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This episode is more than skin-deep, listener! Chloe Radcliffe is a comedian, writer, and the host of the hilarious In Tandem with Chloe Radcliffe. We discuss her brand new Comedy Central special, Eyes Down Here, the different standards of beauty in the Midwest v. NYC, stealing perfect bites from partner’s plates, and Ashley’s gay face. Lizzy shares a story about unexpected responses to two IG selfies, and Ash seeks advice on how to take sexy pics without looking like a Hey Mamas lesbian. Chloe talks about some out of pocket things that make-up artists have said to her about her birthmark, and we finish the episode discussing more broadly how physical appearance impacts the jokes we tell on stage.

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Hey Bottom Nation — just wanted to give a quick update on the audio issues you may have heard on the most recent episode of WHGS, #347. Sadly we had a pretty major microphone issue in the middle of the recording, so we had to use camera audio from about 36:15 - 51:30. However the episode was so funny that we wanted to put it out anyway. Many apologies, and we hope it doesn't make it unlistenable!

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This episode is hole-y, listener! Jake Brasch & Nadja Leonhard-Hooper (American Sing-Song) are the multi-hyphenate duo behind the new, hilarious musical HOLE! We discuss the show and its origins, Kafka’s girlfriend, our favorite psych meds, evangelicals, and the eroticism of centaurs. The Brazilian MILF (now GILF!) returns, and everyone gets to watch the exact moment that Ash experiences what Lizzy calls “a comic’s worst nightmare,” on stage. Afterwards, we get into the complicated subject of including real people in your art, and discuss the absurdities of having baby fever as a queer person.

PS: Apologies for the audio issues that occur around the GILF video, we had some technical difficulties and had to use the camera mics for that section.

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This episode is lively, listener! Nico Carney is a comedian, writer, and actor, whose new hour-long special ‘WEE LAD’ is now out on Youtube. We discuss the genders TikTok commenters assign us, straight men with masculine wives, and facing uncertainty before transition. Jen’s parents accidentally see way too much of Ashley’s boobs, Nico shares an insightful story about confronting people from your past, and Freddie talks about the similarities between sex and improv.

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This episode is a homecoming, listener! Kylie Vincent is back on the pod to discuss her recent MS diagnosis and new show, Lesion Lady. During our catch up we discuss being a white woman with a cane, what your Sims worlds say about your childhood, and the pros and cons of visible vs. invisible disabilities. Ashley gets into her own journey with disability and accommodations, Kylie discusses becoming a bottom by medical necessity, and Jen pops in to discuss whether or not testicles can taste umami?!

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This episode is double-trouble, listener! McKenzie Goodwin and Rachel Scanlon are the two hilarious hosts of the hit queer podcast Two Dykes and a Mic. We discuss their “lesbian hive mind,” phone sex with your spouse, celesbians, and the art of taking nudes at the airport. Ashley has sex that jump starts her period, Rachel’s best laid plans for a romantic night in are foiled, and McKenzie has a bit of a sex toy mystery.

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This episode is fascinating, listener! Kiel Tutin is a dancer, choreographer, and creative director who has been the visionary behind performances like BLACKPINK’s headlining Coachella set and The JLO Show: Live in Las Vegas. We discuss the policing of popstars, the perils (and benefits?) of reading the comments, and the joy that comes from seeing old people dance. Ashley’s plans get lost in translation at a Berlin FLINTA flat, and Lizzy tries to clock other guests at a straight wedding. Kiel shares his experience growing up and thriving in the ultra-accepting world of high level dance competitions.

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This episode is WILD, listener! Madison Sinclair is a comedian, writer (Comedy Central’s Roasts of Kevin Hart, Whitney Cummings, and Bert Kreischer), and CEO of The Bummer Shop, which sells booty shorts with sad facts. We discuss being “the man” in a femme for femme relationship, doing comedy with (and for) your dog, and the crime of being gay in the NFL. Ashley fumbles a flirtatious audience member after a show, and Lizzy gets kicked out of a timeshare presentation. Madison shares an iconic story about getting revenge on a homophobic comedian by sleeping with his ex…and there’s surprise knife play involved?!

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Tensions are HIGH in this episode, listener! It’s a non-traditional WHGS family episode today, and it may be one of our most raw and emotional episodes to date… Joined by both our fantastic co-hosts and comedians Lizzy Cassidy and Ali Kolbert, it all gets laid bare: Ashley confronts Ali on why she’s so intimidating, Ali confronts Ashley on why she’s so intimidated, the room confronts Ashley and Jen on why they haven’t got married, and Lizzy confronts strangers about their children. In-between, we discuss novel approaches to giving head, energy patches, and going to the movies. And to top it all off, some devastating news is dropped that may change the WHGS family forever…

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This episode is being BOLD, listener! Amelia Montooth is the founder and CEO of Mutuals Media — the people behind your favorite online queer content like “Gaydar” with Anania, but today she’s in the apartment to get behind YOU with a strap! We discuss starting threesomes with strangers at pride, initiating it inside a crowded Thai restaurant, changing relationship habits, starting Mutuals Media, and the trauma caused by Tumblr and AskFM. How gay were Ashley’s parents?! Did Lizzy get discriminated against for getting gay married?!

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This episode is open and free, listener! Edy Modica (Jury Duty, Let’s Start a Cult) is a hilarious comedian, actor, and content creator that had you chuckling on one of the greatest TV shows of our current time, but now she’s on the couch to show something NASTIER on screen! We discuss having an open relationship dynamic with your boyfriend, using your arrangement to flash strangers on the internet, butt play, pansexuality, and sexting people with gusto. Ashley asks Jen for permission to MILF. Lizzy gets gay married.

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This episode is surviving a crazy childhood, listener! Hannah Beck is a hilarious queer Chicago-based comedian and podcaster that’s performing at the biggest venues across the city, but today she’s in the apartment to escape the biggest CULTS in America. We discuss growing up in a crazy cult, escaping it through your gay bestie, the best ways to flirt as a lesbian, how to tell if you’re on a date, and how dating men is a recession indicator. Against all odds — Ashley’s Brazilian MILF arc continues… and it gets GILFy. Lizzy can definitely tell when it’s not a date.

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Get tickets to Maddie’s LIVE special taping on 9/20 in NYC! It will be the funniest thing you’ve ever seen, and the entire WHGS crew will be there:

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This episode is a year too late, listener! Maddie Wiener is a stand-up comedian, staff writer at Saturday Night Live, and the FORMER co-host of WHGS, but today she’s in the apartment to give Bottom Nation some closure (and maybe some head). We discuss what Maddie has been up to, getting heart surgery, gender identity, its links to neurodivergence, sexism inside and out of relationships, and whether or not Heated Rivalry made you trans or horny. Ashley got socialized poorly. Lizzy treats her new strain of bi-polar disorder.

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This episode is going on some kinky vacations, listener! Eliot Glazer is a delightful comedian, writer, actor, and the mind behind some of your favorite TV shows ever made, but today he’s in the apartment to get behind some handsome fellas — if you catch our drift! We discuss the phenomenon of big gay vacations, going to secret cove orgies on pacific islands, short-term flings while you are traveling, and which has a larger cultural impact: Shrek… or 9/11? Ashley encounters her childhood bully once more. Lizzy goes to a FLINTA sex party.

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This episode is doin’ group stuff, listener! It’s a WHGS first as we shove FIVE whole guests onto the pod — Hilarious non-binary comedian & JFL New Face Freddie Shanel, their super talented girlfriend & musician Camille Schmidt, Ashley’s beloved GF Jen Davis, and comedian Sam Morrison (but he’s only allowed to watch). We discuss getting clocked as non-binary before you even knew it yourself, gender presentation, body image, having identical GFs, and car crashes giving you amazing skin. Ashley needs her tatas treated right. Sam takes a BIG one.

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This episode is in the TWILIGHT ZONE, listener! Kevin Atwater is an incredible queer musician who has garnered millions of listens across TikTok and Spotify with his honest songwriting, but today he’s in the apartment to honestly tell us one of the freakiest stories we’ve heard… We discuss otherworldly hookups in haunted houses filled with stuffed animals, writing queer music, getting started as a fan editor, and GHB patches getting you through it all. Ashley heals past trauma with love. Ali is going crazy.

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This episode is OPEN and HONEST, listener! Neil Rubenstein is an incredible pansexual comedian who regularly opens for Ashley on the road, but today they’re meeting in the HOTEL ROOM for something a bit more saucy… We discuss polyamory, its benefits & challenges, mental health & healing, sex vs. gender expression, hooking up with gay republicans, and falling in love with a poly granny. Ashley goes in-depth on being open. Neil goes gay on the road.

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Watch Caitlin Peluffo’s new special, “Prosciutto Rose,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8M5HKgLyjcI — If you like Ashley’s comedy, you’re gonna love Caitlin!

This episode is making sexy choices, listener! Caitlin Peluffo is a fan-favorite stand up comedian HOT off her success on Kevin Hart’s “Funny AF,” but today she’s returning to the apartment for the 4th time for some afternoon delight! We discuss making love in the middle of the day, energy vs. physical appearance, self-image when flirting, and going for the throat in a chicken fight. Ashley argues with homophobic gamers. Lizzy likes ‘em THICK.

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This episode is FIGHTING, listener! Jen Davis is an incredible actor, content creator, and Ashley’s perfect girlfriend, but today she’s sitting on the couch to chew Ashley out — and NOT in that way, listener! We discuss hooking up with people out of the country, the beauty of a long-distance fling, drawing boundaries with your partner, and being cute even in your sleep. Ashley gets in serious hot water with Jen. Lizzy does domestic violence.

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This episode is learning and growing, listener! It’s been a long time coming — a catch up with beloved comedian and friend of the show Ali Kolbert! It’s a duo episode today as we discuss what everyone’s been up to, straight propaganda in the New York Times, navigating comphet, disgustingly stinky ladies, and the three qualities you MUST have in order to get onto a boat. Also Ali made a VIRAL QUEER MOVIE?! You gotta tune in.

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