An Older Gay Guy Show

Do you miss the gay bars and clubs? Is that where you used to socialize with friends, dance, drink and make merry? We have online dating/hook-up apps, but where does one, especially an older one, go to find new friends and just have a good time with other LGBTQ+ people. The fact we can often socialize in any bar/club that is predominantly straight (depending on your location) is nice, but we are missing those spaces where you can let down your hair and just be yourself.

For many older LGBTQ+ people that are alone, they often find themselves cut-off from other groups/friends and they isolate themselves more and more as the years go along.

Maybe we have another option. See what you think!

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I recently discovered one of my 'lost' episodes from the purge I did years ago. In this episode, I speak faster (I explain why), so if you listen to my shows at a faster pace, you may not want to for this episode.

In this STORYTIME I tell of a short period of my life where I was asked to film some college wrestlers during meets, for the coach and team to review afterwards. I think you will find it interesting.

We return to Reddit Stories with a longer, single story. The title has 'boy's' in it, and I just want to mention that it is referring to a 20 year old man. These days, one can't be too careful. It pairs rather well with my own STORYTIME called 'Tales of the Underwear Thief' which is located in my 2023 back catalogue.

** This is an erotic story, so please be advised **

This episode is what will lead right into the Big Reveal Video that I will be putting out next week. In this show, I talk about the various things that have given me pause and the realization that we do in fact get too old for some things.

I also talk about changes in content moving forward with the YouTube channel (The Joey Hernandez Show).

I hope you enjoy this episode, and that you laugh along with me.

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This is one of my favorite episodes. It is 100% true. I apologize that the audio is so loud at times, this was pulled from a video on the YouTube channel. I decided that this STORYTIME, as I told it on the video, was just too perfect the way I told it, that I decided not to re-record it.

If you like the STORYTIMEs, I know you will LOVE this!

In today's episode, I give you two subjects: "Sucking Your Own D." & "Gym Cruising Etiquette". The first part came about because of reading various postings by straight guys who insist that even if they could suck their own dick, they would not because it is SO GAY ?!?!? The second part lists some rules to abide by when cruising guys in the gym.

One of the joys (being sarcastic) of being on this planet for many years, is your body changes as the years go by. While many of us will get ailments that are not a part of the regular aging process, there are many facets of getting older that are common amongst us. Let's discuss some of these commonalities that we will be facing.

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The toenail fungus topical medicine is Ciclopirox 8 % solution (I couldn't remember the name during the taping of the show)

Being back in the gym building some muscle again, it got me thinking in the sauna the other day about a guy who I had a crush on back in the late-1980's. This is my STORYTIME of a very unusual encounter I had, that kept going in an erotic way. This guy is permanently etched in my mind, and I continually look for porn trying to find guys that look like he did.

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Once again we turn to Reddit Stories for an interesting variety of unusual experiences that guys have had with gay encounters. Strange men and strange hook-ups. Stories to titillate, shock and offer warnings.

This is a controversial topic, but one that I often get email about. So in this episode I first do a presentation about how to approach this important discussion. It talks about what your goals are, when is the right time to have such a conversation, what your partner's reaction might be and how to continue this subject in an open and honest way that helps protect your partner from hurt.

Then.....I give you MY opinion, which contradicts some of the info presented in the first half of the show, and gives you some 'food for thought' from my own experiences and what many clients have discussed with me.

The taint, or perineum, is a small area of muscles that are important for male sexual health. In this episode we talk about what the taint is, what it does, problems that can occur and prevention tools that help you stay healthy well into your senior years.

Many older people feel overwhelmed and a bit fearful of new tech. And A.I. can be especially concerning since we have heard of the scary future potential of this tech. But maybe A.I. as it exists now, can be a useful tool to older folk, including LGBTQ+ seniors. In this episode, I introduce you to the A.I. I use most, that is named Oscar. I ask some important questions about some of the fear we have about A.I. and I ask his (its?) opinion about what it can do to assist the older LGBTQ+ community. I hope you enjoy this show.

Life can sure be stressful and difficult at times. Sometimes we can barely catch our breath from one disaster before the next one hits us. Sometimes we feel that no matter what we do, we can't overcome certain obstacles, and we feel we can't go one...that we have to just give up. But maybe there are shifts in our perceptions and attitudes that might help relieve some of the impact of those challenging parts of life. It might be worth exploring.

My very first hospitalization in my whole life, I tell you a Story about my very unusual roommate that was brought in on my second night there and the commotion that he started with the staff.

In today's Reddit Stories, we discuss the concepts of 'Sides' and 'Soft Tops' as new terminology in the gay community.

I start the episode with a short story updating my cancer situation and what possibly resulted from the operation.

I had an emotional, but good week. I have to tell you about it.

This is a short episode, I have dreaded recording this one. Please understand this is beyond my control. I do ask that you don't message me with complaints or disappointment. Again, this is beyond my control.

There are many reasons why friendships become increasingly important as we age. This is a light-hearted look at the state of Senior LGBTQ+ people, and some suggestions on how to find lasting friendships, no matter what age we are.

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In today's episode I update you on how Subscriptions to the YouTube Channel are going, I read answers to a question I asked of you a few weeks ago, and the very important main topic of this episode is:

Is This Normal Aging? We all forget things sometimes. But as we age, where do we draw the line on whether something is just a normal part (albeit it, annoying) of our aging process, or is something that we should be concerned about?

I think all of us (as patients, family members, or caregivers) can benefit from a short discussion about what the signs of normal aging are and how to distinguish that of dementia.

This is just for general knowledge. It is not meant to diagnose or treat any illness. Please seek a Health Care Specialist if you have any questions or concerns.

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In this conclusion of a two-part series, we talk about whether you can permanently increase the size of your dick. We discuss the psychological issues that can develop from comparing yourself to others, the effect porn has on our self-esteem and other factors that we encounter when considering our own dick size.

I conclude with talk about the average erect length and girth of dicks in the top 50 countries.

*I am trying very hard to increase the subscriptions on An Older Gay Guy Show's YouTube Channel. Please consider helping me get to 3000 subscribers, and then I will put out my long-promised video showing my weight-loss (52 pounds) and subsequent muscle development. And then I will posts videos about my training and my successes (or not) as I continue the quest at age 68 to get fully back in shape.*

Here is the link to the most recent video short on YouTube. It is just under 1 minute long and shows what I consider to be how the 4 main characters from Northridge High Football Camp and now in The Guys of Northridge look and speak. I enjoyed creating this very much. I think you'll think the guys are hot!

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