Meditations on Leadership with Don Carpenter

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In this special season finale of Meditations on Leadership, the roles are reversed.

After 54 episodes and more than 52 conversations, Don hands the microphone to his uncle and former guest, Dean Borgman, for a retrospective on the journey.

Together, they explore what surprised Don along the way, the themes that kept resurfacing, what he now sees differently about leadership, and the questions he is still carrying forward.

It’s less a look back at individual episodes and more a reflection on what a year of writing, listening, questioning, and conversation can teach us about leadership, self-awareness, letting go, and the inner work of becoming who we are.

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How often do we mistake being busy for actually making progress?

In this episode of Meditations on Leadership, Don reflects on the difference between activity and meaningful movement, and on the ways busyness can quietly distract us from what matters most in our work, relationships, and lives.

He is joined by Emily Day, a physical therapist, former collegiate outdoor leader, and someone Don has known since she was 13 years old through Trekkers. Their conversation reflects on the young person he first met nearly three decades ago, the woman she has become, and what her journey has taught them both about growth, confidence, changing definitions of success, and recognizing real progress across the different chapters of a life.

Sometimes moving forward requires doing more.

And sometimes, it begins by becoming clear about what matters enough to do less.

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What we choose to pay attention to has a way of shaping what grows.

In this episode of Meditations on Leadership, Don reflects on the things we say matter most, how we know whether they are actually taking root, and why some of the most important forms of growth are also the hardest to measure.

He is joined by Shaun Haskins, Co-Executive Director of Cobscook Institute, for a thoughtful conversation about leadership, community, feedback, shared responsibility, and the challenge of recognizing meaningful change when it does not fit neatly into a spreadsheet.

A conversation about what we value, what we notice, and what those choices may ultimately be growing in us.

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What happens when part of us knows where we want to go, but another part is still holding back?

In this episode of Meditations on Leadership, Don reflects on the hidden cost of indecision, the energy we lose when we are divided within ourselves, and what can begin to happen when clarity, intention, and action finally align.

He is joined by Haley Bezon, founder of Hearty Roots, for a conversation about courage, entrepreneurship, leadership, and the difficult choices that come with building something you deeply believe in.

A conversation about getting clear, trusting what you know, and finding the courage to put both feet behind the direction you choose.

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What if courage is not the absence of fear, but the willingness to keep moving while fear is still present?

In this episode of Meditations on Leadership, Don reflects on the moments when fear and self-doubt collide with a deeper sense of knowing that it is time to move.

He is joined by Bill Walch, whose career has spanned journalism, philanthropy, institutional leadership, global health, consulting, and nonprofit governance. Together, they explore where our ideas about courage come from, what courage asks of leaders, and how our understanding of it changes over a lifetime.

At the center is a simple question: when fear meets us at the edge of something important, will we let it make our lives smaller, or find the courage to step toward a life that can still expand?

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In this episode, Don reflects on the hidden cost of becoming indispensable, not only the toll it can take on us, but the ways it can unintentionally limit the growth, confidence, and capacity of those around us.

He is joined by longtime friend Larry Bartlett, an engineer, architect, business founder, educator, mentor, and community leader whose life has been shaped by both professional accomplishment and a deep commitment to serving others.

Together, they explore the tension between helping and over functioning, solving problems and developing people, being useful and needing to be needed, and what it means to lead in a way that allows others to discover what they are capable of.

At its heart, this episode asks a challenging question: Is the measure of leadership how necessary we become, or how much stronger others become because of us?

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What happens when leadership asks us not to step forward, but to step back?

In this episode, Don reflects on the difference between doing less and being more, and on the quieter forms of leadership that emerge when we release the need to control, solve, or remain at the center. He also explores the identity shift that can come when a role ends, but the habits and weight of responsibility remain.

Don is joined by Fred Adair, a CEO advisor and leadership coach with more than 25 years of experience helping leaders navigate strategy, succession, organizational change, and the personal psychology of leadership.

Together, they discuss why stepping away can be so difficult, how leaders can prepare an organization for life after them, and what it means to remain purposeful without needing to be indispensable.

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What happens after we say, “I’m sorry”?

In this episode, Don reflects on why an apology is only the beginning, and what it takes to rebuild trust when our behavior falls short of who we want to be.

He is joined by Stephanie Welch, Executive Director of Trekkers, to explore why leaders avoid circling back, how shame and perfectionism can interfere with accountability, and what it takes to turn regret into changed behavior.

Together, they consider how leaders can create cultures where grace does not replace accountability, but makes honest repair possible.

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In this episode, Don reflects on the difference between reaching people and truly knowing them, and why depth is not measured by numbers, but by the relationships we are willing to choose and sustain.

He is joined by his longtime friend Kevin Moran, Director of Operations and Administration at Joseph’s House of Camden, whose life and work in Camden, New Jersey have been shaped by service, faith in action, and showing up for people living on the margins.

Together, they explore what it means to put “a life on a life,” how relationships become the doorway into meaningful service, and why the most important question in moments of crisis is often not “What intervention do we need?” but “Who has the relationship?”

This conversation is about leadership, presence, friendship, and the quiet courage it takes to keep choosing depth when distance would be easier.

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In this episode, Don reflects on the discipline of slowing down when emotion is high and the consequences of a decision may last beyond the moment.

He also explores the founder’s reflex to defend what we have built, and the hard but necessary shift from protecting our own position to discerning what is truly being asked of us.

He is joined by his sister, Christy Carpenter, Client Service Director at Gallagher Benefit Services, for a conversation about leading with passion, building trust, managing emotion, strengthening teams, and learning how to respond with wisdom when the stakes feel personal.

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In this episode, Don reflects on the slow work of maturity and the ways responsibility, experience, and success do not automatically make us wiser or more grounded. He explores the difference between appearing mature and actually becoming mature, especially in the places where leadership can become tangled up in image, affirmation, and the need to prove our worth.

He is joined by Ryder Scott, executive director of the University of Maine Cooperative Extension’s 4-H Learning Centers. Together, they explore what gets in the way of maturity, what it means to move from proving ourselves to helping others succeed, and how genuine collaboration can replace competition.

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In this episode, Don reflects on the difference between having a vision and building the systems that can actually sustain it.

He also explores the personal side of that work: how we begin to close the gap between who we say we want to become and how we actually live.

He is joined by Barrett Takesian, founder of Portland Community Squash, for a conversation about founder energy, organizational growth, the discipline of sustainability, and what it takes to build something strong enough to carry a mission beyond one person’s passion.

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In this episode, Don reflects on what happens when leaders offer direction to places they have not yet been willing to go themselves, and how the inner work we avoid often becomes the limit of our ability to stay present with others.

He is joined by Mish Sommers, a facilitator, organizational development leader, and founder of Happier Outside, whose work has helped people and organizations move through uncertainty, transition, and change with greater presence and clarity. Together, they explore emergence, “leaving the shore,” the courage to go through rather than around hard things, and what it means to accompany others without rushing, fixing, or forcing the path before it is ready to appear.

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In this episode, Don reflects on what happens when leaders find themselves waiting for certainty, when what the work may really need is commitment, and how the path often begins to appear only after we take the first step.

He is joined by Beth Benedix, an educator, writer, filmmaker, and founder of The Castle, whose work in rural Indiana has helped illuminate the strength, complexity, and possibility of young people and the communities that shape them. Together, they explore Providence, faith, creativity, rural education, the courage to build something from the heart, and what it means to trust the moment when leadership asks us to move before the whole path is clear.

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In this episode, Don reflects on what the body often knows before we are ready to say it out loud, and how the parts of ourselves we learn to silence can still shape the way we lead.

He is joined by his wife, Sheryl Carpenter, a former educator, longtime accountant, nutrition coach, personal trainer, and group fitness instructor who has spent more than 30 years helping people grow stronger, healthier, and more trusting of themselves. Together, they explore quiet leadership, the courage to change course, the wisdom of the body, and what it means to help others become stronger from the inside out.

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In this episode, Don offers a solo reflection on the complicated role discipline can play in a leader’s life. Discipline can help us show up, follow through, and build something meaningful, but it can also become a way of staying above reproach while keeping parts of ourselves out of reach from others.

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What changes when leaders begin with what is strong instead of what is wrong?

In this episode, Don reflects on the ways a deficit mindset can quietly shape how we see ourselves, our teams, and the work we are called to grow.

He is joined by Susan Bates, a board and civic leader, relationship-centered facilitator, and longtime community builder, for a conversation about listening, leadership, data, family, community, and the discipline of seeing what people are already bringing.

Together, they explore how leaders can build from strength, trust what is emerging, and create the conditions for people and communities to grow.

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What if the problems we care about most are bigger than the solutions we have built to address them?

In this episode, Don reflects on the challenge of staying faithful to the problem rather than simply preserving the structure, and is joined by Peter Jenks, longtime Episcopal priest, community leader, and one of the original sparks behind Trekkers.

Together, they explore service, collaboration, enduring leadership, and what becomes possible when a leader commits to a community long enough to know it, be known by it, and help build something larger than themselves.

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What if the leaders we become are shaped, in part, by the people willing to reflect us with honesty, care, and courage?

In this episode, Don reflects on the power of being mirrored in relationships that call us forward and is joined by Dr. Ruth Kermish, Executive Director of the Maine Math and Science Alliance, for a rich conversation about leadership, learning, and creating the conditions where people can grow. Together, they explore how trust, reflection, and the right environment help shape both strong leaders and confident learners.

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In a world shaped by urgency, distraction, and performance, what does it mean to lead with real presence?

In this episode, Don reflects on the rare gift of giving someone your full attention and is joined by Martha Kempe, former Head of Schools at Wayfinder Schools, whose remarkable career building humane, resilient spaces for vulnerable people offers a powerful window into leadership shaped by compassion, depth, and care.

Together, they explore how presence can restore dignity, deepen trust, and shape the kind of environments where people are more able to thrive. It’s a thoughtful conversation about the quiet, often overlooked ways presence can become one of the most transformative forces in leadership.

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