Adulting with Horses

Ten Things We Will Never Do With Horses

Natalie Keller Reinert and Heather Wallace kick off with storm prep, sleep deprivation, weather chaos, and horse life before turning the conversation into a playful but surprisingly practical list episode.

The main focus is on the horse-related things they refuse to do, from unsafe riding habits to poor welfare choices, with a mix of personal standards, trainer ethics, and a lot of honesty.

In this episode, Natalie and Heather each share five things they will never do with horses, and they explain the reasoning behind each one. It is part comedy, part horse welfare conversation, and part “we are absolutely serious about this.”

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

“It’s a great little taste of what it’s like to use the engine of the horse.”

Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert catch up on the realities of riding horses in fall weather, horse training, and the realities of building a creative career.

They chat about everything that moves, from horse behavior in changing weather to the behind-the-scenes work of getting books into the world. They also share a few personal wins, including riding progress, new covers, and meaningful reader feedback.

Key topics

• Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert compare notes on how horses change with the weather, especially when fall air makes them feel lighter, more forward, and easier to collect.
• They discuss the difference between a horse being hot because of weather versus being hot because of tension or frustration—and why that distinction matters for riding and safety.
• Natalie shares that she has started cantering on purpose again, and Heather describes similar progress with Ferrous as both riders work back toward fitness and confidence.
• The conversation gets into how smart, anticipatory horses need variety in training, with repetitive exercises often making them bored or too clever for their own good.
• Heather explains how IEA riding shaped her as a rider because it forced her to adapt quickly to different horses, and how that experience still influences her confidence and horsemanship.
• They talk about the value of riding school horses and unfamiliar horses as a way to improve, and Natalie considers getting back into that format next year.
• They discuss reader support, reviews, and the emotional boost of hearing that a book or podcast episode mattered to someone.
• Natalie shares frustrations about Goodreads reviews and the idea of a book “breaking containment”—reaching readers who expected something else and judge it unfairly.
• Heather and Natalie reflect on writing for specific audiences, including younger readers, horse girls, and cozy romance readers who want comfort and familiarity.
• They wrap up with updates on Equine Affaire, new paperback editions, upcoming releases, and the importance of bookstores and libraries for horse books.

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

On this episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie talk about Hormonal Rage, Cancellation Policies, and the Perks of Living Apart Together

Natalie Keller Reinert and Heather Wallace cover everything from respecting time and cancellation fees to the very practical realities of running a life, a business, and a family at full speed. What starts as a rant about a client trying to game a schedule turns into a bigger conversation about boundaries, burnout, hormonal chaos, travel, and what kind of partner actually fits into a busy life.

Key topics

• Natalie and Heather break down why freelancers and independent contractors need cancellation fees, card-on-file policies, and clear onboarding rules
• The conversation widens into a broader rant about people not respecting other people’s time, especially when they know better
• Heather talks about being exhausted, burned out, and close to a breakdown after weeks and months without a real day off
• Natalie and Heather discuss how they both tend to stay busy on purpose because slowing down makes room for thoughts and responsibilities they would rather avoid
• The chat turns playful and candid as they talk about hormones, PMS, spotting, and how much mood can change with timing and food
• Heather explains why she is not interested in dating right now, especially if it would require giving up autonomy, travel, or solo time
• They land on a shared preference for unconventional relationships, including living apart together, separate houses, or arrangements that preserve independence
• Natalie shares that she’s deep into writing a sweet cowboy romance and prefers sensitive men in fiction and real life
• Heather describes the kind of man she finds attractive: protective, emotionally aware, and supportive without being controlling
• The episode ends with lighter banter about travel, cruise planning, vacation anticipation, and Heather’s accidental concert ticket predicament

For our special bonus episode on trailer horror stories that really happened, make sure to join our Patreon!

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Hey horse girls, happy bonus day!

In this episode of AWH Clubhouse LIVE, we (Heather Wallace, Natalie Keller Reinert, and Ashley K. Winch) dive into the whirlwind of life that comes with juggling responsibilities, friendships, and, of course, our beloved horses. Heather shares the chaos of her kids starting school, with sports activities colliding in a perfect storm of scheduling madness.

We're joined by special guest and IRL author and podcast bestie, Sarah Welk Baynum!

Introducing the Not So Safe Word

Before bringing in their guest, the trio introduces a fun twist: a not-so-safe word. "Our not so safe word for today's episode is bestie," Ashley announces, prompting laughter and a toast. Every time the word is mentioned, a sip is taken, adding a playful element to the discussion.

In a world where life can feel overwhelming, this episode serves as a reminder to cherish the moments of joy, laughter, and companionship.

Take a moment to unwind, sip your drink, and join us for this delightful chat. Until next time, keep celebrating the beautiful mess that is life!

For more hearty laughs and engaging stories, tune into the full video episode on our Patreon!

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Heather and Natalie dive into the unexpected challenges of equestrian adventures, particularly during Heather's recent trip to Iceland. From tech mishaps to the trials of riding a particularly wide horse, their conversation is both humorous and relatable.

The episode kicks off with a lighthearted exchange about the absurdities of AI giving personal advice to Natalie.

Heather describes her recent tour in Iceland, where she found herself leading a group of riders of all skill levels. "It was like an adrenaline rush, such a good group of people," she shares. However, day two brought unexpected challenges when she encountered a horse that was a bit too wide for comfort.

The Dangers of Riding a Potato

Heather humorously refers to her horse as a "potato" due to its wide saddle, which led to some intense muscle spasms. "I was struggling to breathe... my muscles locked up," she recalls. The conversation shifts to the broader issue of horse breeding, with Natalie chiming in about the discomfort that wide horses can cause for riders.

For more stories and insights, tune into the full episode where laughter and learning abound!

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Join Heather and Natalie in this episode presented by Farnum Endure Gold Killer Fly & Mosquito Control as they battle the heat (and the hum of the emergency AC unit) during Natalie's trip to New Jersey. Ferrous gets a fan club of one, Natalie confuses the horses, and Heather makes Natalie question whether she might need a barn family of her own. To be fair, she is quite good and getting people to question their lives.

In this episode:

• Heather's unexpected guest (a.k.a. her horse Ferrous) and their humorous antics
• The hilarious misunderstanding about horse names and personalities
• Pony meeting tales and the surprises of horse personality quirks
• Behind the scenes of a Maryland book signing and the vibrant local market scene
• The charm and chaos of pet care, including cats' independence and horses' sensitivities
• Practical tips on managing animal health and environmental concerns
• The joy of sharing farm and horse life with friends and future plans
• Lighthearted banter about household chores, laundry fails, and favorite adulting wins
• The episode concludes with garden fantasies, flower updates, and estate zonings

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

On this episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, join us as we share hilarious stories from garden mishaps, epic travel adventures from Saratoga to Saugerties, and behind-the-scenes tales from the HITS horse show circuit. This episode will keep you laughing while offering insights into our crazy equestrian life.

Main Topics:

• Personal stories of accidents and recovery
• Travel adventures including wildfires, storms, and cross-border escapes
• Insights into horse show experiences, trainer quirks, and rider tips
• Adulting wins—celebrating small victories amidst chaos
• Upcoming book signings, fairs, and the upcoming cruise

Resources & Links:

• Maryland Equestrian Book & Market Fair
• Cruise to the Caribbean - Book Today

Connect with the Hosts:

• Natalie Keller Reinert - Twitter | LinkedIn
• Heather Wallace - Instagram | Website

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this episode brought to you by Farnum Endure Gold Killer Fly & Mosquito Control, Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert explore the challenges and opportunities in the equestrian industry, focusing on boarding facilities, costs, sustainability, and innovative solutions to keep the sport accessible and thriving.

Keywords

equestrian industry, boarding facilities, horse boarding costs, sustainability, horse sport economics, horse community, equestrian business models

Key Topics

• The rising costs of horse boarding and its impact on riders
• Innovative boarding models like dry stalls and self-care options
• The importance of community and collaboration in the horse industry
• Economic challenges faced by large and small barns
• Potential for nonprofit and grassroots initiatives to support amateurs
• The influence of real estate and land ownership on facility sustainability
• The role of regulation, licensing, and legal issues in boarding facilities
• Strategies for affordability and accessibility in horse sports

Upcoming Events:

August 1, 2027, Equestrian Book Market and Fair with Natalie and Heather. August 1, 2026 from 11am to 2pm. Rutledge Ridge Farm: 2301 Rutledge Road, Fallston, MD 21047. Join us and other amazing authors!

November 12-15 Equine Affaire, MA. Adulting with Horses Podcast booth in the Better Living Center.

August 20, 2027 "Hijinks on the High Seas" Cruise with Heather and Natalie. Register here. (Horse husbands very welcome!)

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

On this LIVE bonus episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie join with their podcast bestie, Ashley K. Winch and Sandy and Cara from Saddle Talk, newly on the HRN network.

Buckle up, folks! Today's episode is a cocktail of hilarious adulting adventures, horse tales, ghost exorcisms, and enough sarcasm to keep your spirits high. If laughter, good friends, and a little bit of horse chaos sound like your jam, this one's a must-listen.

In this episode:

• The chaos of Thursday night with kittens and cats conspiring against productivity
• Secret game reveal: drink every time someone says the magic word "hint it begins with an 'F'"
• Horse talk, Mustangs, and the art of turning bad decisions into epic adventures
• Spooky ghost tales and haunted houses, complete with flaming tornadoes and uninvited spirits
• Drinking, dating, and the hilarious truths about podcasting and friendship goals
• How to build a community without buying followers, just pure authenticity
• The scoop on upcoming horse radio network cruises and plans for Montana dude ranches
• The art of social media burnout and how to keep it real while promoting your passion

Special Note:

Stay tuned for that upcoming cruise! Book now, bring your friends, and prepare for two days at sea, Bimini, and plenty of margaritas.<|endofshow_notes|>

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Show Notes: The Canter Is a Four-Letter Word

This episode is brought to you by pure chaos, cruise dreams, and the emotional journey back into the canter.

Natalie and Heather kick things off with the kind of live, slightly unhinged energy only horse people can sustain before coffee fully kicks in. They share big news about their upcoming “Hijinx on the High Seas” cruise, a five-night adventure packed with theme nights, happy hours, games, prizes, and all the shenanigans a horse-loving adult could want away from the barn.

Then the conversation turns to the real beast of the episode: cantering. Why does it suddenly feel scarier in adulthood than it ever did before?

Natalie and Heather unpack the mental blocks, balance issues, fitness struggles, horse behavior, and the deeply relatable experience of feeling like your body and your brain are both negotiating terms with gravity. They also remind us that sometimes the horse is doing exactly what they should be doing, and we’re the ones falling apart at the seams.

In this episode:

• Cruise announcement: “Hijinx on the High Seas”
• Why cantering feels harder as an adult amateur
• Balance, confidence, and rebuilding riding fitness
• Adulting wins: AC survival, dinner mishaps, and bargain burgers

If you’ve ever thought, “I used to love this gait, why am I suddenly terrified of it?” this one’s for you.

Upcoming Events:

July 15, 2027 Impressions of Saratoga with Natalie. Learn more.

August 1, 2027, Equestrian Book Market and Fair with Natalie and Heather. August 1, 2026 from 11am to 2pm. Rutledge Ridge Farm: 2301 Rutledge Road, Fallston, MD 21047. Join us and other amazing authors!

November 12-15 Equine Affaire, MA. Adulting with Horses Podcast booth in the Better Living Center.

August 20, 2027 "Hijinks on the High Seas" Cruise with Heather and Natalie. Register here. (Horse husbands very welcome!)

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Behind the Scenes of a Writer’s Life: One Coffee Spill at a Time

Ever tried writing a novel between horse quarantines and housekeeper surprises? Welcome to the anthology of chaos, caffeine, and creativity! In this bonus episode of Adulting with Horses, you’ll learn how two authors navigate the wilds of writerly life — from the perils of distraction to the magic of whimsical garden spaces.

In this episode, we discuss:

• How daily distractions — dogs, housekeepers, and the ocean — fuel or hinder writing progress
• The importance of hobbies outside of writing, from craft projects to garden adventures
• How to carve out those rare, precious two-hour writing blocks in a busy life
• The mental and physical toll of juggling multiple projects, from books to Cruise Ship gift exchanges
• The power of whimsy to keep creativity alive when life gets real
• Real talk about the grind, including timelines for books and the realities of editing and revisions

Upcoming Events:

July 15, 2027 Impressions of Saratoga with Natalie. Learn more.

August 1, 2027, Equestrian Book Market and Fair with Natalie and Heather. August 1, 2026 from 11am to 2pm. Rutledge Ridge Farm: 2301 Rutledge Road, Fallston, MD 21047. Join us and other amazing authors!

November 12-15 Equine Affaire, MA. Adulting with Horses Podcast booth in the Better Living Center.

August 20, 2027 "Hijinks on the High Seas" Cruise with Heather and Natalie. Register here. (Horse husbands very welcome!)

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Ready for a wild ride through the mundane and the magnificent? In this episode, Heather and Natalie explore everything from garden surprises to the joys (and chaos) of horse shows. Plus, how to survive the wild world of adulting without losing your mind. Expect laughs, lightbulb moments, and plenty of equine insights sprinkled with a healthy dose of humor.

Key Topics Covered:

• The joys of chaos gardening and accidental plant discoveries
• Real talk about horse show anxiety and the magic of persistence
• Balancing responsibilities, passions, and social lives as adult horse enthusiasts
• The surprisingly meditative nature of horses' daily routines
• Why daydreaming about trips and horse shows is actually good for mental health
• The absurdity (and necessity) of braiding and show prep
• How to manage anxiety, expectations, and maintaining authenticity around horses
• Offbeat insights into the lives of cats, dogs, and other beloved companions while traveling

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Ever wonder what your horses really think? Or how a trip to Alaska turned into a real-life reality show? Buckle up, because this episode is part confessional, part how-to, with a healthy sprinkle of "wait, did that really just happen?"

In this episode:

• The power of authenticity and ditching "book event Heather" for your real self
• The wild, weird, and wonderful world of horse care, from hoof drama to boundary setting
• The importance of book cover control and keeping your sanity in the horse world

Timestamps:

00:00 - Why the first words out of your mouth matter more than you think

00:10 - From Patreon to OnlyFans: the weird world of online content

00:45 - Authenticity wins: lessons from trips, conferences, and real life

01:55 - How I turned a tired horse trip into a confidence booster

05:52 - You’re not a celebrity, but you can feel like one (sometimes)

09:05 - When books, booties, and beefy men all collide: the art of cover veto rights

11:00 - Shopping, leather jackets, and feeling fabulous (horse included)

13:00 - Alaska adventures: wildlife, native tribes, and being Raven or Eagle in the clan

15:00 - Land clearing chaos: the truth about debris, permits, and wildlife disturbances

17:00 - The surprising mental health benefits of a simple 20-minute walk with your horse

19:30 - The crazy stalker stories that remind us: horse world is full of surprises

22:00 - Horse care horror stories: hoof abscesses from crazy weather and fill-in vets

24:00 - How to handle unresponsive farriers and landmines in your schedule

28:00 - Why regulation matters and how to maintain control over your horse’s image

33:00 - The race for the perfect horse cover (with a pee picture to prove it)

37:00 - Protect your horses from chaos: the importance of boundaries & leadership

42:00 - The dark side of horse community: stalking, abuse, and the need for better rules

48:00 - Rethinking horse training: the importance of rest, recovery, and smart work routines

54:00 - Liberty work fun: making your own rules and avoiding overcomplication

58:00 - Building trust through consistent signals and energy—no fancy gestures needed

63:00 - How to handle naughty or anxious horses—chances are, they’re just trying to tell you something

66:00 - Why a good horse is a reflection of a good human

And remember:

Be authentic, set boundaries, and never underestimate the power of a well-timed “Whoa”!

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

On this episode of the Adulting with Horses podcast, Heather and Natalie embrace the chaos of modern life: they dish on everything from DVDs on a nostalgia kick to the madness of Kentucky cross country and barn cat obsession, all with their signature wit and humor.

• The lost art of DVDs and the nostalgia of physical media.
• Generational shifts: Elder Millennials, Gen Z, and the decline of patience.
• The wild world of Kentucky cross country — rain, retirements, and unruly dogs
• The chaos of balancing book launches, vacations, and pet rescue missions.
• Social media authenticity vs AI-generated content — how to stay real in a digital age.
• Kentucky's trade fair finds — from quirky product finds to the latest in equestrian gear.

For our special videos episode and bonus content, make sure to join our Patreon!

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Join Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert for a lively and insightful conversation covering horse tack hoarding, saddle fitting, personal growth, and upcoming events. Discover practical tips, humorous anecdotes, and inspiring stories from the world of equestrian life.

Key topics

• Horse tack hoarding and organization
• Saddle fitting and maintenance
• Personal growth and self-awareness in riding
• Upcoming equestrian events and book launches

Chapters

00:00 Morning Conversations and Caffeine Fixes

02:52 Unpacking and Tack Hoarding

05:57 Saddle Pads and Comfort in Riding

08:57 Fashion and Functionality in Equestrian Gear

12:03 The Emotional Connection to Tack and Gear

14:57 Saddle Fit and Horse Comfort

19:35 Regular Care for Horses

22:07 The Joy of Matching Outfits

26:29 Teenage Lessons in Authority

30:51 The Influence of Horses on Youth

34:59 Building Confidence Around Horses

38:42 The Magic of Night Gardens

41:06 Meeting the Horses: A Special Moment

42:29 Embracing Our Dark Sides

45:20 Traveling and Parenting: The Balancing Act

49:33 Creative Processes and Writing Updates

55:54 Upcoming Events and Exciting Plans

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert discuss on their 80th episode, their recent travel adventures, book tours, riding experiences, and the importance of self-care and strategic planning in life and equestrian pursuits.

Join Heather and Natalie as they explore the joys and challenges of horse training, the magic of social media connections, and their personal adventures in travel and gardening. This episode offers practical insights, heartfelt stories, and a celebration of community and self-care.

Keywords

Travel, Book Tour, Equestrian, Riding, Self-Care, Planning, Family, Vacation, Book Promotion horse training, social media community, travel, gardening, horse training techniques, friendship, self-care, outdoor living, horse behavior, personal growth

Topics

• Travel and vacation experiences
• Book tour and promotion strategies
• Riding and horse training updates Horse training techniques and philosophies
• The role of social media in creating community
• Personal growth through travel and hobbies

Chapters

00:00 Vacation Adventures and Family Dynamics

02:58 Travel Tips and Tricks

06:02 Hormonal Conversations and Health Insights

08:59 Book Tour Experiences and Author Insights

12:00 Community Engagement and Reader Connections

15:03 Self-Promotion and Balancing Work-Life

20:58 Riding and Equestrian Reflections

21:41 Navigating Change: Moving to a New Barn

23:01 First Ride Back: Overcoming Fear and Trusting Your Horse

25:32 Finding Balance: The Dynamics of Horse and Rider

27:50 Jumping Back In: The Excitement of Training

30:00 The Joy of Sharing: Introducing New Riders to Horses

31:57 The Thrill of Thoroughbreds: Rediscovering Athleticism

34:03 Engaging Training: Keeping Horses Interested

35:46 Innovative Training Techniques: Learning from Others

38:56 Building Trust: The Importance of Communication with Horses

41:57 Understanding Horse Behavior: The Pecking Order in the Barn

44:43 The Chaos of Horse Routines

47:15 Childhood Memories and Horse Barn Antics

51:08 Cruising Adventures and Culinary Experiences

54:40 Friendship and Community in the Digital Age

01:00:12 Balancing Travel and Relaxation

01:01:37 Gardening Dreams and Nature's Wonders

01:05:38 Bats, Mosquitoes, and Nature's Balance

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Most of us are terrible at setting boundaries around our time, body, and energy—until we realize the chaos we're avoiding by not doing it. Heather and Natalie share hilarious, brutally honest stories about life’s little emergencies, travel mishaps, and the unspoken truths of adulting that no one tells you. From DIY house fixes gone wrong, to the chaos of managing horses, kids, and career, they reveal how even the smallest wins—locking the door on time, sneaking out early from a concert, or saying no to a late-night meeting—are real acts of self-care.

In this episode, you'll discover: how to handle unexpected house emergencies without losing your mind, the surprising science behind regaining muscle after a break from riding, and why managing your energy—not just your schedule—is the key to feeling unstoppable. Heather and Natalie laugh through tales of travel chaos, barn battles, and the hilarious truths of juggling motherhood, horses, and personal growth. They break down simple routines to avoid disasters like plumbing leaks or missed flights, and share tips for prioritizing your well-being when life seems to conspire against you.

Perfect for overwhelmed women striving for balance, this episode offers practical, no-nonsense strategies to turn chaos into calm and guilt into grace. Whether you're trying to get back in the saddle, escape the morning rush, or simply find moments of peace in a busy life, Heather and Natalie remind you: you’re not alone, and a little adulting wins go a long way.

Tune in for a dose of humor, honesty, and inspiration—because sometimes, just surviving the week is a victory in itself. Get ready to laugh, learn, and feel empowered to take control of your chaos before it takes control of you.

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this engaging conversation, Heather Wallace and Natalie Keller Reinert explore the emotional journey of homeownership, the chaos of book events, and the burdens of adulting. They share personal anecdotes about their experiences in the equestrian world, the importance of self-care, and the struggles of meeting deadlines in their creative pursuits.

The discussion highlights the balance between work and passion, the impact of weather on riding, and the common excuses that arise in their lives. Through humor and relatability, they navigate the complexities of their journeys as equestrians, authors, and individuals.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Homeownership and Personal Growth

02:58 The Chaos of Book Events and Author Life

08:51 Adulting and the Burden of Responsibilities

11:56 Excuses and Justifications in Equestrian Life

14:56 Finding Balance Between Work and Passion

18:05 The Impact of Weather on Riding

29:55 The Reality of Work-Life Balance

33:09 Networking and Collaboration in the Equine Community

36:15 Exciting Events and Opportunities in Lexington

47:11 Pursuing Education and Personal Growth

01:01:04 Travel Adventures and Future Plans

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Keywords

homeownership, personal growth, book events, author life, fame, recognition, adulting, responsibilities, equestrian life, excuses, self-care, time management, writing, creative process, deadlines, work-life balance, equine community, networking, personal growth, education, parenting, time management, creative inspiration, travel, events, Lexington

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this live episode, Heather Wallace, Natalie Keller Reinert, and Ashley Winch come together for a fun and chaotic discussion about their lives, adulting, and the equestrian world. They kick off the conversation with a humorous introduction, referencing their previous holiday hijinks episode and the idea of bringing chaos to their listeners through a live stream. The trio shares personal anecdotes, including Heather's recent experiences with Rice Krispie treats for dinner and the stress of closing on a house while preparing for the Westminster Dog Show. They also touch on the challenges of adulting, the weather, and the quirks of their horses, leading to a light-hearted exploration of their lives as horse enthusiasts.

As the conversation unfolds, the group welcomes surprise guest Nichole Chiciro of Horse & Rider, and dives into various topics, including the differences in their living situations, the absurdity of horse names, and the unique personalities of their equine companions. They share laughs over their horses' antics and the challenges of managing them in unpredictable weather.

The episode captures the essence of friendship, humor, and the relatable chaos of adulting, all while celebrating their love for horses and the equestrian lifestyle. In this lively episode, the hosts engage in a humorous and candid discussion about their experiences with horses, personal anecdotes, and the quirks of adulting. They share stories about their horses' personalities, particularly focusing on a mare who has strong opinions about her companions and life in general. The conversation flows into light-hearted banter about travel mishaps, the challenges of social media, and the joys of drinking and shopping. As they navigate through various topics, the camaraderie among the hosts shines through, making for an entertaining and relatable episode.

Keywords adulting, horses, equestrian, podcast, humor, chaos, horse names, weather, friendship, lifestyle, horses, adulting, travel stories, equestrian life, humor, personal anecdotes, horse personalities, social media, friendships, podcast

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Holiday Hijinks

01:52 Adulting Adventures and Chaos

05:55 Introducing Nichole and Her Background

10:01 Food, Drinks, and Equestrian Stories

13:59 Horse Mishaps and Personal Anecdotes

15:47 Horse Transformations and Quirky Names

19:32 Superstitions Around Changing Horse Names

21:02 Barn Fitness vs. Gym Fitness

26:01 Weather Woes and Equestrian Life

33:19 The Opinionated Mare

34:44 Travel Tales and Packing Tips

38:23 Nostalgia and Old Photos

41:10 Traveling with Style

48:41 Never Have I Ever: Equestrian Edition

49:23 Playing Never Have I Ever

52:11 Horse-Related Anecdotes

56:09 Caffeine and Cold Brew Conversations

01:00:26 Adulting Wins of the Week

01:01:39 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Us

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

In this engaging conversation, Natalie and Heather explore various themes related to self-care, equine care, and personal growth. They discuss the challenges of equine expos, the importance of morning routines, and the balance between work and personal life. The conversation also delves into riding techniques, understanding horse behavior, and the significance of setting boundaries. With a light-hearted tone, they share personal anecdotes and insights, emphasizing the joy found in simple things and the power of authenticity.

Keywords

self-care, equine expos, horse riding, personal growth, boundaries, adulting wins, bitless riding, mare energy, confidence, sleep, work-life balance

Takeaways

• Morning routines set the tone for the day.
• Equine expos can be overwhelming but rewarding.
• Riding techniques can improve with practice and patience.
• Balancing work and personal life is essential for well-being.
• Sleep is crucial for productivity and mental health.
• Understanding horse behavior enhances riding experience.
• Confidence in riding comes from practice and self-awareness.
• Adulting wins can be found in small achievements.
• Setting boundaries is important for personal growth.
• Embracing the energy of mares can inspire strength and determination.

Chapters

00:00 Morning Routines and Self-Care

02:57 The Challenges of Equine Expos

06:01 Understanding Horse Behavior and Circadian Rhythms

09:03 Balancing Work and Personal Life

12:05 Planning for Family Adventures

14:57 Exploring Bitless Riding and Training Techniques

19:57 Understanding Riding Dynamics

27:55 The Importance of Body Positioning

32:15 Managing Anxiety and Riding Confidence

40:53 Living Arrangements and Personal Space

41:49 Building Confidence Through Horses

42:18 Learning Boundaries from Horses

43:24 Listening to Horses: A Case Study

44:48 Embracing Mare Energy

47:31 The Power of Mares in Performance

49:58 Adulting Wins and Personal Growth

52:00 Exciting Life Updates and Future Plans

54:38 Finding Joy in Simple Pleasures

56:56 Authenticity in Podcasting

Links:

www.adultingwithhorsespodcast.com

Instagram @adultingwithhorsespodcast

Twitter @AdultingHorses

Facebook Group, The Clubhouse: https://www.facebook.com/groups/adultingwithhorsespodcast/

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast

Thank you for being a little weird with us, horse girl! If you like what you hear make sure to subscribe to the podcast on your player of choice, join our Adulting with Horses Clubhouse on Facebook where you can become part of the show! Also, it’s a great place to meet other horse crazy women. Thanks and see you next time!

If you like what you hear but want a little more, become a Patreon member for extra bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes content with video, and more! https://www.patreon.com/AdultingWithHorsesPodcast