Blended, Blessed & Always A Mess

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No agenda this week, just Angie and Aric catching up, a week late. They missed last week because of a sick kid, a funeral and a packed weekend.

In this episode:

• Why we skipped a week: Angie was in Florida for a leadership offsite when one of her kids got sick. Because of his dad's cancer treatment, he had to recover on his own, and she struggled to relax while away.
• Grief out of nowhere: At a family funeral for a 98-year-old great uncle, Angie was hit by sadness over Hallie, who was only 20. She talks about how grief shows up unexpectedly, and about the hard stretch from November through Hallie's birthday in January.
• A full-circle moment: The fourth Mizzou Kafner scholarship dinner in Hallie's honor. This year Hallie's cousin Brooklyn was one of the recipients.
• A podcast rejection: Angie shares why another grief and faith podcast turned her down as a guest. The reason was a little profanity.
• 900 miles: Aric is closing in on his goal of walking or jogging 1,000 miles this year, and the two debate who should join his final stretch.
• Fun updates: Nobody Wants This season three, what's coming to their watchlist in November, Carter's unusual birthday request, and a family road trip to see Garth Brooks.

Angie and Aric are also open to speaking events and podcast guests.

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Making hard choices, letting go, and finding the courage to start again. ❤️ We’re talking about closing Sevens Boutique, starting with a blank page, and learning to move forward even when fear, grief, and uncertainty come along for the ride.

Because courage doesn’t mean you aren’t afraid. It means you take the next step anyway.

🎙️ Listen to the full episode of Blended, Blessed & Always a Mess now! If you’ve ever struggled with letting go, feared failure, or wondered what comes next, this conversation is for you. Tune in, and let’s navigate the messiness of life together!

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If you’ve been gripping too tight lately, save this and send it to someone who needs the reminder.This week looked like a storm we couldn’t stop:

• a hurricane headed toward a house we love
• hard things with our kids we can’t fix
• plans that didn’t line up the way we wanted

And honestly? The shift happened when I stopped asking, “How do I control this?”
I started asking, “What can I actually do here?” Usually, the answer is smaller than my fear.

Care deeply.
Show up.
Pray.

Then let God handle the part I was never meant to carry.That’s the hard part - and the freeing part.What are you trying to control that was never yours to hold?

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A three-mile walk turns into a breakthrough about grief, purpose, and what it really means to be a family. Angie and Aric share how one simple birthday decision opened the door to the deepest conversations they have had with their kids since Hallie died.What starts as a chaotic week - a missed food order, a tired running joke, and a need for a reset - becomes something far bigger: a powerful reminder that presence can be purpose. As the family walks side by side at sunset, they uncover conversations that would never happen at a dinner table, including Chase’s speech about loss, what is happening beneath the surface in their home, and why their blended family’s strongest moments often arrive when nobody is rushing anywhere.

You’ll hear:

• Why a walk-and-talk can unlock honesty with your kids, spouse, or partner
• How Angie and Aric use simple routines to build connection in a blended family
• The emotional weight of revisiting places tied to Hallie, and the unexpected comfort of signs that seem to show up at exactly the right time
• How a message from a stranger, four years later, proves that telling one story can keep rippling outward
• Why purpose does not always arrive as a giant revelation - sometimes it looks like being physically present, one step at a time

Angie shares the raw side of grief, including the way joy and heaviness keep trading places, while Aric reflects on how to be still, listen, and make space for tears instead of trying to fix the moment. Together, they connect that experience back to the larger question so many people are asking right now: what am I actually here to do?If you’ve been craving clarity, dealing with grief, or trying to build deeper connection in your family, this conversation offers a grounded, faith-filled reminder that you do not need a neon sign to move forward. Sometimes the next right thing is just taking the walk.

Perfect for anyone looking for hope, practical family connection, or a fresh way to think about purpose.

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Two good things, one hard choice. That was our week. And honestly, this is life a lot of the time. Drop a ❤️ if you’ve been there—choosing between two things you both deeply love. One moment I was celebrating the little joys: a peaceful beach day, family time, and being present in the moment. The next, I was facing a real choice:

• Be there for my daughter
• Or attend an event I had poured my heart into all year

I didn’t love the decision. But I knew my values had already answered it for me. Not every hard choice is between right and wrong. Sometimes it’s between two good things, and you have to ask: What am I really called to protect in this season?

Maybe that’s the real work of growth—making choices that match your values, even when it hurts.What would you choose?

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Angie and Aric expose the real meaning of intimacy—and why grief, marriage, and a horse named Phoenix are all part of the same conversation.

What if the intimacy you think you’re missing is already there—you’re just measuring it wrong?

Angie and Aric unpack a raw, honest conversation about marriage, vulnerability, and the gap between how men and women often define closeness, then connect it to the deeper work of sitting with each other instead of fixing each other.

They share the TikTok that stopped Angie in her tracks, the words that made her feel seen, and the hard truth behind why this topic can spark tension fast. You’ll hear how intimacy can look like asking “What do you need right now?”, staying present in someone’s breakdown, remembering the small things, and creating safety without trying to solve everything.

Then the episode shifts into one of their most moving updates yet: Phoenix, the horse tied to Hallie’s legacy, and the young girl who’s now carrying that dream forward.

Angie and Aric talk about the pain and beauty of watching another child ride the horse Hallie loved, the signs they keep seeing everywhere, and what it means to honor grief while still making room for joy.They also take you to a memorial barrel race filled with emotional firsts, unexpected signs, and a rainbow that felt impossible to ignore. Along the way, they get real about travel quirks, hotel-bed compromises, bad driving habits, and the funny ways marriage reveals both your strengths and your mess.

Angie and Aric are speaking directly to anyone navigating marriage, loss, or the strange beauty of learning to hold joy and grief at the same time. If you need a reminder that intimacy is deeper than touch, that healing is messy, and that love can still move forward after loss, this one will stay with you.Perfect for couples, grieving hearts, and anyone who needs a little honesty, comfort, and connection today.

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When one spouse needs space while the other needs closeness, marriage can quickly become a painful cycle.

Angie and Aric have an honest conversation about intimacy, rejection, grief, and the difference between not wanting sex and not wanting your partner.

They explore how couples can rebuild connection through compassion, communication, and small acts of intimacy—even during difficult seasons of marriage.

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In this episode of Blended Blessed and Always a Mess, Angie and Eric are recording on location at the Lake of the Ozarks and getting real about one of the biggest things that can show up in marriage: triggers.

What starts as a conversation about family, finances, and everyday habits turns into an honest discussion about scarcity mentality, feeling limited, responsibility, and how past experiences shape the way we respond to stress.

They also talk about how loss, parenting, and different perspectives can create tension — even in a strong relationship — and why learning to listen with understanding matters so much.This episode is full of real-life marriage moments, raw honesty, and a reminder that healthy relationships aren’t built by never triggering each other, but by learning how to become safe places for one another.

If you’ve ever felt misunderstood in marriage or struggled to navigate different perspectives with your spouse, this conversation will feel very real.

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A brutally honest, funny, and unexpectedly emotional conversation about the things that keep a family going - from the TV show that has everyone glued to the couch to the real-life moments that still hit hard long after the microphone is off.Angie and Aric start with their latest binge obsession, Shrinking on Apple TV, and why it lands so perfectly: it’s hilarious, smart, full of grief and friendship, and the rare show that actually makes them laugh out loud. They also share a handful of other favorites for your next watchlist, including Ted Lasso, The Madison, Landman, and Virgin River.

Then the episode turns into a classic house-and-heart update: Carter’s move into his first apartment, his growing confidence at Mizzou, the radio debut he’s worked toward, and the very relatable chaos of parents “upgrading” bedrooms the minute a kid leaves home. What starts as a simple room refresh turns into a hilarious discovery under a bed - and a reminder that teenage boys are always hiding something.The deeper center of the episode is Angie and Aric’s recap of speaking at True North’s Men as Allies event.

They open up about revising their message, standing in front of 350 men, and why the response meant so much. Angie shares a powerful story about how speaking candidly about red flags and unhealthy relationships helped one young woman leave a harmful relationship, while Aric reflects on trying to build a relationship with Hallie fast enough after so much time had already been lost.

You’ll also hear about the emotional whiplash that follows those moments, the meaningful coincidence of the event date, and a surprising story about Carter’s “Hallie’s messing with me” sign from the apartment where she once lived. It’s the kind of episode that moves from laughter to tears to goosebumps without warning.

Angie and Aric are the voices behind Blended, Blessed and Always a Mess, a couple navigating marriage, parenting, grief, and everyday life with humor and honesty.

Their story is especially resonant for parents, blended families, and anyone trying to make sense of loss while still finding reasons to laugh.Perfect for anyone who wants a real conversation that is equal parts funny, heartfelt, and deeply human - with a great TV recommendation thrown in for good measure.

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What does a father owe the women in his life before the warning signs become heartbreak? Angie and Aric turn a live speaking invitation into one of the most important conversations they’ve ever prepared: how vulnerability, honesty, and uncomfortable conversations can protect daughters, wives, sisters, and friends before it’s too late.

Angie opens with a deeply personal story about Hallie, the relationship red flags that were hard to name in real time, and the painful truth that many unhealthy relationships begin with isolation, manipulation, and silence long before they turn violent. Aric then adds his own perspective as a man learning that real strength is not staying quiet - it’s showing up, admitting failure, and being willing to have the conversations men are taught to avoid.

You’ll discover:
- Why “healthy love” should never require secrecy, distance from family, or walking on eggshells
- The subtle warning signs parents and loved ones can watch for when a relationship starts going wrong
- How to ask better questions without pushing someone away
- Why daughters often need to hear hard truths from their fathers
- What it looks like for men to lead with vulnerability instead of silence

Angie shares practical red flags to listen for, from sudden withdrawal and constant excuses to shrinking confidence and fear of a partner’s reaction. Aric expands the message to sons, husbands, friends, and mentors, making the case that one honest conversation can change the trajectory of a life.

This episode is for any parent, man, or loved one who wants to show up better and learn how to recognize danger before it becomes devastation. If you care about protecting the people you love, this conversation will stay with you long after it ends.
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Certainty is overrated - the real strength comes from trusting God when you do not know what happens next. Angie and Aric share a deeply honest conversation about faith, surrender, and how to keep moving when the future feels unclear. They unpack the difference between chasing control and building trust, and why the most powerful prayer is sometimes the simplest: "I don't know, God, but you know."

If you have ever felt weighed down by unanswered questions, this episode offers a grounding reminder that you do not have to have every answer to keep going. Angie and Aric talk through how to hold goals without clinging to outcomes, how to carry what you are given with strength, and why uncertainty does not have to cancel peace.

Their conversation makes room for real life, real struggle, and a faith that does not depend on having tomorrow figured out.You'll hear a practical, heartfelt reflection on trusting God in seasons where the path is unclear and the problems are different for everyone. It is a conversation about resilience, perspective, and the kind of prayer that helps you release what you cannot control.Perfect for anyone navigating uncertainty, needing encouragement, or looking for a faith-centered reset, this episode is a reminder that not knowing is not the same as being alone.

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In this episode of Blended, Blessed & Always a Mess, we sit down with our friend Tara Cory to talk about grief, loss, and the unexpected ways pain can lead to purpose. After losing her mom, nephew, and brother-in-law, Tara discovered a deeper calling through photography—capturing precious moments for families walking through unimaginable loss.

We talk about the messy reality of grief, why the ordinary moments become the most treasured memories, and why sometimes the greatest purpose can grow from our deepest pain.

Take the picture. Say “I love you.” Show up. Don’t wait for tomorrow. ❤️

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Tiny hummingbirds, signs from heaven, and the power of surrender—this episode reveals how God's subtle messages and design can carry us through life's heaviest moments. When loss, anxiety, and grief threaten to drown you, discovering the miraculous in everyday moments can be a lifeline. Listen as hosts Angie and Aric share personal stories that remind us: we're stronger than we think, guided by a presence that never leaves us alone.In this honest, flowy conversation, you'll learn how a sign from Hallie at her half birthday, a hummingbird crossing the ocean, or a simple message about masks can unlock divine comfort during the darkest times. Angie reflects on how tiny creatures like hummingbirds showcase God's incredible design—flying over two thousand miles with instinct and strength, just enough for their journey—and how that’s exactly how we’re built too. You'll discover the importance of shedding masks, sharing your real story, and trusting that God's timing and signs are always for our good.We break down: the significance of divine signs and how they offer peace and reassurance, practical ways to embrace vulnerability and authenticity in grief, and the reminder that our strength comes from surrender—not control. Without knowing it, many of us are carrying invisible burdens—masks hiding our true feelings—and this episode encourages you to let them go, even if just for a moment, to find hope and connection.

Why does all this matter? Because grief is never linear, and the world may tell you to move on, but divine moments and signs keep you tethered to hope amid heartbreak. Recognizing that God uses small, everyday miracles to comfort us, and understanding that even tiny birds perform impossible feats by His design, can transform despair into hope.

This is essential listening for anyone navigating loss, anxiety, or simply needing a reminder that they are not alone in their journey.Perfect for those seeking faith-based reassurance, individuals grappling with grief, or anyone craving encouragement to trust God's unseen hand—this episode invites you to witness the divine in daily life and to consider how your own story might inspire others.

Open your heart, take off the mask, and discover how divine strength is available for today’s impossible journey.

Thanks for listening!!! Angie & Aric

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In this week’s episode of Blended Blessed and Always a Mess, Angie and Aric sit down for a first-ever mailbag-style conversation with a newly blended couple navigating the early stages of family life together.

The discussion gets real fast as they talk about the challenges of blending households, honoring each child’s emotions, setting boundaries with exes, and building routines that create stability instead of chaos.

They share hard-earned lessons about parenting differently, learning each child’s unique needs, and staying consistent through the messy middle of family transitions.From practical tips to candid reflections on communication, discipline, and patience, this episode offers encouragement for anyone in a blended family.

The big takeaway: blending takes time, grace, and a long-game mindset.

Tune in for a hopeful and honest conversation about what it really takes to build a healthy blended family.

Thanks for listening! Angie & Aric

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Are your quiet seasons a sign you're lonely — or growing? 🤔 Sometimes, silence is the best sign of wellness.

We tend to think loneliness equals being alone, but sometimes, it’s the season of healing and peace.
In our latest chat, we talk about how not having a busy social calendar doesn't mean we’re lonely — it often means we’re intentionally focused on our health, faith, and family.We live in a world obsessed with noise and activity, but the real growth? It happens when we embrace silence and solitude.

Our house can be loud — and that’s okay — but it’s also peaceful in its own way. Our kids see us just sitting, walking, reading, and think we’re lonely, but actually, we’re growing more connected to what matters.The truth? Surrounding ourselves with quiet, intentional people is what feeds our soul.

So, next time you’re feeling guilty about your quiet season, remember: sometimes the healthiest progress happens in silence.

What’s one thing you’re doing to lean into your season—quiet or busy?

Thanks for listening! Angie & Aric

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The societal pressures and constant digital noise are making it harder than ever for kids to truly thrive—and parents are feeling the weight. In this eye-opening episode, Angie and Aric dissect how social media, AI, and our culture’s obsession with instant opinions are reshaping childhood and adolescence. From the relentless speed of online judgment to the delicate art of teaching discernment, they reveal the quiet skills kids need to navigate a world that’s more complex—and more documented—than ever before.

You'll discover how social media magnifies teenage vulnerabilities, why silence and stillness are crucial for identity formation, and practical ways to build resilience and discernment in your children.

Angie shares powerful insights on the importance of creating safe spaces for failure, emphasizing that real growth happens in the quiet moments when no audience is watching. Aric discusses the ways we can teach our kids to process feelings externally and internally, preventing them from becoming overwhelmed by the endless opinions from the world. This episode explores the vital role of emotional maturity and faith in anchoring kids amidst the chaos. You’ll hear stories that highlight how parents can tune out the noise and reinforce their children’s worth beyond digital validation.

With a focus on fostering self-awareness and confidence grounded in truth, Angie and Aric challenge us to rethink our approach to parenting and mentorship in today’s hyper-connected age.

As always, thanks for listening! Angie & Aric

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Most blended families struggle to find quality time, but what if those moments could actually heal wounds and strengthen bonds?

In this episode, Angie and Aric share insights from their recent family trip — a journey packed with surprises, challenges, and unexpected moments of connection that would give anyone hope. They reveal how leaning into the messy, embracing grief, and making intentional choices can transform a chaotic vacation into a powerful bonding experience.You'll discover how their family navigated the complexities of traveling without a loved one lost too early, plus the rules they’ve created around engagement, respect, and blending generations that keep their family grounded amid the chaos. They break down real moments of tension, humor, and heartfelt reflection — including what it truly takes to turn stressful travel into a lasting memory of unity.

Their story underscores the importance of perseverance, honesty, and humor when blending lives and navigating grief. We also break down practical tips for making family vacations more meaningful — from managing logistics and expectations to intentional conversations about family history, complicated feelings, and new relationships. Angie and Aric emphasize why consistency, patience, and humor matter more than perfect plans when it comes to building the kind of closeness that lasts a lifetime.

This episode isn’t just about family travel — it’s a blueprint for anyone in a blended family striving to create joy amid chaos. Perfect for parents, step-parents, or anyone who’s ever doubted that large, blended family bonds can be deeply secure. If you want to turn your chaotic family moments into stories of resilience and love, this one’s for you.

Get ready to see the beauty in the mess and learn how the hardest moments often create the strongest bonds.

Thanks for listening! Angie & Aric

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Join Aric as he welcomes David Cover to discuss how understanding your identity as a son can transform your approach to fatherhood.

David shares insights on embracing faith to overcome perfectionism and anxiety, revealing how seeing God as a perfect Heavenly Father can reshape your parenting journey.

In this heartfelt conversation, learn practical ways to connect with your kids through small, meaningful moments and how to model love and respect for your spouse.

David discusses the power of grace over guilt, offering wisdom for fathers feeling overwhelmed.This episode is a must-listen for dads seeking deeper connections and spiritual growth, inspiring you to rewrite your fatherhood story with grace and authenticity.

Thanks for always listening! Angie & Aric

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When grief feels like an unending chapter, how do you find space for joy and purpose again?

In this heartfelt episode, Angie and Aric share their raw journey through loss, love, and the delicate art of balancing grief with everyday life. They explore the profound ways horses, family moments, and small acts of connection serve as healing anchors, even amidst the heaviness of grief.

You'll discover how horses mirror human emotions and become an unexpected source of comfort and remembrance after loss. Angie reflects on the significance of simple, intentional moments — a phone call, a shared coffee, or a ride at the barn — as vital ways to nurture resilience. They break down the emotional challenge of letting go, especially as their kids grow and life continues to move forward, often in ways we don’t anticipate.

This episode dives deep into the layers of grief that don’t ever truly fade, and why “moving on” isn’t about forgetting but learning to live with the void while still celebrating life. You’ll hear real insights on handling the complexities of parenting in the shadow of loss, the importance of community, and intentionally creating lighter, more joyful seasons—even in the midst of sorrow.

If you’re navigating grief or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers clarity, hope, and practical perspective on what it means to heal without rushing the process. Angie and Aric remind us that it’s okay for the journey to be nonlinear, and that the small, meaningful moments are what anchor us through the heaviness.

Perfect for anyone facing loss, overwhelmed by life’s surprises, or seeking practical ways to balance grief with living fully. Tune in and find comfort in knowing you’re not alone—and that healing often comes through the quiet, intentional acts of love and resilience.

Thank you for listening! Angie & Aric

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Most families are just one decision away from tragedy. Angie and Aric share their heartbreaking story of losing their daughter Hallie to gun violence—and the devastating truth. Behind every statistic is a family, a future, a life robbed of decades—something we often overlook amid heated debates about guns. This episode cuts through the noise to reveal the simple yet powerful rules of gun safety that could prevent endless suffering.

You’ll discover the staggering reality of gun-related deaths in the US, with over 44,000 lives lost each year—most of them young, and in the Midwest, too. Angie and Aric break down how gun violence touches every community, from mass shootings to domestic accidents, and why even responsible gun owners can’t afford to be complacent.

They share the fundamental safety rules everyone must follow, whether you own guns or simply want to protect your loved ones, emphasizing that safety isn’t political—it’s personal responsibility.We also explore the dangerous trust we place in others, especially around firearms. How assumptions and complacency can alter lives in a split second, and why asking hard questions can save lives.

The episode pushes you to think about the real cost of safe gun ownership—more than just rules, it’s about a culture of accountability. The heartbreaking truth: no matter how much we teach or love, we can’t control other people’s choices—and that’s what makes gun safety prevention so urgent.

Perfect for parents, teachers, gun owners, and anyone committed to reducing gun violence, this episode motivates you to start conversations and act—to protect the generations to come. Because Hallie’s story isn’t just about loss; it’s a call to responsibility that could save lives. Listen now and learn what it really takes to turn awareness into prevention, because lives depend on it.

Thank you for listening! Angie & Aric

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