Podcast
The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating & Relationships
Welcome to The Naked Connection, a sex and relationship podcast for men who want deeper intimacy, better communication, and more fulfilling sex.
Your host, Kirsten, helps men become legendary in bed and build meaningful romantic connections—by understanding how women actually experience desire, arousal, and attraction. She's a Tantric Practitioner trained in somatic and tantric traditions, with a Master's in Clinical Counseling.
Each episode explores topics like lasting longer in bed, ditching performance anxiety, building real sexual confidence, how to do that dirty fetish you fantasize about, and the unconscious dynamics that build meaningful relationships.
This is sex education for men—without shame, performance pressure, or gimmicks.
If you want sex that feels connected, confident, and wildly pleasurable, you're in the right place. Let's get some!
- Sexuality chart
- #12
- Episodes
- 163
- Releases
- Weekly
- Typical length
- 23 min
- On air since
- 2023
- Latest episode
- 18 hours ago
Episodes
163 episodes, newest first
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25 min
Voyeurism and Exhibitionism: A Hot Guide to Watching Each Other
Show notes
If you are a man who loves to watch your partner in bed, or secretly wants to be watched this episode is for you.
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💙 Connect with Kirsten T.
IG https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedconnection
❓Ask Kirsten a question to be answered on the show https://thenakedconnection.com/question
Join the Intro To Tantric Sex course https://thenakedconnection.com/tantra
🎓 Join the Legendary Lover Training https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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26 min
Men CAN Have Multiple Orgasms During Sex (7 Step Guide)
Show notes
Men can have multiple orgasms. Here's the neuroscience, the tantric practice, and the seven steps that make it possible.
🔥 What is your Sex IQ? Take the test to find out https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
💙 Connect with Kirsten T.
IG https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedconnection
❓Ask Kirsten a question to be answered on the show https://thenakedconnection.com/question
Join the Intro To Tantric Sex course https://thenakedconnection.com/tantra
🎓 Join the Legendary Lover Training https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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38 min
What to Do When Your Girl Doesn't Want Sex Anymore
Show notes
Your girl can love you and still not want sex, and this episode shows you what's actually missing and how to become the man your wife wants again.
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💙 Connect with Kirsten T.
IG https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedconnection
❓Ask Kirsten a question to be answered on the show https://thenakedconnection.com/question
Join the Intro To Tantric Sex course https://thenakedconnection.com/tantra
🎓 Join the Legendary Lover Training https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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22 min
Need More Foreplay to Get Turned ON? (Try THIS Tonight)
Show notes
If you are a man who needs a longer buildup before you're fully hard and locked in, you will learn the science of what is happening to your body and you'll also learn how to slow down foreplay so she stays turned on and engaged the whole time, the tantric reframe that takes the pressure off, and a script you can steal word for word to tell her what you need.
🔥 What is your Sex IQ? Take the test to find out https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
💙 Connect with Kirsten T.
IG https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedconnection
❓Ask Kirsten a question to be answered on the show https://thenakedconnection.com/question
Join the Intro To Tantric Sex course https://thenakedconnection.com/tantra
🎓 Join the Legendary Lover Training https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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19 min
Breast & Nipple Play to Drive Her WILD
Show notes
Here is how to active her arousal and create insane pleasure through breast and nipple play.
🔥 What is your Sex IQ? Take the test to find out https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
💙 Connect with Kirsten T.
IG https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedconnection
❓Ask Kirsten a question to be answered on the show https://thenakedconnection.com/question
Join the Intro To Tantric Sex course https://thenakedconnection.com/tantra
🎓 Join the Legendary Lover Training https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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18 min
You've Been Doing Missionary WRONG (Do This Instead)
Show notes
Here's how to take a standard position and make it legendary.
🔥 What is your Sex IQ? Take the test to find out https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
💙 Connect with Kirsten T.
IG https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@thenakedconnection
❓Ask Kirsten a question to be answered on the show https://thenakedconnection.com/question
Join the Intro To Tantric Sex course https://thenakedconnection.com/tantra
🎓 Join the Legendary Lover Training https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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38 min
3 Powerful Predictors Of A Satisfying Sex Life with Dr. Tara
Show notes
Here are 3 ways to build sexual satisfaction for yourself and your relationship.
Connect with Dr. Tara
Get her Book: How Do You Like It?: A Guide for Getting What You Want
🔥 Just how good are you in bed?
Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed.
Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
💙Connect with Kirsten T: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question
❤️🔥 Ready to Explore more Tantric Practices? Introduction to Tantra Course: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/tantra
🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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33 min
Sexless Marriage Advice for Men (How to Fix It) with Dr.Anna Elton
Show notes
A sexless relationship can happen to anyone. It can happen to the happiest, healthiest, most radiant couples you know. And it can happen for a dozen different reasons, none of which mean something is broken in you or in her.
If your tired of being in a sexless relationship, or want to make sure your relationship NEVER ends up without intimacy, this episode is for you.
Connect with Dr. Anna
https://theformulaofdesire.com/
Get her new book The Formula for Desire
🔥 Just how good are you in bed?
Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed.
Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
💙Connect with Kirsten T: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question
❤️🔥 Ready to Explore more Tantric Practices? Introduction to Tantra Course: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/tantra
🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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26 min
6 Ways to Improve Erection Quality After 40
Show notes
Softer erections after 40 is information on what to do next. If you are a man over 40 who has noticed changes in erection quality and wants to understand what's actually driving those changes and what you can do about them without going straight to a prescription, this episode covers the full picture.
🔥 Just how good are you in bed?
Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed.
Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
💙Connect with Kirsten T: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question
❤️🔥 Ready to Explore more Tantric Practices? Introduction to Tantra Course: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/tantra
🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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19 min
The Ultimate Guide To Rim Jobs
Show notes
Here is your guide to rim jobs. Enjoy!
🔥 Just how good are you in bed?
Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed.
Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
💙Connect with Kirsten T: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question
❤️🔥 Ready to Explore More Tantric Practices? Introduction to Tantra Course: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/tantra
🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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46 min
How to Have Better Sex When You're Stressed Out (with Mama Gena)
Show notes
If things are rocky in your life right now, this episode is here for you. Maybe you're facing a divorce, death or job loss...whatever it is, there is STILL a way to love your life regardless of what is unfolding around you. And the pathway to this is through your own pleasure and sex life. Regena Thomashauer (aka Mama Gena) is here to share all about rebuilding life, and love, after change and she breaks down ways to turn women on to give them extended Orgasms. Tune in to learn more.
Connect with Regena Thomashauer
New book: On Our Knees
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19 min
How to Make Her Choose You Over Every Other Guy
Show notes
If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right but still striking out with women, this episode is for you. We're diving into the one thing that's quietly working against you, and it has nothing to do with your looks, your opener, or how often you swipe right.
You will learn why attraction isn't luck and what actually generates it, how your internal state is being broadcast before you say a word, and the three things to examine when nothing seems to be working.
🔥 Just how good are you in bed?
Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed.
Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
💙Connect with Kirsten T: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question
❤️🔥 Ready to Explore more Tantric Practices? Introduction to Tantra Course: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/tantra
🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/lover
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44 min
How To Start Exploring Kinks and BDSM In Bed (Lessons from a Dominatrix)
Show notes
Lessons from a Dominatrix. Learn how to lead with confidence, ask for what you want, and build the kind of trust that lets her fully let go.
If you are a man who wants to step into a more dominant role without guessing, you will learn what real dominance actually requires, how to bring up a desire without fear of rejection, and how to create the safety that makes real submission possible.
🔥 Just how good are you in bed?
Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed.
Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
💙Connect with Kirsten T: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
Connect with Amanda Dames:
❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question
❤️🔥 Ready to explore more Tantric Practices? Introduction to Tantra Course: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/tantra
🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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19 min
Can't Finish During Sex? (How To Overcome Delayed Ejaculation)
Show notes
Not finishing during sex is more common than most men know. Here's what's causing it and exactly what to do about it.
If you are a man who struggles to reach orgasm during partnered sex, or whose partner has been quietly drawing painful conclusions from that experience, you will learn the four distinct causes of delayed ejaculation, what addresses each one, and how to have the partner conversation in a way that protects her confidence and brings her into the solution.
🔥 Just how good are you in bed?
Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed.
Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
💙Connect with Kirsten T: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question
🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
❤️🔥 Ready to Explore more Tantric Practices? Introduction to Tantra Course: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/tantra
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19 min
How to Properly Touch Her Clitoris and Make Her Orgasm
Show notes
Most men touch the clitoris too fast, too hard, and too soon. Here's the anatomy, the setup, and the technique that changes everything.
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41 min
The Frightening Connection Between Improved Fertility and Sex Drive
Show notes
If getting her pregnant has ever felt like a test you might fail, this one is for you. Tune in to learn what the fertility journey actually does to a man and his sexual performance. We cover testosterone injections, scheduled sex and the one habit that beats every supplement on the market to make your sexual health skyrocket.
Whether you want a baby, a stronger drive, or both, this is for you.
Connect with Dr. Gabriela Rosa
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/gabrielarosafertility
Website https://fertilitybreakthrough.com
Book: Fertility Breakthrough, available free on Spotify and YouTube
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💙 IG https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
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17 min
3 Simple Habits That Make You Penis Look Bigger Naked
Show notes
A listener question opens up the topic of natural ways to make your penis bigger and how to gain confidence back in the bedroom after your body has an injury or physical change. This one is for every man who has felt locked out of his own body.
If you are a man navigating physical changes, erectile challenges, or body confidence, you will learn what actually drives blood flow and erection quality, how your nervous system is working against or for you in intimate moments, and five things you can do starting this week.
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Connect with Kirsten
💙 IG https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
❓ Anonymous question submission https://thenakedconnection.com/question
🎓 Legendary Lover Training https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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22 min
Give Her a Breast Orgasm with These 5 Techniques
Show notes
Let's talk about boobs! If you want to understand breast stimulation at a deeper level, including the neuroscience behind it, the tantric practice of energetic attunement, and the specific techniques that create real, repeatable pleasure, this episode gives you the full picture.
🔥 Take the Sex IQ Test https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
Connect with Kirsten
🧠 IG https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
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🎓Join the Legendary Lover Training (with the special podcast listener discount!) https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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22 min
How to Navigate Her Clitoral Hood
Show notes
The clitoral hood is the most overlooked part of her anatomy. Understanding it changes everything about how you touch her.
If you are a man who wants to understand clitoral anatomy at a level that actually translates to consistent pleasure for a woman, including why sensitivity varies so dramatically and what might be silently blocking her orgasm entirely, this episode covers all of it.
🔥 Just how good are you in bed?
Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed.
Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
💙Connect with Kirsten T: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/
Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/
❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question
🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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52 min
Your Attachment Style Is Ruining Your Sex Life (Do THIS to Fix It)
Show notes
Your attachment style is running your sex life. The patterns keeping you distant, performative, or shut down in bed go deeper than technique. They were wired in before you could even name them.
In this episode, we break down all four attachment styles, what they look like in the bedroom, and the specific two-minute daily practice you can start today to actually rewire the subconscious patterns that are keeping you stuck.
If you are a man who wants a deeper, more fulfilling, more authentic sex life, you will learn why you pull away (or push too hard), how your childhood wiring shows up in bed right now, and what to do about it starting tonight.
Connect with Thais Gibson https://personaldevelopmentschool.com
🔥 Just how good are you in bed?
Take the Sex IQ Test and uncover your strengths (and growth edges) in bed.
Visit https://thenakedconnection.com/quiz
Connect with Kirsten
https://thenakedconnection.com
@nakedconnection
❓Have a question you want answered on the show?
Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question
🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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