In Such A Time: Conversations on Jewish Life, Leadership & Meaning

Israeli democracy thrives in its messiness—what can the latest election results teach us about coalition-building, civic responsibility, and the challenges of national unity?

This episode dives into the recent Israeli elections with a sharp focus on how the Knesset operates, why neither major party can easily form a government, and what the dramatic rise in Arab voter turnout means for the country's future. The conversation explores major themes like the persistent debate over military and national service, the complexities of coalition politics, anxieties within Israeli society, and the enduring influence of Netanyahu. Listeners gain invaluable perspective on how Israeli identity, security, and democracy are being negotiated in real time.

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[00:00:00] Introduction and framing the Israeli election results[00:00:38] How the Israeli Knesset and coalition system work[00:01:55] The pivotal role of Arab parties and post-election confusion[00:02:32] Analysis of voting trends and government coalition possibilities[00:04:02] Surge in Arab political participation and its implications[00:05:52] Arab-Israeli political platforms and coalition controversies[00:09:26] Reflections on Israeli democracy and civic engagement[00:10:13] National service, military conscription, and societal fairness[00:12:18] Political strategy, Netanyahu’s prospects, and next election speculation[00:14:41] Funding, service, and proposals for national unity reforms[00:16:08] How security concerns influence political dynamics[00:17:21] Netanyahu’s long-standing appeal and Israel’s global standing[00:19:25] Concerns for Israel’s future and generational anxieties[00:20:24] Theoretical reforms and prospects for a center-right coalition[00:21:02] Societal uncertainty and post-October 7th reckoning[00:22:01] The reality of Israeli versus Jewish identity[00:23:11] The need for competent governance and national cohesion[00:24:39] Hopes for political moderation and pragmatic coalitions[00:25:42] Existential themes and lessons from Israel’s history[00:26:36] Reflections on proportional representation and political diversity[00:27:53] External vs. internal issues in Israeli elections[00:29:18] Voting anecdotes and appreciation for Israeli civic engagement[00:30:13] Closing thoughts and community connection

Discover why Israel's upcoming elections are about more than just politics—they're a window into the core values and anxieties shaping Israeli society today. What happens when a country must choose between tradition, security, and societal change, all while under international scrutiny?In this episode, Rabbis Jonathan Jaffe and Leora Londy are joined by Hila Iskowitz. They dive deep into the key issues facing Israeli voters: the future of the Haredi (ultra-Orthodox) draft exemption, integration of different demographic groups, the ongoing impact of October 7th, and whether the leadership of Benjamin Netanyahu still resonates with the public. The conversation unpacks the clash between religious and secular values, public demand for accountability after national trauma, and the striking disconnect between American Jewish concerns and Israeli political realities.You’ll hear nuanced perspectives on the psychological forces influencing voters, the rising stakes of religion in politics, and heartfelt wishes for greater cohesion and representative leadership during an unprecedented moment in Israel’s history.

Timestamped Overview[00:00] Welcome and episode introduction[00:20] Setting the table: Security, differing priorities, and the election’s context[02:24] Haredi draft issue and its emotional/political implications[03:59] Explaining the Haredi exemption and societal tensions[06:54] Haredi community and Israeli social fractures[09:17] Polls, psychological drivers, and conscription alternatives[11:09] Psychological frustration and participation in crises[13:01] Broader issues of social and legal participation[14:00] Arab-Israeli integration and challenges[16:00] Netanyahu’s legacy and the election as a referendum[17:28] Calls for accountability and the absence of a national commission[20:00] Security, polarization, and societal trust[22:47] Perceived partiality and possible reforms around Netanyahu[24:11] The rise and role of Lieberman and secular right politics[27:31] American vs. Israeli perspective on war and priorities[29:40] Security, Gaza policy, and what’s missing in opposition plans[32:52] American Jewish-Israeli relationship and the lack of focus on world Jewry[36:51] Advice for Israeli leaders from an American vantage[38:31] Jewish identity, religious pluralism, and what it means for democracy[41:02] Judicial reform, separation of religion and state, and ongoing tensions[44:33] Closing reflections and prayers for Israel’s future[48:30] Episode close and credits

Discover how communities can honor trauma while still holding onto hope—can memorializing painful events actually strengthen identity and resilience?The conversation focused on the evolving legacy of October 7th within Jewish memory and ritual. Key themes included how individuals and communities process collective trauma, the tension between remembering and moving forward, and the balance between honoring victims and avoiding a culture of perpetual victimhood. The discussion explored the way Jewish tradition historically consolidates remembrances of tragedy, the symbolic choices in memorializing events like the Holocaust versus October 7th, and how new generations might approach commemoration. Several points were raised, including the impact of public memorials, the interplay between personal healing and collective memory, and the role of pride and resilience in shaping future observances.[00:00] Introduction and framing the conversation: October 7th in Jewish memory[00:55] Personal reflections and the lingering trauma of October 7th[02:14] The ongoing tragedy in Gaza and shifts in observance[03:56] Comparisons with Holocaust and historical Jewish trauma[05:03] The tradition of communal mourning and lessons from Tisha B’Av[07:32] Structuring Jewish memory: consolidation vs. proliferation of days[08:48] Why "October 7th" rather than "Simchat Torah"?[09:29] The emotional necessity of remembrance for survivors[11:10] How October 7th shifts Jewish identity and commemoration[12:59] Rethinking the meaning of holding onto the past[13:22] The healing power of witnessing and telling stories[15:05] Memorials and the physical space of remembrance[16:04] Danger of centering Jewish identity around victimhood[17:02] October 7th memory: identity, pride, and resilience[18:48] Differences between Holocaust and October 7th victims and remembrance[19:48] Museums, memorials, and public memory[21:18] The line between honoring and disaster tourism[22:30] Israeli and diaspora responses: rebuilding and living with memory[24:47] Contrasts in Holocaust and October 7th memorial styles[26:21] Hope, resilience, and the symbolism of the Kalanit flower[27:01] Looking ahead: legacy, memory, and shifting politics[27:47] Outro and episode close

Standing up for core values isn't just brave—it's essential for a vibrant democracy. But what happens when your most fundamental needs feel overlooked by the very party you've always supported?

In this compelling episode, Rabbi Josh Winston shares his journey co-founding http://nonnegotiable.org/ in response to shifting rhetoric in Michigan's critical Senate race. He discusses the challenges of advocating for Jewish safety, identity, and inclusion in a polarized political climate, the process of creating a unified set of "nonnegotiables" for candidates, and the impact this movement has had—both within the Jewish community and beyond. Listeners will gain insight into the power of principled action, the complexities of coalition-building, and the urgent need to defend inclusive democratic spaces.

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00:00 Welcome and guest introduction

00:59 Josh Winston's background and commitment to social justice

02:04 Deepening focus on Israel, Reform Judaism, and Jewish democracy

03:18 The Michigan Senate race and its broader impact

04:17 What is Nonnegotiable? Purpose, origins, and organizing

05:00 Founding team and cross-spectrum collaboration

07:45 Evolving politics, Democratic discomfort, and Jewish voter concerns

08:21 The "Nonnegotiables" outlined

10:19 The need to stay engaged in the political process

11:51 Response from candidates and the community

13:24 Why rhetoric matters: antisemitism, safety, and political choices

15:53 Feedback, backlash, and support within the community

24:46 Media attention and measuring success

27:30 Nonnegotiables as an act of democracy

29:09 Jewish safety as a bellwether for democracy

30:56 Jewish-Muslim relations post-October 7

33:23 Call to action: building power in the Jewish community

35:05 Parallels between left and right populist rhetoric

37:21 Lessons for the broader Jewish and civic community

38:42 Where to learn more and get involved: http://nonnegotiable.org/ and http://zioness.org/

If you'd like to make a contribution to Nonnegotiable, head on over tohttps://www.nonnegotiable.org/donate.

Discover the complex choices parents face when balancing the value of Jewish identity and community with the desire for diversity and public engagement.

In this revealing conversation, Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe and Rabbi Leora Londy dive into their own varied educational journeys—from private Jewish day schools to public classrooms in diverse American cities and even Israel. Together, they wrestle with the personal and communal motivations underlying school selection, the impact of privilege, and the contemporary challenges around safety and inclusion amid rising antisemitism.

By sharing their candid reflections and family experiences, they invite listeners to confront the tough decisions that shape not only individual identities but also the very fabric of Jewish communal life.

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00:00 Welcome and reflections on averted disaster in Israel

01:14 Introducing the central question: Jewish day schools vs. public schools

02:20 Rabbi Leora Londy's upbringing: Jewish and public school experiences

03:54 Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe's private school experiences in Hawaii

06:44 Relating school choices to privilege and regional realities

08:17 Struggles and decisions as parents: investing in public vs. private Jewish education

09:08 Rabbi Leora Londy on Israeli and American systems, moving to Westchester

10:24 First experiences with diversity and values in public school

12:02 The challenge of instilling Jewish identity in different educational settings

12:44 The dual history of Jewish day schools: pride and white flight

15:18 What Jewish day schools provide, and what they don't

18:20 How school choice drives where families live

21:07 The tension between diversity and providing the "best" for children

21:26 The steep costs of Jewish education and its impact

23:20 Concerns around safety in American public schools

24:37 Broader communal responsibilities and reflections on California's decline in public education

25:50 Integrating Jewish life into diverse environments

26:54 Holding space for both Jewish continuity and interfaith friendships

28:00 Invitation for listener reflections and conversation closer

Discover how the history of Jewish resilience—summed up in the power of saying “no”—can help us better understand both modern anti-Semitism and the ongoing challenges facing the Jewish community today. Why does Jewish success often provoke new forms of hatred, and is there a deeper pattern to the ways in which Jews are scapegoated over time?

In this Yom Kippur sermon episode, Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe draws from Dara Horn’s provocative work to explain why Jews are continually “a stiff-necked people,” resisting tyranny and dogma throughout the ages. Explore the origins of the “big lie,” its ever-shifting representations, and why the modern Jewish state faces echoing accusations that have haunted the Jewish people for millennia. Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe also introduces a powerful new curriculum designed to empower Jews of all ages to engage proudly and knowledgeably with their identity.

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00:00 Introduction and framing: Jewish resilience and challenges
00:53 The “stiff-necked people” and anti-tyrannical roots of Judaism
03:34 Historical refusals: From Babylon to the modern era
06:05 The cost and pride of saying “no”
07:07 The “big lie” and society’s shifting accusations
09:32 Modern analogues: Israel, identity, and scapegoating
10:40 Criticizing Israel vs. demonizing Jews
12:21 Anti-Zionism, anti-Semitism, and practical consequences
14:02 Yom Kippur’s scapegoat ritual and symbolism
16:00 Enduring narratives—from Augustine to today
17:16 Announcing the Tell Institute curriculum
18:18 Empowerment, education, and the enduring necessity of “no”
19:40 Outro and community connection

Questioning our core beliefs can lead not to distance, but to a deeper, more meaningful connection with our identity. What happens when a rabbi—at the intersection of personal faith and worldwide struggle—dares to ask, "Why am I Jewish, and what does that mean today?"

In this powerful Kol Nidre sermon, Rabbi Leora Londy shares a deeply personal journey through doubt, dialogue, and discovery. Navigating crises of faith amid war, antisemitism, and shifting roles, she invites listeners to explore the tension between tradition and modernity, the challenge of owning Jewish identity with courage, and the importance of questioning what we've inherited. Reflecting on Jewish history—from Spinoza to modern Reform—Rabbi Leora Londy challenges us all to practice a Judaism that is open, vibrant, and unapologetically ours.

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00:00 Welcome and introduction00:21 Rabbi Leora Londy shares her crisis of faith01:44 Historical perspective: Spinoza and questioning Judaism03:07 Living two lives: immersion and outreach04:41 Engaging in challenging conversations outside the Jewish community06:33 Realizations about Jewish insecurity07:30 Shame and the struggle to claim Jewishness08:06 The age-old tension between hiding and revealing identity09:46 Jewish adaptation and Reform history10:38 Modern Jewish practice and self-examination11:34 Collective confessions and personal ‘Al Chetz’12:14 Affirming core Jewish beliefs13:56 The miracle and critique of Israel14:47 The call for a stronger, flourishing Judaism15:23 Closing remarks and encouragement

This week’s episode of In Such A Time is taken from Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe’s Rosh Hashanah sermon.

Discover how ancient traditions can provide a powerful antidote to modern loneliness and meaninglessness. What can the Jewish story teach us about overcoming the personal dislocation so many face today?

Listeners are invited on a deeply personal and thought-provoking journey—beginning with a young adult’s search for community in San Francisco and moving through the social science, literature, and enduring wisdom that point us towards connection, purpose, and resilience.

Explore the “4 Ps” of meaningful living—People, Past, Place, and Prayer—and learn how Jewish practices like Shabbat, storytelling, and communal gathering have sustained generations, even through adversity. Plus, find out why Israelis rank among the world’s happiest people, and how anyone can begin to “cash the check” of meaning. Whether you’re searching for connection or looking to enrich your Jewish journey, this episode offers insight, practical invitations, and hope for the year ahead.

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[00:00] Introduction and personal journey[02:43] Modern loneliness and dislocation examined[04:27] The “4 Ps”: People, Past, Place, Prayer introduced[07:41] Deep dive: People—belonging to a larger story[09:26] Past—Jewish narrative and communal memory[11:59] Place—connection to Israel and homeland[13:15] Prayer—the power of communal worship[15:39] Happiness in Israel and sources of resilience[18:56] How to find purpose through Jewish life[19:51] Shabbat as a weekly antidote[20:47] Invitations to connect: Torah study, Israel trips, community events[23:13] Conclusion and call to action

Finding balance between caring for others and safeguarding our own well-being is not just a seasonal challenge—it's a lifelong dance. But can empathy ever go too far?

In this thoughtful Rosh Hashanah episode, Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe and Rabbi Leora Londy examine the power and perils of empathy—personally, communally, and even politically. From dissecting “The Giving Tree” to exploring boundaries in relationships, atonement, and social justice movements, the rabbis explore whether “radical empathy” can turn self-erasure into a vice. Hear powerful insights on Jewish text, real-life dilemmas, and why sometimes caring deeply means caring for ourselves, too.

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00:00 The role of empathy during the High Holidays00:20 Rosh Hashanah and questions on the limits of empathy01:10 The Giving Tree as a cautionary tale02:08 Radical giving versus the necessity of boundaries03:43 Jewish historical perspective on giving and abuse04:46 Boundaries, self-preservation, and critique of radical empathy07:18 Is radical empathy a superpower or Achilles’ heel?08:00 Maimonides on forgiveness and setting limits11:00 Biblical examples: Jacob, Joseph, and trust12:53 On showing up for others without losing oneself15:23 Radical empathy as a modern social phenomenon17:25 When empathy becomes narcissism19:56 Empathy in everyday dilemmas: giving vs boundaries23:32 Directing empathy toward causes vs people close to us24:29 Empathy for others vs self; balancing acts25:10 Family boundaries and ethical permission26:15 The challenge—and necessity—of forgiveness28:15 Ritual, release, and catharsis during the High Holidays29:12 Empathy, forgiveness, and self-care for the new year29:46 Closing and next steps for the community

Discover why the High Holidays aren’t just about reflection—they’re also an opportunity for renewal, forgiveness, and connection to community and self. What does it mean to face a season of atonement and new beginnings?

Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe and Rabbi Leora Londy unpack the tension, joy, and gravity of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, exploring personal practices, communal rituals, parenting paradoxes, and the deep lessons found in tradition. This episode dives into the month of Elul, the dance between universalism and particularism, and the challenge of genuine self-forgiveness—all while inviting listeners to ready their hearts and minds for the year ahead.

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00:00 Welcome and introduction00:20 Preparing for the High Holidays: personal reflections01:43 Setting intentions during Elul02:39 Gratitude, community, and anticipation04:15 The structure of the Jewish calendar & holiday sequence06:09 Universal vs. particular themes of Rosh Hashanah08:29 Community, renewal, and self-improvement10:54 Personal vs. communal dimensions of atonement14:49 The pursuit of self-reflection and change17:11 Behind the bimah: clergy experiences18:12 The struggle and impact of apologies21:10 Parenting, authenticity, and forced apology23:17 Forgiving oneself and finding balance25:19 Personal rituals and spiritual motifs26:47 Living the tension: Avinu Malkeinu and holding opposites27:53 Closing remarks and credits

How can we balance genuine care with respect for privacy, especially in the public sphere?

In this thoughtful episode, Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe and Rabbi Leora Londy delve into the boundaries of concern, critique, and support, using the recent controversy surrounding Ariana Grande’s public health and body image as a lens. Drawing from Jewish wisdom and sharing personal and communal experiences, they reflect on how best to intervene—or step back—when someone may be in distress, whether they are celebrities, colleagues, or congregants.

Listeners will gain insights on responsible feedback, the importance of an inner circle of support, and creating communities that nurture rather than critique.

Episode Overview

00:00 Introduction to the episode and hosts

00:20 Exploring privacy, public concern, and the Ariana Grande controversy

01:26 Societal pressures and commentary on appearance

02:29 Do public figures sacrifice their privacy?

03:10 Personal experiences with public scrutiny—rabbis and celebrities alike

04:09 Reflecting on Britney Spears, Amy Winehouse, and public intervention

05:29 When and how should the public intervene to help?

06:18 Jewish models of giving feedback: Korach vs. Yitro

08:22 Context of Ariana Grande’s music video and its commentary

09:49 When support becomes harmful—personal story from Rabbi Leora Londy

12:28 Role of feedback in the rabbinate and community settings

13:50 Productive vs. hurtful feedback; handling comments on appearance

15:30 How staff and colleagues can offer care responsibly

17:47 Hierarchies, trust, and appropriate workplace feedback

19:12 Congregant feedback—when it helps, when it doesn’t

21:13 Appreciating honest, constructive criticism

22:49 Fostering a community of supportive feedback

23:37 Body image pressures, addiction, and the responsibilities of clergy

26:14 Protocols for supporting congregants in distress

27:27 The social pressures of high standards and conformity

28:27 Addressing addiction and providing resources

29:11 A direct message to listeners: you’re not alone, reach out

29:41 Outro and how to stay connected

When we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we discover the true strength of community. What happens when support systems fail those most desperately in need?

In this powerful episode, Rabbi Leora Londy and Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe tackle the deeply complex subject of women's mental health, inspired by the devastating Lindsay Clancy case. Drawing on personal experience, Jewish tradition, and real-world community dynamics, they explore questions of responsibility, stigma, and the roles we all play in supporting each other—especially when appearances hide real pain. The conversation offers lessons in compassion, the risks of stoicism, and practical steps for fostering genuine support within our communities.

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00:00 Conversation introduction and framing: women's mental health00:30 Personal stories and the Lindsay Clancy case03:06 Mental health in Judaism: responsibility, the “shoteh,” and moral/legal implications10:02 Effective support: lessons from Israel and peer networks14:09 Stigma, silence, and the Jewish community's challenges16:23 High Holidays, birth, loss, and the spiritual lens19:29 Justice, judgment, and mercy in complex cases22:55 Jewish law, bystanders, and communal accountability24:22 Invitation to seek help and foster true community26:29 Embracing imperfection—linking vulnerability to the High Holidays28:25 Final words: reach out, support, and moving forward together

Engaging in respectful, challenging conversations—even when we disagree—can strengthen our communities and deepen our understanding of Jewish values. But what does Jewish tradition teach us about handling polarizing public issues like the recent Senate hearings with Dr. Fauci?

In this episode, Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe and Rabbi Leora Londy reflect on the intersection of political theater, the preservation of life (pikuach nefesh), and the dangers of celebrity culture and partisanship during the pandemic. They discuss their personal experiences—Rabbi Leora Londy from Israel and Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe from the U.S.—debate the cost and benefit of various pandemic policies, and explore how humility, dissent, and communal responsibility are deeply rooted Jewish values that can guide us through divisive moments.

Key highlights include a candid discussion on the flaws of hero-villain narratives, how the pandemic shaped communal trust, and what ancient wisdom can offer today's combative public discourse.

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[00:00] Introduction and overview[00:20] Jewish values guiding pandemic debates: Pikuach nefesh and fallibility[01:00] The primacy of preserving life in Judaism[04:14] Political theater, scapegoating, and Israel’s collective values during COVID[06:46] Differences in Israeli society; Haredi-community response[08:47] Honest reckoning with the costs and benefits of lockdowns[11:49] The impact and dangers of hubris: Dr. Fauci’s diaries and celebrity culture[16:41] Compassion, fallibility, and humility in leadership[19:26] The press, dissent, and the Jewish imperative to avoid groupthink[29:26] Modeling respectful disagreement and the role of community[31:11] Outro and closing remarks

Standing up for critical thinking and nuance in tumultuous times, this episode examines how political rhetoric at the highest levels can impact Jewish communities—and why thoughtful, honest conversation matters more than ever.

The conversation focused on recent controversial statements from the New York City mayoral office and unpacked the layered impact on Jewish identity, safety, and leadership. One concept discussed was the persistent challenge of addressing both external antisemitism and internal division, particularly as outrage and extreme views dominate public discourse. A key theme that emerged was the importance of cultivating resilience and nuanced understanding within the Jewish community, even when feeling politically homeless.

The discussion explored strategies for engaging the next generation, the dangers of social media echo chambers, and what real accountability and allyship should look like from political leaders.

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[00:00:00] Welcome & Introductions[00:00:23] Framing the Issue: NYC Mayoral Rhetoric and Its Impact[00:01:57] Emotional Reactions and Perceived Betrayal[00:05:03] Was It Naïveté or Reasonable Hope?[00:08:02] Importance of Engagement and Youth Perspectives[00:10:17] Outrage, Politics, and the Power of Social Media[00:13:31] Historical Parallels and New Generational Challenges[00:15:15] Pessimism, Critical Thinking, and Majority Impact[00:18:12] The Test for American Society[00:19:47] Nuance, Populism, and the Danger of Certainty[00:22:06] Conversations with Israelis: Complexity on the Ground[00:24:31] The Role of Israeli Extremism in International Perceptions[00:27:27] Moral Complexity, Military Leaders, and Hope for Politics[00:28:50] Diaspora Jews, Israeli Rhetoric, and Political Consequences[00:29:58] Everyday Jewish Life, Visibility, and Safety in NYC[00:32:18] What Would Restore Trust?[00:33:20] Refocusing Political Leadership: Hopes and Expectations[00:34:37] Closing & Resources

Righteous anger can fuel justice, but when does it cross the line?

In this thought-provoking episode, Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe and Rabbi Leora Londy dive into the role of anger in Jewish tradition, asking whether anger is a blemish on character or a vital ingredient for social change. Touching on biblical texts, personal experiences, and pivotal moments in history like the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire, their conversation explores the balance between rage and constructive indignation, the gendered experience of anger, and how communal and personal anger can be channeled for good.

With candor and philosophical depth, this episode will leave you rethinking the place of anger in your life and faith.

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00:00 Welcome and introduction00:20 Shabbat Chazon, Isaiah, and God's anger02:02 Human emotion and biblical models of anger03:24 The risks and benefits of anger04:06 Is anger a sin or a necessary tool?05:38 Prophets, justice, and the uses of anger06:14 Personal example: parenting and anger07:22 Historical example: Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire08:20 Parental anger and boundaries09:08 Anger in moderation vs. total avoidance10:32 Maimonides, Aristotle, and the 'golden mean'11:09 Is righteous anger part of Jewish tradition?12:09 Gender, anger, and societal expectations13:29 Anger as empowering and problematic14:22 Suppressing vs. expressing anger15:17 Cultural perspectives: Israel vs. America16:38 Cultural differences in expressing anger17:06 Guilt, anger, and personal weakness17:38 Handling anger without outburst18:23 Justified anger and its necessity18:23 God’s anger and the 13 attributes19:34 Appeasing anger—God and people20:14 Balancing justice and mercy21:06 God, values, and anger as projection22:10 Righteous anger in Torah stories22:11 Modern society’s anger and activism23:53 Social movements and anger24:18 Manifestations of anger: constructive and destructive25:15 Societal fraying and destructive rage26:18 Distinguishing anger from rage26:46 Prophets and righteous anger27:20 Parenting, anger, and positive motivation27:38 High Holidays and setting intention around anger28:28 Talmudic story: anger at wrongdoing29:14 Hasidic teachings—anger as a mask30:22 Compassion towards those showing anger30:56 Wrap-up and reflections30:58 Outro and contact information

Rebuilding can only begin once we honor our losses—so what can the most sorrowful day on the Jewish calendar teach us about hope and resilience? In this powerful episode,

Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe and Rabbi Leora Londy dive into the meaning, history, and contemporary relevance of Tisha B'Av. They explore the motifs of destruction and rebirth embedded in Jewish tradition, the deeply human need for collective mourning, and how Tisha B'Av acts as a transformative gateway to self-reflection and change.

With personal stories, practical insights, and a look at shifting observance in the Reform movement, the rabbis offer rich inspiration for finding meaning—both in grief and in rebuilding.

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00:00 Welcome and Setting the Context00:23 The Nine Days and Tisha B'Av: What and Why01:38 Historical Significance & National Grief03:43 Personal Memories and Experiences06:12 Senseless Hatred vs. Senseless Love07:09 Tisha B'Av as a 12-Step Program for Renewal10:44 Communal Mourning and Human Nature11:17 A Powerful Shared Tisha B'Av Story14:18 How Do We Observe Tisha B'Av?15:44 The Structure and Meaning of Eicha (Lamentations)17:32 Order, Structure, and Surviving Chaos20:27 Destruction as a Catalyst for Change21:26 The Reform Movement’s Relationship with Tisha B'Av23:25 Metaphor, Literalism, and Personal Belief25:01 Processing Sadness and Grief Today27:36 Sadness, Shabbat Nachamu, and the Turn Toward Hope29:44 Consolation, Hope, and Personal Reflections32:17 Tisha B'Av’s Enduring Antidote for Modern Times33:12 Wishing Listeners a Meaningful Tisha B'Av and Closing

What happens when the words we use to describe hate actually cloud our understanding rather than clarify it?

In this episode, Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe and Rabbi Leora Londy tackle the complicated language around "antisemitism," debating whether the term still serves us—or if it now obscures the nuanced realities of Jewish life and hatred today. Through layered discussion, personal stories, and historical insight, they dissect how language shapes our engagement, activism, and safety as Jews.

If you've ever wrestled with what to call anti-Jewish hatred and why it matters, this episode arms you with new perspectives and vocabulary.

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[00:00] Intro, context, and episode framing[00:36] Review of "antisemitism"—where the term came from and its evolution[02:24] Is a new term like "anti-Jew hatred" needed?[03:19] The blind spots and rhetorical loopholes in today’s discourse[06:04] Experiencing antisemitism: personal anecdotes and reflections[10:19] The power dynamics of Jewish identity in America and Israel[12:34] Who gets to define the Jewish narrative and language?[13:45] Comparing modern Jew hatred to earlier forms[15:21] How antisemitism shapes Jewish identity for a new generation[16:19] Confusion, nuance, and the vocabulary gap for younger Jews[19:58] The tragic dilemma: moral labels and supporting Israel[22:39] Educational approaches and the gray zones of debate[24:57] The role of dissent, mass thinking, and internal critique[26:14] Differentiating the forms of hate from the right and left[28:39] Case studies: SodaStream, activism, and narrative battles[30:44] Words and their limits: is nuance a distraction?[32:04] Equipping Jewish young adults for tough conversations[34:02] Jews for Judaism and needing new scripts[35:01] Social exclusion, campus experiences, and new forms of hatred[36:06] Finding a shared language: next steps and community action[37:33] A light, humorous wrap-up on language change[38:52] Outro and resources

Discover why the language we use shapes not just debate but our very sense of belonging—especially when it comes to one of Judaism’s most loaded words: Zionism. Should we retire the term altogether?

Join Rabbi Leora Londy and Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe as they tackle whether ongoing arguments over “Zionism” help or hinder honest conversation about Israel, Jewish identity, and inclusion in the Jewish community. Along the way, they delve into generational divides, personal journeys, and the dangers of reducing complex identities to slogans. The episode challenges listeners to reflect on the words they use, the reasons behind their associations, and what truly unites or fractures the Jewish people today.

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[00:00] Introduction: The Power of Words & the Season of Devarim
[00:44] Should We Retire “Zionism”?
[02:47] Anecdote: Zio’s Deli and Language’s Shifting Meaning
[03:35] History and Meaning of Zionism
[05:05] Reactions to Retiring the Term
[05:52] What if There Were No Replacement Term?
[07:02] Lived Identity and Nuances within Zionism
[09:36] Is Zionism Too Broad or Too Loaded?
[11:44] Encounters with “Anti-Zionist” Jews
[13:54] The Fracture and Opportunity in These Conversations
[15:25] The Futility of Debating Israel’s Right to Exist
[19:25] Personal Journey: Leaving, Longing for, and Defending Israel
[23:22] Advocating for a Better Israel
[25:42] Why Apologize for Supporting Israel?
[28:50] Personal Stories of Protest and Tisha B’Av
[30:47] The Motif of Destruction and Renewal
[32:31] Anti-Zionism: PR or Deeper Ideology?
[33:31] What Are People Really Opposing?
[35:56] Words as Slogans vs. Substance
[36:56] Challenging Listeners: How Do You Enter This Debate?
[37:43] Closing: Volunteering in Israel and Hopes for Future Conversations

Amid the ever-shifting landscape of global politics, adaptability and historical memory remain vital.

What happens when Israel can no longer rely on longstanding alliances—or when old assumptions about safety and security are challenged by new realities? In this episode, the conversation focused on the recent Iran memorandum of understanding, its implications for Israeli politics and security, and how American Jewish communities are processing these developments.

Key themes include the unraveling of Netanyahu’s traditional claims to leadership, the unpredictability of Middle Eastern agreements, the power of grassroots action, and the emerging sense of vulnerability and responsibility among Jews worldwide. The discussion explored the fragility of political constructs and the importance of taking proactive steps—even when the geopolitical terrain feels overwhelming.

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[00:00] Introduction and Iran memorandum context[01:05] Shifting Israeli political alliances and Netanyahu’s strategy[02:48] Netanyahu’s traditional claims and their erosion[04:25] Influence of Iran conflict on upcoming Israeli elections[05:24] Personalities, alliances, and unity efforts in Israel[07:36] Fractured political landscape and ultra-Orthodox draft tensions[09:12] Exclusion of Israel in Iran negotiations and diaspora perspectives[10:30] Value of PR vs. military strength for Israel[12:40] Unreliable agreements in Middle Eastern politics[14:06] Sports contract analogy for international deals[15:14] “Pie in the sky” promises and managed chaos[16:42] Cultural differences and the nature of Middle Eastern agreements[18:32] Limits of diplomacy with Iran and intractable issues[20:10] Comparison with JCPOA and Israel’s security situation[21:34] Powerlessness and public anxiety around global events[22:27] Rising antisemitism and boundaries of safety[24:29] American Jewish experiences and lessons from history[25:30] Role of American Jews in the Israeli election[27:53] Travel, solidarity, and strengthening global Jewish connection[29:19] Alternatives to the US-Israel alliance and rethinking assumptions[30:51] Final reflections and hopes for thoughtful leadership[31:42] Outro and community information

What if rooting for laundry is the closest most people will get to a spiritual experience?

In this episode of "In Such a Time," Rabbi Jonathan Jaffe and Rabbi Leora Londy reveal powerful (and surprising) parallels between sports fandom and religious identity—from sacred rituals to communal belonging, group pride, and even prayer for teams at B’Nai Mitzvah.

Explore how being a Knicks fan or cheering at the World Cup connects to deeper questions of meaning, purpose, isolation, and humility. Plus, the hosts tackle why modern worship can feel like a spectator sport, the complicated intersection of nationalism and sports, and the unexpected grace in sports-driven gratitude, all while sharing personal stories about finding their own teams—and why sometimes your kids turn you into a fan.

Timestamped Overview

00:00 New York City’s sports euphoria and national pride01:24 How sports teams unite people—and Little League reflections03:15 Sports as a pressure valve from heavy news and everyday stress04:43 Teamwork, the Knicks, and modeling community05:16 Prayer, spirituality, and sports in B'Nai Mitzvah ceremonies06:15 Parallels between sports institutions and religious ritual08:20 The quest for belonging: sports fandom vs. religious community09:34 Rooting for laundry: entity over the individual11:06 Inherited vs. willed fandom; forming team identities in the family14:13 Sports as ideology in Israel—and finding your “tribe”15:26 Parental perspective: cultivating a sports or Jewish home16:22 Descartes’ Wager, willing yourself into fandom, and team ethos18:00 Difference between passive fandom and participatory religion20:11 Worship as engagement vs. entertainment23:07 Examples of participatory spiritual models: High Holidays, B’Nai Mitzvah26:12 Religion in sport—God, gratitude, and humility in athletics28:49 Finding purpose: feeling privileged in your calling31:33 Biblical lessons: putting people in positions to succeed34:00 Tribalism, nationalism, and collective sports moments36:41 When sports and politics collide—wishing for escapism38:07 Choosing your World Cup team with Jewish history in mind40:40 Sports moments that build bridges and community42:16 Local synagogue teams: Matzoh Ballers and Shofar Shooters