethinker, Steve has been married to a Christian for over a decade. He and his wife, Cindy, believe in the importance of bridging the gap between believers and non-believers. Their two young children are being raised in an interfaith household and are free to choose their own path.

    He serves as an Ambassador for Humanist Canada, Recovering from Religion, and Sunday Assembly.

    Links

    Website:

    https://steveghikadis.com

    Facebook profile:

    https://www.facebook.com/share/14bX5omASis/?mibextid=wwXIfr

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    Humanism From the Heart: Building Bridges Beyond Belief

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    Interact

    Show Notes

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/07/20/steve-ghikadis-humanism-from-the-heart/

    Join theDeconversion Anonymous Facebook group!

    Support the podcast

    Patreon https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist

    Paypal: https://paypal.me/gracefulatheist

    Deconversion

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Secular Grace

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

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    1 hr 12 min
  6. Julia: Deconstructing JWs and Suburbia

    Season 2, Episode 207

    Show notes

    Julia tells her story of deconstructing the Jehovah's Witnesses and the expected life of suburbia.

    Julia was torn between two grandmothers: an evangelical and a Jehovah's Witness. She became a Jehovah's Witness and was all in. She got married and had kids and supported her husband who was an elder. That is when the boredom set it. She wanted more, she wanted to travel and be a need-greater. Before they were to leave to Ecuador, her husband tragically died of cancer refusing blood transfusions along the way.

    Julia's life became messy as she started a long process of deconstruction. This included low-lights like having her children tell on her to the elders. And highlights going out on her own to travel and meet people's needs with out dogma.

    Today Julia is free. She kayaks, bikes and travels internationally. She says "I wake up every day thinking, 'I love this world, and I love this life.'"

    Interact

    Show Notes

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/06/29/julia-deconstructing-jws-and-suburbia/

    Join theDeconversion Anonymous Facebook group!

    Support the podcast

    Patreon https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist

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    Deconversion

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Secular Grace

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

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    52 min
  7. Humanism and AI

    Season 2, Episode 206

    Show notes

    The Consciousness Delusion

    In this solo episode I discuss Artificial Intelligence. Should we agree with Richard Dawkins that Claude is conscious? Probably not, for several reasons. I talk about how LLMs work, why I don't think they are conscious and how a humanist should respond.

    Topics:

    • (Semi) Technical description of how Large Language Models work
    • LLMs are trained on the sum total of human hopes and fears
    • Why all the intelligence in AI systems is from human sources
    • Why I do not believe LLMs can be conscious in principle
    • The Hype problem
    • The Humanistic response to AI

    Links

    Show notes

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/06/07/humanism-and-ai/

    Here are several source material links from my research for this episode:

    • When Dawkins met Claude Could this AI be conscious?
    • https://unherd.com/2026/05/is-ai-the-next-phase-of-evolution/?edition=us
    • ELIZA and the missing secretary
    • https://theconversation.com/my-search-for-the-mysterious-missing-secretary-who-shaped-chatbot-history-225602
    • Alan Turing and the Turing test
    • https://academic.oup.com/mind/article/LIX/236/433/986238?login=false
    • Metaphors for how the brain works
    • https://mechanism.ucsd.edu/bill/teaching/w14/phil151/metaphorsandconceptionsofbrain.pdf
    • Alison Gopnik on Sean Carroll’s pdocast
    • https://www.preposterousuniverse.com/podcast/2025/03/17/308-alison-gopnik-on-children-ai-and-modes-of-thinking/
    • Neil deGrasse Tyson on the Late Show with Steven Colbert
    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Qon72VKH30
    • AI as normal technology
    • https://knightcolumbia.org/content/ai-as-normal-technology

    Counter points to my argumetns on LLMs:

    • Are LLMs conscious?
    • https://preposterousuniverse.com/podcast/2026/08/10/363-chandra-sripada-on-how-llms-and-humans-are-cognitive-cousins/
    • Do LLMs plan?
    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=locKEKxG3os

    Interact

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    Deconversion

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Secular Grace

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

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    48 min
  8. Liam: A friend and a Friend

    Season 2, Episode 205

    Show notes

    Liam is a friend and a colleague of many years. He is a member of the Religious Society of Friends often called Quakers. Liam and I have shared deep conversations before and after my deconversion. I respect the way Liam holds and lives out his beliefs.

    You might be surprised. The British Liberal Quakerism Liam lives out on a daily basis is very close to my version of Humanism, Secular Grace. He is a great example of a religious humanist who cares about people over dogma.

    Links

    Quakers in Britain: https://www.quaker.org.uk/

    Quaker Faith: https://www.quaker.org.uk/faith/read-about-quaker-faith

    Quakers in USA: https://www.fgcquaker.org/

    American Friends Service Committee (Charity): https://afsc.org/

    Interact

    Show Notes

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/05/24/liam-a-friend-and-a-friend/

    Join theDeconversion Anonymous Facebook group!

    Deconversion

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Secular Grace

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

    Support the podcast

    Patreon https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist

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    59 min
  9. Doubt is Antimemetic

    Season 2, Episode 204

    Show notes

    I recently read Antimemetics: Why Some Ideas Resist Spreading by Nadia Asparouhova and it blew my mind. Just reading the intro I knew I needed to do an episode on the subject. Almost everything about deconstruction and deconversion is antimememetic. It is a significant idea that resists spreading. Listen to the episode to find out how.

    All of the following are antimemetic:

    • Doubt
    • Deconstruction
    • Deconversion
    • Atheism
    • Humanism
    • Secular Grace

    Links

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/05/03/doubt-is-antimemetic/

    SNL Skit: Mom Confession

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-wQhY5CMMl4

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    Antimemetics: Why Some Ideas Resist Spreading

    There is No Antimemetics Division

    Interact

    Join theDeconversion Anonymous Facebook group!

    Support the podcast

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    Deconversion

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Secular Grace

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

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    37 min
  10. Friends and Family: Mark Anthony Diaz

    Season 2, Episode 203

    Show notes

    Mark Anthony Diaz is the author of Reedkeeper's Journey and one of my best friends. Mark and I grew up together. We had the same sarcastic friend group in high school. We did ministry together. Crucially, Mark stuck with me after my deconversion.

    Mark is a person of deep conviction, and while he's a talented EMT, author, and podcaster, it's his personal journey that truly resonates. Growing up with severe asthma made for a challenging childhood, but Mark's story is one of overcoming.

    Mark is very much a believer and I respect Mark's faith. Mark lives up to the honesty contest ethos of the podcast. I wanted to have him share his life's story with us because I believe every human being's story is powerful.

    Search for his serial podcast "Readkeeper's Journey" wherever you get your podcasts.

    Links

    Read Keeper's Journey: The only way back is forward

    https://www.reedkeeper.com/

    Apple:

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reedkeepers-journey/id1529380366

    Spotify:

    https://open.spotify.com/show/5echbOBs2MXtlHolNMe0rz?si=e06f0385c8d94cad

    Interact

    For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/04/19/friends-and-family-mark-anthony-diaz/

    Join the Deconversion Anonymous Facebook group

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/deconversion

    Support the podcast on Patreon

    https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist

    Secular Grace

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

    Deconversion

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Deconstruction

    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/

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    51 min
  11. Colin Ryan: Epic Tiny Victories

    Season 2, Episode 202

    Show notes

    Welcome back Colin Ryan, author, storyteller, comedian and survivor of Bipolar 2, OCD and ADHD. Colin has written Epic Tiny Victories: A hopeful story about depression anxiety and reframing your life. It is hilarious, honest and poignant.

    Colin describes in the book growing up Evangelical, purity culture and his deconstruction process.

    Join us as we catch up on where Colin's deconstruction journey is at. We discuss his mental health journey. Colin tells stories from the book.

    Get Epic Tiny Victories today.

    Links

    http://www.epictinyvictories.com/

    https://www.colinryanspeaks.com/

    2020 Deconversion Anonymous episode of GAP
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2020/11/29/colin-deconversion-anonymous/

    Chapters

    00:00 Graceful Atheist Podcast Intro
    01:36 Welcome back Colin Ryan
    03:50 Deconstruction Journey since 2020
    15:27 Epic Tiny Victories and we were all 11
    29:44 Impact of therapy on Colin's Life
    47:49 Mental Health takes work
    52:36 The book process and how to get ETV
    64:40 Final thoughts on the episode
    66:43 Secular Grace thought of the Week

    Interact

    For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/03/29/colin-ryan-epic-tiny-victories/

    Join the Deconversion Anonymous Facebook group
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/deconversion

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    Secular Grace
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

    Deconversion
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Deconstruction
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/

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    1 hr 8 min
  12. 10 Year Deconversion Anniversary

    Season 2, Episode 201

    Show notes

    Reflections on ten years of deconversion. I re-tell my deconversion story and reflect on what has changed and what has stayed the same.

    Links

    Apostate: Stories of Deconversion

    https://amzn.to/4rj7TA6

    Interact

    For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/03/08/10-year-deconversion-anniversary/

    Join the Deconversion Anonymous Facebook group
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/deconversion

    Support the podcast on Patreon
    https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist

    Secular Grace
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

    Deconversion
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Deconstruction
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/

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    57 min
  13. Matthew Taylor: Why We Podcast

    Episode 200

    Show notes

    Mathew Taylor, co-host of Still Unbelievable!, returns to the podcast to discuss why we podcast.Links

    Matthew on Twitter:
    https://twitter.com/vteclimey

    Confessions of a YEC blog:
    https://confessionsofayec.wordpress.com/

    "God takes the good people early" post:
    https://confessionsofayec.wordpress.com/2012/03/08/god-takes-the-good-people-early/

    Reason Press:
    https://reasonpress.net/

    "Still Unbelievable!" the book:
    https://reasonpress.net/SU1EPodcasts:

    Still Unbelievable!
    https://anchor.fm/still-unbelievable

    Ask An Atheist Anything
    https://anchor.fm/reasonpress

    Previous episode
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2019/06/20/matthew-taylor-confessions-of-a-young-earth-creationist/

    Interact

    For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2023/12/30/matthew-taylor-why-we-podcast/

    Join the Deconversion Anonymous Facebook group
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/deconversion

    Graceful Atheist Podcast Merch!
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    Secular Grace
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

    Deconversion
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Deconstruction
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/

    Attribution

    "Waves" track written and produced by Makaih Beats
    https://makaihbeats.net/

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    1 hr 8 min
  14. Sara: Christian Humanism

    Episode 199

    Show notes

    This week's guest is Sara. Sara grew up in a Canadian Mennonite community and embraced it wholeheartedly. She was surrounded by evangelical Christianity and she thrived.

    As a young adult, she married and followed her husband into ministry. While he led, she helped as was expected of her. It didn't occur to her until years later how little her own leadership skills had to be set aside.

    Sara's husband started deconstructing his beliefs before she did, but as he was learning, she was also learning. Years later, she knew he'd become an atheist before he did.

    It wasn't easy, but they made space for one another to learn and grow and move down their own paths. Today, Sara is a spiritual director for others and doesn't have a specific label for herself, and it works just fine.

    "There's a whole host of ways of being in the world…"

    Links

    Sara's website
    https://prairiethistle.ca/

    Facebook
    https://www.facebook.com/prairiethistle

    Interact

    For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2023/12/17/sara-christian-humanism/

    Join the Deconversion Anonymous Facebook group
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/deconversion

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    Secular Grace
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

    Deconversion
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Deconstruction
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/

    Attribution

    "Waves" track written and produced by Makaih Beats
    https://makaihbeats.net/

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    1 hr 2 min
  15. Beth: Deconstruction from the Moral Majority

    Episode 198

    Show notes

    This week's guest is Beth. Beth grew up in a fundamentalist Christian home that revered James Dobson, Jerry Falwell and all those who created the "Moral Majority." Her father was a pastor whose sermons centered on the End Times and protecting their families from the "shifting culture," (read: all the movements happening in the 60's and 70's).

    As a teen, she lived a double life, keeping plenty of secrets from her parents. However, as a young adult, followed all the rules with the expectation that the "umbrella of God's protection" would take care of her. It didn't.

    It took decades of trying to do what was "right" and watching the promises of the Church come to naught before she finally took the leap out of Christianity. She now identifies as SBNR—spiritual but not religious. Beth is now able to trust her own judgment and make decisions that are best for her. No "umbrella of protection" needed.

    Interact

    For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2023/12/10/beth-deconstruction-from-the-moral-majority/

    Join the Deconversion Anonymous Facebook group
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    Secular Grace
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

    Deconversion
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Deconstruction
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/

    Attribution

    "Waves" track written and produced by Makaih Beats
    https://makaihbeats.net/

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    50 min
  16. Andrew: Dino Dad Reviews

    Episode 197

    Show notes

    Arline interviews this week's guest, Andrew. Andrew is a self-named atheist "paleo-nerd." He grew up home-schooled in a fundamentalist church in southern California. His whole schooling was religious and that included Young Earth Creationism.

    In high school, Andrew struggled with his shy nature and some depressive episodes. The church didn't seem to have room for people like him. As a young adult, finally making his own decisions and living a life without fundamentalism everywhere, Andrew saw how much he could accomplish on his own. He had had the resources inside him but hadn't known it.

    Now, as an atheist, he's figuring out what life looks like for himself. It includes a wife and kids, online friends, lots of dinosaurs, and a happiness that isn't perfect or perpetual but is enough.

    Links

    Dino Dad Reviews
    https://dinodadreviews.com/

    Instagram
    https://www.instagram.com/dinodadreviews/

    Interact

    For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2023/12/03/andrew-dino-dad-reviews/

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    Secular Grace
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

    Deconversion
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Deconstruction
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/

    Attribution

    "Waves" track written and produced by Makaih Beats
    https://makaihbeats.net/

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    55 min
  17. Racquelle: Deconstruction from SDA and Conspiracy Theories

    Episode 196

    Show notes

    Arline interviews this week's guest, Racquelle. Racquelle grew up in Canada in the Seventh Day Adventist church. Conspiracy theories were common in her household. Some of them she bought into.

    Throughout her life she went through periods of doubt but something kept bringing her back to Church. A sense of obligation and expectation never left her.

    Eventually, Racquelle deconverted from her faith and deconstructed the conspiracy theories. She now has an interesting perspective on the deconstruction process.

    Links

    Facebook
    https://www.facebook.com/racquelle.pilon

    Instagram
    https://www.instagram.com/racquelle_p/

    Interact

    For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2023/11/26/racquelle-deconversion-from-sda-and-conspiracy-theories/

    Join the Deconversion Anonymous Facebook group
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/deconversion

    Graceful Atheist Podcast Merch!
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    Support the podcast on Patreon
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    Secular Grace
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

    Deconversion
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Deconstruction
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/

    Attribution

    "Waves" track written and produced by Makaih Beats
    https://makaihbeats.net/

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    1 hr 9 min
  18. Andy Neal: Andy Films and Hikes

    Episode 195

    Show notes

    Arline interviews this week's guest, Andy Neal of Andy Films And Hikes fame. He is self described as a "plus size hiking influencer."

    Andy tells his story of deconstruction, acceptance of his body and his joy in nature. He is an inspiration to all to get outdoors and experience nature.

    Links

    Instagram
    https://www.instagram.com/andyfilmsandhikes/

    Link Tree
    https://linktr.ee/AndyNeal
    Interact

    For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2023/11/19/andy-neal-andy-films-and-hikes/

    Join the Deconversion Anonymous Facebook group
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    https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist

    Secular Grace
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

    Deconversion
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Deconstruction
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/

    Attribution

    "Waves" track written and produced by Makaih Beats
    https://makaihbeats.net/

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    1 hr 6 min
  19. Natalie: Pentecostal to Mormon to Atheist

    Episode 194

    Show notes

    Natalie from New Zealand tells Arlene here story. She grew up Pentecostal participating in church. In her young adulthood she converted to Mormonism.

    She saw that as woman her role was limited and was finding it difficult to accept the church's perspective on LGBQT issues.

    Eventually Natalie deconverted. She is thankful for her kids' sake who later came out as queer. Natalie now finds time in nature and the forest life giving.
    Interact

    For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2023/11/12/natalie-pentecostal-to-mormon-to-atheist/

    Join the Deconversion Anonymous Facebook group
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    Secular Grace
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

    Deconversion
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Deconstruction
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/

    Attribution

    "Waves" track written and produced by Makaih Beats
    https://makaihbeats.net/

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    1 hr 3 min
  20. Jeff: Deconstruction of a Southern Baptist Minister

    Episode 193

    Show notes

    Jeff grew up in his words "a very religious household." He attended a large Southern Baptist church.

    In college he fell in love with the seriousness of Calvinism after reading John Piper's Desiring God. He left seminary early to become a minster because he felt time pressure to be "on mission" for God.

    After three pastors he knew committed suicide in one year, Jeff began to deconstruct.

    Today he is agnostic and finds therapy and mindfulness helpful in his life.

    Links

    Instagram
    https://www.instagram.com/Backwoodspiper

    Interact

    For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2023/11/05/jeff-deconstruction-of-a-southern-baptist-minister/

    Join the Deconversion Anonymous Facebook group
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/deconversion

    Graceful Atheist Podcast Merch!
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    https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist

    Secular Grace
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

    Deconversion
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/

    Deconstruction
    https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/

    Attribution

    "Waves" track written and produced by Makaih Beats
    https://makaihbeats.net/

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    1 hr 13 min

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