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We’ve been taught to think of a successful career as a ladder: work hard, move up, take on more responsibility, and keep climbing. But what happens when your career takes a different shape, and the experience you’ve built becomes more valuable than the title you hold?

In this episode, Mark Zides joins me to explore how we can navigate a changing world of work without starting from zero. After more than 35 years as an operator, entrepreneur and business leader, Mark has founded six companies and experienced both corporate and entrepreneurial paths. Today, he works as a growth advisor and fractional executive.

We talk about the shift from career ladders to more nonlinear paths, why real-world experience matters, and how to recognize where you can add value as technology reshapes work. We also explore fractional leadership: what it offers, what it demands, and whether a different way of working might suit the person you’ve become.

Key takeaways

• Rethink career progress: sideways moves and setbacks can still add up to growth.
• Recognize the transferable skills and judgement you’ve developed through experience.
• Understand the value of human skills as AI changes how work gets done.

• Impact of fractional executives and the benefit for companies

Questions we explored

Does a successful career have to follow a straight line?

Mark shares how moving up, down and sideways can build a broader mix of skills and experience, even when the path doesn’t look conventional.

How can you recognize the value of your existing experience?

Look beyond job titles to the judgement, practical knowledge and problem-solving skills you’ve developed through real-world challenges.

What makes people valuable in an AI-driven workplace?

As technology changes how work gets done, human capabilities such as empathy, listening, communication and leadership become increasingly important.

Is fractional work right for you?

We explore the flexibility and opportunities of fractional leadership, alongside the realities of building your own reputation, finding clients and managing uncertainty.

Why would a company want a fractional executive?

If you are a start up or mid-market company, you may not need a full time C-Suite but someone who can help with a specific aspect of your strategy, whether it’s going public or growing your company to the next plateau in your business. With fractionals, a company can get all their experience in the specific domain starting from day one, without committing to a full time position.

About Mark Zides

Mark is a seasoned business leader, CEO, investor, and leadership advisor with more than 35 years of experience helping organizations perform at a high level as leadership, strategy, talent, and artificial intelligence continue to converge.

A two-time bestselling author of The #PACE Process for Early Career Success and Rewired Leadership™, Mark focuses on the human side of AI-driven transformation. His work challenges a common assumption in the market—that better technology automatically produces better outcomes. Instead, he argues that sustained performance comes from leaders who think clearly, listen deeply, and make better decisions as AI becomes more embedded in how work gets done.

You can connect with Mark on http://markzides.com and LinkedIn.

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What does it actually mean to raise a child who can handle life on their own?

In the previous episode, Ryan Vet and I looked at parenting from the macro level: how our own childhoods, generations and the world around us shape the way we raise our kids. With Dr. Liz Nissim, we zoom in on what children actually need from us to become capable adults.

Liz, a licensed clinical psychologist and certified school psychologist, shares practical advice on emotional safety, boundaries, consequences, resilience and the gradual transfer of responsibility from parent to child. We talk about the difference between supporting a child and rescuing them, why frustration and disappointment are part of growing, and how asking questions can teach children to figure things out for themselves.

We also explore the role of mindfulness and self-awareness in parenting. Our children can trigger things we haven't fully worked through ourselves, so sometimes the work is ours - to regulate our own thinking and emotions.

Key takeaways

• Emotional safety doesn't mean removing difficult emotions
• Boundaries can create security, not just control
• Helping isn't the same as rescuing
• Children need opportunities to struggle, make mistakes and solve problems
• Independence grows when we teach children how to think, not simply give them answers

From Liz

“My job is actually to ultimately teach you how to be able to do this on your own.”

“Keeping your kid happy doesn't mean they're growing.”

Questions we explored

What kind of adults are we ultimately raising?

Capable, independent young people who can support themselves, build relationships and find work they enjoy.

How do we build emotional regulation?

By acknowledging emotions, holding appropriate boundaries and modelling regulation ourselves.

When does helping become rescuing?

When our help starts communicating that a child can't handle something without us.

Why let kids struggle?

Because real experience, mistakes and difficult moments are where competence develops.

Listen to the full conversation with Liz, and the previous episode with Ryan, for two different perspectives on the same bigger question: what are we doing today that shapes the adults our children become?

About Dr. Liz Nissim

Dr Liz Nissim is a licensed psychologist and recognized expert in ADHD, anxiety, autism, learning differences, and neurodiversity across the lifespan. She specializes in comprehensive psycho-educational evaluations for ADHD, autism spectrum disorder, learning disabilities, dyslexia, dyscalculia, dysgraphia, and anxiety, with a focus on translating complex diagnostic findings into practical, real-world support.

In addition to assessment, Dr Liz provides executive functioning coaching and parent coaching, helping children, teens, and adults build skills in organization, emotional regulation, time management, and self-advocacy. Their work emphasizes strengths-based, evidence-driven approaches that support both individual growth and family systems.

You can connect with Liz on YouTube @DrLiz513, https://www.psychedconsult.com/, and Instagram and LinkedIn.

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The way we were raised shapes what we value, what we question, and what we pass on. But when each generation responds to the world it inherited, what might that mean for the generation after them?

In this episode of Mind Blend, Ryan Vet, a generational futurist and USA Today bestselling author, explores the generational pendulum: how the experiences of growing up can influence what we value as parents, what we choose to do differently, and where we might overcorrect.

We explore examples across generations — from the Silent Generation’s experience of scarcity and family togetherness, to the Boomers’ emphasis on identity and opportunity; from Gen X’s more independent childhoods to the highly involved parenting many Millennials experienced; and how Millennials and Gen Z are navigating parenting in a world shaped by technology, social media and constant connectivity. These are broad patterns, not prescriptions: individual families and circumstances can look very different.

• Our upbringing can influence what we carry forward, what we reject and what we overcorrect.
• There is no universal parenting playbook. Every child, family and situation is different.
• Over-monitoring, outsourcing parenting to AI and avoiding failure may limit opportunities to develop autonomy, resilience and healthy conflict.
• Kids need freedom to fail, real-world experiences, boundaries, community and emotionally invested parents.

“If you don’t let your kid fail now, they’re going to have to fail when they’re older.” - Ryan Vet

Questions we explored

Why might parenting change from one generation to the next

Ryan suggests we often respond to what we experienced growing up — sometimes carrying it forward, sometimes changing it, and sometimes pushing the pendulum too far.

What happens when parenting becomes a playbook?

We can lose sight of the individual child and situation. Paying attention matters more than rigidly following a formula.

What are we risking with increasingly involved parenting?

Children may have fewer opportunities to develop autonomy, resilience, problem-solving and the ability to navigate conflict.

How do we prepare kids for the world they’ll inherit?

Give them room to fail, experience consequences, navigate structure and conflict, and learn from a community of different perspectives.

Listen in for a conversation about parenting, generations, technology, mindfulness and the choices that shape what comes next.

About Ryan Vet

Ryan is a USA Today bestselling author, generational futurist, keynote speaker, and entrepreneur with 20+ years of experience leading businesses and multi-generational teams. He speaks across four continents on generational leadership, technology, and organizational change, drawing on real-world experience building companies, navigating failure, and helping leaders bridge generational differences.

You can connect with Ryan on https://ryanvet.com/, Instagram, LinkedIn,YouTube.

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We like to think we make our own decisions. But how often are we actually following the crowd or our own patterns without realizing it?

Dr. Loretta Breuning returns to Mind Blend to explore why humans are naturally wired to seek protection, belonging and social approval, and how those instincts can shape everything from what we buy to what we say in a meeting.

We talk about why separating from the group can feel uncomfortable, how our early experiences create neural pathways that make familiar choices feel like “the truth,” and how the internet has made following the herd faster and harder to see.

Loretta also explains social comparison, why a few likes can affect our mood, and how even moral superiority can become another way of establishing our place in the group.

Key takeaways

• Following the herd isn't always wrong. The important question is whether we're choosing consciously.
• Our early experiences can create patterns we repeat without realizing we have a choice.
• Viral content and algorithms don't remove our agency. We still decide where to direct our attention.
• New choices, repeated over time, can build new pathways.

“You just feel like you know the truth.”

“We have agency over our brain. It's hard to use it, but we do have it.”

Questions we explored

Why do we follow the crowd/herd?

Our brains associate belonging and proximity to others with safety and protection.

Why is it so hard to think independently?

Early experiences build powerful neural pathways that can make familiar responses feel automatic.

How do we know when to follow or go our own way?

Ask: Who is “everyone”? How much do I trust them? And what are the consequences of going another way?

How can we change our patterns to make more conscious decisions?

Awareness and attention to your actions, and repeatedly making a new choice can help build new pathways.

Listen in for a conversation about herd mentality, mindfulness and the practical choices that can help us think a little more consciously.

About Loretta Breuning, PhD

Loretta is the author of Habits of a Happy Brain: Retrain Your Brain to Boost Your Serotonin, Dopamine, Oxytocin and Endorphin Levels. She founded the Inner Mammal Institute to help people build new neural pathways to turn on their happy chemicals in new ways.

As Professor of Management at California State University, and a mom, Loretta was not convinced by prevailing theories of human motivation. While researching alternatives, she uncovered the brain chemistry we share with animals. She learned that each happy chemical evolved to motivate a specific survival behavior, not to make you feel good all the time for no reason. Then everything made sense, and she began creating resources to spread this knowledge: books, videos, blogs, podcasts, infographics, slide shows, social media and a training program. Loretta's work has helped thousands of people "make peace with the animal inside." And she still marvels every day at the overlap between a wildlife documentary and the lyrics to a love song.

You can connect with Loretta and find out more about her work on Inner Mammal Institute and on

Substack: https://innermammal.substack.com/

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@InnerMammalInstitute

Instagram @ inner.mammal.inst

And you can get a free 5-day Happy Chemical Jumpstart: https://innermammalinstitute.org/newsletter

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On September 11, 2001, Carol Lin became the first American national anchor to report the attacks on the World Trade Center.

Twenty-five years later, on the anniversary of that historic day, she joins Mind Blend to talk about something beyond the headlines: the human being behind the role.

In her memoir, When News Breaks, Carol looks back at a career shaped by breaking news, ambition, identity, love, loss and the moments when her own life suddenly became the story.

In our conversation, we explore:

What it meant to grow up Chinese American, wanting to fit in while never quite feeling that she did and how Carol eventually began embracing the roots she once tried to assimilate away.

What success looks like when it is defined by other people and the pressure of always asking, “What’s next?”

The subtle thread running through Carol’s story: how the roles we build to succeed can sometimes distance us from who we really are.

What you accumulate through experience. Carol reflects on how every story she covered prepared her for her own “breaking news”—and how our lived experiences can become the wisdom we draw on when life changes.

What you don’t see in the headlines: the people, relationships, communities and quiet moments behind the stories we remember.

Why a memoir and a podcast like Mind Blend can create a shared human experience. Carol’s purpose in telling her story is not simply to tell people about herself, but to help them see something of themselves in it.

We also had a fun flashback to Carol’s nose and eyelashes, a passive-aggressive way beauty standards were imposed on women on screen.

If you’ve ever felt you had to fit in, prove yourself, chase someone else’s definition of success, navigate a major life change, or simply wonder who you are underneath the roles you play, this is an episode that may speak straight to your heart.

📖 When News Breaks by Carol Lin is available at on https://www.carollinnow.com/.

About Carol Lin

Carol, best known for being the first national anchor to report the first September 11 attack on the World Trade Center, was a long-time anchor and correspondent for CNN and ABC News. During her career, she covered the war in the Middle East, the aftermath of the Kosovo War, the 2002 Winter Olympics and every imaginable natural disaster from hurricanes, tornadoes, historic wildfires, and floods. Carol received an Emmy, a Peabody, the Alfred I. Dupont Award, and the Greater LosAngeles Press Club Awards for Excellence in both Investigative Reporting and her coverage of the Los Angeles Riots. She currently lives in Hawaii. Follow her on Instagram @CarolLinNow.

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What if your next chapter doesn't require you to start over?

In the final episode of The Human Side of Change, Dr. Claire Handby brings together many of the ideas we've explored throughout the series, and turns them into practical ways to move forward.

Claire is an executive coach, mentor and transformation specialist, and author of Uptick: Clarity, Courage and Confidence for Your Next Chapter.

We explore what happens when you find yourself asking, "Is this it?" and how to distinguish between genuinely outgrowing something and simply wanting to escape a challenge.

Key takeaways

You don't have to start from scratch. Your past experiences, natural strengths and even things you do outside work can become valuable in your next chapter.

Find your people. Claire's "triple espresso vs Earl Grey tea" analogy is a reminder that sometimes the problem isn't you—you may simply be in the wrong environment.

Being true to yourself doesn't mean constantly moving on. There's a difference between knowing something isn't right for you and repeatedly hopping from one thing to another.

Confidence often comes last. Taking small, consistent action can create the momentum and confidence you were waiting for.

And perhaps the biggest reminder: life is for living.

This episode also features a new version of the Mind Blend Rapid Fire—and this time, Karen answers too. From salvaging a cooking disaster to planning a trip and deciding what is worth keeping, you'll hear a little more about how both Claire and Karen approach change in everyday life.

📖 Get Claire's new book, Uptick

Claire has kindly arranged a discount for Mind Blend listeners. Use UPTICK10 at checkout here for a 10% discount.

QUESTIONS WE EXPLORED

What does "Is this it?" really tell us?

Sometimes it is a signal that you're no longer fulfilled—not necessarily that your entire life needs to change.

How can you move forward without starting from zero?

Look at the skills, strengths and experiences you've already gained, and learn how to reframe them for where you want to go.

How do you know when it's time to leave?

Claire explores the difference between being true to yourself and simply avoiding discomfort or becoming impatient with the process.

Do you need confidence before you take action?

No. Claire argues that action creates movement, movement creates momentum, and momentum builds confidence.

About Dr. Claire Handby

Dr Claire Handby is an executive coach, mentor, and transformation specialist with three decades of experience in corporate leadership, construction, and the built environment.

She has worked for leading contractors and developers, including Laing O'Rourke and Mace Group, and management consultancies EY, Deloitte, and KPMG. Today, she runs a leadership advisory business guiding senior leaders, from any sector, to realise their desired business growth and change trajectory via executive coaching services. She is also a visiting professor at Salford University.

Her book, Uptick - Clarity, Courage, and Confidence for your next chapter is available on the publisher’s website here. Use UPTICK10 at checkout.

You can connect with Claire on http://drclairehandby.com and LinkedIn.

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Reinvention rarely looks like a clean break from one life into another. More often, there’s a messy middle: questioning the path you’re on, letting go of something you’ve invested years in, figuring out what comes next, and rebuilding your confidence and identity along the way.

In this episode 3 of The Human Side of Change, Joseph Liu draws on his own career reinventions and more than 100 conversations with people who have changed careers to explore what really happens when the life you’ve built no longer feels right.

We talk about achieving goals that turn out not to be the right goals, why it can be so difficult to walk away from something you’ve invested in, and why the transition often takes longer than we expect.

Key takeaways:

• Achieving a goal doesn't necessarily mean it was the right goal.
• Feeling like you have to shut down parts of yourself can be a signal worth paying attention to.
• The more time, energy and belief you've invested, the harder it can be to let go.
• Reinvention is rarely an overnight transformation.

• The messy middle doesn't necessarily mean you've made the wrong choice.

Joseph said: “I felt like I had to shut down parts of myself in order to survive in that environment.” This is exactly the kind of messy state someone may experience before feeling it’s time to change.

QUESTIONS WE EXPLORED

What makes us realize it’s time to change?

Often, it’s not one dramatic moment, but recognizing that the path you're on no longer allows you to be fully yourself.

Why is letting go so difficult?

Because we're not only letting go of time or money—we're letting go of the investment, identity and expectations attached to what we've built.

What does the messy middle of reinvention look like?

It can involve uncertainty, second-guessing, transition and rebuilding your reputation and confidence in a new direction.

Does reinvention get easier?

Joseph's experience suggests that the process remains challenging, but going through it can build greater confidence in your ability to navigate change.

Is it worth it?

Across the people Joseph has interviewed, most ultimately felt the change was worth making—even when the journey was difficult.

This is a conversation about reinvention, identity, uncertainty and redefining success—and finding the clarity to move forward when you don't have the whole path figured out.

🎧 If you have felt something’s not quite right but don’t know where to fix, this episode is for you.

About Joseph Liu

An expert on personal branding, career change, self-employment, and networking topics, Joseph Liu is dedicated to helping people relaunch their careers to pursue more meaningful work. He's a career change consultant, professional speaker, and host of the Career Relaunch® podcast with listeners from 170+ countries, featured as a top business podcast in Forbes, Glassdoor, and Business Insider. With 10 years of corporate branding experience at Fortune 500 companies like Clorox & General Mills, he's coached thousands of professionals from 60+ countries to relaunch their careers using principles of branding and marketing.

You can connect with Joseph onhttps://careerrelaunch.net/https://careerrelaunch.net, https://josephliu.co/, LinkedIn, Facebook and Instagram.

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The Human Side of Change Episode 2

In episode 1, we explored what we should do when AI can do more of the work that once helped us develop our skills, judgement, and experience.

In this episode, we take the conversation somewhere more personal: Who are you without your job title, with Erris Langer Klapper, executive coach and organizational psychologist, to explore the complicated relationship between work, identity, and self-worth.

We talk about why we so often introduce ourselves through what we do, how job titles can become a form of social currency, and why even highly accomplished people can struggle with imposter syndrome.

We explore what happens when your identity becomes too closely tied to work, how AI and job loss can challenge our sense of self, and what it really means to have balance. Not just between work and life, but between all the identities that make us who we are.

Erris also shares a story from early in her career that asks a simple but powerful question: 20 years from now, what will you remember more, the work you finished, or the moments you missed?

QUESTIONS WE EXPLORED

Why do we introduce ourselves through our jobs?

Because our job titles can act as social currency, quickly signaling our status, competence, and place in the world.

When does a job title become part of our identity?

When our work becomes more than what we do, it becomes how we define ourselves and how we want others to see us.

Why do high achievers experience imposter syndrome?

Erris explains how imposter syndrome can make capable, successful people discount their achievements, doubt themselves, and even self-sabotage.

What happens when work is no longer a source of confidence

If our identity is completely tied to work, losing or changing our job can leave us with little to fall back on. The question becomes: who are we beyond our careers?

How can we build an identity beyond our careers?

By recognizing and investing in our other identities—family, friends, interests, values, and the relationships and experiences that matter outside work.

About Erris Langer Klapper

Erris Klapper is an attorney, writer and certified professional coach and consultant, with a master’s degree in industrial and organizational psychology. She is also a prolific writer, and her articles have appeared in numerous media outlets including Huffington Post, Cosmopolitan, Redbook, Good Housekeeping, Woman’s Day, Yahoo News, Country Living, Esquire, House Beautiful and more.

Erris has presented widely on Imposter Syndrome at conferences and professional meetings, has appeared on podcasts and has written and been widely quoted on this topic. She is the host of Beyond Your Job, a podcast geared towards exploring work, life, balance and everything in between. She hosts professionals from diverse industries to explore relationships, work-life-balance, leadership, legacy and more.

Erris leverages her multidisciplinary background to promote communication skills by blending a deep understanding of the legal and corporate landscape with the intricacies of human behavior at work. She is experienced in coaching executives to accomplish goals, including personal growth and leadership development, strategy, team management, improving dynamics, engagement, work-life balance and more. She specializes in Imposter Syndrome navigation and management.

You can check out Erris’ podcast, Beyond Your Job, and connect with her on her website https://errisklappercoachingandconsulting.com, YouTube, LinkedIn, and Instagram,

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AI can write, analyze, create, research and solve problems faster than ever. So as these tools become more capable, what should we actually be doing ourselves?

In this first episode of The Human Side of Change, Craig Friedman joins me for a refreshing conversation about how we can use AI wisely while continuing to develop the human capabilities that matter: judgement, curiosity, critical thinking and experience.

Craig explores how AI might actually help us think better, why judgement comes from more than information, and what happens when technology starts taking over some of the formative experiences through which we traditionally developed expertise.

We also talk about how AI is changing the way we work, why younger professionals may have less to unlearn, and the one quality Craig hopes will define the next generation of leaders.

Key questions we explored

Can AI improve our thinking?

Craig believes it can, when we use it to challenge our thinking, identify gaps and ask better questions rather than simply accepting its answers.

How do we develop good judgement?

Through a combination of disciplined critical thinking and lived experience. Experience gives us a deeper library of patterns and situations to draw from.

Could AI make it harder for younger professionals to develop expertise?

It could, if AI removes too many of the formative experiences where people practise, make mistakes and learn. But younger professionals may also have an advantage because they have less to unlearn.

What should define future leaders?

Craig's answer is simple: integrity. He also highlights the importance of systems thinking, considering the wider consequences of the technologies and decisions we make.

The Human Side of Change is a four-part Mind Blend mini-series exploring how we navigate uncertainty, identity, reinvention and the next chapter of our lives.

About Craig Friedman

Craig Friedman is a talent and skills transformation leader at St. Charles Consulting Group and author of Enterprise Skills Unlocked: A Blueprint for Building Skills-Based Talent Management. With more than two decades of experience in organizational design and workforce strategy, Craig has advised major organizations navigating AI adoption in real time. His work sits at the intersection of where AI is taking work and what that means for the humans doing it, not just what jobs are disappearing, but what capabilities, judgment, and identity are quietly being hollowed out along the way.

You can connect with Craig on St. Charles Consulting Group, LinkedIn and X. His book, Enterprise Skills Unlocked: A Blueprint for Building Skills-Based Talent Management is available on St. Charles Consulting Group's website.

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Tao Grandmaster and physician Dr. Zhi Gang Sha joins Karen, alongside leading teacher Alexia Cito, to explore the ancient Tao concept of soulfulness—and why it may be the missing complement to mindfulness in today's fast-paced world.

Together, they discuss how Tao wisdom can help us navigate modern life with greater clarity, purpose, and inner peace by reconnecting with our soul. From decision-making and relationships to health, purpose, and personal growth, they share how ancient teachings can offer practical guidance for living in greater harmony with ourselves, others, and the natural world.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why Master Sha believes the soul is the foundation of every aspect of life.
• The difference between mindfulness and soulfulness.
• How Tao wisdom can help you make better everyday decisions.
• Why living in harmony with nature is central to Tao philosophy.
• How connecting with your soul can bring greater purpose, peace, and clarity.
• Why ancient wisdom may offer perspectives that modern life has forgotten.

Questions We Explore

How can Tao wisdom help us navigate modern life?

By encouraging us to reconnect with our inner wisdom rather than constantly looking outside ourselves for answers. Tao teachings emphasize living in harmony with nature, following our authentic path, and making decisions that align with our soul.

What's the difference between mindfulness and soulfulness?

Mindfulness helps us become more aware of our thoughts and the present moment. Soulfulness goes a step further by cultivating a relationship with the soul and allowing it to guide our daily choices, relationships, and purpose.

Can your soul help you make everyday decisions?

According to Master Sha, yes. He suggests asking your soul for guidance on everything from relationships and career decisions to health and daily habits, helping you live with greater authenticity and clarity.

Why is harmony so important in Tao philosophy?

Rather than trying to force outcomes or constantly fix problems, Tao wisdom teaches that health, happiness, and fulfillment arise when we live in alignment with ourselves, others, and the rhythms of nature.

What does it mean to heal the soul?

Master Sha explains that true transformation begins with the soul. When the soul is nourished and aligned, our thoughts, emotions, relationships, and actions naturally begin to follow.

About Master Zha Gang Sha

Master Sha is a Tao Grandmaster, globally-known spiritual teacher, and 11 x New York Times bestselling author. He is the prolific creator of different Tao Technologies, and a renowned award-winning spiritual innovator.

His mission in life is to serve humanity with this wisdom; combining the essence of modern science with ancient Tao teachings to create the cutting-edge Tao Technologies — a collection of different modalities, teachings, and practices to help humanity achieve greater happiness, success and wellness.

About Alexia Cito

Alexia is the Executive Director of the Love Peace Harmony Foundation, a global nonprofit founded by Master Sha. As one of his leading teachers, Alexia is committed to sharing his wisdom and practices to help others heal, grow, and find inner peace.

You can connect with Master Sha and Alexia on

https://drsha.com/

TikTok: masterzhigangsha

YouTube: DrandMasterSha

Instagram masterzhigangsha and lovepeaceharmonyfoundation

Facebook: drandmastersha

LinkedIn: alexiacito

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Death, grief, and loss are topics many of us avoid—yet they touch every life.

In this episode, I sit down with grief counsellor, spiritual teacher, and researcher Jock Brocas to explore what these experiences can teach us beyond fear and sorrow. Together, we discuss why grief is about far more than death, how loss can challenge our identity and worldview, and why integrating grief instead of not "getting over it" may be one of life's greatest lessons. Drawing on decades of research, lived experience, and studies in consciousness and spirituality, Jock offers a thoughtful perspective on death, connection, and the unknown, inviting us to see loss not simply as an ending, but as an opportunity for growth, reflection, and a deeper understanding of what it means to truly live.

• Why grief isn't just about death, and how it can stem from the loss of identity, relationships, health, careers, or the future we imagined.
• How loss can challenge our worldview and reshape who we are.
• Why the fear of death is often rooted in our fear of separation and disconnection.
• The difference between healing from grief and integrating it into our lives.
• How talking more openly about death can help us better understand life.
• Why curiosity, presence, and reflection can help us navigate the unknown with greater peace.

If grief isn't something to "get over," but something to integrate, how might that change the way you think about loss and the way you choose to live today?

About Jock Brocas

Jock is a grief counsellor, spiritual teacher, researcher, and author who has spent more than 25 years exploring grief, consciousness, and the human experience of loss. His work combines academic research, lived experience, and spiritual insight to help people find meaning through life's greatest transitions.

You can connect with Jock on

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https://jockbrocas.com/

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https://pogpodcast.com/

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LinkedIn @jockbrocas

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X @JockBrocas

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How do we navigate an increasingly complex world without surrendering our own judgment?

We live in a world full of answers, yet many of us struggle with decisions, uncertainty, and taking action.

In this episode, I mind-blended with counsellor John Cuturilo to explore why. We discuss avoidance coping, how our minds can mistake discomfort for danger, and why anything that requires significant mental effort can feel like a threat, even when it's exactly what we need to do.

We also explore what happens when we outsource too much of our thinking to technology, social media, experts, and even other people's opinions. What skills do we lose when we stop navigating challenges ourselves?

John shares why trial and error is essential for developing judgment, resilience, and confidence, and why adversity—while uncomfortable—often provides the experiences that help us grow.

Along the way, we touch on critical thinking, parenting, personal responsibility, and even the relationship between science and spirituality.

If you've ever wondered why knowing what to do isn't the same as doing it, this conversation offers a thoughtful perspective on what it takes to think clearly and navigate life well.

About John Cuturilo

John is a counsellor at Your Listener Counselling, who helps clients overcome challenges, make changes in their lives, learn about how their minds work, and ultimately become more independent problem-solvers. He helps clients see how their thinking and behavioural habits impact their life, and how they can choose and practise the habits more aligned with their goals.

You can connect with John on https://www.yourlistener.com.au/. He also hosts the Your Listener podcast, discussing psychological topics including mental health, critical thinking, and social matters.

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In the last episode, Bruno Cignacco and I explored psychological safety and why people perform better when they feel safe, respected, and supported.

In this episode, I mind-blended with Nika Brunet, founder of Calm Nest Collective, about the stress signals we learn to normalize, why burnout looks different for everyone, and how our environments quietly influence our energy, focus, and wellbeing.

Drawing from her experience in the events industry and her work designing neuro-inclusive spaces, Nika challenges the idea that wellbeing is solely an individual responsibility. Instead, she explores how better-designed workplaces and events can help people perform, recover, and connect more effectively.

We talked about:

• Why burnout rarely follows a predictable pattern
• The physical signs of stress that people often ignore
• How to recognize when something has changed in yourself
• Why many people need a break before they need a solution
• The hidden impact of sensory overload on performance and decision-making
• How designing for neurodivergent people often benefits everyone
• Why wellbeing and inclusion are business issues, not just personal ones

If you've ever felt exhausted without knowing exactly why, this conversation may help you see what you've stopped noticing

About Nika Brunet

Nika is an events industry veteran, specialised in neuroinclusive event consulting and event management, and sustainable workplace design. With 19 years of experience, she helps organisations create purposeful, inclusive, and impactful events and workplaces with a strong focus on sustainability and mental health. From mentoring purpose-driven professionals to designing sensory-friendly spaces through Calm Nest Collective, this is where bold visions find clarity and quiet spaces make a powerful difference.

You can connect with Nika on her website https://nikabrunet.com/, Calm Nest Collective, LinkedIn and Instagram. She is also the host of Pink Nest Podcast.

Check out the previous episode with Dr. Bruno Cignacco about another aspect that hinder performance.

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Layoffs, uncertainty, and relentless pressure have left many professionals feeling depleted. Yet many organizations still rely on fear, whether intentional or not, as a way to drive performance.

Dr. Bruno Roque Cignacco argues that fear may actually be one of the most expensive strategies a company can adopt. When people operate in survival mode, creativity, trust, collaboration, and innovation suffer. The result isn't stronger performance. It's hidden costs that accumulate over time.

In this conversation, we explore why psychologically safe workplaces outperform fear-based ones, how trust translates into measurable business outcomes, and why some of the most valuable drivers of success can never be fully captured in a KPI.

• Why fear may be one of the most expensive costs a business never measures—and how it quietly impacts creativity, collaboration, and performance.
• The hidden effects of layoffs, uncertainty, and workplace pressure on both employees and organizational decision-making.
• How psychologically safe workplaces encourage innovation, honest communication, and stronger business outcomes.
• Why trust, appreciation, and human connection aren't just "nice to have" qualities, but drivers of productivity, loyalty, and long-term success.
• What leaders and professionals can do to create environments where people feel valued, empowered, and able to do their best work.

About Dr Bruno Cignacco

Dr. Cignacco is an international business consultant, researcher, and educator with over three decades of experience working with companies around the world. His work focuses on helping organizations grow profitably while staying deeply human-centered, blending commercial success with compassion for employees, customers, and other stakeholders. Bruno is also a university professor, a Senior Fellow of the Higher Education Academy, a TEDx speaker, and the author of The Art of Compassionate Business. Through his consulting, teaching, and writing, he challenges traditional views of leadership and shows how more human ways of working lead to stronger, more sustainable business outcomes.

You can connect with Dr Cignacco on LinkedIn, and on his website.

Mind Blend is all about real experiences and meaningful conversations—through sharing these insights, I hope to inspire and empower you as you navigate your unique journey.

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Ultramarathon runner, coach, and entrepreneur Ekaterina (Kate) Preobrazhenskaya didn't start running to conquer mountains or complete 125-kilometer races. Like many people, she started simply to stay fit. Over time, running became a teacher—revealing lessons about ambition, balance, resilience, and the often-overlooked role of recovery.

In this conversation, Kate shares how she balances elite-level training with work, family, and life beyond sport. We explore why progress happens during recovery, how social media can pressure athletes to ignore their body's signals, and why making exercise your only source of fulfillment can become a trap. Kate also explains the difference between productive discomfort and damaging pain, and why learning to listen to your body is one of the most important skills we can develop.

If you're someone who constantly pushes for more, struggles to slow down, or wonders whether you're challenging yourself or overextending yourself, this episode will help you find the fine line between grit and damage.

About Ekaterina (Kate) Preobrazhenskaya

Kate is an ultramarathon runner and a UESCA-certified running coach with over 7 years of experience. She is a CEO and Head Coach of international running school Marathonica, and a cofounder of the running training app Hiiro.

Kate lives and works in London, and you can sometimes find her in Up&Running store in East Sheen, where she can help you find your ideal running gear. She also is a part of a local Barnes Runners running club and holds its record in half-marathon distance.

You can connect with her on LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook. Her running training app is

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The final episode of the Aging According to Everyone Else mini series.

In this episode, I mind-blended with Dr. Noelle Nelson, clinical psychologist, speaker, and author of The Longevity Secret, to explore what actually keeps people vibrant as they age.

From a chance encounter on an airplane that sparked years of research into aging, to discovering ballroom dancing in her 70s and now competing internationally in her late 70s, Dr. Noelle shares why passion, purpose, and positivity matter far more than society’s obsession with youth.

This conversation explores the connection between mindset, energy, and vitality — and why staying curious, engaged, and lit up by life may be one of the most important things we can do at any age.

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Why society often gets aging completely wrong

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The surprising patterns Dr. Noelle noticed in vibrant people in their 70s, 80s, and 90s

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How passion gives people energy and keeps them engaged with life

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The connection between mindset, emotions, and physical vitality

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Why “feeling alive” matters more than “looking young”

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How small shifts in perspective can completely change how we experience aging

About Dr. Noelle Nelson

Dr. Noelle is a clinical psychologist, trial consultant, and bestselling author of The Longevity Secret. Through both her research and personal experience, she explores how passion, purpose, and positivity contribute to happier, healthier, and more vibrant lives as we age. Ballroom dancing became a source of joy and renewal in her 70s — and today, she competes internationally while continuing to help others live more fully at every stage of life.

You can connect with Dr. Noelle on her website https://noellenelson.com/, Instagram meettheamazings and LinkedIn and Facebook Check out her podcast Up!.

Mind Blend is all about real experiences and meaningful conversations—through sharing these insights, I hope to inspire and empower you as you navigate your unique journey.

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Episode 2 of the series “Aging, According to Everyone Else”

We tend to think of aging as something physical — changes in how we look, how we move, how our body feels.

But what if the bigger shift isn’t happening in your body… but happening in your mind?

In this episode, I mind-blended with Tanya Leake, a health and wellness coach who takes an age-positive approach to aging — one that focuses less on resisting change and more on understanding how we relate to it.

We explore how much of our experience of aging is shaped by internal narratives, external messaging, and the subtle ways we respond to change.

• The hidden beliefs behind phrases like “you look great for your age”
• What actually improves with age — and why we don’t talk about it enough
• The difference between tracking what drains you vs. what energizes you
• How community and environment influence how we age
• And why resisting aging might be the very thing holding you back

If you’re saddened by the changes in your body as you age, this one’s for you.

About Tanya Leake

Tanya is a National Board-Certified Health & Wellness Coach, Board-Certified Patient Advocate, and mindset and lifestyle facilitator. Her work reframes aging, and menopause in particular, from decline to identity evolution. A fierce opponent of the term “anti-aging,” she supports clients in moving toward what she calls an Age+ mindset: shifting toward honoring the clock instead of trying to stop it or turn it back. Drawing on longitudinal research on aging and the influence of mindset and beliefs, Tanya bridges theory and practice to show how our beliefs about aging shape physical, emotional, relational and existential health.

She focuses on addressing the often-overlooked existential (identity and purpose) dimension of aging and equipping clients with research-backed lifestyle strategies to support their longevity goals, with a focus on mindset and reframing. Her central message is simple: “Aging starts the day we are born. By fighting aging, we are fighting moving forward, growing and becoming. Age+ is about choosing to celebrate life itself in every season of change it brings.”

You can connect with Tanya on https://embodywell.com/, YouTube EmBodywell, Instagram embodywell

Here are some of the researches she’d like to share.

• Americans in Their 80s and 90s Are Redefining Old Age
• People think ‘old age’ starts later than it used to, study finds
• Embracing Resilience: A New Perspective on Aging
• Why you should thank your aging brain
• Believing Myths About Aging Makes Growing Old Worse
• Ageism: The Brain Strikes Back
• Scientists discover a key to staying mentally sharp in old age

Mind Blend is all about real experiences and meaningful conversations—through sharing these insights, I hope to inspire and empower you as you navigate your unique journey.

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First of three episodes in the “Aging, According to Everyone Else” series.

What if aging isn’t the problem — but how we respond to it is?

In this conversation, Karen sits down with Mary Westheimer for a refreshingly honest and unexpectedly fun take on getting older. From ripped jeans to debunking misconceptions about “old people” , Mary brings humor and perspective to the everyday realities we don’t talk about enough.

Together, they explore what actually changes as we age — not just physically, but in how we choose to spend our energy, respond to challenges, and relate to ourselves. It’s a conversation about perspective, priorities, and the small decisions that shape how we experience life over time.

• Why negativity doesn’t help — and what to do instead
• Picking your battles: what’s worth your energy and what’s not
• Why adjusting yourself is often the only real control you have
• Complaining vs. looking for solutions — and how that choice shapes your experience
• Re-evaluating your priorities as life changes
• Mary’s open-minded take on change — including her thoughts on things like Waymo

If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “Why does this feel harder than it used to?” or questioning what’s actually worth your time and energy now? This conversation will likely resonate.

It’s a grounded, thoughtful reminder that while we can’t control everything that changes, we do have more say in how we respond than we often think.

About Mary Westheimer

Mary never set out to write a book about aging — it started as a running list of observations, shaped over years by her own experiences and the stories of others around her.

A lifelong writer and editor, Mary has contributed to publications including Columbia Journalism Review, USA Today, and Publishers Weekly. She also co-founded BookZone, one of the earliest online bookstores, and has worked across publishing, journalism, and bookselling throughout her career.

Now based in Phoenix, Arizona, Mary continues to write, observe, and share the kinds of insights that remind people they’re not alone in what they’re experiencing — often with a sense of humor along the way.

Grab a copy of her book What Nobody Tells You About Getting Older if you want her insights into a happy senior-hood, or even just laughs.

You can connect with Mary on her website, Instagram @nobodytellsmary, Facebook, TikTokand Pinterest.

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The mic flips—and things get a little more revealing.

In this episode, Sai Ramachandran puts Karen in the hot seat to explore what’s behind Mind Blend: the way she thinks, the questions she asks, the experiences that shaped it and what’s coming.

From growing up across cultures to navigating a career as the “connector” between different worlds, they unpack how those experiences led to the creation of the show—and the thinking behind it.

From not fitting neatly into one identity to learning how to navigate uncertainty without confusion, this conversation goes beyond the usual format.

Curious what’s really behind the show—and the person usually asking the questions? Tune in.

About Karen Chong

Karen is a third culture kid who has lived in Hong Kong, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Tokyo, and now London.

She naturally operates as a connector—bridging different perspectives, translating ideas, and helping people make sense of complexity. Through Mind Blend, she explores the gap between knowing and doing, helping listeners see themselves more clearly and move through life with a bit more clarity.

Connect with Karen on Mind-Blend⁠, Instagram Mindblendpodcast or mindblendpodcast [@] gmail.com.

About Sai Ramachandran

Sai was a previous guest on the Episode, Punchlines and People Skills: What Comedy Can Teach You About Engagement, and the one who decided to flip the mic for this conversation. Check out that episode to hear more about Sai’s comedian journey.

An engineer by training, Sai approaches humor from first principles. He is the author of Humor Science: When Your Success Depends On Being Funny And Engaging and works with CXOs to help them communicate with more clarity, engagement, and empathy.

You can connect with him on https://linktr.ee/sai.humor.scientist, Instagram: @abeysai YouTube: @sai-ramachandran

Watch his sketch: My Name is Bald. James Bald.

And TedEx talk: Engineering Comedy

4th and final episode of the mini series - Rewriting the Script of Your Life.

We all carry something—beliefs, assumptions, and patterns that quietly shape how we show up.

In this episode, I mind-blended with Raúl Pereyra, executive coach and founder of RTP Learning, to explore “the bag”—and how it often holds us back without us realizing it.

We talk about self-doubt, the inner critic, and why growth isn’t about quick fixes, but learning to see what’s been there all along.

If you’ve ever felt stuck or not quite ready, this conversation might help you understand why—and what to do next.

Take Raúl’s free 5-day challenge! With only 30 mins a day, see how much you can transform in 5 days through 1:1, private coaching with him.

About Raúl T. Pereyra

Raúl Pereyra is an executive coach and founder of RTP Learning, helping leaders navigate self-doubt and step into bigger roles with confidence.

His work is shaped by his own journey—from growing up in a chaotic, survival-mode environment to confronting the beliefs and patterns that once held him back. After a life-altering health scare, Raúl shifted from chasing quick fixes to doing the deeper work of transformation.

Today, he helps leaders unpack what he calls “the BAG”—their beliefs, assumptions, and protective patterns—so they can lead with clarity, confidence, and intention.

You can connect with Raúl on his website https://www.rtplearning.com/coaching, Linkedin @rtplearning and Instagram @raultpereyra.

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