Your Neighbors Are Swingers

Join your neighbors Kate and Doug as they welcome Kate-certified pussy whisperer and friend Darrick to the pod! Darrick shares his background, his lifestyle journey, and deep dives into his experience teaching and helping women and couples achieve orgasmic heights they maybe thought were not possible. You will learn just why Kate has Darrick in her phone as 'Darrick the Magic Man'.

Your neighbors got a good one! Join Kate and Doug as they host Susan Bratton, a champion and advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long. She is the world's most prolific and far-reaching sex educator, and we got her on our podcast! Buckle up, because you're in for a fantastic treat. Susan and your neighbors discuss just how deep and intense our sexual pleasure can be, and Susan brings her knowledge, passion, and personality to our show. Topics ranged from the different types of touch to yoni massage to keeping our sexual health and vibrancy as we age to putting out a PSA for that young guy to call Susan! You won't want to miss this episode.

Links discussed:

https://susanbratton.com/

Products | Susan Bratton

http://betterlover.com

http://pumpingguide.com

Your neighbors are joined by a real-life unicorn, their good friend Kele! Kele joins to discuss her evolution as a single female in the lifestyle, shares some of her adventures and experiences, and reminisces with your neighbors about a recent encounter with them. Kele also calls Doug ruggedly handsome... and what guy doesn't want to hear that?! Have a listen and get to know this amazing human.

Your neighbors went to New Orleans in the heat of July to attend the largest lifestyle/swinger convention in the world and boy did they have fun! In this episode, Kate and Doug recount the event, the adventures, and Doug's as-yet-to-be-fulfilled 'Heather' fantasy. Doug also regales us with his dumb luck of the three-day run he is on, including his encounter with a cougar in the wild!

Your neighbors Kate and Doug are joined by their friends and new-ish swingers Rob and Leagh-Ann, who have been in the lifestyle for about a year and a half and are quickly learning and evolving their dynamic as they go. Rob and Leigh-Ann share some of their experiences thus far, where they see themselves going, and what got them into the lifestyle in the first place.

Your neighbors Kate and Doug recently joined 200+ other fun people from Seattle's Club Sapphire at the club's hotel takeover weekend in Westport, Washington. Join them here as they recount the weekend's activities, including it being Kate's turn to watch (for a change), connecting with cool people from around the Pacific Northwest, and Kate reminding Doug that sometimes he needs to use towels! They were also freshly back from their trip to New Orleans for Naughty in New Orleans, so they tease some of thing things they will discuss in that upcoming recap.

Your neighbors Kate and Doug welcome Ruby and Woody, owner of Seattle's best lifestyle club, to the pod! They share with us the ins and outs (get it?) of running a premiere lifestyle club, how they got into the business, and how they set the awesome vibe at Sapphire. Part history lesson, part tour of the club, and all fun, Woody and Ruby are the real deal! Your neighbors also explain their 2+ month hiatus and tee up some future episodes.

Your neighbors Kate and Doug keep going with the bucket list theme, diving a bit more into some of the things they have not yet done but might like to... candle wax and remote-control vibrators, anyone? Also, friend of the show 'Slappy' Jay stops by to share about his very good Friday experience as well as his thoughts on just how fruit roll ups can enhance your sex life!

Your neighbors also share about one of their new favorite people to learn from, Susan Bratton. Her website can be found here: Be A Better Lover And Learn Sexual Health | Personal Life Media

Your neighbors explore a rather robust sexual bucket list they found online and discovered that, yeah... they've been at this lifestyle thing a while. Relive some stories with them as they talk about the beach, boats, and blindfolds! They also recap a recent threesome encounter (times two) with Kate's out-of-town friend; as well as a recent Kate-Doug-only hotel getaway.

Click here to access the bucket list they used for this episode: The Ultimate Sexual Bucket List: 75 Sex Acts to Try Before You Die

Your neighbors have been at this lifestyle stuff for a few years now and have picked up some wisdom along the way. In this episode, Kate and Doug share some of their learnings and stories that have brought them to where they are now, and they share some things they wish they would have realized 20 years ago! From getting into the practice of their 'pregame huddle', to whiskey dick, banana daiquiris, and learning about compersion, they share the good, the bad, and the banana. They also share a recent experience they had on a medicinal journey, and Doug is clearly still buzzing from that! You can find out more about it at:

https://www.kulandira.com/

Join Your Neighbors as they review some of their favorite, and not-so-favorite, lifestyle clubs they have been to in the United States and Canada. Kate discusses how she likes a quiet, intimate environment where she can truly connect with fellow lifestyle folks on a deeper level... yeah right! They also recap a recent fetish rave they attended where Kate had Doug on a short leash... quite literally!

Your Neighbors are joined by Jenn Mason, sexologist, sex educator, and owner of WinkWink Boutique: a not creepy, woman-owned sex shop in Bellingham, Washington. Jenn joins us to discuss her background, how and why she got into the sex shop business, and how she pays it forward through education and consulting.

You can check out WinkWink Boutique (they deliver, and Valentine's Day is coming up!) here: https://winkwinkboutique.com/

You can also checkout some of Jenn's writing at her Substack page here.

Your neighbors are excited to share their conversation with their friends Blondie and J, a gentle and progressive cuckold couple from the great white north of Canada! Kate and Doug met them at a Splash Mocha event and were instantly attracted to their vibe, and they have since attended some of their events. Blondie and J share their origin story, dynamic, forays into content creation, and give a preview for the upcoming Blondie's Bang Bus Tour... you won't want to miss it!

To learn more about Blondie and J you can check out:

Blondie's FetLife Account

Blondie's X Account

Blondie's OnlyFans Account

J's X Account

J's OnlyFans Account

Travel concierge and event producer Ying Ying Lee joins your neighbors to discuss the details behind putting on an event like the Whistle Lifestyle Takeover (see episode 11 for a recap of that amazing event)! Ying Ying shares with us her backstory, how she plans events, and why inclusivity is key. Doug also tries to steal her job, but it sounds like a lot of work...

If you're interested to learn more about some of the events and takeovers SOP does, check out https://swingeropenpoly.com/ now!

Your neighbors are back from their first Whistler Lifestyle Takeover event and eager to share their stories, including electroshock therapy for Kate, hot tub hookups, and some very new territory for Doug!

Kate and Doug reconnect with a friend they met at Splash Mocha this past summer. Q is the owner and founder of Young Swinger Lifestyle out of North Carolina, and he joins the podcast to share a bit about himself and what he is trying to build with YSL. They also reminisce about some of the fun they had at Splash Mocha, and it seems like Kate is signing up for more!

Some links to a few of the things discussed:

Q's Instagram: sylaire.ysl

Q's Fetlife profile: Q_YSL

Rosebuds Social

Xpressed Desire

House of Harris

NitesXTheRodeo LLC

Your neighbors Kate and Doug are lounging in Cabo San Lucas and have some fun perusing the internet for some stories about swinging and the lifestyle. Everything from how to tell if your neighbors are swingers (spoiler alert: they are) to sex festivals and mistaken swinger identity! They also tell a couple of quick stories about some of the 'fun' they've been having while in Cabo.

Back in 1998, Doug asked Kate if she'd like him to invite one of his buddies over for some 'fun' for the first time. After a bunch of bad homemade beer and himming and hawing, they all ended up naked! 27 years later Jay joins Kate and Doug to tell the story from his point of view and to share some of his own lifestyle adventures.

Join your neighbors Kate and Doug as they recap a lifestyle cruise they recently took in the western Mediterranean. Follow along from Rome to Barcelona as they share their stories about this amazing adventure!

Your neighbors Kate and Doug recap a recent trip to Florida where Kate did some vanilla hunting, connected with friends new and old at a hotel takeover event, and accepted the crown of Elevator Queen!