Community Catalysts

A harsh public criticism. An embarrassing mistake. A difficult decision that will disappoint people. Losing an election.

For local leaders, these experiences can feel threatening. But what if our brains are responding to ordinary challenges as though we're being chased by a tiger?

In this special Election Day episode of Community Catalysts, stress physiologist, author, and speaker Dr. Rebecca Heiss explains how our biology shapes our reactions to uncertainty, criticism, and conflict, and why stress itself isn't necessarily the enemy.

Together, Rebecca and host Matt Lehrman play a revealing game of "Tiger or Not a Tiger?" and explore practical ways to distinguish genuine danger from discomfort, turn anxiety into productive energy, and use curiosity to interrupt our instinctive reactions.

And Rebecca offers a particularly meaningful insight for public servants: One of the most powerful ways to manage the stress of leadership may be to reconnect with the very people you're trying to serve.

A fascinating and encouraging conversation about what happens when leadership feels threatening, and how we can train ourselves to respond with greater confidence, clarity, and purpose.

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Charlie Frye arrived on the Fredericksburg City Council with something unusual: a handwritten plan in a composition book for addressing gun violence in his community.

A shooting near his son's school bus stop had prompted him to run for office in 2013. Once elected, he shared his idea with a receptive city manager, sparking a voluntary gun giveback program that recently became the basis for a new Virginia state law.

But that remarkable journey took more than a decade, a legal challenge, years of persistence, and a consequential relationship with a state legislator.

Charlie's experience raises an important question for every local elected official: How much can you accomplish on your own when the authority to act belongs to the governing body or professional staff?

In this return visit to Community Catalysts, Charlie reveals how personal initiative, persistence, and relationships can turn one council member's idea into something far bigger than he ever imagined.

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Imagine arriving at work tomorrow morning to discover that your organization's computer network is simply gone.

What stops working?

If you lead a city, county, school district, or other public organization, the answer may be far more consequential than you realize. And that raises some uncomfortable questions.

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How long could your organization actually function without its technology?

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At what point does an IT failure become a public safety emergency?

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Why might a small community be an easier target than a major city?

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How is artificial intelligence changing what attackers are capable of doing?

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And perhaps most importantly: If cybersecurity is managed by the IT department, who actually owns the risk?

Chad Goodhue has spent more than 25 years in public-sector technology. In this conversation, he takes cybersecurity out of the server room and puts it where it belongs: among the leadership responsibilities of anyone entrusted with keeping a community functioning.

You don't need to understand technology to follow this conversation. But if you're responsible for a community, you should know which questions to ask.

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Karen Corbett Sanders has built a career across international business, technology, public education, and elected service, with relationships and listening as a constant thread.

Drawing on experiences from corporate boardrooms in Europe to eight years on the Fairfax County School Board, Karen reflects on why leaders need to slow down, create space to think, and listen beyond the loudest voices. She explores the important transition from campaigning to governing, the courage it takes to say "I need to think about this," and why strong communities depend on relationships built long before a difficult decision demands them.

Today, Karen helps bring elected leaders from across Northern Virginia together to learn from one another, build relationships across jurisdictional boundaries, and tackle regional challenges no community can solve alone.

Her advice for getting started is wonderfully simple: Pick up the phone.

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Jeremy Nunes was a stand-up comedian looking for an extra $75 a month when he decided to run for his small-town board. Two years later, campaigning as "a real joker in office," he was elected mayor of Dawson, Illinois.

Then the joke got serious.

A broken water main threatened the town's water supply. Flooding put its water plant at risk. Residents resisted change. A pig got loose on Main Street. And the job Jeremy thought might take five hours a week sometimes demanded six or seven hours a day.

In this funny and surprisingly thoughtful conversation, Jeremy reflects on what happens when someone who never expected to become a civic leader suddenly has people depending on him. He and Matt talk about crisis leadership, supporting staff, confronting "that's how we've always done it," and learning on the job when there's no manual for what comes next.

Most of all, Jeremy offers a simple reason more people should consider serving their communities: "People did it for you."

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Who owns the problem when no one person or organization is actually in charge?

Philip Falcone represents downtown Riverside, California, a complex ecosystem of residents, businesses, government agencies, cultural institutions, historic infrastructure, and competing community needs. In this conversation, Philip explores what it takes to lead where responsibility is shared: bringing people together who don't report to one another, negotiating with colleagues for limited resources, balancing compassion with economic vitality, and helping people understand problems that local government cannot solve alone. He also shares how losing his family's home in Hurricane Katrina shaped his commitment to public service and his conviction that local government's most fundamental responsibilities are often the ones people barely notice, until something fails.

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What becomes possible when we stop questioning the intentions of people with whom we disagree?

David Ramadan, former member of the Virginia House of Delegates and Professor of Practice at George Mason University, believes relationships are the currency of leadership. Drawing on his journey from war-torn Beirut to elected office in Virginia, David shares how relationships helped him win across party lines, build bipartisan support for election reform, and work productively with people whose politics differed sharply from his own. Along the way, he makes the case that disagreement need not become distrust, that leaders don't need to pretend they know everything, and that the relationships we build before we need them may determine what becomes possible when difficult decisions arrive.

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What does local government look like to someone whose job is to watch it closely, ask difficult questions, and explain its decisions to everyone else?

Mary Ramsey, local government accountability reporter for The Charlotte Observer, offers a journalist's perspective on the people and processes of local government: what accountability means, how reporters decide what is newsworthy, and how shrinking newsroom resources affect what communities see and understand. She also shares what she has learned from watching elected officials up close, including why transparency sometimes means acknowledging what government cannot do, why good leadership cannot be about making everyone happy, and why citizens have a responsibility to pay attention and participate before decisions are made.

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What happens when someone enters public service to improve one part of their community and discovers a responsibility to the whole?

Nick Rutledge, Mayor of Moody, Alabama, began his career as an apprentice carpenter and spent nearly three decades in commercial construction before a desire to improve opportunities for his daughter and other young people drew him into community service, city council, and eventually the mayor's office. In this conversation, Nick shares what construction taught him about leadership, how elected office changed his understanding of why government moves deliberately, and what it means to balance growth with preserving the character of a community. He also explains why he still drives a school bus, why listening matters even when you disagree, and why his approach to leadership begins with a simple conviction: "It's not about me. It's about something bigger than me."

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What if the first responsibility of leadership isn't solving problems, but creating the conditions where people feel safe enough to face them?

Matt Sandoval, CEO of Art Heals Arizona, believes that trust, connection, and resilience begin with one fundamental human need: to be seen and understood. Through arts-based experiences and caring adult mentors, Art Heals Arizona helps young people affected by trauma discover confidence, belonging, and hope for the future.

In this conversation, Matt shares how his work in education, clinical practice, and nonprofit leadership has shaped his belief that organizations are human systems, not just structures to manage. He explains why leaders must seek understanding before action, how to create spaces where people can be honest about challenges, and what attachment teaches us about building stronger relationships.

Matt also offers a powerful perspective on bridging divides in our communities: recognizing that different experiences and perspectives are not weaknesses to overcome, but strengths we need in order to move forward together.

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What does it mean to lead people who deeply value independence while recognizing that no community succeeds alone?

Raised on his family's ranch in rural Wyoming, Governor Mark Gordon learned early that responsibility begins with doing your own work, but leadership grows through trusting neighbors, sharing burdens, and working toward a common purpose. Those lessons have shaped his approach to public service, from local school boards to the Governor's Office.

In this conversation, Governor Gordon reflects on the values that define Wyoming, why humility is as important as self-reliance, and how local leaders can balance independence with collaboration. He also shares why he believes public education is one of government's highest responsibilities, and how Wyoming's RIDE Initiative brings together educators, parents, students, and employers to create more engaging, locally responsive schools. Throughout, he offers practical insights into leadership, community trust, and the enduring value of solving problems together

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What happens when someone driven by personal conviction steps into the broader responsibility of governing an entire community?

Liz Campos came to public service through decades of advocacy on behalf of people with disabilities, environmental justice, and some of Ventura's most vulnerable residents. Elected to the Ventura City Council in 2022, she brings to public office not only a passion for justice, but firsthand experience with disability, housing insecurity, and the challenges many residents face every day.

In this conversation, Campos reflects on the transition from community advocate to elected official, why leadership requires listening even to those who disagree with you, and how personal experience can deepen empathy without narrowing your responsibility to the whole community. She also shares thoughtful insights about public engagement, patience, and the enduring responsibility to ensure every resident has a voice in the decisions that shape their community.

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How do communities build trust, navigate disagreement, and make difficult decisions that people can genuinely support? After nearly a decade as superintendent of Northfield Public Schools, Matt Hillmann is preparing to lead school administrators across Minnesota as the incoming Executive Director of the Minnesota Association of School Administrators. Reflecting on his leadership journey, he shares why meaningful progress depends less on having the right answers than on creating processes that invite people into the work itself.

In this conversation, Hillmann explores how community organizations can align around shared goals, why student voices deserve a genuine place at the table, and how leaders can transform difficult decisions by doing things with people rather than to them. He also offers a thoughtful perspective on the role of forgiveness, trust, and civic dialogue in creating communities where people are willing to participate, learn, and lead together.

Whether you're leading a school district, local government, nonprofit, or neighborhood initiative, this conversation offers practical insights into building stronger communities through participation, humility, and shared ownership.

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What does it take to help young people see themselves as future leaders, public servants, and changemakers?

Sarah Jakle believes leadership begins long before someone runs for office. As founder of the nonprofit DemocraShe, she works with high school girls across the country to build the confidence, resilience, and civic skills needed to participate in public life and help shape their communities.

In this conversation, Jakle shares how self-compassion, emotional resilience, and a sense of belonging can help young people overcome self-doubt and discover the value of their own voice. From teaching students how government works to helping them navigate fear, criticism, and uncertainty, she offers a distinctive approach that blends leadership development with practical tools for personal growth.

Her thoughtful and hopeful perspective reminds us that the future of civic life depends not only on the leaders we elect today, but also on how intentionally we encourage, prepare, and empower the next generation to lead.

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What does it take to lead when people are anxious, frustrated, or losing faith in public institutions?

Mayor Alyia Gaskins believes leadership begins by helping people feel heard. In this conversation, she shares how listening, transparency, and authentic communication can strengthen trust, improve decision-making, and bring communities together during challenging times.

From resident roundtables and daily social media updates to responding to major disruptions affecting her community, Gaskins offers practical lessons on leading with empathy while remaining focused on results. Her thoughtful and energetic approach provides a compelling example of how local leaders can create connection, build confidence, and help people move forward together.

This episode is presented in partnership with the Regional Elected Leaders Initiative (RELI) at George Mason University's Schar School of Policy and Government, which works to strengthen public leadership and regional collaboration across Northern Virginia.

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What happens when a leader holds someone accountable without diminishing them?

In Part 2 of this conversation, Wayne Handley shares a formative experience from early in his law enforcement career that continues to shape how he leads today. What began as a professional mistake became a powerful lesson in mentorship, trust, and leadership.

Drawing on his experiences in law enforcement, counseling, and local government, Wayne reflects on emotional intelligence, workplace stress, and the responsibility leaders have to develop the people around them.

At its core, this conversation is a reminder that leadership is not about authority. It is about helping others grow, recover from setbacks, and become their best selves.

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What is a leader's first responsibility? Drawing on lessons from the Marine Corps, law enforcement, counseling, and local government, Wayne Handley, PhD, shares one of the most important insights of his leadership journey: leaders are responsible for both mission accomplishment and the welfare of their people. And sometimes, the mission is the welfare of the people.

In this first part of a two-part conversation, Wayne reflects on leading a police department through low morale, internal division, and diminished public trust. He shares practical lessons about rebuilding culture, earning trust, developing people, and modeling the behavior leaders hope to see in others.

A thoughtful conversation about leadership, responsibility, and the power of investing in people.

What happens when someone trained in the demanding world of aerospace engineering and large-scale operations steps into local government, where decisions are shaped not only by data and systems, but by politics, competing priorities, community emotion, and public trust?

In this conversation, Gilbert, Arizona Councilmember Monte Lyons reflects on the transition from decades in aerospace leadership to serving one of America's largest and fastest-growing communities. The discussion explores the tension between management and governance, why government often moves more slowly than business, and what public officials must understand about balancing technical analysis with the human realities of leadership.

For elected officials, civic leaders, and anyone involved in guiding a community, this episode offers a candid and practical look at infrastructure, budgeting, growth, public expectations, and the often overlooked complexity of local governance.

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After nearly three decades on the Fairfax County Board of Supervisors, Penny Gross reflects on the changing realities of public leadership in one of America's largest local governments. This conversation explores civic trust, public dialogue, and the growing challenge of helping communities stay connected in divided times.

Penny shares insights about community engagement, difficult conversations, changing public expectations, and the responsibility leaders have to create spaces where people feel heard. The discussion also highlights Kaleidoscope, Penny Gross's long-running community dialogue initiative designed to bring people together across perspectives, not to force agreement, but to deepen understanding and strengthen community connection.

For elected officials and civic leaders alike, this episode offers a thoughtful look at the human side of governance and the importance of listening as a core leadership practice.

This episode is presented in partnership with the Regional Elected Leaders Initiative (RELI) at George Mason University's Schar School of Policy and Government, which works to strengthen public leadership and regional collaboration across Northern Virginia.

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In this special 100th episode of Community Catalysts, Matt Lehrman of Social Prosperity Partners reflects on the deeper lessons that have emerged from 100 conversations with civic leaders across the country. Drawing on a childhood memory of reaching for the brass ring on a carousel, he explores what leadership often feels like in practice: uncertain, emotional, imperfect—and still full of possibility.

Rather than celebrating easy victories, this episode focuses on the importance of staying engaged, continuing to listen, and remaining willing to reach toward something better together. It's a personal reflection on leadership, community, and the conversations that help move people forward.

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