The Small Town Social Workers

The experiences of previous generations often shape the beliefs, behaviors, and coping strategies we carry today. Sometimes without us even realizing it. In this episode of Small Town Social Workers, we explore what generational trauma is, how it develops, and how it can influence parenting, relationships, mental health, and everyday life.

Whether you're a parent, caregiver, educator, mental health professional, or someone seeking to better understand your own story, this conversation offers insight, hope, and practical tools for breaking unhealthy cycles while building healthier futures for the next generation.

Healing doesn't erase the past, it creates a different future.

Resources:

- Cleveland Clinic: "What is Generational Trauma? And How You Can Break the Cycle"

- Via Linda Behavioral Hospital: "Generational Trauma: What it is How to Overcome it"

Burnout and compassion fatigue have become increasingly common in helping professions, caregiving roles, and everyday life. In this episode of Small Town Social Workers, Nathanael Ferguson, LMSW, and Kathleen Maynard, MSW, explore the differences between burnout and compassion fatigue, the warning signs that often go unnoticed, and practical strategies to protect your emotional well-being.

Together, they discuss why so many caregivers, social workers, foster parents, educators, healthcare professionals, and community helpers struggle to prioritize themselves while supporting others. Listeners will learn how chronic stress impacts the mind and body, how boundaries support sustainable compassion, and why self-care is more than bubble baths and days off.

Whether you’re feeling emotionally drained, overwhelmed, or simply trying to maintain balance while helping others, this conversation offers validation, encouragement, and practical tools to help you continue caring for others without losing yourself in the process.

Remember: caring for yourself isn’t selfish, t’s essential.

Resources: NAMI - Compassion Fatigue & Burnout

On today’s episode of the Small Town Social Workers podcast, we’re joined by a special guest, Christina Marsh, to explore play therapy, including what it is, why play is so important in a child’s emotional development, and how it differs from traditional talk therapy. We’ll discuss what play therapy can look like across different age groups, the role parents and caregivers play in the therapeutic process, common misconceptions, and ways caregivers can support children throughout their healing journey. Whether you’re a parent, professional, or simply curious about children’s mental health, this episode highlights how play can foster connection, communication, resilience, and growth.

Youth sports can be a powerful space for growth, confidence, and connection. However, only when the environment is supportive. In this episode, we take an honest look at what it really means to be a “good” sports parent by exploring the impact of negative parental involvement, including sideline coaching, added pressure, and tying a child’s worth to performance.

We then shift the focus to practical, positive parenting strategies that help children thrive, both on and off the field. From emphasizing effort over outcomes to modeling emotional control, this conversation offers simple, meaningful ways parents can support their child’s development, build resilience, and keep the joy in the game.

Resources:

- https://drrobbell.com/best-sports-parents-6-ways-youre-doing-it-wrong/

- https://waynegoldsmith.substack.com/p/ten-lessons-for-every-sports-parent?utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&triedRedirect=true

In this episode of Small Town Social Workers, we sit down with speech pathologist and founder of Building Blocks Speech and Language Therapy in Jamestown, NY, Trina Pisko, to explore the world of pediatric speech therapy. We explore what it is, who it supports, and why it plays such a critical role in child development. Together, we break down common misconceptions, early signs that a child may benefit from services, and how speech therapy goes far beyond just talking; supporting communication, social skills, emotional expression, and confidence.

We also highlight the importance of early intervention, collaboration with families and schools, and how caregivers can support communication development at home. Whether you’re a parent, professional, or community member, this episode offers practical insight and real-world understanding of how speech therapy helps children find their voice and thrive.

Resources:

- https://www.bblocksspeech.com/ - Trina Pisko

- https://empowered-sls.com/pediatric-speech-therapy-what-it-is-why-it-matters-and-when-to-act/

How do you show love and how do you know when someone feels loved? In this episode of the Small Town Social Workers, host Nathanael Ferguson and guest host Ericka Garcia-Allison explore the five love languages and how understanding them can strengthen connection in families, partnerships, and parent–child relationships. With practical examples and a social work lens, we share simple ways to express care in ways that truly resonate.

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Resources:

• The 5 Love Languages of Children: Express and Receive Love Early Years TV with Kathy Brodie
• Using the 5 Love Languages with Family
• Forsyth Family - Here Are Your Child’s Five Love Languages- Gail Cornwall

In this episode, rather than focusing on productivity or perfection, we explore personal, parenting, and professional goals through a lens of compassion and sustainability. We reflect on how real growth often happens quietly, without fanfare.

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In this episode, we break down the common causes of holiday stress as we head into Thanksgiving, Christmas, and the New Year. We talk about family dynamics, expectations, financial strain, and emotional overload. While offering simple, practical tips to stay grounded, set boundaries, and prioritize your well-being during the busiest time of the year.

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Resources:

• Mayo Clinic, “9 tips to fend off holiday stress.”
• Lyra Health, “nine causes of holiday stress (and how to manage them).”
• American Psychological Association, “even a joyous holiday season can cause stress for most Americans.”
• Johns Hopkins Medicine, “four mindful tips to distress this holiday season.”
• Deconstructing Stigma, “caring for your mental health during the holidays.”

In this episode of Small Town Social Workers, we explore after-school restraint collapse. The emotional unraveling kids often experience after holding it together all day. We discuss why it happens, what it reveals about emotional regulation, and practical ways caregivers and parents can create calmer, more supportive after-school transitions.

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Resources:

- “Why do kids totally lose it after school? All about restraint collapse.” - Rosie Colosi

- The Nest Egg, “After school restraint collapse.” - Vee Pastore, MOH, MST

- “Dealing with after school restraint collapse? Five ways to help.” - Robyn Koslowitz Ph.D.

In this episode of The Small Town Social Workers, Kat & Nate are joined by the Suicide Prevention Alliance of Chautauqua County Program Coordinator, Carrie Raynor to discuss:

- The red flags to watch for with suicide.

- How to support a child, teens, and adults who may be strugglng with signs and symptoms of suicide.

- Local resources available to families.

- Why hope and connection are at the heart of prevention.

Listen in, share with someone who needs it, and help us break the silence.

If you or someone you love is struggling, dial 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. You are not alone.

Resources:

Crisis text line: 741741

Suicide Prevention Alliance of Chautauqua County website: https://preventsuicidechq.com/

Please reach out for questions or more resources!

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This episode of The Small Town Social Workers tackles the real struggles kids face when heading back to school. Kat and Nate break down the roots of back-to-school anxiety and share practical, strength-based ways to support youth during this tough transition. Whether you’re a parent, teacher, or community member, this conversation will give you tools to ease the stress and build confidence in the kids you care about.

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In this powerful episode, hosts Nathanael Ferguson and Kat Maynard dive into the complex world of screen time and technology use in children. Exploring how digital devices impact the brain, especially dopamine levels, while breaking down the pros and cons of tech in kids’ lives. This insightful discussion challenges listeners to think critically about balance, boundaries, and the long-term effects of technology on child development.

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Resources:

• https://www.integrative-psych.org/resources/navigating-dopamine-children-and-screen-time-unraveling-impacts-and-strategies
• https://archive.org/details/nstvny-PATV_Spotlight_-_Dr._Steven_Dewey_-_Alcohol_Drugs_and_the_Teen_Brain
• https://parentingteensandtweens.com/here-are-the-tech-rules-you-need-to-be-setting-for-your-tweens-and-teens/
• https://connectusfund.org/16-pros-and-cons-of-children-using-technology
• https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/school-culture/202401/real-talk-about-kids-and-technology?msockid=1567d81c6f3a6cc50dfdca326eee6dd7

In this powerful episode, Nathanael Ferguson and Kat Maynard shine a light on a topic that’s too often overlooked. Men’s mental health. From societal expectations to the stigma surrounding vulnerability, the conversation dives deep into the barriers men face when seeking help and the importance of creating safe, supportive spaces for men to express their emotions. Especially as fathers.

Whether you’re a mental health professional, a parent, a partner, or someone walking your own healing journey, this episode is for you.

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Resources: 1.https://www.essentiahealth.org/about/essentia-health-newsroom/q-and-a-mens-mental-health
2.https://adaa.org/find-help/by-demographics/mens-mental-health
3.https://support-parents.org/
4.https://www.verywellmind.com/dads-mental-health-matters-5409299
5.https://www.verywellhealth.com/mens-mental-health-11683194
6.https://www.piedmont.org/living-real-change/mental-health-tips-for-men
7.https://www.nami.org/get-involved/awareness-events/mens-health-month/

In this special anniversary episode of Small Town Social Workers, hosts Nathanael Ferguson and Kat Maynard celebrate one year of impactful conversations by welcoming guest Ericka Garcia-Allison. In honor of Mental Health and Foster Care Awareness Month, the episode dives into the world of foster care; highlighting the importance of caregiver and community support, meaningful relationships, and the power of hope and resilience.

Together, they explore how a solution-focused approach can help create emotionally safe spaces and strengthen the lives of youth and families within the foster care system.

Tune in and be inspired! This is an episode you won’t want to miss!

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In this episode of The Small Town Social Workers, we had the pleasure of welcoming Jenna Miller, MS, OTR/L, founder of Well & Wild Child, LLC! Nathanael, Kat, and Jenna dive into the world of occupational therapy (OT), explore the power of a nature-based model, and talk about how Jenna’s unique approach supports youth and their families in meaningful, holistic ways, including the ties with social work and child welfare system.

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Resources:

Jenna Miller, MS, OTR/L - Jenna@wellwildchildot.com - on Facebook and Instagram https://www.wellwildchildot.com/

In this Social Work Month special, Small Town Social Workers, hosted by Nathanael Ferguson and guest co-host Holly DePerna, explores how parents, caregivers, and adults can nurture compassion in our youth. We discuss practical ways to model compassion, create safe emotional spaces, and strengthen adult-child relationships. Tune in for insights on raising kind, emotionally resilient kids and fostering a more compassionate future!

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Resources:

- Growing Compassion: Raising kids who respond with care by Erin Walsh

- Compassion for kids: 21+ teaching activities and examples by Kelly Miller, BA, CAPP and reviewed by Jo Nash, PH.D.

- Cultivating compassion in our kids by confident parents confident kids

- NASW: social worker Month 2025 proclamation: social work: compassion + action

Discloser, heavier topic:

In this episode of Small Town Social Workers, we discuss teenage dating, focusing on healthy boundaries, the meaning of dating, and the importance of open communication. With February being National Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month, we also highlight the warning signs of unhealthy relationships and how to foster respect and safety. Parents and caregivers play a crucial role in guiding teens through dating experiences by encouraging honest conversations and setting positive examples. Join us as we explore practical strategies to help teens build strong, respectful relationships while preventing dating violence.

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In this episode, Nathanael and Kat tackle the effects of winter blues and cabin fever. Tune in for practical tips and strategies tailored for parents, kids, and teens to stay positive and connected during the colder months!

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Podcast Resources: 1.https://www.positiveparentingsolutions.com/parenting/six-ways-keep-winter-blues-bay 2. https://drkatyhill.com/self-care-for-parents-this-winter/

In this episode, hosts, Nathanael and Kat, delve into effective strategies for nurturing emotional intelligence in children and teenagers. Emotional intelligence is crucial for developing self-awareness, empathy, and strong interpersonal skills. We discuss the importance of moving beyond basic emotional vocabulary to help kids articulate their feelings more precisely.

Join us as we share actionable tips for creating an emotionally supportive environment that empowers kids and teens to navigate their emotions effectively, fostering resilience and strong relationships both at school and at home.

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Podcast Resources:

• https://www.helpguide.org/family/parenting/raising-emotionally-intelligent-children
• https://www.naeyc.org/resources/pubs/yc/mar2017/teaching-emotional-intelligence
• https://www.gottman.com/blog/strengthen-childs-emotional-intelligence/
• https://theparentcue.org/raising-emotionally-intelligent-teens/
• https://www.newportacademy.com/resources/empowering-teens/teen-emotional-intelligence/?kpid=go_cmp-17884784088_adg-_ad-__dev-c_ext-_prd-
• https://namimercer.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/Building-Emotional-Intelligence-in-Adolescents.pdf

In episode 5, hosts Nathanael Ferguson and Kathleen Maynard are joined by Officer Emma Ward to discuss domestic violence awareness. Officer Ward introduces listeners to Project Crossroads, a community initiative designed to support both youth and adults affected by domestic violence. The conversation dives deep into the project's impact, available community resources, and essential prevention tips. Whether you’re seeking help, supporting someone in need, or simply looking to learn more, this episode is packed with valuable insights on building safer, more supportive communities.

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Podcast Resources:

1. https://yac.net.au/legal-info/domestic-violence/

2. https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/childhood-domestic-violence/18-ways-to-support-children-who-witness-domestic-violence

3. https://www.nctsn.org/sites/default/files/resources/children_domestic_violence_entire_series.pdf