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I dove deep on this research. It was interesting to start to get a grip on why so many guys don't admit to masturbating as much as they do, and why this is one of the factors holding us back from talking about it.

The links to the research are below.

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Liam Williams' other project is his gay erotic fiction. He's been writing for years and releasing those stories as podcast episodes since 2021. Check out the link to listen to some of his stories.

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Patreon Shout Out August and September

Just wanted to say a quick thanks to a few patrons. Thanks to Sean, Blake, Alex, Yitz and Bryce. If you'd like to offer your support hit the link.

Fleshjack Quickshot

I recently tried out the Fleshjack Quickshot for the first time and I love it. I can't wait to share the two open ends with a buddy. It's a great budget entry for anyone looking to try their first Fleshy product.

No, not the Matt Damon porn parody! As the podcast changed its identity, yet again, I thought about the Bator Identity in general. Here's my thoughts on it's importance and how it can help you become a better bator.

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter

Liam Williams' other project is his gay erotic fiction. He's been writing for years and releasing those stories as podcast episodes since 2021. Check out the link to listen to some of his stories.

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

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Patreon Shout Out August and September

Just wanted to say a quick thanks to a few patrons. Thanks to Sean, Blake, Alex, Yitz and Bryce. If you'd like to offer your support hit the link.

Fleshjack Quickshot

I recently tried out the Fleshjack Quickshot for the first time and I love it. I can't wait to share the two open ends with a buddy. It's a great budget entry for anyone looking to try their first Fleshy product.

So yesterday was my birthday. It was also International Masturbation Day, a part of Masturbation Month every May. So I tried to organise something special to celebrate. Here's a bit of an outline about the group bate I organised last night.

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

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Naughty Forty - An Erotic Novel is for sale on my website. Click the link to grab your copy on Audio or eBook today.

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Liam Williams' other project is his gay erotic fiction. He's been writing for years and releasing those stories as podcast episodes since 2021. Check out the link to listen to some of his stories.

Mentioned in this episode:

Fleshjack Quickshot

I recently tried out the Fleshjack Quickshot for the first time and I love it. I can't wait to share the two open ends with a buddy. It's a great budget entry for anyone looking to try their first Fleshy product.

Patreon Shout Out August and September

Just wanted to say a quick thanks to a few patrons. Thanks to Sean, Blake, Alex, Yitz and Bryce. If you'd like to offer your support hit the link.

It’s the middle of May and we all know it’s masturbation month. If you don’t, now you do. Here's a deep dive into the history of a month we all enjoy celebrating.

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

Liam Williams' other project is his gay erotic fiction. He's been writing for years and releasing those stories as podcast episodes since 2021. Check out the link to listen to some of his stories.

If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

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Patreon Shout Out August and September

Just wanted to say a quick thanks to a few patrons. Thanks to Sean, Blake, Alex, Yitz and Bryce. If you'd like to offer your support hit the link.

Fleshjack Quickshot

I recently tried out the Fleshjack Quickshot for the first time and I love it. I can't wait to share the two open ends with a buddy. It's a great budget entry for anyone looking to try their first Fleshy product.

After a hiatus I'm excited to bring back the bator podcast. Now with a new title and a new outlook!

Liam Williams' other project is his gay erotic fiction. He's been writing for years and releasing those stories as podcast episodes since 2021. Check out the link to listen to some of his stories.

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

Naughty Forty - An Erotic Novel is for sale on my website. Click the link to grab your copy on Audio or eBook today.

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If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter

A discussion of my batorhood, my recent thinking around it, and what's happening next.

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Patreon Shout Out August and September

Just wanted to say a quick thanks to a few patrons. Thanks to Sean, Blake, Alex, Yitz and Bryce. If you'd like to offer your support hit the link.

Fleshjack Quickshot

I recently tried out the Fleshjack Quickshot for the first time and I love it. I can't wait to share the two open ends with a buddy. It's a great budget entry for anyone looking to try their first Fleshy product.

David Ledain is a UK-based author, writing non-fiction for gay males, based on his experiences and research. The first in his Hot Little Gay Book series focuses on masturbation and we had a great chat about the act, the changes in social expectations and the book itself.

If you'd like to grab a copy of the book check out the link below.

If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

Liam Williams' other project is his gay erotic fiction. He's been writing for years and releasing those stories as podcast episodes since 2021. Check out the link to listen to some of his stories.

Mentioned in this episode:

Patreon Shout Out August and September

Just wanted to say a quick thanks to a few patrons. Thanks to Sean, Blake, Alex, Yitz and Bryce. If you'd like to offer your support hit the link.

Fleshjack Quickshot

I recently tried out the Fleshjack Quickshot for the first time and I love it. I can't wait to share the two open ends with a buddy. It's a great budget entry for anyone looking to try their first Fleshy product.

Interviews are back on the slate for 2024 and my first subject is Wynward H Oliver author of HomoWork. I found Wynward and his book through his Twitter/X account and the book grabbed me straight away as an open and honest approach to the memoir of a man self-described as a compulsive bator.

We talk about everything from poppers to labels, as well as how he went about writing such a funny and engaging story recounting his life.

If you'd like to get your copy of Wynward's memoir HomoWork click the link.

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

Another Bate Coach episode from Liam, talking more about how to take advice.

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter

Got a product or service that you'd like to promote to our audience of proud bators? Get in touch by emailing liam@liamwilliams.com.au

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

Mentioned in this episode:

Patreon Shout Out August and September

Just wanted to say a quick thanks to a few patrons. Thanks to Sean, Blake, Alex, Yitz and Bryce. If you'd like to offer your support hit the link.

Fleshjack Quickshot

I recently tried out the Fleshjack Quickshot for the first time and I love it. I can't wait to share the two open ends with a buddy. It's a great budget entry for anyone looking to try their first Fleshy product.

My first solo advice episode for 2024 features advice about advice.

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter

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Captivate Support

Naughty Forty! Out Now!

My first erotic novel is out now!

Naughty Forty

Another step up in 2024 for Liam Williams and the Proud Bators project. Hear all about it in the first episode of the year.

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter

Liam Williams' other project is his gay erotic fiction. He's been writing for years and releasing those stories as podcast episodes since 2021. Check out the link to listen to some of his stories.

Mentioned in this episode:

Naughty Forty! Out Now!

My first erotic novel is out now!

Naughty Forty

Captivate Support

So I kept my bate stats for 2023, as I have done for the last couple of years. Here's the summary (stat nerd alert!).

I'm putting together a group of bators who are keen to track their stats in 2024. If you're keen click the link to start the sign-up process.

I hope you enjoyed your bating in 2023, thanks for making us even a small part of it. There are big things coming in 2024, so make sure you're on board by subscribing to the podcast or joining the Discord server.

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

Got a product or service that you'd like to promote to our audience of proud bators? Get in touch by emailing liam@liamwilliams.com.au

Mentioned in this episode:

Captivate Support

Naughty Forty! Out Now!

My first erotic novel is out now!

Naughty Forty

Edging is a pretty common term in the bator community. We’ve talked about it on plenty of podcast episodes, but I’ll take a bit of a deeper dive into it in this episode. What it is, the reasons people do it and the benefits of it. I’ll also throw in a couple of tips towards the end.

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter

Got a product or service that you'd like to promote to our audience of proud bators? Get in touch by emailing liam@liamwilliams.com.au

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

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Master Bator Convention

The Master Bator Convention is the first of it's kind. A great way to meet fellow bators in a great city, in a great space. Sean and Liam are spewing we can't go. Let us know what it's like.

Master Bator Convention

Naughty Forty! Out Now!

My first erotic novel is out now!

Naughty Forty

Captivate Support

A topic that comes up a lot when I chat to bators, particularly those newer to accepting their batehood is the idea of being able to talk with your mates about it, outside the bate mates that you may already have. In this episode I share some tips and insight into how I've built up some mates to chat with.

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

Got a product or service that you'd like to promote to our audience of proud bators? Get in touch by emailing liam@liamwilliams.com.au

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter

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Naughty Forty! Out Now!

My first erotic novel is out now!

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Captivate Support

Liam chats with Jared, the Proud Bator behind the Master Bator Convention being hosted in Pittsburgh this August. It's shaping up to be a great event.

There's still plenty of tickets available. Check out all the info on the website.

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

Got a product or service that you'd like to promote to our audience of proud bators? Get in touch by emailing liam@liamwilliams.com.au

If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

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Captivate Support

Naughty Forty! Out Now!

My first erotic novel is out now!

Naughty Forty

It's Masturbation Month again! So here's a little background on our annual bator celebration.

bator coaching survey social club

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Naughty Forty! Out Now!

My first erotic novel is out now!

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Captivate Support

Here's the next Proud Bators Podcast episode. A bit of a chat about building a better bator community.

Let me know what you think.

bator coaching survey

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Captivate Support

Naughty Forty! Out Now!

My first erotic novel is out now!

Naughty Forty

This might not be a popular opinion where bating is concerned but I'm out here saying that being a better bator doesn't have to just mean jerking it more.

I'd love to hear what you think of your bate lifestyle balance at the moment. The poll to let me know is here.

bator coaching survey social club Fleshjack

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Captivate Support

Naughty Forty! Out Now!

My first erotic novel is out now!

Naughty Forty

This episode is a new format for 2023. Liam's getting back to the solo episodes. Once a month he'll be talking you through a particular topic, often related to a part of his Better Bator Coaching Program.

First up is the important question: What Kind of Bator Are You?

Once you've listened to the episode I'd love to know what type you are, the poll is here.

If you're not sure which type then head over here to fill out the survey to find out.

The episode of Bator Terminology is here.

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Captivate Support

Naughty Forty! Out Now!

My first erotic novel is out now!

Naughty Forty

The next interview in the Bator Profile series is LondonBateBro - that's his BateWorld profile if you want to hit him up.

He's new to the bator lifestyle and it was a great chat.

It's been great hearing from different guys about their different bate lives. If you're a Proud Bator and you'd like to chat on the podcast, get in touch via email.

To connect with Liam visit the website.

Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material.

Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club

Got a product or service that you'd like to promote to our audience of proud bators? Get in touch by emailing liam@liamwilliams.com.au

If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter

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Captivate Support

Naughty Forty! Out Now!

My first erotic novel is out now!

Naughty Forty