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In this episode, we’re talking about friendship breakups, why they can be so difficult, and how to move forward when a friendship ends. We discuss the psychology behind why losing a friend hurts, how to process the emotions, stop overthinking what went wrong, and learn to let go. Whether you’ve grown apart, experienced a falling out, or are struggling to move on, we’re sharing advice on how to navigate friendship breakups and find peace with the fact that not every friendship is meant to last forever.

In this episode, we’re breaking down how to ACTUALLY rewire your brain, challenge negative thoughts, and start thinking more positively. We dive into the psychology behind negative thinking patterns, why our brains tend to focus on the negative, and practical, research-backed ways to change your mindset. From overcoming self-doubt and overthinking to building healthier thought patterns, we’re talking about the little things you can start doing every day to change the way you think. Because you have more power over your mindset than you might realize!

In this episode, we’re talking about how to actually enjoy being alone, fall in love with yourself, and become your own best friend. We’re breaking down how learning to enjoy your own company can change your confidence, relationships, happiness, and the way you experience life. From becoming comfortable doing things alone to building self-worth and creating a life you genuinely love, we’re talking about why your relationship with yourself matters more than you think. Because when you learn to be happy on your own, you stop relying on other people to make you feel whole and start creating a life that feels fulfilling all on its own. 💗

In this episode, we’re breaking down how to ACTUALLY make a friend from the very beginning. We’re talking about how to put yourself out there, stop overthinking, overcome the fear of rejection, and feel more confident in social situations. From approaching someone new and starting a conversation to building confidence, making plans, and turning a random person into a genuine friendship. If you’ve ever wanted to make more friends but didn’t know where to start, this episode is for you! 💗

We’re switching it up this week and talking about working out and why physical health is mental health. We’re getting into lifting weights, eating well, creating healthy routines, building confidence, and learning to take care of your body without comparing yourself to everyone else.

Working out isn’t just about how you look it’s about how you feel, your mental health, and becoming the strongest version of yourself. 🤍

If you’ve been feeling like you need a little reset, this episode is for you. In this solo episode, I’m talking about getting motivated, romanticizing your everyday life, getting back into a routine, setting new goals, and using this season as an opportunity to become the version of yourself you’ve been wanting to be. 🤎🍁

In this episode, we’re talking about chasing your dreams, becoming your own person, and creating a life that actually feels like yours. We get into what it’s like to build your own business, be your own boss, stop caring so much about what other people think, and have the courage to go after what you really want.

But your 20s aren’t only about working hard and reaching your goals, they’re also about having fun, making memories, figuring yourself out, and enjoying this chapter of life. We’re talking about finding the balance between dialing in on your dreams and remembering to actually live along the way.

In this episode, we’re talking about how to actually find your way back to God when you feel distant, lost, or disconnected. We’re keeping it real about the things no one really talks about when it comes to rebuilding your relationship with God, finding faith again, and letting Him back into your life.

We’ll talk about how reconnecting with God can impact your mental health, finding Him in everyday life, and the small steps you can take when you don’t know where to begin. No pressure, no perfection, just an honest conversation about finding your way back to God and how it can change everything. Enjoy!

In this episode, we’re getting the male perspective on dating and relationships and what guys are really thinking but don’t always say out loud. We’re talking about how a guy knows when he genuinely likes a girl, what makes him want to pursue a relationship, and how you can tell when a guy is serious. We’ll also talk about how to find a good guy, what makes a relationship successful, and how to build a healthy, lasting relationship with someone you truly care about. So if you've been confused in your dating life lately, this episode is for you.

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend Faith to talk about choosing yourself after a breakup, learning how to show up for yourself, and finding comfort in your own company. We’re getting real about what it looks like to be single, enjoy your alone time, stop waiting for someone else to make you happy, and actually embrace this season of your life.

We talk about learning to love yourself again, becoming your own best friend, and realizing that being single isn’t something you have to rush through; it can be one of the most fun, important seasons of your life. Enjoy!

If there’s something you’ve been wanting to do but keep talking yourself out of because you’re scared of what people will think, this episode is for you. We’re talking about getting out of your own head, taking the risk, and finally starting the thing you’ve been dreaming about, whether that’s a business, creating content, chasing a goal, or simply trying something new.

You’re never going to feel 100% ready, and there will always be someone who doesn’t understand what you’re doing. Do it anyway. This is your reminder to stop waiting for the perfect moment and start creating the life you actually want.

Back to school can come with a lot of pressure to have your life figured out—your classes, career, relationships, and future. But the truth is, you don’t need to have it all figured out right now. In this episode, we’re talking about letting go of that pressure, trusting the process, and focusing on the next step instead of having the perfect plan. I’ll also share tips for finding direction, figuring out what you want, and moving forward when you feel a little lost. Enjoy!

In this episode, I sit down with dating coach Taylor Church to talk about all things dating, relationships, self-love, and breakups. We get real about navigating modern dating, recognizing healthy relationships, letting go of the wrong people, and finding the right person. We also talk about how the relationship you have with yourself impacts every relationship you have with others. 🤍

In this episode, I’m joined by Maisey as she shares her powerful story of surviving one of the darkest seasons of her life and finding hope again.

We talk openly about mental health, healing, resilience, and what it really means to keep going when life feels impossible. Our hope is that this conversation reminds anyone who may be struggling that they are not alone—and that their story isn’t over.

Content note: This episode includes a discussion of suicide and mental health. Please listen with care.

In this episode, I dive into the dangers of falling for someone's potential instead of accepting who they are in the present. We talk about why it's so easy to hold on to hope, the signs you're investing in a future that may never happen, and how to make healthier dating decisions by focusing on actions over promises. If you've ever struggled to let go because you believed someone would change, this episode is for you.

It's time for another Ask Ellie episode! 💌 I'm answering your submitted questions and talking all things dating, mental health, confidence, and navigating life's ups and downs. Thank you to everyone who wrote in—I hope this episode leaves you feeling seen, supported, and with a few new perspectives.

In this episode, we explore how finding the right person starts with you. We talk about the importance of self-worth, prioritizing your mental health, and building healthy relationships through honest communication. Strong relationships begin with becoming the best version of yourself.

In this episode, we're talking about staying motivated all summer—from workouts and eating well to taking a break from social media and building discipline through challenges like 75 Hard. Tune in as we discuss how stepping away from unrealistic online expectations can help you focus on your own goals, habits, and growth.

This week, I'm joined by my friend Trin as she shares her journey of coming out as gay. We have an honest conversation about navigating religion, mental health, identity, and what it's been like embracing who she truly is. This episode is all about vulnerability, understanding, and the power of living authentically.

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In this episode, I’m doing my very first advice session and answering your questions! You guys wrote in with questions about dating, friendships, confidence, body image, and everything in between, and I’m sharing my honest thoughts and advice. We talk about navigating relationship struggles, dealing with friendship drama, building self-confidence, overcoming insecurities, and learning to trust yourself. This episode feels like a big heart-to-heart conversation, and I’m so excited to dive into the topics that matter most to you. If you’ve ever needed advice from a friend who’s been there, this episode is for you.