The Confidence Podcast: Mindset Coaching and Tips to Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs, Self-Doubt, Perfectionism, Overthinking,

Do you spend more time thinking about food than you want to admit? Replaying what you ate, bargaining about what you'll eat next, or promising yourself you'll have more control tomorrow?

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're exploring the feelings beneath emotional overeating and how to build a relationship with food and your body that feels more peaceful.

You'll learn:

• How to recognize the emotional needs that may be showing up around food.

• Why connection with yourself matters more than constantly trying to control yourself.

• Three questions to help you understand what you need.

• How to respond after overeating without spiraling into guilt or self-criticism.

We'll also honor an important distinction: sometimes you're thinking about food because you need more nourishment. Listening to yourself includes listening to hunger.

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What do you do when you know what you need to do, but your brain just won't cooperate?

You're mentally foggy, overwhelmed, distracted, or simply not feeling motivated. You keep waiting for clarity, energy, or inspiration to show up before you take action. But what if waiting to feel motivated is actually what's keeping you stuck?

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, Trish Blackwell breaks down the motivation trap and teaches you how to stop making your progress dependent on your feelings.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why waiting to feel motivated can actually make you feel more stuck
• The difference between brain fog, mental exhaustion, and emotional resistance
• How to get yourself moving when you don't feel like doing anything
• The 5-Minute Motivation Reset to break through procrastination and overwhelm
• How to build self-trust and follow-through without relying on willpower
• Why taking action often creates the motivation you've been waiting for

You don't need to wake up inspired every day. You don't need perfect clarity, perfect energy, or the perfect mood to make progress.

Motivation is a feeling. Follow-through is a skill.

It's time to stop waiting to feel ready and start trusting yourself to take the next step.

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Do you get discouraged when progress is slower than expected, when someone criticizes you, or when things don't go according to plan? You're not alone. But being easily discouraged doesn't have to be your default response.

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, Trish Blackwell breaks down why high achievers are especially vulnerable to discouragement, how to stop turning temporary setbacks into permanent conclusions, and how to build the mental toughness to keep going when results aren't showing up yet.

You'll learn how to recover faster, protect your confidence from circumstances, and stop letting one difficult moment determine what you believe about your future.

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What if your circumstances aren't the biggest thing affecting how you feel—your interpretation of them is?

In this episode, we're talking about the difference between viewing your life through a critical filter versus a curious filter, and how to know when your brain is lying to you.

You'll learn why your brain's first interpretation isn't necessarily the truth, how criticism disguises itself as "helpful" thinking, the Three-Story Rule, and simple questions that can pull you out of overthinking, self-judgment and unnecessary emotional spirals.

Mental toughness isn't about having better circumstances. It's about getting better at questioning the story you're telling yourself about those circumstances.

You'll leave this episode with one powerful question:

What else could be true?

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What do you do when you wake up and just… don't feel like yourself?

Maybe it's hormones. PMDD. Anxiety. Stress. Exhaustion. Or one of those days when your brain suddenly decides that all the progress you've made doesn't count and everything in your life is terrible.

You don't need to perform at 100% every day to be consistent.

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're talking about how to keep moving toward your goals when your mental and emotional capacity changes. You'll learn how to stop making permanent conclusions from temporary feelings, create a low-capacity version of your routine, separate your capacity from your character, and recognize that having a hard day doesn't mean you're back at square one.

I'll also walk you through my 5-step Mental Mess Protocol so you know exactly what to do when your brain feels loud, your motivation disappears, and you'd really rather just stay in bed and cry. Because growth isn't never feeling the old way again.

Growth is responding differently when the old feeling returns.

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What if someone being disappointed in you… isn't actually a problem?

If you're a people-pleaser, high achiever, perfectionist, or someone who prides yourself on being dependable, disappointment can feel unbearable. So you over-explain. You say yes when you mean no. You lower your standards. You change your plans. You manage everyone else's emotions.

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, you'll learn how to stop confusing someone else's disappointment with your wrongdoing, how to tolerate the discomfort of letting people down, and how to choose self-respect without becoming selfish or uncaring.

You'll learn:

• Why disappointment feels so threatening
• The difference between disappointing someone and hurting someone
• How people-pleasing quietly erodes self-trust
• What to say when someone doesn't like your decision
• How to stop over-explaining your boundaries
• Why disappointing others may be necessary to stop disappointing yourself

You are allowed to be kind without making everyone happy.

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What if the person you're trying hardest to impress isn't even someone whose opinion should be running your life?

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're talking about the exhausting pressure to look successful, capable, attractive, accomplished, interesting — and like you have it all together.

You'll learn how to stop outsourcing your self-respect to other people's reactions, why compliments can accidentally create pressure, what intimidation is really telling you, and how to know whether you're pursuing something because you genuinely want it or because you want to be impressive.

The question we're coming back to is simple:

Would I still want this if nobody was impressed by it?

It's time to stop building a life that looks impressive and start becoming someone YOU respect.

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You can feel confident, capable and completely like yourself… until that person walks into the room.

Suddenly you're second-guessing what you say, comparing yourself, trying to impress them, overexplaining, shrinking, or wondering what they think of you.

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're talking about why certain people seem to have the power to make you feel less confident — and why the problem isn't actually them.

You'll learn:

• Why your confidence changes around certain personalities
• How we unconsciously put people on pedestals
• The connection between intimidation, comparison and approval
• Why someone else's confidence can make you question your own
• How to stop mentally ranking yourself beneath other people
• What to do when you desperately want someone to like, approve of or respect you

You don't need to become more impressive.

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It's never been easier to know what everyone else is doing—or to wonder what everyone else thinks about what you're doing.

We're living in an age of unprecedented comparison, visibility and access to other people's opinions. We can see their bodies, homes, vacations, parenting, careers, relationships, accomplishments and highlight reels all day long. And they can see ours.

No wonder we care so much what people think.

In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're talking about how to care less about other people's opinions without becoming disconnected, selfish or apathetic. You'll learn why trying not to care doesn't work, how social media has amplified our natural need for belonging, why loneliness can make approval feel even more important, and how to develop an internal sense of belonging that allows you to show up as yourself.

You'll learn how to stop performing for an imaginary audience, tolerate being misunderstood and build the kind of self-trust that makes other people's opinions information—not instructions.

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What if the moment you're most tempted to quit isn't proof that something isn't working — but the exact moment your commitment is being tested?

We have a tendency to stay committed when we're getting evidence: progress, praise, results, momentum, money, weight loss, engagement, reassurance.

But what happens when the evidence disappears?

In this episode, we're talking about proof addiction — our tendency to constantly check whether something is "working" before we're willing to keep believing in it.

You'll learn why constantly evaluating your progress can actually sabotage it, how to tell the difference between changing your strategy and abandoning your goal, and how to develop the kind of unreasonable commitment that keeps you moving when the evidence hasn't caught up yet.

Because sometimes the breakthrough isn't about doing more.

It's about staying long enough for what you're doing to work.

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Are you actually solving the problem—or just thinking about it in circles?

Circular thinking happens when one situation turns into five, ten, or twenty different stories in your head. What did they mean? Did I do something wrong? What if they're upset? What if this means something bigger?

Before you know it, you're not responding to what actually happened. You're responding to every possible interpretation of what happened.

In this episode, I'm teaching you my Circular Thinking Roadmap, a powerful reframing exercise that will help you get your thoughts out of your head, separate facts from stories, and finally close the mental loop.

You'll learn how to identify what you actually know, recognize the stories your brain is spinning, stop trying to solve possibilities as if they're problems, and deliberately choose the interpretation you want to move forward with.

Because you don't need more thinking.

You need to know when you've thought about something enough.

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The voice in your head is shaping more than your mood—it's shaping your future.

In this episode, we're talking about why being hard on yourself isn't helping you become your best self, and what to do instead. You'll learn how to recognize the difference between accountability and self-criticism, why your inner dialogue matters so much, and how to replace self-defeating thoughts with words that build confidence, resilience, and belief.

If you're tired of feeling like your own worst enemy, this episode will help you become your own greatest encourager.

Because the way you speak to yourself today determines the person you're becoming tomorrow.

Referenced: https://www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ (Fear of Judgment Reset)

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What if the person you're the most wrong about... is you?

Most of us spend our lives looking at ourselves through a lens of criticism. We notice every flaw, replay every mistake, and dismiss every compliment. Meanwhile, the people around us see something completely different—they see your kindness, your strength, your beauty, your resilience, and the impact you make without even realizing it.

So why is there such a gap?

In this episode, we're talking about the biased narrator inside your mind—the inner voice that remembers your failures more vividly than your victories and convinces you that its version of the story is the truth.

You'll learn:

• Why you're often the least objective person when it comes to judging yourself
• How self-criticism distorts your self-image
• Why it's so hard to believe compliments—and what to do instead
• How to challenge the biased narrator in your head
• Why building others up might be one of the most powerful ways to change the way you see yourself

If you've ever looked in the mirror and only seen what needs fixing, or wondered why everyone else seems to see something in you that you can't, this episode is for you.

Because confidence isn't pretending you're perfect.

It's finally seeing yourself a little more honestly—and maybe even a little more like the people who love you already do.

Referenced: https://www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ (Fear of Judgment Reset)

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There's a voice in your head that's been talking for years.

It tells you you're behind.

It tells you you're not ready.

It tells you you'll probably fail.

It tells you other people are more qualified.

It tells you to wait until you're more confident.

Here's the problem...

That voice isn't telling you the truth.

In this episode, I'm teaching you one of the most life-changing confidence skills you'll ever learn: how to stop believing every thought you think and start talking back to the inner voice that's been keeping you stuck.

You'll learn:

• Why your brain sounds so convincing when it's lying
• How to challenge thoughts instead of obeying them
• The exact language confident people use internally
• How to reframe doubt before it becomes your reality
• Why changing your self-talk changes your entire life

If you're tired of being pushed around by your own mind, this episode will give you the tools to take your power back.

Referenced: https://www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ (Fear of Judgment Reset)

Reframe Kit for Kids: http://www.trishblackwell.com/kids

Reframing Challenge: http://www.trishblackwell.com/reframe

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🏛️ JOIN THE COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE COMMUNITY / GET COACHED BY TRISH https://www.collegeofconfidence.com

❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at https://www.trishblackwell.com/abundant

📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

5XBY5 METHOD (FREE): http://www.trishblackwell.com/5xby5 333 METHOD (FREE) http://www.trishblackwell.com/333 90-Day Shift:

http://www.trishblackwell.com/90day 1:1 Coaching:

http://www.trishblackwell.com/coaching

Do you ever feel anxious before anything even happens?

Not full panic…

Just a low-grade pressure in your chest, a restless mind, a sense that something is wrong—even when it isn't.

Or maybe you feel a heavier kind of pressure before:

• A big task
• A test or deadline
• A hard conversation
• Or a packed, demanding day

In this episode, we break down:

• Why pressure feels so real even when there's no true danger
• The difference between low-grade pressure and big dread pressure
• How your nervous system mislabels effort as threat
• And exactly how to talk back to pressure in real time

You'll learn:

• The phrases that calm low-grade anxiety
• The strong language that cuts through dread
• And the Narrative Intelligence shift that stops pressure from running your life

This isn't about eliminating pressure.

It's about no longer letting it be the boss of you.

Referenced: https://www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ (Fear of Judgment Reset)

Reframe Kit for Kids: http://www.trishblackwell.com/kids

Reframing Challenge: http://www.trishblackwell.com/reframe

🤖 REFRAME AI TOOL [Must-Have Tool to Train Your Brain!] https://www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai

🏆 90-DAY IDENTITY SHIFT: https://www.trishblackwell.com/90day

🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:

https://www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK / STOP BEING AFRAID OF JUDGMENT https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/

🏛️ JOIN THE COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE COMMUNITY / GET COACHED BY TRISH https://www.collegeofconfidence.com

❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at https://www.trishblackwell.com/abundant

📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

5XBY5 METHOD (FREE): http://www.trishblackwell.com/5xby5 333 METHOD (FREE) http://www.trishblackwell.com/333 90-Day Shift:

http://www.trishblackwell.com/90day 1:1 Coaching:

http://www.trishblackwell.com/coaching

You expected the hard part to be doing the work.

What you probably didn't expect was what happened after.

The awkward comments.

The subtle distance.

The people who used to cheer you on... until your dreams started becoming reality.

Growth has a cost—and one of the hardest costs is realizing that not everyone will celebrate the version of you that refuses to stay small.

In this episode, we're talking about why extraordinary commitment often creates unexpected tension in relationships, why your success can unintentionally trigger other people's insecurities, and how to keep growing without becoming bitter, defensive, or lonely.

If you've ever wondered why people seem to support your goals... until you actually start succeeding, this conversation will help you understand what's happening—and remind you why your job isn't to make everyone comfortable.

Your job is to become who you're called to become.

Referenced: https://www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ (Fear of Judgment Reset)

🤖 REFRAME AI TOOL [Must-Have Tool to Train Your Brain!] https://www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai

🏆 90-DAY IDENTITY SHIFT: https://www.trishblackwell.com/90day

🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:

https://www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK / STOP BEING AFRAID OF JUDGMENT https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/

🏛️ JOIN THE COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE COMMUNITY / GET COACHED BY TRISH https://www.collegeofconfidence.com

❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at https://www.trishblackwell.com/abundant

📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

5XBY5 METHOD (FREE): http://www.trishblackwell.com/5xby5 333 METHOD (FREE) http://www.trishblackwell.com/333 90-Day Shift:

http://www.trishblackwell.com/90day 1:1 Coaching:

http://www.trishblackwell.com/coaching

Have you ever looked at someone living the life you dream of and thought, "They're just different than me?"

What if the real difference isn't talent, luck, confidence, or even discipline?

What if it's commitment?

In today's episode, we're talking about the kind of commitment that most people never see—the commitment to keep going after the excitement fades, after progress slows, after you feel discouraged, and after nobody is clapping for you.

Because the truth is this:

Your dream life isn't asking you to be perfect.

It's asking you to stay committed.

You'll learn:

• Why motivation is one of the weakest predictors of success.
• The difference between being interested and being truly committed.
• The hidden cost of constantly starting over.
• Why consistency compounds more than intensity ever will.
• Five mindset shifts that make long-term commitment possible.
• How to become someone who follows through—even when you don't feel like it.

If you've been waiting to feel more confident before fully committing to your goals, this episode will help you realize that confidence isn't the prerequisite.

Commitment is.

Referenced: https://www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ (Fear of Judgment Reset)

🤖 REFRAME AI TOOL [Must-Have Tool to Train Your Brain!] https://www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai

🏆 90-DAY IDENTITY SHIFT: https://www.trishblackwell.com/90day

🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:

https://www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK / STOP BEING AFRAID OF JUDGMENT https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/

🏛️ JOIN THE COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE COMMUNITY / GET COACHED BY TRISH https://www.collegeofconfidence.com

❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at https://www.trishblackwell.com/abundant

📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

5XBY5 METHOD (FREE): http://www.trishblackwell.com/5xby5 333 METHOD (FREE) http://www.trishblackwell.com/333 90-Day Shift:

http://www.trishblackwell.com/90day 1:1 Coaching:

http://www.trishblackwell.com/coaching

Have you accomplished everything you were "supposed to" — and still feel like it's not enough? You're not broken. You're a high achiever with an identity gap, not an achievement gap. In this video, I'm breaking down exactly why the feeling of enough never arrives no matter how much you do, and what to do instead.

In this video:

• Why high achievers are the most vulnerable to chronic not-enough-ness
• The real root of imposter syndrome (it's not what you think)
• The Enough Statement — and how to use it to rewire your worth
• 3 practices you can start today to finally feel like enough

If you've been running on the treadmill of achievement hoping the feeling will catch up — this one's for you.

Referenced: https://www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ (Fear of Judgment Reset)

🤖 REFRAME AI TOOL [Must-Have Tool to Train Your Brain!] https://www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai

🏆 90-DAY IDENTITY SHIFT: https://www.trishblackwell.com/90day

🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:

https://www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK / STOP BEING AFRAID OF JUDGMENT https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/

🏛️ JOIN THE COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE COMMUNITY / GET COACHED BY TRISH https://www.collegeofconfidence.com

❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at https://www.trishblackwell.com/abundant

📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

5XBY5 METHOD (FREE): http://www.trishblackwell.com/5xby5 333 METHOD (FREE) http://www.trishblackwell.com/333 90-Day Shift:

http://www.trishblackwell.com/90day 1:1 Coaching:

http://www.trishblackwell.com/coaching

You can be accomplished, self-aware, and still not fully like yourself — and for high achievers, that gap is more common than anyone admits. In this episode, Trish explores why so many driven women have mastered the performance of confidence while still feeling unsettled about who they actually are underneath it.

In this episode:

• Why liking yourself is different from — and deeper than — confidence
• The root reason high achievers develop a conditional relationship with themselves
• How to tell the difference between genuinely knowing yourself vs. managing your image
• The Narrative Intelligence shift that makes self-acceptance actually stick
• 3 practices to build a real, lasting friendship with yourself

If you're tired of working on yourself without actually liking yourself more, this one's for you. Referenced: https://www.trishblackwell.com/FOJ (Fear of Judgment Reset)

🤖 REFRAME AI TOOL [Must-Have Tool to Train Your Brain!] https://www.trishblackwell.com/reframeai

🏆 90-DAY IDENTITY SHIFT: https://www.trishblackwell.com/90day

🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:

https://www.trishblackwell.com/24for24 🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK / STOP BEING AFRAID OF JUDGMENT https://trishblackwell.thrivecart.com/judgment-reset/

🏛️ JOIN THE COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE COMMUNITY / GET COACHED BY TRISH https://www.collegeofconfidence.com

❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at https://www.trishblackwell.com/abundant

📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.