The Mark Groves Podcast

In this episode I am reading your letters and diving deep into tough questions from you about your relationships, love, and what you really want from life. To begin I touch on my current journey—how I am learning to let go of the future I thought I would have and give space to the new and unknown in my life. I then cover some challenging and common situations that you have written to me about: the ex that promises to change, the new partner that is still seeing their ex, the partner that works too much, and not feeling the same about marriage and kids as our partner. I so appreciate the opportunity to know what is on your heart.

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Terri Cole is back for the FOURTH time and we are going somewhere most people are afraid to go. The father wound. The wound that lives in your perfectionism, your people pleasing, your picker, and your inability to believe you are worthy of being truly loved and protected. This is one of the most important conversations I have had on this podcast and Terri’s new book is the one I wish existed decades ago.

Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist and global relationship and empowerment expert and the author of Boundary Boss and Too Much!

For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs. She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change.

Terri’s Links:

Website: terricole.com

Book website: fatherwoundbook.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/

FB Page: https://www.facebook.com/TerriColeLCSW/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/terricoleny

Podcast: https://terricole.com/itunes

Resources:

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Get My Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire:https://a.co/d/91ElXvNhttps://markgroves.com/book

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Fatherwound, Perfectionism, Attachment, Worthiness, Boundaries, Codependency, Healing, Relationships, Patterns, Masculinity, Femininity, Trauma, Abandonment, Patriarchy, Empowerment

To make the “right” decisions in love is challenging. Some of the most important questions we will ever ask ourselves live inside our relationships. Should I stay or go? Am I too much? Why do I keep losing myself? This is a Q&A episode and we go deep on all of it. Real questions, real answers, no fluff. If you have ever wondered whether love is enough, why you attract unavailable people, or how to ask for what you want without feeling needy... this one is for you.

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#534: Hold On and Die or Let Go and Live - With Greg German

Some people hit rock bottom and crawl back to the same life. Greg German hit rock bottom on a plane runway surrounded by FBI agents and chose something different. This is one of the most extraordinary stories of coherence, surrender and transformation I have ever heard. We get into what it actually costs to spend a lifetime chasing enoughness, what it looks like to have your entire identity stripped away in public, and why sometimes the universe will not let you go back to the life that was slowly killing you. This one will stay with you

Greg German is the founder of AUTHA, a private community for remembrance of the unity that is our true nature.At the heart of AUTHA is a radical reimagining of the Garden of Eden: what if humanity's original story wasn't one of sin and separation, but an invitation into knowledge, sovereignty, and the remembrance of our own divine nature? What if the greatest illusion we've inherited is the belief that we were ever separate from Source, from one another, or from the power that is our birthright?

Greg's work invites people to question and release the inherited shame, conditioning, and illusions that obscure this truth, opening a path to greater freedom, connection, coherence.The result is the abundant, fulfilling, meaningful life you deserve.

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LINKS:

Contact Greg: greg@autha.me

AUTHA: community for those who feel called to remember. https://markgroves--lifecraft.thrivecart.com/autha-private-membership-lifetime/

COVALENCE COUPLES:a series of immersive couples workshops that invite partners beyond the familiar cycles of blame, defensiveness, disconnection, and compromise—and into an entirely different experience of relationship. https://markgroves--lifecraft.thrivecart.com/covalence-couples/

PLEXA: an invitation to meet yourself beyond the limitations of intellectual understanding.: https://markgroves--lifecraft.thrivecart.com/plexa/

BORN: wild and ancestral foods, thoughtfully sourced local nourishment, and immersive experiences that reconnect us with the natural world, BORN offers a radically simple approach to physical coherence. https://bornsovereign.me/?bg_ref=MhdQj0nxiQ

Resources:

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Get My Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire:https://a.co/d/91ElXvNhttps://markgroves.com/book

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The world is loud right now and most of us are drowning in it. This solo episode is a direct conversation about what it actually takes to come back to yourself when everything around you is competing for your attention, your nervous system, and your sanity. We get into why safety is the baseline of every relationship, why you don’t need to share your opinion about everything on social media, and why if you are full of sh*t, your life will reflect that back to you.

Resources:

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Most high achievers are not building from ambition. They are building from wounds. In this episode i’m joined by Mandy Balak and she truly is the real deal. "She has built empires from grief, scaled companies from shame, and finally figured out the one thing that changes everything. We talk about what it actually costs to keep running on empty, why your business is always a mirror of your inner world, and what it looks like to finally stop chasing and start arriving.

Mandy Balak is the author of Chasing Enough: The High Achiever's Guide to Sustainable Success. She built three companies to seven figures while getting her father out of a Colombian prison. She held everything together, got him out, and then realized she'd built a prison of her own. That reckoning became the Well-Resourced Method, which she now teaches to leaders across North America.

Mandy has founded three companies. She spent ten years growing a media company to more than 250,000 members before selling it. She is President of The Gathering, a leadership festival and 12,000+ member community, and hosts The Well podcast.

Get the book (out now in Canada, October 20 in the US):Amazon US:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1774588234Amazon Canada:https://www.amazon.ca/dp/1774588234All retailers and group orders:https://mandybalak.com/book

Take the free Armor Quiz:https://mandybalak.com/quizFive minutes. It shows which of six armor patterns is running you, what it's costing you, and the one question that interrupts it.

Find Mandy:Instagram:https://instagram.com/mandybalakLinkedIn:https://linkedin.com/in/mandybalakThe Well podcast:http://mandybalak.com/podcastWebsite:https://mandybalak.com/

Resources:

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We're drowning in screens, and I think that's exactly why our relationships are struggling. Every unoccupied moment of our day has been filled with content and we've lost our capacity for boredom, which means we're losing our capacity for real intimacy. In this episode I talk about the burnout of building a business online, why I don't think a "healthy" relationship with social media is even possible, and what six months away from it taught me.

I'm building something to help with this... and I'd love your input. Survey's linked below

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Link to survey: http://www.markgroves.com/survey

Link to social post: https://www.instagram.com/p/DdUTnFcGcjh/?stkn=bHhicjhkY3JqYjlr

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Most people don't realize that their frustration with people who aren't available has a lot to do with their own unavailability. In this special episode I discuss 3 questions from my audience and how to handle their relational challenges. Why might we be holding on to or daydreaming about an ex? Why can't my partner fully commit or tell me they love me? How do I know the difference between settling and committing? These are important and complex questions that so many of us are struggling with. Tune in to learn more!

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Today I’m comin’ at ya with a short but sweet solo episode and sharing some things I’ve read lately that have blown my mind and brought some newfound awareness to my behaviour. I hope sharing these reflections offers insight into your own circumstances, behaviours and ways of being in the world so we can all move together towards creating a more loving, open, boundaried and secure space! 00:00 Intro 00:57 Boundaries 03:17 Awareness and regret 05:50 The tension of our no 08:42 Appreciating our parents 11:05 Medicalization of birth 13:29 Presence 16:49 Removing martyr energy Resources:

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Themes: Boundaries, Regret, Awareness, Appreciation, Self-Love, Victim Mentality, Community

What if the worst thing that ever happened to you was actually the thing that was always meant to find you? JP Francia almost drowned in his own bed from acid reflux. After a decade of failed medications and sleepless nights a simple remedy from his grandma changed everything. What followed is one of the most unlikely and inspiring entrepreneurial journeys you will ever hear. We get into gut health, blood sugar, the lies we have been told about medicine, and why your body always knows the truth before your mind does.

JP Francia is a serial entrepreneur who has built many successful businesses across multiple industries during his decorated career. His unique variety of success involves a dizzying professional journey spanning from commercial pilot instructor to children's TV executive producer, and advertising agency executive to chain restauranteur. Now, after a near-death experience with acid reflux, he is the founder of Life Cider, a CPG beverage brand built on the cure that changed his life: apple cider vinegar.

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At some point you have to stop being the student and start becoming your own authority. Not because teachers and mentors are not valuable but because the whole point of learning from them was always to find your way back to yourself. We get into why we unconsciously hand our power over to controlling or domineering people, why your autoimmune issues and your silence might be more connected than you think, and why the moment one person in a relationship starts to come alive it either invites the other person to do the same or it breaks the whole thing apart. The revolution begins the moment you hear yourself say the words you have never said out loud before.

Resources:

Need a digital detox? We've put together a free, science-backed protocol with everything you need to reclaim your focus, sleep, and attention — download it here.

Get My Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire:https://a.co/d/91ElXvNhttps://markgroves.com/book

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Most of us are brilliant at staying exactly where we do not want to be and building a perfectly rational case for why we cannot leave. The if-then loop. When this happens THEN I will. When the kids are older. When I have more money. When the time is right. Sound familiar? In this episode we get into why that loop is not a plan but instead a prison, and why resisting the system just builds a bigger wall around you. Mediocrity ends here. It does not get to pass through you. Keep going.

Resources:

Need a digital detox? We've put together a free, science-backed protocol with everything you need to reclaim your focus, sleep, and attention — download it here.

Get My Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire:https://a.co/d/91ElXvNhttps://markgroves.com/book

—Explore My Courses: https://markgroves.com/courses

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There is no such thing as the wrong choice. I know that sounds confronting depending on where you are in your life, but every choice you have ever made, even the ones that blew your life up, were revealing something. The shadow, the wound, the place where you still were not free. We get into why we freeze instead of evolve, why your symptoms are actually trying to bring you information, and why there has never been more competition for you to simply be with yourself than right now. Because they are monetizing your shame, your grief, your boredom, every moment you could have spent hearing your own soul. So get mad. And then get free.

Resources:

Need a digital detox? We've put together a free, science-backed protocol with everything you need to reclaim your focus, sleep, and attention — download it here.

Get My Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire:https://a.co/d/91ElXvNhttps://markgroves.com/book

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Here’s the thing nobody wants to hear but everybody needs to: If you do not go towards your pain you will become the kind of person who creates it. The betrayals you have not processed, the patterns you have not examined, the grief you have been numbing with your phone and your drinks and your situationships... all of it is running your life right now whether you see it or not. We get into why your defensive strategies are actually really smart but are also keeping you completely stuck, why your healing is never dependent on someone else's apology, and why both paths are hard but only one of them leaves you proud of yourself. You have one life. Let's stop wasting it waiting for other people to change first.

Resources:

Need a digital detox? We've put together a free, science-backed protocol with everything you need to reclaim your focus, sleep, and attention — download it here.

Get My Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire:https://a.co/d/91ElXvNhttps://markgroves.com/book

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Something is competing for your attention right now and it is not neutral. The world has never been louder, the news has never been more relentless, and we have never had less boredom, and that is not an accident. Because when you are constantly focused out there you lose access to in here. We talk about why anxiety is often just your inner voice trying to get your attention, why protecting your peace is not a privilege but a necessity, and why fate will simply not work for you if you are not willing to work for yourself. Put the phone down. Go touch some grass. Your inner world is waiting.

Resources:

Need a digital detox? We've put together a free, science-backed protocol with everything you need to reclaim your focus, sleep, and attention — download it here.

Get My Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire:https://a.co/d/91ElXvNhttps://markgroves.com/book

—Explore My Courses: https://markgroves.com/courses

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There is a question that will cut straight through any relationship fog you are sitting in right now. Could someone else love them better? Because if the answer is yes and you are still holding on, you have to ask yourself why. We get into why the life you were taught to want might be the very thing making you miserable, why your body is always the first to know when you are living out of integrity, and why real self love does not start with a grand gesture. It starts with the small choice to stop betraying yourself one boundary at a time.

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Something is happening to men right now and we need to talk about it. Not in the way the internet does, with shame and hot takes, but in a way that actually gets to the root of the problem. Because the energy that destroys when it is unintegrated is the exact same energy that protects and leads when it is not. So why are we trying to crush it instead of initiate it? In this episode we get into fatherless boys, what The Manosphere is getting right and wrong, and why holding space for men's suffering is not a negation of anyone else's. It is actually how the whole system heals.

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The Fourth Quarter Men’s Mastermind: https://markgroves.com/fourthquarter

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In this episode, I have an honest conversation about something that I think every parent needs to hear right now. What are we actually signing our kids up for when we hand them a smartphone? Because the data is becoming really hard to ignore, and what is happening to our kids, especially our girls, is not okay. We talk about why social media hits boys and girls differently, what it is actually doing to their developing brains, and why learning to curate your attention might be the most important thing you can teach yourself and your child right now.

02:15 - The Anxious Generation: How Tech Outpaced Human Evolution

06:45 - The Shocking Stats: Why Social Media Hits Girls Harder

09:20 - My Wake-Up Call

12:40 - When Algorithms Decide Your Worth (And Kill Your Art)

15:59 Digital Dementia: What Smartphones Do to Kids' Brains

22:45 - The Contagion Effect: Why Everyone Thinks They Have ADHD

25:50 - Taking Back Control: Your Attention is Your Life

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In this episode we’re going to talk about betrayal, and not just the kind that someone else does to you. Because here is what I have come to understand: almost every external betrayal is preceded by a betrayal of yourself. The moment you said yes when you meant no. The moment you agreed to a dynamic you did not actually want because the need to belong was louder than the need to be honest. We explore why unprocessed betrayal keeps you locked in the same relationship patterns, why victims of betrayal often either become like the person who hurt them or shut their hearts down entirely, and the two sentence completions that will reveal everything you need to know about the unconscious beliefs driving your love life. Because the goal is not just to heal from what they did. It is to come home to yourself so completely that you never have to choose between connection and truth again.

00:00 - The Consequences of Unprocessed Betrayal

01:04 - Personal Story: The Betrayal I Ignored

02:41 - Self-Awareness vs. Truly Letting Someone Love You

04:38 - How Betrayal Becomes Standards and Walls

05:59 - Reflective Exercise: Complete These Sentences

06:42 - The Deep Link Between External and Internal Betrayal

11:09 - Moving from Blame to Responsibility

13:24 - Healing: Reconnecting to Yourself and Your Heart

Resources:

Need a digital detox? We've put together a free, science-backed protocol with everything you need to reclaim your focus, sleep, and attention — download it here.

Get My Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire:https://a.co/d/91ElXvNhttps://markgroves.com/book

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In this episode, I want to talk about sobriety, and not the kind that starts with a rock bottom. The kind that starts with a whisper. A quiet voice inside you that says, what if life was better without this? We explore why the truths we know but refuse to live actually block us from receiving the next level of guidance we need, why quitting drinking is so often less about the alcohol and more about the fear of what other people will think, and why sobriety might just be the most radical act of presence you can choose. Because staying numb is not neutral. It is a choice to stay in the aquarium when the ocean is right there waiting for you.

00:06 – Heeding the "Small Voice"

01:13 – Simple "Life Math"

03:16 – Alchemizing Your Truth

05:05 – Aquarium vs. Ocean

06:21 – Breaking Social Codependency

Resources:

Need a digital detox? We've put together a free, science-backed protocol with everything you need to reclaim your focus, sleep, and attention — download it here.

Get My Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire:https://a.co/d/91ElXvNhttps://markgroves.com/book

—Explore My Courses: https://markgroves.com/courses

Follow me and my work here:

—Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv

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—Instagram - @createthelove:https://www.instagram.com/createthelove

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