Spanko! Podcast

We return with Self-Advocacy part 2. Don't forget to check out part 1 if you've missed it.

Join the Self-Advocacy Team from GASP 2026, who taught an amazing class, as they join us with some tips and tricks on how to advocate for yourself whether you're a Top or a Bottom.

Why self-advocacy? You can't really have a good scene if you are worried if someone will do something you don't want. Think about what you're comfortable tolerating- what you really enjoy- what is non-negotiable. In this episode you'll hear when it's the best time to think about your limits and boundaries at a party. Safety matters and protecting yourself from poorly negotiated scenes or predators is important!

And in TTWD, anything that's not clearly negotiated is a consent violation. Yes. Touching someone's butt without their permission is a problem. This is why consent matters!

Attention all spanking party goers: It's time for Lone Star 2026!!! Hosted by Sarah Gregory and team.

Get ready for this year's theme: A Red-Bottomed Renaissance.

As if having a red-bottom ever went out of style? No, of course not! This is a weekend of Renaissance fair vibes with all the spanking fun you can handle!

Join Sarah Gregory and John Osborne as they share lots of details and plans for Lone Star 2026: from classes, to events, meal plans, costume ideas, and so much more!

There will be events for everyone. From immersive school role plays to littles rooms, M/m and F/f events, Judicial, British Discipline, a Spa for the Tops, and lots more. What's not to love?

Don't forget about all of the social and learning opportunities there are for both experienced and new spankos alike. One can always learn something new, even after many years in the scene.

Check the link to confirm your spot at this annual event! The hotel is filling up fast and registration closes soon! But even if you're not coming to Lone Star this year, this episode has a lot of fun just talking about the community and fun and creative spanko ideas!

Looking forward to seeing you all at Lone Star 2026 is November!

DJ Lizzy is back with more spanko tunes to make your drive-time interesting! Our first episode was such a hit (pun intended) we decided it's time for round two! The variety continues with country, pop, r&b, rock, and lots more. Millennial Miley vibes, anyone? Yeah we got those too! Songs about naughty boys, pervertables, waiting for the spanking, and of course the enjoyment of butts! We've got a little something for almost everyone in this mix. Hope you enjoy it!

What spanking experience do you feel like there should be a song about?

Do you have a favorite track you'd like to hear again? Let us know what should be in our next DJ set.

*Full disclosure: we played around with AI to create these tracks. It started as an experiment and just got too fun not to share. We know that can be controversial, and we're all in favor of hiring real artists where possible.

Yes, I'd like fries with that!

It's not just a delicious, salty treat, but also an easy acronym for ensuring consent. F.R.I.E.S. is an easy way remember that consent is:

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F: Freely Given

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R: Reversible

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I: Informed

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E: Enthusiastic

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S: Specific

If your consent doesn't have F.R.I.E.S. then you might not fully enjoy your "meal" or play experience.

After a lovely class at GASP 2026, in which they used candy to discuss consent, and went through some fantastic role-playing, we had to have these lovely and hard-working ladies on the podcast to share their techniques for self-advocacy!

It's not easy to speak up for yourself, especially when many of us love to please our partners. But that's exactly what being your own advocate is about. And for a fun scene, it's important not just to please your partner, but to get your needs met and protect your own boundaries as well.

Whether it's salty or sweet, F.R.I.E.S. or candy, this discussion has something for every taste.

There was just too much here for one episode, so do stay tuned for part 2.

Sshhhhhhh! It's a secret! Or is it?

We stole this idea from a coffee house, more maybe it was a boba tea place: share your thoughts, your feelings, your fantasies, your questions, your advice, your troubles, your secrets, and your stories. Share anything you like… but share it completely anonymously.

The goal is to help each other see that we are not alone on this journey of life. That we all have secrets, fantasies, questions, and concerns. That we are all… human!

We loved the idea so much, we wanted to share it with the adult spanking community to show that even spankos are not alone!

We've been working on this project for a few years now. If you've seen us at an event, we've probably had our little journal with us for you to share your thoughts. Many have shared their own Spanko Secrets! And because it's all anonymous, now we bring some of these secrets to you, our listeners.

If you have something you'd like to share, drop us a line, an email, a FetLife message, or see us at an event and add to our Spanko Secrets journal! We'll keep it anonymous for you, even if your method of communication doesn't.

Change Happens. Sometimes unexpectedly.

Completely without warning, YouTube deleted our channel!

This goes for YouTube Music (formerly Google Podcasts) as well.

We are suddenly gone from all Google-related media.

They've not given us a clear reason. They've not given us an opportunity to correct or change anything. And they shut down our appeal without further explanation.

It is said that "crisis doesn't build character, it reveals it."

Well, this isn't a crisis, but it's a big change for our podcast and our listeners.

Unfortunately this Google decision is outside our control. And we're aware how it may affect some of our listeners and our community.

But never fear, we're working on some things that we can control, and we have some things coming that will hopefully help keep our community thriving and continue to give our listeners access to our content.

The show will go on!

We continue our discussion with Shaylah and Avery regarding a very specific online roleplay that includes accountability in real life.

Forgelink Academy is a unique role play that is based on real life accountability in an online school academy roleplay. Students select a goal to work on every other week check-ins. Students are provided with encouragement, praise and consequences based on how they perform on their goals.

They discuss the process of applying to Forgelink, how the terms run, and some of the expectations. If this sounds like something you may enjoy or find beneficial, check out the Forgelink Academy page at the link below.

Do you enjoy online role play?

Is it one of your current spanko outlets?

Have you built friendships online?

The Spanko Podcast members talk about their past experiences with online spanking roleplay and how it shaped some of our early online experiences and fantasies.

We are joined by returning guests Shaylah and Avery who both shared early experiences in chat as well as some current experiences in an online roleplay academy.

Are these just fantasies, all just pretend with internet randos, or do these friendships become something more… real? Share your experiences and recommendations related to online spanking roleplay in the comments.

Let's discuss wrapping. Wrapping paper, rapping, chicken wraps…. Oh wait, no … We are talking about that uncomfortable feeling when the implement wraps too far around your hip. Some people hate wrapping, some love it, and some tolerate it reluctantly.

How do you feel about wrapping? We discuss some of our feelings about wrapping. As well as tips on how to communicate with your top if they are wrapping and how to learn to avoid wrapping if you are topping.

[Insert Star Wars-like theme here]

Miss D Spanks is back, veteran of the scene but newer party-goer, joins us again at GASP 2026. Hear how she has evolved from purely a Top to becoming comfortable as a Switch. And how our collective nerdiness helped her come out of her shell.

Yes, being a nerd in the spanko community can even be a perk! We're all socially awkward (ok… MOST of us!), so if you're a spanko AND a little on the nerdy side (or a lot on the nerdy side), don't worry, you'll fit right in!

Whether you come from Dagobah, Hoth, or even Earth in the current day, we all have our differences and our limits. We discuss people of color and safety in the scene, and how understanding cultural and generational differences can help us all have better scenes.

When it comes to parties - national parties or private ones - be sure to follow the "house rules." Consent is important everywhere, especially in a public setting. Your Droids ARE welcome here… as long as they follow the rules.

Come get your nerd on and have some spanking fun with Miss D Spanks!

Social currency vs social capital - what's the difference and why does it matter? Have you ever considered your social capital? What builds your social capital and currency? Do you know how to be a respected community member? Are you helpful? Do you understand boundaries and take time to build friendships? Do you know how to make friends? Did you know there are different levels of friendship?

As a party attendee - do you feel like you have gotten a chance to enjoy spanking parties to the max? Or do you leave feeling like you didn't fit in? Does it take you time to become comfortable in a setting? Are you only focused on your needs or do you listen to your play partners needs? Are you the type of party attendee that people can't wait to have back or are you draining the resources without putting back into the community?

Your reputation can precede you. Wouldn't you like it to be the best one possible?

"At the end of the day we're all here to have fun and if someone is not having fun, that's kind of a problem."

Purveyor (or pervert?) of smut, author of BDSM and spanking erotica, and creator of some kinky games, Letti Lustcraft and her partner, SirChefDaddy, joined us at GASP 2025 to talk about their Domestic Discipline relationship and all their creative endeavors.

Find out how this adorable couple learned to practice Domestic Discipline safely and consensually when one of them originally wasn't even kinky!

How does one come out to their partner about wanting a Domestic Discipline (DD) relationship?

How do you balance a DD relationship with life and work?

How is kink like a video game? (yeah, Chef went there.)

And so much more!

And not only do we discuss their Domestic Discipline dynamic, we get into some of their creative projects: books, stickers, coloring books, poetry, educational smut, and much more…

… Kinky Cards Against Humanity, anyone? Oh yeah, it's a thing! (and, like this conversation, it's so much fun!)

… years of our lives! Join us as we celebrate 6 years of doing Spanko! Podcast!

Reminisce with us on how we've grown and changed. Hear about some of our favorite memories. And some of what we hope to do in the future.

And, of course, there has to be some bratting and spanking live on the air to celebrate!

Since many of our listeners tune in while on the road, we thought we'd give you some driving tunes! Join us for a very special episode of Spanko Podcast where DJ Lizzy slings some fun spanking related tracks of a variety of genres. There's hopefully a little something for everyone, and every music taste, in this variety mix! Have you ever felt the need to pull over on the side of the road to take care of some bratting? Do you collect implements or panties? Is spanking your love language? Does seeing your fellow spankos feel like home? You might be a spanko. You might enjoy this playlist.

What spanking experience do you feel like there should be a song about?

Do you have a favorite track you'd like to hear again? Let us know what should be in our next DJ set.

*Full disclosure: we played around with AI to create these tracks. It started as an experiment and just got too fun not to share. We know that can be controversial, and we're all in favor of hiring real artists where possible.

Continuing our hardcore fan-girling from part 1, the immortal Erica Scott shares some of her favorites in the scene, and some juicy behind-the-scenes tidbits from her experiences as a video model.

Both positive and negative, Erica shares her thoughts and opinions seemingly unfettered:

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Uber-Doms, mind your place.

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Social Media commenters… beware, the Snark Queen has you in her sights.

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And her positive stories of sharp and witty Tops make us swoon from across the internet! ❤️

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And some of her favorite trigger words will prick up your ears as much as they did ours.

(meanwhile Eric's over here kicking himself for missing an obvious toppy setup lol)

From safety and consent (one of our favorite topics for obvious reasons), to skin care and party etiquette, and tips for video models, tips to winning at Spanking Court, becoming an illustration, and just advice for real life, this episode covers even more ground than our first episode - if that's even possible!

You thought we were sassy, imagine having the level of sass Erica possesses!!! We can only dream!

What an honor to hang out with such a legend! We hope you'll enjoy this grand finale of our first recording with Erica Scott as much as we did!

But wait… it seems we weren't the only ones who didn't want this interview to end 😉

Fan-girling hardcore over having had the opportunity to interview the one and only Erica Scott. You may know her for her role in many spanking videos including The Reckoning and The Schoolmaster's Revenge. But we were excited to have her for her wit and her Correspondence Hall Of Shame blog.

You thought we were sassy, imagine having the level of sass Erica possesses!!! We can only dream.

While some women decide to Switch as they grow older, some of us choose to hold on to our Spankee/Bottom identities as we age. That may make us feel shunned at times, but never fear – there's always someone respectful and skilled out there who'd still be excited to play with us… and if you doubt that, just ask BigGirlSpanker. 😉 Erica shares some wisdom of coming of age in the scene with all the grace and wit you'd imagine.

Besides all the fan-girling, we had so much to discuss with this living legend! This is only part one of our discussion. Stay tuned for more from Erica Scott!

We were asked if we could talk about the physics of spanking. Well, who better to consult than an actual physicist who is ALSO an actual spanko?

Our friend, Al Doyle, sat down with us at GASP 2025 to give us a lesson in the physics of spanking. We even sat down to work out the math to see if we could finally get an answer to the age-old question: does a paddle with holes hurt more than a paddle without holes?

From Newton's apple, to Einstein's theories, to the earth falling upwards, "Professor" Doyle blows our minds with science while answering some pre-arranged questions, all while on the journey to the ultimate answer about the pain of the paddles. We even discuss a few topics that may require further experimentation. But all the while, we laugh and have fun like always.

We discuss basic physics concepts, a couple of formulas, and even how much you weigh jumping off a building to get us to the mathematical conclusion of… well, you'll just have to listen to find out!

This might be our most technical episode yet! You may want to take notes. There may be a test!

The Executive Committee from Burning River SSC, our local spanking group, is back! This time we're talking about what goes into building a successful spanking community.

Having been around for multiple years, Burning River has some good tips on starting from the ground up. We talk about munches, gathering your community, building rapport and education, planning simple house parties, and even renting spaces for a larger regional party. We also discuss the importance of vetting at parties, education about spanking, inclusivity, and much more.

You may feel you have nothing in your local area, but by reaching out, you just may be surprised how many spankos you can find!

If you are near the Cleveland, Ohio area and want to check out a smaller party and dip your toes into the spanking scene this is a great group to check out.

Frenzy: a state or period of uncontrolled excitement or wild behavior.

Some of us have had an insatiable need to be spanked or spank all the spankees we meet. It can feel like a lot of fun! All that new energy and excitement, wanting to try all the things! It's fairly common when things are new: new experiences, new parties, new partners, etc.

And we're not just talking about discipline spankings here, even though in our experience, that's the kind of spankings some of us fantasize the most about. We are talking about all the spankings!

This spanking frenzy can be fun, but it can also have a dark side. We've done some less-than-smart things to satisfy our cravings. Feeling like we need to have it, and we need to have it now! But from the outside, this frenzy can look a little different. And sometimes can even harm existing relationships.

Have you ever experienced frenzy?

What have you done for spanking?

Were you keeping yourself safe?

We have some tips on how to navigate frenzy, how to keep yourself safe, and how to watch out for some of the traps you may find along your journey. It's all about finding balance, after all.

Remember, you're a whole human being and not just a spanker or a spankee.

At long last, get to know Burning River SSC, our local spanking group! We've been talking about them for years, and we finally got to sit down with them and our microphones and chat.

Join us as we talk with our friends from the board of Burning River SSC (including our very own Karina Isabel). We talk about the importance of vetting at parties, education about spanking, inclusivity, munches, and much more.

If you are near the Cleveland, Ohio area and want to check out a smaller party and dip your toes into the spanking scene this is a great group to check out.