Self Interrupted With Kit Costello

Dating advice online is hard to miss but why does consuming it sometimes feel comforting?

Within todays episode I discuss the understanding of ego when dating and how to ground yourself when you find yourself loosing sense of what actually matters within new relationships.

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Breakups hold sadness but within that sadness is a beauty and an understanding of inherent evolution.

In this episode of Self Interrupted I talk though moments of the past year, reeling through things that I have learnt about myself in hindsight of my breakup and what I'm taking into new relationships going forward.

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It all started because of a girl in a kitchen.

In this week's episode I tell the story about how a passing interaction was a catalyst for comparison, insecurity and envy and how I found power and evolution from it. How can you grow from comparison? How can you evolve in a sustainable way? And what can you learn about yourself in these ugly moments of envy?

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Letting go of control is hard to do much like letting go of expectations.

In this episode I discuss how letting go of the reins of life allows for beauty and opportunity to be let in. I explain my relationship with control within relationships of past and how I'm in turn evolving away from and letting go of the expectation that someone will complete me.

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How can you be behind in a life that is yours?

In today's episode I'm understanding why feeling behind in life means that you're actually more on track than you may realise.

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One day someone will meet my standards but until then, am I going to be lonely?

In this weeks episode I discuss my recent understanding that I have evolved out of previous standards when it comes to dating and find myself in a place where I expect more. However when what I expect has yet to come, how do I stop myself from going back to old habits?

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Relationships with no label, not feeling chosen and having standards are some of the topics that are touched on within this premier episode of 'Interrupt me.'

I hope that you can take something away from the advice given to the listeners who left these submissions and that you feel less alone.

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When your ex comes back, how do you deal with the emotional overwhelm of not reaching back out?

In this weeks episode I discuss the honest emotions that I felt after being contacted by an ex and why it sent my into an emotion spiral.

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Where does closure come from, yourself or others.

In this episode I pose the question 'is closure real?' which is something I was asked while actively seeking it. After some introspection I came to an acute and nuance of what closure really means to me.

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Am I craving love or am I craving distraction?

In this episode I attempt to understand how and why I tend to find comfort in distraction within the form of having a crush. I also discuss the concept of being distracted by the potential of a relationship whilst being in a relationship that doesn't emulate the end goal.

A conversation that concludes with an understanding of self.

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Do you want me or my body? After a clip from my podcast became polarising online I thought that I would dedicate an episode to the idea of dating someone like you will never have sex. A concept that really allows you to get to know the person beyond the physical. Is it a possibility within our dating generation? I hope you are able to take something from this episode and gain an understanding of what you want and what your boundaries are.

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A conversation about understanding the purpose of your body and it's beauty beyond aesthetic appeal for others. This episode is raw and honest and I can only hope that it makes people struggling with body image feel less alone.

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Seeking love feels embarrassing, but why? In this episode I talk candidly about my honest thoughts on the dating scene and what is going wrong within my dating life. I talk situationships, if it's ever really casual and how learning more about yourself allows you to move through the dating scene with less embarrassment.

I really enjoyed creating this episode and I hope that you can gain something from it.

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I have understood just recently that the failure of past, present and future is not only something thats inevitable but it's something that I want to happen. I want to learn, I want to evolve and a way of evolving is by learning through failing.

I enjoyed unravelling my recent learnings of failure in this weeks episode.

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What should you do when an ex wants to get back with you? Or when a friend stops speaking to you? How will you conquer the fear of being alone? I'm so excited to be back giving out my unqualified yet heartfelt advice this episode on submissions sent in by listeners.

I hope that you can take something away from this episode.Thank you for being here.Enjoy ☆

The quote 'you either die the hero or live long enough to become the villain' springs to mind when I think of my dating life at the moment. Past experiences have formed my current actions while dating and attaching terms like 'avoidant' don't do much other than give it a label.

So how can I evolve and become the version of myself that believes in love?

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You've reached rockbottom, now what? When you reach a place in your life where you searching for a fresh start, a reset, how can you feel inspired when you're at an all time low? In this episode I talk candidly about my recent sadness and how I'm shifting my perspective and finding inspiration again.

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Everyone craves validation but when the craving takes over what can you do to ground yourself? In this episode I'm dissecting my recent obsession with external validation and understanding the why. Why do I crave it?

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What happens when you the person you have sex with ghosts you? What happens when a heartbreak becomes entwined with jealousy? How should you feel on a first date? Elated to be back and giving my unqualified but heartfelt advice on submission sent in by listeners.

I hope that you can take something away from this episode.

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There are days, weeks and months where sadness blankets you and all you're left with is hope and performance. Hope that you will make it out and a performance that you put on for others around you. In this episode I discuss how I have been feeling recently and share what has made me see hope in the hopeless.

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