Friends With A Twist: A Swinger Podcast

Friends with a Twist, Episode 89
Guest: Mallory of the Casual Swinger podcast

Summary
Kenzie welcomes Mallory, co-host of the Casual Swinger podcast and the Hot Wife Diaries. Mallory has been in the lifestyle for 18 years. She shares her experience of the hotwife dynamic: how she defines it, how she got started, the challenges and benefits, and practical dos and don'ts for women, couples and single men. The episode closes with a "Go Deep" story from Mallory.

Timestamps

• 0:00 Welcome and episode preview
• 1:10 Mallory introduces herself; how she and Kenzie met in Miami
• 3:17 Ceremonial shot, then Kenzie's updates: Key West (Nov 5–8) and a Syracuse speakeasy party (Nov 14)
• 5:57 Mallory's updates: a Scottsdale hotel takeover and the Hedonism Jamaica takeover (Mar 13–20, 2027)
• 8:29 Life in the Lifestyle: hotwifing
• 9:09 Definitions: hotwife vs. cuckolding, and the terms bull, stag and vixen
• 15:27 How Mallory got started, and how her boundaries have evolved
• 18:57 A first experience, and the internal conflict that came with it
• 20:07 Challenges: vetting, flaky single men, and requiring STI testing
• 23:55 Benefits: easier logistics than couple-on-couple play, the connection with her husband, and photos, video and "reenactments"
• 26:14 Photo and video logistics, consent, and who owns the content
• 29:01 Advice for women and couples who want to start
• 34:43 Advice for single men
• 39:20 Vetting partners and dating apps
• 42:01 Veto power and checks and balances
• 43:58 What Mallory wishes she'd known, and "parity" vs. "tit for tat"
• 46:28 Future plans and bucket list
• 49:39 Go Deep segment: Mallory's steamy hotwife story
• 1:02:38 Wrap-up and where to find the show

Connect with Mallory & Casual Swingers

• Casual Swinger podcast; Hot Wife Diaries Podcast
• Hedonism Jamaica takeover

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In Episode 88, we make history on Friends With A Twist by welcoming our very first male guest, J, to share the ultimate single male perspective on the lifestyle. J breaks down how to build real trust with couples, navigate MFM dynamics smoothly, and read body language in real time. We cover the essential dos, don'ts, and major red flags when screening couples, before wrapping up with an unfiltered, sexy story from J in our signature Goin' Deep segment. Grab a drink and tune in for an honest, insider look at what it really takes to succeed as a single guy in the space!

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In Episode 87 of the Friends With a Twist podcast, Kenzie is joined by special guests Rain and Mona to explore unique female perspectives on the lifestyle. Rain and Mona share their background, how they met the hosts, and why they prefer the lifestyle for its freedom and judgment-free atmosphere. They discuss the unique dynamics, advantages, and challenges of being a female-female couple, addressing common misconceptions and offering tips on how others should approach FF couples. To wrap up, the "Goin' Deep" segment features a steamy personal story from Rain and Mona as they break down the highlights, environment, and key takeaways from a memorable play session.

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Episode 86 takes listeners on a wild, funny, and very candid journey through Cap d’Agde, France, a one-of-a-kind naturist village and lifestyle destination. Host Kenzie is joined by special guest Linda for a recap of their trip to Libertine’s Cap takeover, where they break down the freedom, chaos, and fun of the experience—from clothing-optional pool parties and luxe shopping to unforgettable club nights and the infamous Bay of Pigs beach scene. Linda shares how a “year of yes” has expanded her lifestyle adventures with her partner Steve, and the two reflect on the contrast between different resort experiences, the value of traveling with a group, and the surprising mix of comfort, community, and boundary-pushing moments they encountered in Cap. Along the way, they discuss the freedom of being naked without pressure, the importance of dress codes in unexpected places, and how the event created room for both playful exploration and genuine connection. In the second half of the episode, Linda gets personal during the Going Deep segment with a sexy story from Toronto’s X Club, where she describes an unforgettable encounter that led to her initiating for the first time. Her takeaway: stepping forward and owning desire can be empowering, sexy, and worth repeating. If you’re curious about Cap d’Agde, lifestyle travel, or what it’s really like to attend a Libertine event, this episode gives you a funny, honest, and highly memorable inside look.
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In this episode, Madison and Kenzie shock their audience with a major format shift, moving from recorded in-person sessions to virtual interviews and guest voices. They delve into personal updates, including adventurous lifestyle experiences in France and candid discussions about sex, travel, and new formats for the podcast. Join us for honesty, humor, and fresh perspectives on maintaining fun and intimacy.
Key Topics:

• The transition from in-person to virtual podcast recordings and why it’s happening
• Recent sexy adventures including a trip to France, lifestyle parties, and a daring DVP experience
• The challenges and discoveries of attending a French swinger club, including dress codes, etiquette, and cultural differences
• The evolving nature of personal relationships and the importance of changing routines
• Future plans for guest appearances and exploring new voices in the podcast
• The significance of sharing diverse experiences with the audience and embracing change

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Episode 84 will include our Life in the Lifestyle: tips & tricks for making play happen & Goin' Deep: Madison & Barry's night with a sexy new couple!

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Episode 83 will include our Chick Chat: a recap of what we’ve been up to in our daily lives. Spoiler Alert - Madison and Barry had some intense reconnection & Kenzie and Gary introduced Shibari to sexy friends!

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Episode 82 will include our Life in the Lifestyle: a recap of the Libertine Miami Beach Hotel Takeover & Goin' Deep: Kenzie's spicy encounter in the Miami heat!

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Episode 80 will include our Life in the Lifestyle: how we've evolved in the lifestyle & Goin' Deep: Madison's first unicorn adventure!

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Episode 79 will include our Chick Chat: a recap of what we’ve been up to in our daily lives. Spoiler Alert - Madison checked off another bucket list item & Kenzie let loose at a neon party!

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Episode 78 will include our Life in the Lifestyle: where we discuss some of the changes we’ve seen in the lifestyle since we started over 10 years ago & Goin' Deep: where Kenzie shares how her & Gary made good use of a hotel room for a spicy MFM!

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Episode 77 will include our Chick Chat: a recap of what we’ve been up to in our daily lives. Spoiler Alert - Madison got to play in a new type of role (twice!!) & Kenzie "enjoyed" several St. Paddy's parties!

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Episode 76 will include our Life in the Lifestyle: we discuss parallels between gambling and swinging and why it keeps us coming back for more! And Goin' Deep: where Madison shares a sexy foursome story involving regular play partners!

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Episode 75 will include our Chick Chat: a recap of what we’ve been up to in our daily lives. Spoiler Alert - Madison had fun being an exhibitionist & Kenzie traveled south for a Friction Party!

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*New episode format!* Episode 74 will include our Life in the Lifestyle: tips for choosing a great LS screen name & Goin' Deep: Kenzie's steamy foursome story!

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*New episode format!* Episode 73 will include our Chick Chat: a recap of what we’ve been up to in our daily lives (swinging & vanilla!).

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Episode 70 is a little different...We continue the listener questions from episode 69 because it was so much fun!! This episode is also a little shorter so we can both take time to enjoy the holidays (but also make time for more sexy fun to share with you in the New Year)!

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