Podcast

RAISING CONFIDENT TEEN DAUGHTERS | Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Mental Health Education, Parenting, Friendship, Comparison

Education, Kids & Family, Parenting, Self-Improvement

Do you ever worry about your daughter losing her spark?

Are you unsure how to parent in this new tween or teen season without passing down your own insecurities or accidentally saying the wrong thing?

Maybe you’re watching her navigate anxiety, friendship drama, or even bullying, and you’re not always sure what to say, how to help, or when to step in. Parenting suddenly feels less physical and much more emotional, and you just want to stay connected while doing this stage right.

If you’ve ever thought, “I just want her to be herself and actually open up to me,” you’re in the right place.

Welcome to Raising Confident Teen Daughters, the podcast that helps you connect with your daughter so she can thrive.

Each week, you’ll learn practical, research-based ways to support your daughter through confidence dips, big emotions, friendship struggles, and the messy, beautiful work of growing up. We’ll talk about what to say in the hard moments, how to stay connected as she changes, and how to grow your own confidence as her mom.

I’m Kristen - former educator, confidence coach, and mom of three teen girls and one little boy. I know how heavy it can feel when your daughter is struggling. I’ve watched my own girls navigate this stage, and I’ve felt that same, “I don’t know what to do” panic so many moms feel.

For a long time, I did what came naturally - freaking out, giving advice, and trying to fix things when it all felt too big. But I learned that supporting her starts with slowing down, stepping back, and parenting with more calm and clarity, even when things feel hard.

Now, I help moms do the same.

If you want to feel more equipped, be able to respond with confidence, and stay deeply connected as your daughter grows, this podcast is for you.

So grab your drink, take a breath, and let’s walk this season together.

You’re not alone. And even through the hard times she can learn to thrive, with you by her side.

xo, Kristen

Learn - https://meanttobeme.org/
Connect - https://www.instagram.com/meanttobe.me/

Episodes
116
Releases
Weekly
Typical length
24 min
On air since
2024
Latest episode
5 days ago

Episodes

116 episodes, newest first

  1. 116 - Raising Strong, Confident Girls: Body Image, Fitness, and Healthy Habits with Shannon Johanson

    Show notes

    What if helping your daughter feel stronger physically could also help her feel more confident on the inside?

    In this episode, I’m joined by Shannon Johanson, personal trainer and founder of Barbells and Braids, to talk about the powerful connection between physical strength, body image, and confidence in young girls.

    We chat about helping our daughters move away from comparison, develop a healthy relationship with food and exercise, and focus on what their bodies can DO rather than how they look.

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - Shannon's Program for Girls: Barbells and Braids

    - Instagram: @barbellsandbraidsaz

    - Instagram: @ladywarrior

    My Resources:

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn the simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here →Meant to Be Confident

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer sessions for moms and girls! Send me an email at meanttobemeaz@gmail.com.

    - Join my Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    34 min
  2. 115 - Struggling With Your Teen Daughter's Choices? How to Respond Instead of React

    Show notes

    In today's episode, we're talking about the emotional roller coaster of parenting teen girls, especially when they make choices we don't agree with. I'm sharing some encouragement and practical perspective to help you manage your own emotions, respond instead of react, and stay connected with your daughter through the hard stuff.

    My favorite parenting quote ever: "The goal of parenting isn't raising a child who never makes mistakes. It's being a safe place for them to land when they do." 🧡

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn the simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here →Meant to Be Confident

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    My Resources:

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer sessions for moms and girls! Send me an email at meanttobemeaz@gmail.com.

    - Join my Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    22 min
  3. 114 - Life Lately: Mother-Daughter Trip, What I’m Reading, and a Coaching Breakthrough

    Show notes

    Come hang out with me for a life-lately catch-up!

    I’m sharing a little about a recent mother-daughter trip that had me thinking about motherhood from a different perspective... not as the mom, but as the daughter. We’ll talk about playing the long game with our girls and remembering that we’re not just raising girls… we’re building relationships with the women they’re becoming.

    I’m also sharing what I’m reading right now plus a beautiful moment that came up in a coaching session this week.

    And if there’s something happening with your daughter that you find yourself needing support with, I’d love to help you work through it. Reach out to me about private coaching and tell me a little about what’s going on. 💕

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer sessions for moms and girls! Send me an email at meanttobemeaz@gmail.com.

    My Resources:

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here →Meant to Be Confident

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    21 min
  4. 113 - When Your Daughter’s Behavior Sends You into a Spiral

    Show notes

    Have you ever had one thing your tween or teen daughter does send your brain into a complete spiral?

    In this episode, I’m sharing one simple tool to help you slow down, notice the story you’re telling yourself about your daughter’s behavior, and respond more intentionally instead of reacting from worry or frustration.

    This tool never fails me and lays the foundation for confidence too!

    xo, Kristen

    Missed my Raising Confident Girls Workshop?

    You can still watch the replay FREE through Sunday! Simply register for the workshop below and I’ll send it straight to your inbox.

    Get the replay here!

    And if you’re ready for more support, I'd love to have you join me inside Meant to Be Confident and save $100 through Sunday night.

    Learn more and join here 🧡

    My Resources:

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 45-minute sessions for moms and girls! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    13 min
  5. 112 - When You Don’t Know How to Help Your Tween or Teen Daughter

    Show notes

    Have you ever had one of those moments when your daughter is struggling and you just don’t know what to say or do to help?

    I had one of those moments recently, and in this episode I’m sharing what helped me and a few things I want you to remember the next time your daughter is going through something hard.

    And if you’ve ever wished you felt a little more calm, confident, and connected as you navigate these tween and teen years, I’d love to have you join me for my FREE Raising Confident Girls Workshop!

    🧡 Save your free spot here: Workshop

    We’re going to get practical about what it looks like to build your confidence with parenting, manage your own emotions, and stay connected through the hard stuff.

    See you there!

    xo, Kristen

    My Resources:

    - Want to help your daughter start the new school year with confidence? Download my Back-to-School Confidence Boost guide for conversation starters, confidence-building activities, role-play ideas, fun printables, and more!

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here →Meant to Be Confident

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 45-minute sessions for moms and girls! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    23 min
  6. 111 - Worried About Your Daughter’s Self-Esteem? 5 Things You Can Do Today

    Show notes

    Are you noticing that your tween or teen daughter is worrying more about what other people think of her lately? Maybe you remember how challenging these years can be, and you’re worried she may be struggling with low self-esteem. You want to know what you can actually do to help. 🧡

    After years of studying confidence and self-esteem, I put together this list of 5 simple ways to build your daughter’s self-esteem in just 5 minutes a day... and I promise you, it’s a game changer.

    Time and time again, moms tell me that it really does work, as simple as some of these things may sound. Try it today!

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - Join me for my free Raising Confident Girls Workshop where I’ll walk you through simple ways to stay calm, confident, and connected with your daughter.

    You can register here:
    https://meanttobeme.org/workshop

    Can't wait to see you there! September 15th 10 AM Az/Pacific

    My Resources:

    - Want to help your daughter start the new school year with confidence? Download my Back-to-School Confidence Boost guide for conversation starters, confidence-building activities, role-play ideas, fun printables, and more!

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here →Meant to Be Confident

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 45-minute sessions for moms and girls! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    32 min
  7. 110 - Mean Girl Behavior & Friendship Drama: How to Help Your Daughter Without Taking Over

    Show notes

    In this episode, we’re talking about how to help your tween or teen daughter navigate mean-girl behavior and friendship conflict without jumping in and taking over.

    We’ll talk about:

    - How to tell normal friendship conflict from an unhealthy pattern
    - What your daughter really needs from you when she’s hurting
    - The simple Listen → Validate → Ask approach
    - How to help her build friendship discernment and boundaries
    - When to let her work through it, and when it’s time for an adult to step in

    And even though it’s so hard for our mom hearts to watch… our goal isn’t to solve every friendship problem for our girls.

    It’s to help them become confident enough to recognize healthy friendships, speak up for themselves, and know they always have a safe place to come home to and talk about the hard stuff. 🧡

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - Join me for my free Raising Confident Girls Workshop where I’ll walk you through simple ways to stay calm, confident, and connected with your daughter.

    You can register here:
    https://meanttobeme.org/workshop

    Can't wait to see you there! September 15th 10 AM Az/Pacific

    My Resources:

    - Want to help your daughter start the new school year with confidence? Download my Back-to-School Confidence Boost guide for conversation starters, confidence-building activities, role-play ideas, fun printables, and more!

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here →Meant to Be Confident

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 45-minute sessions for moms and girls! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    15 min
  8. 109 - Feel Like You’re Being Bullied by Your Tween Daughter? What to Do When EVERYTHING Turns Into a Meltdown

    Show notes

    Do you ever feel like you’re walking on eggshells, changing plans to avoid a meltdown, or hesitating to say no because you already know how she’s going to react?

    In this episode, we’re talking about what can happen when anxiety, rigidity, and/or big emotions start controlling the whole family, and how to support your tween or teen daughter during, after, between, and beyond the storm.

    I know how overwhelming and exhausting this can be… and there’s also hope that things can get better. 🧡

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - Join me for my free Raising Confident Girls Workshop where I’ll walk you through simple ways to stay calm, confident, and connected with your daughter.

    You can register here:
    https://meanttobeme.org/workshop

    Can't wait to see you there! September 15th 10 AM Az/Pacific

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    My Resources:

    - Want to help your daughter start the new school year with confidence? Download my Back-to-School Confidence Boost guide for conversation starters, confidence-building activities, role-play ideas, fun printables, and more!

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here →Meant to Be Confident

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 45-minute sessions for moms and girls! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    25 min
  9. 108 - Are You Living the Life You Want? Top Questions for a Confidence Reset With Your Daughter

    Show notes

    Are you living the life you actually want… and are you helping your daughter do the same? As intentional moms, it’s so easy to get caught up in the busyness of parenting and everyday life without stopping to think about what matters most to us in this season.

    After celebrating another birthday last week and experiencing some really hard reminders lately of just how precious life is, I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting on how I’m spending my time, what I value most, and what I want this next season of life to look like.

    In today’s episode, we’re doing a confidence reset together!

    I’ll walk you through some of my favorite questions to help you (AND your tween or teen daughter) reflect on your strengths, passions, values, and goals… and make sure the way you’re actually living lines up with the person you want to be.

    Grab your journal (and save this one to do again with your daughter!) and let’s do a little reset together. 🧡

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    🧡 Confidence Map Episode: How to Build Your Confidence Map - Choose Your Adventure Style

    🎉 MY BIRTHDAY GIVEAWAY! 🎉

    I’m celebrating my August birthday by giving away THREE prize packages filled with some of my favorite things for raising confident, connected girls…and a few fun treats for you too!

    🥇 FIRST PRIZE (Value: $460)

    • Meant to Be Confident Online Course
    • My favorite marker pens to use with the course workbook
    • $50 Target gift card

    🥈 SECOND PRIZE (Value: $120)

    • Private 1:1 coaching session with me for you OR your daughter
    • One of my favorite parent-child connection journals
    • $25 Amazon gift card

    🥉 THIRD PRIZE (Value: $50)

    • My Back-to-School Confidence Boost Guide
    • My favorite parenting book, Good Inside
    • $10 Starbucks gift card

    HOW TO ENTER:

    • Leave an honest rating + review for Raising Confident Teen Daughters on Apple Podcasts.
    • Take a screenshot of your review and DM it to me on Instagram @meanttobe.me

    ✨ WANT BONUS ENTRIES?

    +1 — Join my private Facebook community
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    Giveaway closes Sunday, August 16 at 11:59 PM AZ time!

    Three winners will be selected and announced after the giveaway closes. Good luck, friend, and THANK YOU for celebrating my birthday with me and for helping more girl moms find this podcast! 🧡

    30 min
  10. 107 - Back-to-School: How to Help Your Daughter Navigate Changing Friendships

    Show notes

    Friendships can change quickly, especially at the start of a new school year.

    Whether your daughter's best friend has drifted away, she's feeling left out of her friend group, or she's struggling to find her place, changing friendships can be one of the hardest parts of growing up.

    In this episode, you'll learn how to support your tween or teen daughter through friendship struggles without trying to fix everything for her. You'll learn practical ways to help her build confidence, emotional resilience, and stronger connections as she navigates the ups and downs of friendships.

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here →Meant to Be Confident

    - Want to help your daughter start the new school year with confidence? Download my Back-to-School Confidence Boost guide for conversation starters, confidence-building activities, role-play ideas, fun printables, and more!

    My Resources:

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 45-minute sessions for moms and girls! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    24 min
  11. 106 - How to Build Emotional Resilience in Your Daughter by Modeling Confidence Yourself

    Show notes

    Our girls don't learn confidence because life always goes according to plan... they learn it by watching how we respond when life doesn't. 🧡

    In this episode, I'm sharing the confidence and emotional resilience lessons our family learned these past few months through my husband's job transition. From taking risks and facing failure to managing anxious thoughts and remembering our strengths, this season reminded us that the tools we teach our girls are the very same tools we need as adults.

    If you've ever wondered how to help your daughter become more confident and emotionally resilient, this episode will encourage you to start by modeling those skills yourself.

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here →Meant to Be Confident

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    My Resources:

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 45-minute sessions for moms and girls! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    30 min
  12. 105 - Life Lately: Helping Your Daughter Navigate the Storms of Life (Anxiety, Friendship Struggles, Grief & More)

    Show notes

    Life has a way of bringing storms we never saw coming, and our girls will have their own to navigate too.

    In this episode, I'm sharing what's been happening in our family's life lately and the reminders it's given me about how we can support our daughters through life's hardest moments. Whether she's facing anxiety, a friendship breakup, grief, disappointment, or another difficult season, our job isn't to help her avoid the storm... it's to help her walk through it with confidence, connection, and hope.

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident

    My Resources:

    - Local Period Prep Workshop - July 22nd - Join us for an interactive workshop focused on body and cycle literacy for tween and teen girls (ages 8-14) and their moms!

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 45-minute sessions for moms and girls! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    21 min
  13. 104 - 3 Powerful Confidence Lessons I Learned From Working With Tween Girls This Summer

    Show notes

    After spending two weeks with several amazing tween girls at my local Confidence Camp, I'm sharing the three biggest lessons I brought home: what helps girls open up, why confidence can absolutely be taught, and the powerful role we play as moms in shaping the way our daughters see themselves.

    If you've ever wondered how to help your daughter build lasting confidence before life gets hard, this episode is for you.

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    My Resources:

    - Local Period Prep Workshop - July 22nd - Join us for an interactive workshop focused on body and cycle literacy for tween and teen girls (ages 8-14) and their moms!

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 45-minute sessions for moms and girls! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    27 min
  14. 103 - The Period Prep Conversations Every Girl Mom Needs to Have: Helping Your Daughter Feel Confident About Body Changes

    Show notes

    Wondering what to say when your daughter starts asking questions about periods and body changes?

    In this episode, I'm chatting with menstrual cycle educator Briana Villegas to talk about how to make these conversations feel less awkward, when to start them, and why understanding their bodies can help girls feel more confident.

    Whether your daughter is already asking or you're wondering how to begin the conversations, this will give you practical ideas and encouragement to help you navigate this important stage together.

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    Local Period Prep Workshop - July 22nd - Join us for an interactive workshop focused on body and cycle literacy for tween and teen girls (ages 8-14) and their moms!

    Briana's Bio & Links: Briana Villegas is a certified menstrual cycle educator and integration coach who supports teens and women in understanding and embracing their cyclical experience. Through the Period Prep Workshop, she supports teens start their cycle with confidence and self-trust. Through integration coaching, she supports women in reintegrating the parts of themselves they may have been suppressing or villainizing so they can rewrite their relationship to their cycles and themselves. With a decade of personal and professional experience in the menstrual health space, Briana brings a deeply embodied and trauma-informed approach to everything she does. Free Parent Guide: https://brianavillegas.com/parentguide
    Website: https://brianavillegas.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brianavillegascoaching/?hl=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BrianaVillegasCoaching

    My Resources:

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 45-minute sessions for moms and girls! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    39 min
  15. 102 - Why Your Daughter Is Still Thinking About That Hurtful Comment (And 3 Ways to Help)

    Show notes

    A hurtful comment can stick with a girl for a long time.

    Whether it was about her appearance, something she did, or anything else, it can be heartbreaking to watch your daughter struggle with the impact of these words.

    In this episode, I'm sharing about one of the most popular confidence lessons I teach - a powerful way to help girls understand why hurtful comments seem to stick and what they can do instead. 🧡

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - Local Summer Confidence Camp!

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    Resources:

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 45-minute sessions for moms and girls! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    35 min
  16. 101 - Trying to Help Your Daughter With Her Thoughts and Feelings and It's Not Working? Don't Forget This.

    Show notes

    This week I'm bringing back one of my favorite conversations because it's a struggle so many girl moms face. Teaching our girls the power they have to change their thoughts about a situation when they want to feel better is foundational to confidence-building. But why doesn't it work sometimes? There's an important first step you might be missing.

    Listen in to hear some personal experiences where I was reminded of the importance of remembering this step. I'll also walk you through how to help your girls with their thoughts and feelings in a way that works.

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Local Summer Confidence Camp!

    Resources:

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    32 min
  17. 100 - 100 Episodes Later: The 5 Biggest Lessons I've Learned About Raising Confident Girls

    Show notes

    Today we're celebrating 100 episodes of the podcast!

    To mark this milestone, I'm looking back at the 5 most-downloaded episodes of all time and sharing one key takeaway from each. From friendships and self-esteem to emotional regulation and confidence, these are the messages that have resonated most with girl moms over the past two years.

    Whether you've been here since episode one or you're brand new to the show, I hope these reminders encourage you and remind you that confidence isn't built in a day... it's built through small moments over time.

    🎉 To celebrate 100 episodes, my Meant to Be Confident mother/daughter program is on flash sale for the next 2 days! If you'd love more intentional one-on-one time with your daughter this summer while learning practical tools for confidence, friendships, emotions, and more, this is the perfect time. Use code SUMMERFLASH to save $50! Join here → Meant to Be Confident

    Thank you for being part of these first 100 episodes. 🧡

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - Top 5 Podcast Episode Links (Scroll Down)

    Resources:

    - Local Summer Confidence Camp!

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    36 min
  18. 99 - 3 Ways to Build Your Daughter's Confidence This Summer

    Show notes

    If your daughter has been struggling with confidence, self-esteem, friendships, or anxiety, summer can be one of the best times to strengthen your relationship and help her thrive emotionally.

    In this episode, we're chatting about:

    - how to help your daughter feel heard
    - simple ways to strengthen your connection
    - why supportive environments matter so much for girls

    Wishing you a wonderful start to your summer break!

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident

    - Local Summer Confidence Camp!

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    Resources:

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    17 min
  19. 98 - Tween & Teen Friendship Struggles: What to Say When She Feels Excluded

    Show notes

    From end-of-year parties and group photos to general friendship struggles and exclusion, these seasons can bring up a lot of hurt for girls… and heartbreak for moms too.

    In this episode, we’ll chat about:

    - what to say when your daughter feels left out

    - why validation matters more than fixing

    - how connection helps girls get through these times

    - and how to gently guide her toward healthy friendships, belonging, and hope 🧡

    If you’ve been wondering how to support your daughter through friendship pain, this is for you.

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident

    Resources:

    - Local Summer Confidence Camp!

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    26 min
  20. 97 - What To Do When You Feel Emotionally Overwhelmed in Motherhood

    Show notes

    Are you feeling more reactive, emotionally exhausted, or overwhelmed lately? You're not alone!

    In this episode, we’re talking about the emotional load so many moms are carrying right now, why our nervous systems get overloaded during busy seasons (like Maycember!), and the simple reset that makes the biggest difference.

    Also, this episode is a reminder that you don’t have to do motherhood perfectly to deeply impact your daughter.

    xo, Kristen

    Mentioned in this episode:

    - My Confidence Program for Girls/Moms: Learn simple tools that help your daughter build confidence and strengthen your connection... without you having to figure it all out alone. I’ll guide you step-by-step. Join here → Meant to Be Confident

    Resources:

    - Local Summer Confidence Camp!

    - Join my NEW Facebook Community: Raising Confident Teen Daughters

    - FREE GUIDE: Join my email insider list and start building her worth and confidence today → Five Simple Ways to Build Your Daughter's Self-Esteem in Five Minutes a Day

    - One-on-One Coaching: If you’d like more personalized support, I offer 30-minute sessions for moms! You can learn more or book a session here: Coaching

    - Hand Lettered Design’s Workbooks: One of our favorites in our home. They make it easy (and fun!) for girls to strengthen their mental health daily. Check them out here → Use code KRISTEN to save 10%

    - Connect with me on Instagram@meanttobe.me for more tips and behind-the-scenes!

    16 min