Podcast

Imperfect Love

Education, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

The messy road of life is difficult to navigate alone, and it’s often tough to figure out the next best step. Hosted by psychologist and author Dr. Carla Marie Manly, the Imperfect Love podcast sheds light on the complicated, sensitive problems that affect us all. Dr. Carla responds to listeners’ real-life questions with a mindfulness-based approach. She delivers quality, nourishing advice on finding love and happiness by learning to embrace life's imperfections.

In supportive conversations with Dr. Carla, you’ll be inspired to cultivate inner joy and create the loving relationships you deserve. With her unique body-mind-spirit focus, she’ll help you create self-love and transform your challenges into growth opportunities. Each episode is an invitation to explore what does and doesn’t work for you. Collectively, the episodes will help you live the life you were meant to live—the life you want to live—right now.

Looking to grow and change for the better? Discover and hone the skills that will bring you fulfillment and success. Explore the shifts that will help you create the life of your dreams. Increase your self-esteem as you let go of the fear and perfectionism that feed everything from anxiety and body image issues to people-pleasing. Get unstuck and gain confidence by turning negative messages into fuel for change. Feel the transformation that comes from loving your wonderful, imperfect self.

Tired of unsatisfying love relationships? Learn how to attract “perfectly flawed” love that helps you feel seen and respected. Explore love’s highs and lows as you discover how to avoid pitfalls and build emotionally intimate relationships. Discover effective skills for cultivating boundaries, emotional intelligence (EQ), and communication skills to improve your dating life, marriage, or other romantic relationship. Delve into hot topics including narcissism, red flags, toxic patterns, sexuality, apologies, insecure attachment issues, situationships, conflict, trauma, and more.

Looking for genuine, supportive friendships? Get the tools you need to create connections with people who understand, accept, and appreciate you. Learn how to let go of unhealthy friends and discover how to build friendships with people who will respect your boundaries and value you for who you are.

Struggling with parenting, in-laws, siblings, or other family issues? Explore challenging family dynamics and attachment problems from multiple angles. Master communication strategies and discover how to shift dysfunctional family patterns with mindful love and empathy.

Feeling burned out or unsatisfied at work? Investigate the problems that make work feel like a depressing chore. Discover the power of workplace EQ and the importance of work-life balance. Learn to use self-care to avoid burnout and feel passionate about your job.

Yearning for respect, equality, and unconditional love? If you identify as a member of the LGBTQIA2S+ community or other marginalized group and have been rejected because of who you are or who you love, you’ll find inclusivity and affirmation. Dr. Carla's platform is welcoming of all sexual orientations and gender identities.

Above all, Imperfect Love creates a warm and accepting space for you to reconnect with your inherent goodness, wisdom, and spirituality. Discover the benefits of self-care and healthy mindset shifts to create positive patterns and internal abundance. Embrace effective stress-reduction techniques such as meditation, journaling, and breathwork to reduce anxiety, calm your mind, and take control of your emotions. Manifest the inner joy that allows you to be the very best version of yourself.

Enjoy Imperfect Love at http://drcarlamanly.com/.

Disclaimer: This podcast is purely educational and is not a replace for professional psychological support. In case of emergency, contact your nearest hospital or emergency hotline such as “911” (US), “999” (UK), or “112” (EU).

Mental Health chart
#21
Episodes
169
Releases
Weekly
Typical length
54 min
On air since
2023
Latest episode
4 days ago

Episodes

169 episodes, newest first

  1. Overcome Shame & The "Normal" Myth: The Secret to Authentic Connection

    Season 4, Episode 169

    Show notes

    Do you hide quirky parts of yourself for fear that others won't like or accept you? Are you afraid that others would reject you if you revealed your so-called "not normal" parts? I've found that many people sacrifice aspects of their authentic being in the quest to be accepted and fit in. Yet whether you are neurotypical or not, I've discovered that letting go of the myth of normality--and releasing the expectation that you need to be someone you're not to fit in--can help you release shame, find fulfilling community, and build the solid, meaningful friendships you deserve. So today, we're joined by Dr. Daniel Wendler, a leading psychologist, best-selling author, and TedX speaker who will guide you into the realm of self-acceptance and self-love.

    Please note that this episode may contain sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Note: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling “911” or “988” (Suicide and Crisis Hotline). Support/informational links are in the show notes.

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert in this (or any episode) is offering medical or psychological direction; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Dr. Daniel Wendler:

    Website: https://www.danielwendler.com/

    Autistic Psychologist: https://www.autisticpsychologist.org

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdanpsychologist/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AutisticPsychologist

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@autisticpsychologist

    Writing: https://writing.danielwendler.com/

    Audiobook: https://www.audible.com/pd/Neurodiversity-and-the-Myth-of-Normal-Audiobook/B0CVBKYHQD

    ADDA: https://add.org/

    Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/

    57 min
  2. Fix Your Sleep: The Blueprint for Focus and Longevity

    Season 4, Episode 168

    Show notes

    Do you wake up feeling exhausted and sluggish as you make it through the day? Do you wish you could figure out the keys to get good sleep every night? Research shows that over a third of adults and far more teens get less than 7 hours of sleep a night, and millions more suffer from poor sleep quality. Yet sleep is vital for our wellbeing; good sleep helps you focus, feel your best from the inside out, and stay in top form. And consistently solid sleep improves your overall health and longevity. So today we're joined by a top physician, Dr. Jerome Puryear. As a wellness expert and author of "Sleep Deprivation: A Doctor’s Guide to Why You Can’t Sleep & How to Sleep Better," Dr. Puryear will help help you uncover the secrets to getting the solid sleep you need and deserve.

    Please note that this episode may contain sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Note: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911" or "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline). Support/informational links are in the show notes.

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert in this (or any episode) is offering medical or psychological direction; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Dr. Jerome Puryear:

    Website: https://www.drjeromepuryear.com

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.jeromepuryear/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jerome.puryear

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drjeromepuryear

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjeromepuryear/

    Substack: https://drjeromepuryear.substack.com/

    Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/

    42 min
  3. How to Overcome Obstacles, Build Resilience, & Live Your Dreams

    Season 4, Episode 167

    Show notes

    Feeling stuck? Wanting to get more out of life? Tired of comparing yourself to others? If so, you're not alone. Many people feel as if they're living an ordinary life or even sleepwalking through each year. Yet if you take the time to tune into your dreams, follow through with perseverance, and take good care of your body, mind, and spirit, you can live your best life on every level. Today, we're joined by a singer, actor, and wellness leader whose life has taken him from the heights of hit boy band O-Town fame and the stage of Broadway productions such as "Wicked" and "Hairspray" to his latest passion of helping others take control of their well-being and live at the highest level. So if you're looking for a dose of joy and inspiration to help you reach your full potential at any stage in life, this episode is for you.

    Topics discussed include mindset shifts, gratitude, exercise, change, supplements, vitamins, GNC, High Level Science, Hairspray, Wicked, Making the Band, O-Town, comparison, social media, toxic comparison, Tony Robbins, personal transformation, wellness, longevity, science, research-backed, physical discipline, resilience, personal transformation, music, dance, exercise, psychotherapy, support groups, coaching, and group therapy.

    Please note that this episode may contain sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911" or "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information:

    https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Ashley Parker Angel:

    Website: https://livehighlevel.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashley_parker_angel/?hl=en

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ashleyparkerangel/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashley_parker_angel?lang=en

    X (Twitter): https://x.com/ParkerAngel

    Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/

    56 min
  4. Fats for Brain Health & Mood: What to Eat vs Avoid

    Season 4, Episode 166

    Show notes

    Can fats affect your mood, brain health, and longevity? From seed nut oils and saturated fats to Omega-3s and Omega-6s, discussions around what's healthy and unhealthy continue to flow. And although we tend to think that healthy living and eating should be easy and natural, the ever-changing flood of wellness messages can lead to loads of confusion. And feelings of confusion can lead you to do nothing or--worse yet--follow a fad that might be detrimental to your physical and mental health. So to help us sort through some of the myths and truths around oils and their role in lasting wellness, we're joined by a leading expert, Udo Erasmus, whose pioneering work in health has led him to work with leaders such as Tony Robbins and Deepak Chopra. And in this episode, Udo will help YOU tap into the benefits of living in alignment with yourself and nature.

    Topics discussed include longevity, brain health, mental health, cognition, focus, mood, vegetarian, vegan, fried food, healthy eating, healthy diet, flax seed oil, fish, pesticides, insecticides, biochemistry, healing, "Dark Waters" movie, "Eating Our Way to Extinction" movie, medical care, healthcare, symptom management, high energy, and Western medicine.

    Please note that this episode may contain sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911" or "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information:

    https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Udo Erasmus:

    Website: https://udoerasmus.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/udoerasmus/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theudoerasmus/

    Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/

    54 min
  5. Got ADHD? Turn It Into Your Superpower!

    Season 4, Episode 165

    Show notes

    Do you or a loved one get distracted easily? Do you notice a chronic behaviors such as distractibility, difficulty with attention to detail, forgetfulness, restlessness, or impulsivity? If so, ADHD--Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder--might be at the root of what's going on. Many people with ADHD, even those receive an appropriate diagnosis and care, struggle with the variety of symptoms that can affect identity development, self-esteem, emotional regulation, daily life routines, and so much more. Yet when you learn how to understand and manage ADHD symptoms, you can make them work for you--and even become a superpower. So today, we're joined by two top, strength-based specialists--Micah Saviet and Elizabeth Ahmann--who can help you flourish with ADHD.

    Topics discussed include emotional regulation, trauma, neurodiversity, shame reduction, identity development, motivation, procrastination, goal management, menopause, perimenopause, retirement, executive functioning, intelligence, reactivity, impulsivity, neuropsychological, neurobiological, ADHD, Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, dopamine, interest-based reward system, hyperalert, hyperactive, parenting, children, neurodiverse, neurotypical, and self-compassion.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information:https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    andhttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationshipshttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Elizabeth Ahmann:

    X/Twitter: https://x.com/lizahmann

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elizabeth.ahmann

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lizahmann/

    Connect with Micah Saviet:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/micah.saviet

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/micah-saviet/

    Other Resources:

    Website:http://www.drroseann.comhttps://www.adulttraumaandadhdsolutions.com/

    Adult Trauma & ADHD Solutions: https://www.adulttraumaandadhdsolutions.com/

    Flourishing with Adult ADHD Book: https://amzn.to/4jwOmtG

    Springer Institute: https://bsky.app/profile/springerinstitute.bsky.socia

    Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/

    59 min
  6. Nutrition and Longevity Secrets: Stop Restricting, Start Healing

    Season 4, Episode 164

    Show notes

    It can be challenging to stay fit and healthy. Yet it's easy to fall into the trap of believing that one pill, diet, exercise or lifestyle hack will be the key to being in top form. And we're hit daily with an array of ads that promise far more than they deliver. In many cases, from GLP-1s and supplements to diets, the downsides such as muscle loss and eating disorders are often cloaked or ignored. People seeking a magic bullet--or at least a dose of hope--often get trapped is costly cycles that may actually harm their health. Today's top-notch expert, registered dietician Fiorella DiCarlo, will guide us through simple nutrition strategies you can take to optimize your hormones, fitness, and overall health--and get off the hamster wheel of harmful health fads. You'll discover how to optimize your metabolic health and mood by adding nutrients, not subtracting food.

    Topics discussed include nutrition, healthy eating, eating disorders, binge eating, anorexia, medical care, physicians, dieticians, GLP-1s, silent malnutrition, creatine, hormones, normative diet culture, disordered eating, research,

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material including the discussion of eating disorders; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information:https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    andhttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationshipshttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Fiorella DiCarlo:

    Website: https://www.fiorellard.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fiorellaeatstv/

    Menopause Guide: https://www.fiorellard.com/menopause

    GLP-1 Information: https://www.fiorellard.com/glp-1

    Eating Disorder Support: https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/

    Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/

    56 min
  7. Optimize Your Brain Power & Vitality: The Ultimate Biohacks

    Season 4, Episode 163

    Show notes

    We often expect our bodies and brains to operate at peak performance throughout our lives. Yet what fuels us--and what we can get away with--in our first few decades of life doesn't cut it as we get older. In fact, I've discovered that optimal mental and physical health require greater focus and effort with each passing year. So whether you are looking to heal an injury, increase your brain power, train your nervous system for weight loss, boost your resilience, or foster healthy longevity, today's interview with Dr. Scott Sherr, a leading board-certified internal medicine physician who is certified in Health Optimization Medicine, offers empowering news for you. Get the clear, actionable, and research-backed information you need to improve your mental and physical health.

    Topics discussed include health optimization, brain health, energy, resilience, science, longevity, parasympathetic nervous system, sympathetic nervous system, brain fog, hormones, perimenopause, menopause, testosterone, mitochondria, methylene blue, HBOT, PTSD, healing, and fight-flight response.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Dr. Scott Sherr:

    Website: https://troscriptions.com/pages/team/dr-scott-sherr

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drsherr

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drscottsherr/

    Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/

    57 min
  8. How to Ignite Your Awesomeness!

    Season 3, Episode 162

    Show notes

    We often expect ourselves to know our true purpose or mission in life. Yet, for even those who know their genuine calling early on, distractions, expectations, and life necessities can get in the way. But sometimes that deep yearning--a strong knowing in the soul--just can't be ignored. Yet it's not always easy to break out of the mold, listen to your inner voice, and set out on a journey of your own. So today, we're joined by Dr. Victoria Rader, healer, guide, and spiritual coach, who will help you discover the love, joy, passion, and infinite possibilities that are waiting just for you. They keys to igniting your soul's calling are just a step away!

    Topics discussed include love, power, purpose, life's calling, destiny, soul mission, compromise, entropy, self-limiting beliefs, disappointment, expectations, quantum physics, emotional freedom, opportunity, fear, change, potential, expansion, contraction, and self-discovery.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Dr. Victoria Rader:

    Website: http://yu2shine.com

    LinkedIn: Dr. Victoria Rader on LinkedIn

    Instagram: Dr. Victoria Rader on Instagram

    YouTube: Dr. Victoria Rader on YouTube

    Facebook: Dr. Victoria Rader on Facebook

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    44 min
  9. Micro-Moments: Small Habits for Lasting Love

    Season 4, Episode 161

    Show notes

    Are you constantly yearning for a deeper connection with your partner? Do you tend to feel that your mate is disinterested in what's going on in your inner or outer world? Common issues like these leave many romantic partners feeling dissatisfied with the quality of their intimate relationships. And when parenting, family, and work issues arise, the sense of disconnection can get far worse--and even lead partners into going their separate ways. Yet I've found that many relationships can be resuscitated--and made stronger than ever--when partners invest in mindful emotional connection. Today, we're joined by a top relationship expert, Dr. Laura Gambrel, who will guide us into powerful world of EFT, Emotionally Focused Therapy, to help you get the loving connection you crave!

    Topics discussed include love, relationships, marriage, children, stress, societal messages, emotional availability, emotional connection, secure attachment, attachment style, insecure attachment, avoidant attachment, anxious attachment, compliments, positive reinforcement, shame, curiosity, suffering, individual therapy, self-growth, and couples therapy.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information:https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    andhttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationshipshttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

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    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Dr. Laura Gambrel:

    Website: http://www.relational-mindfulness.org/

    LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/gambrel

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    1 hr
  10. The Secret to Unshakable Inner Confidence and Self-Worth

    Season 4, Episode 160

    Show notes

    Are you exhausted from over-giving and over-doing? Do you tend to look to others for validation or lean into people-pleasing behaviors? If so, you're in solid company. From childhood forward, many of us learn to tend to others' needs to feel valuable and worthy. And from my experience, these hardwired habits can foster perfectionism, enmeshment, and dependency--and even open the door to being exploited by thoughtless or self-serving people. Yet I've found that small changes over time can foster the awareness and inner strength you need to create healthy habits and set yourself free. Today, we're joined by a fabulous guest who specializes in helping others gain self-worth from within--instead of from others.

    Topics discussed include emotional outsourcing, perfectionism, self-care, self-love, habit change, midlife crisis, perimenopause, menopause, life changes, role changes, codependency, red flags, neurolinguistics, GABA, boundaries, marriage, children, parenting, healthy relationships, reciprocity, mutuality, and grief.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information:https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    andhttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationshipshttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

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    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Beatriz Victoria Albina:

    Website: https://beatrizalbina.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beatrizvictoriaalbina/

    Additional Resources:

    End Emotional Outsourcing: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/

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    54 min
  11. Beyond Betrayal: Untangling the Post-Infidelity Trauma Loop

    Season 4, Episode 159

    Show notes

    Betrayal by a loved one--especially sexual infidelity--can be one of the most traumatic events a person experiences. And if you've been betrayed by a romantic partner, you know firsthand how devastating the blow can be. In fact, those who are betrayed often find themselves drowning in a sea of endless questions, overwhelming anxiety, and doubt. Despite the trauma they've endured, the betrayed individual often feels pressured to accept a partner's apology, invest in the relationship, and move on. But what if true recovery requires--first and foremost--rebuilding of the self? Today, we're joined by a renowned betrayal trauma specialist and author, Beth Fischer, who is the creator of The Betrayal Trauma Healing Method and The Integrity Journey. Beth will guide us into the art of healing from the deep pain of betrayal.

    Topics discussed include sexual betrayal, emotional betrayal, financial betrayal, infidelity, loss, grief, pain, trauma, PTSD, shame, marriage, relationship\s, intimacy, trust, self-trust, nervous system, dysregulation, betrayer, betrayed, marriage therapy, relationship therapy, individual therapy, healing, divorce, and self-work.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information:https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    andhttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationshipshttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

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    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Beth Fischer:

    Website: https://www.healingwithbeth.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betrayaltraumahealingmethod/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@betrayaltraumahealingmethod

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Coach-Beth-Fischer/100088850988627/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@healing.betrayal.trauma

    Additional Resources:

    On the Other Side of Pain: Healing After Betrayal: A Gentle Trauma-Informed Guide to Truly Heal Betrayal Trauma and Rebuild Your Life After Infidelity

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    59 min
  12. Feeling Excluded? How to Shine as Your Authentic Self!

    Season 3, Episode 158

    Show notes

    Tired of shrinking to fit in? Feeling like a square peg in a round hole? These common issues can make us feel as if we'll never truly belong. We crave inclusion for many reasons. On an evolutionary level, instinct drives us to be part of a pack because we're more likely to survive. And belonging to a group of like-minded people can foster self-esteem while also reducing loneliness and anxiety. Yet, in real life, many people--from childhood forward--struggle with finding or fitting into a group that offers a reassuring sense of inclusion. And this can foster feelings of being unwanted, unworthy, and unloved. So today, we're joined by a highly skilled guest, Dr. JJ Kelly, who has a knack for helping others embrace their lovable inner misfit, grow strong, and shine.

    Topics discussed include emotional intelligence, emotions, feelings, DBT, dialectical behavioral therapy, self-love, self-like, inclusion, bullying, outsider, misfit, neurolinguistics, genuine self, authenticity, internal validation, external validation, parenting contracts, consequences, projection, values, pride, self-growth, personal evolution, parenting, children, emotional bullying, unresolved trauma, and transformation.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information:https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    andhttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationshipshttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

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    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Dr. JJ Kelly:

    Website: https://www.drjjkelly.com/

    Books: https://www.drjjkelly.com/books

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thepunkrockdoc1

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjjkelly/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLWVu-64eiNvhsV56y4jC4g

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    51 min
  13. Identity Shift: Becoming Your Best Self

    Season 3, Episode 157

    Show notes

    Are you living your best, most authentic life? When it comes to success, attractiveness, and other externalities, it's easy to get caught up in comparing yourself to other people. But when we judge who we are by others' appearances, achievements, or highlight reels, self-judgment intensifies and only makes things worse. Yet you can learn how to avoid judging yourself and your worth and, instead, tune into what's truly right for you. Today's guest, Alina Z, is a board-certified health and life coach, life stylist, and award-winning chef. As we journey through this episode, Alina will help you discover and grow the amazing self and life you've been craving.

    Topics discussed include self-love, self-identity, personal identity, soul, archetypes, achievement, creativity, inner knowing, soul, transformation, personal change, luxury, life styles, authentic self, self-care, self-growth, eating disorders, binge eating, healthy lifestyle, self-alignment, and wellness.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information:https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    andhttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationshipshttps://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

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    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Alina Z:

    Website: https://www.alinaz.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifestylistalina/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LifeStylistAlina

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/alinazshow

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alinazhukovskaya/

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    54 min
  14. LIVE BIG: How to Supercharge Yourself and Your Life

    Season 3, Episode 156

    Show notes

    Do you tend to live small because you're afraid of not doing well or not getting things right? If a fear of failure or worries about how others might see you keep you from reaching high and becoming your best self, you're certainly not alone. As a clinical psychologist, I've found that many people stay stuck because they don't trust their ability to overcome challenges, perform well under pressure, and reach for the stars. So if you'd like to break through whatever holds you back, you'll love today's guest, JD Tremblay, a certified neuropath practitioner, ultra-endurance athlete, and Director of High Performance and Mental Resilience at Hungry Warrior Academy. He is also the author of "Hunger for More in Life." In today's episode, JD will offer key tips on how you can break free of fear and excel in all areas of your life.

    Topics discussed include physical health, mental health, emotional health, fear, bullying, faith, courage, bravery, survival mode, values, priorities, challenge, special forces, Navy SEALS, triathletes, success, limitations, anxiety, emotions, criticism, healthy relationships, alignment,

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with JD Tremblay:

    Website: https://hungrywarrioracademy.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hungrywarrioracademy/

    Hunger For More in Life: Conquer Mental Struggles, Defy Limitations, and Discover Purpose Through Epic Achievements: https://www.amazon.com/Hunger-More-Life-Limitations-Achievements/dp/B0BZF56ZXM

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    1 hr
  15. The Truth About AI Friendship: Artificial Intimacy or Real Connection?

    Season 4, Episode 155

    Show notes

    Do you have a best friend who is available 24/7 and never wavers in their loving support of you? And does this perfect friend just give and give without ever asking for anything in return? Enter the AI chatbot who makes perfect, one-sided friendships like this increasingly common. In truth, it can be temptingly easy to form a relationship--or even in fall in love--with a corporately owned algorithm that beneficently soothes and satisfies your emotional needs. And while there are upsides to such relationships, downsides such as dependency, lower emotional intelligence (EQ) and reduced interpersonal skills are also in the mix. Today, we're joined by Bridget Todd, author of "Love at First Prompt." Bridget is a journalist, podcast host, award-winning creator, and producer who will guide us into the complex and poignant world of AI relationships, artificial intimacy, loneliness, healing, true connection, and genuine love.

    Topics discussed include love, friendship, AI companion, companionship, relationships, genuine connection, intimacy, grief, loss, parents, children, empathy, patience, loneliness, memories, self-growth, personal development, AI hallucinations, artificial intelligence, chatbots, tolerance, building memories, and dependency.

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Bridget Todd:

    Website: https://www.bridget-todd.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bridgetmarieindc/?hl=en

    Simon Audio Socials:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SimonAudio/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@simon.audio

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/simon.audio/?hl=en

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    44 min
  16. The Micro-Step Method: Gently Heal Stress, Trauma, & Dysregulation

    Season 3, Episode 154

    Show notes

    You may have heard a lot about nervous system regulation and its role in helping you prevent emotional and behavioral chaos while finding inner peace. You may even have tried some tools to reduce stress and create more internal calm but didn't find much lasting relief. In truth, it can take a lot of practice to rewire our bodies and brains in lasting ways, especially when negative patterns have been in play for years or decades. Yet because dysregulation is at the root of many issues from mood disorders to chronic anxiety, any shifts we make for the better can also benefit our partners, children, and families. Today, we're joined by a leading expert, Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, who will guide us on the path of lasting change and healing. Dr. Roseann is a leading expert in emotional and behavioral dysregulation and creator of e CALMS Dysregulation Protocol and Regulation First Parenting.

    Topics discussed include trauma, healing, mental health, anxiety, ADHD, neurotypical, neurodivergent, kinesthetic learning, nervous system, parasympathetic nervous system, autonomic nervous system, breathwork, meditation, parenting, children, family, intergenerational patterns, generational emotional wealth, and positive reinforcement.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge:

    Website:http://www.drroseann.com

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drroseann/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrRoseannCapannaHodge/

    Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/naturalparentingsolutions

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/DrRoseann

    Podcast: http://www.drroseann.com/podcast

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/roseanncapannahodge/

    Dysregulated Kids: https://dysregulatedkid.com/

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    54 min
  17. Get Rooted and Restored! Steps to Create Inner Calm

    Season 3, Episode 153

    Show notes

    In today's high-stress world, it's easy to get stuck in chronic survival mode. We expect ourselves to be more and do more, and often don't realize the toll this takes on our emotional, mental, and physical health. I've learned, from personal and professional experience, that chronic stress and strain can lead you into a state of ongoing nervous system dysregulation that-can become your norm. Today, I'm joined by a highly trained somatic expert and holistic nurse, Samalie Rivera, who will help you discover how to create a compassion-filled, successful life without sacrificing yourself and the balanced, freeing pace you deserve.

    Topics discussed include healing, trauma, PTSD, chronic stress, nervous system regulation, nervous system dysregulation, stress, ADHD, stress reduction, self-compassion, self-awareness, self-care, survival mode, fight or flight, polyvagal theory, glimmers, self-judgment, inner-critic, shadow work, somatic awareness, inner peace, mindfulness, and balance.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/

    and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Samalie Rivera:

    Website: https://www.oubaitoriwellness.com/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/oubaitoriwellnessllc/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/samalie-rivera-07254082

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somatic.nurse.sam/

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    50 min
  18. Sex on Fire! Expert Strategies for Intimacy & Connection!

    Season 3, Episode 152

    Show notes

    We often believe that great relationships--and great sex--should come naturally. After all, movies and social media feed us carefully curated versions of idealized romances, perfectly toned bodies, and deliciously steamy sex. Yet in real life, romantic relationships and the sex that comes with them can feel anything but deeply affirming and satisfying. To help us understand the secrets to fostering genuine relational and sexual connection, I'm joined by a top-notch guest, Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn. Dr. Tara is a sexologist, researcher, professor, and author who is known as "The Internet's Resident Sexpert."

    Topics discussed include sexuality, sex, sexual intimacy, sex education, sexual wellness, sexploration, communication, play, toxic dynamics, attraction, slow burn relationships, friendships, sexual compatibility, sexual inhibitions, sexual repression, anxiety, comparison, marriage, dating, relationships, ex-relationships, long term partnerships, monogamous relationships, monogamy, exploration, confidence, blame, shame, guilt, and defensiveness.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn:

    Website: http://www.luvbites.co/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/

    Twitter/X: https://x.com/luvbitesco

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luvbites.co

    Book by Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn:

    How Do You Like It? A Guide For Getting What You Want (In Bed)

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    51 min
  19. RESET YOUR LIFE: Healing Self-Doubt, Guilt, and Shame

    Season 3, Episode 151

    Show notes

    Do feelings of self-doubt hold you back? Do you struggle with feelings of guilt because of something you regret doing or not doing? Does unworthiness or shame keep you stuck? I've found that common issues like these are at the root of the deep pain and suffering that keeps many people stuck or going in circles. Yet there is a path forward that can help you release guilt, self-doubt, and shame to discover the deep, healing power of inner freedom and self-love. Today, we're joined by Blake D. Bauer, a world-renowned teacher, speaker, and best-selling author who will guide us into the realm of discovering the deep, lasting healing you deserve.

    Topics discussed include self-worth, self-doubt, self-love, self-care, soul, guilt, shame, blame, manipulation, relationships, family, children, love, intergenerational patterns, self-betrayal, existential guilt, worthiness, humility, learning, thinking errors, alignment, values, priorities, self-needs, attunement, and living in alignment.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Blake D. Bauer:

    Website: https://www.dralamountain.org/teacher/blake-d-bauer/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blakedbauer/?hl=en

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BlakeBauer1/, https://www.facebook.com/YouWereNotBornToSuffer.by.BlakeDBauer

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/blake-d-bauer/

    Book by Blake D. Bauer:

    You Were Not Born to Suffer: Overcome Fear, Insecurity and Depression and Love Yourself Back to Happiness, Confidence and Peace

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    58 min
  20. Detox Your BODY, Detox Your MIND: The Path to TRUE Wellness

    Season 3, Episode 150

    Show notes

    Have you felt off or ill and visited your doctor's office only to be told that everything looks normal? From my personal and professional experience I know how common and upsetting this type of treatment can be. When you know your body isn't okay, it can be incredibly stressful to not get the proper care you deserve and need. And if you're already feeling exhausted or deflated by poor or insufficient medical care, it can be tough to fight for change. Yet when we learn to pause and then reach beyond what standard medical protocol might provide, we can find the hope and real life solutions we need. Dr. Diana Stafford, a physician and functional medicine practitioner known as the Detox Doc, joins Dr. Carla Marie Manly to unravel some of the hidden causes of common medical and mental health issues as she paves the way to finding true wellness!

    Topics discussed include gut-brain-immune axis, gut-brain axis, trauma, PTSD, functional medicine, mold toxicity, root-cause medicine, eastern medicine, healing, wellness, fungal infections, candida, environmental medicine, environmental issues, BPA, PFAS, forever chemicals, pesticides, medical care, illness, nervous system support, breathwork, low-toxicity living, nervous system regulation, fight or flight response, freeze response, appease response, fawn response, and healthy solutions.

    Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.

    Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.

    Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships

    IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.

    Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:

    Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/

    Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanly

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manly

    Books by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend

    Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly

    Aging Joyfully: A Woman’s Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond

    The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships

    Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:

    Etsy

    Amazon

    Connect with Dr. Diana Stafford:

    Website: https://www.doctorstafford.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedetoxdoc_/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thedetoxdocmd/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thedetoxdoc/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thedetoxdoc

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thedetoxdoc

    Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/

    41 min

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