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Taboo Talk Not Safe For Brunch
Welcome to Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch! In this podcast, we’re here to bring sex, insight, and real-world education to the table—unapologetically. Think of it as having those important, unfiltered brunch conversations with your closest friends, about sex, relationships, and everything in between.
With over 55 years experience combined in the intimacy industry helping individuals and couples focusing on breaking down barriers, reducing shame, and empowering people to embrace their desires and relationships with confidence.
- Episodes
- 104
- Releases
- Weekly
- Typical length
- 25 min
- On air since
- 2025
- Latest episode
- 1 day ago
Episodes
104 episodes, newest first
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29 min
Episode: 103 - Sex Injuries, Broken Penises & Bedroom Disasters
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Sex is supposed to be fun, but sometimes things go very, very wrong!
From toys getting stuck where they shouldn't to broken penises, choking, restraints, and painful bedroom mistakes, we're talking about the sexual injuries that can turn a good time into an embarrassing trip to the ER.
We're sharing real statistics, personal stories, a few questionable decisions, and practical tips for keeping your adventures safe.
No kink shaming here! Just honest conversations, plenty of laughs, and a reminder that pleasure shouldn't come with a hospital bill.
The Secret Is Out tells the coming-out stories of LGBTQ people —...
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32 min
Episode: 102 - Your Butt Has a Sex Life After 40 (And You're Missing Out!)
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Think your butt's sex life is over after 40? Think again! 🍑
Anal pleasure is about so much more than penetration, and research shows women are discovering new ways to experience pleasure well into their later years.
This week, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki are breaking down the stigma around anal play, exploring pleasure for both men and women, talking prostate stimulation, and sharing different toys and safety tips for anyone curious about exploring the back door.
Because getting older doesn't mean we stop discovering what feels good!
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30 min
Episode: 101 - From Fifty Shades to Wicker: Why Do These Sex Fantasies Turn Us On?
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From "Fifty Shades of Grey" to the upcoming movie "Wicker", Hollywood has been making us question our fantasies for decades!
This week on Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki revisit the movies that sparked conversations about sex, power, desire, and curiosity. Why do we find certain fantasies exciting on screen when we'd never actually want them in real life?
And seriously, how does a woman have sex with a wicker husband without getting splinters? 😂
Which movie made YOU curious about something you never expected? Tell us in the comments!
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20 min
Episode: 100 - 100 Things Everyone Should Know About Sex (But Probably Doesn't)
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🎉 WE MADE IT TO 100 EPISODES!
To celebrate our 100th episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we're sharing 100 things we think everyone should know about sex!
From orgasms, libido, and the male and female body to sexual health, aging, relationships, and pleasure, we're covering the things nobody taught us, the myths that need to die, and a few facts that might surprise you.
No judgment, no awkward questions, just honest conversations, a few laughs, and 100 things worth knowing!
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5 min
Episode: 99 - NSFB Quickie: The Sex Graveyard: Let’s Bury These Bedroom Rules
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Welcome to the Sex Graveyard. 💀
In this spooky Quickie, Coralie is burying eight outdated sex rules that have hung around WAY too long, including fake orgasms, sexual obligation, “good girl” rules, keeping score, lube shame, mind reading and the idea that menopause means your sex life is over.
Some things belong six feet under. These are definitely on the list. 😂
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27 min
Episode: 98 - Your Penis After 40: What Every Man Should Know
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Your penis is aging too, gentlemen. 😏 But turning 40 doesn’t mean your sex life suddenly falls apart.
In this episode, we’re talking about what can actually change with erections, testosterone, sensitivity, ejaculation, refractory periods, prostate health and yes... whether your penis really gets smaller.
More importantly, we’re talking about why some changes shouldn’t simply be blamed on getting older, and why sex after 40 may require a little less pressure and a little more communication.
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33 min
Episode: 97 - Hairy, Horny & Hysterical: Myths About Women We Need to Kill
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Apparently women have been doing womanhood wrong this whole time.
We're too hairy, too emotional, bad drivers, not horny enough... and somehow false eyelashes got dragged into a story about sex work.
In this episode, we're busting some of the weirdest and most persistent myths about women, from shaving and high heels to sex drive, blue balls, virginity and what supposedly happens to women's sexuality as we age.
Some are marketing. Some are stereotypes. Some are misunderstandings of women's bodies. And some are just complete bullshit that got repeated so many times people stopped questioning them.
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31 min
Episode: 96 - Are Love Languages Actually Bullshit?
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Are the 5 Love Languages actually legit… or have we all just been treating them like relationship gospel?
In this episode, we dig into physical touch vs sex, acts of service vs mental load, how our needs change over time, and what the research actually says about the Love Languages theory.
Maybe your “love language” isn’t who you are forever. Maybe it’s just what you’re missing right now.
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33 min
Episode: 95 - Sex, Power & Scandal: The Stories That Changed Society
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Sex scandals grab headlines, but are we actually scandalized by the sex?
From Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky to Charles, Diana and Camilla, we're looking back at famous scandals that changed public opinion, celebrity culture and the way we talk about power.
And somehow, the woman still seems to get dragged harder. 👀
We also play a little game: would some of history's biggest scandals even be considered scandalous today?
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29 min
Episode: 94 - What’s on Your F*ck It List? Fantasies, Curiosity & Better Sex
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In this episode, we’re building the ultimate F*ck It List and talking about the fantasies we think about, the things we’d actually try, and the ones that are probably better left in our imagination.
We get into sharing fantasies with a partner, threesomes, kink events, sex toys, erotic fiction, trying something new after years together, and why your list doesn’t have to be wild to matter. Sometimes the biggest fantasy is simply feeling confident enough to ask for what you want.
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6 min
Episode: 93 - NSFB Quickie: 5 Clit Tips for Better Orgasms
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The clitoris is a whole lot more than one tiny button, and Vicki thinks she’s been seriously underutilized.
In this Not Safe for Brunch Quickie, Vicki shares 5 clit tips everyone should know, including why direct stimulation isn’t always better, why you need to STOP changing the rhythm when something is working, and why lube deserves way more respect.
Whether you have a clitoris or you’re lucky enough to play with one, consider this your quick reminder that better pleasure isn’t about memorizing one magic technique. It’s about paying attention, communicating and figuring out what actually feels good.
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28 min
Episode: 92 - Your Sex Life Has a Check Engine Light. Are You Ignoring It?
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Your sex life has a check engine light too. The problem? A lot of us ignore it.
Pain during sex, sudden changes in libido, trouble orgasming, vaginal dryness, erectile difficulties, avoiding intimacy, putting off STI testing... we convince ourselves it’s probably nothing, part of getting older, or something we just have to live with.
In honour of World Sexual Health Day on September 4th, we’re talking about the sexual health warning signs people tend to brush off, why “common” doesn’t necessarily mean “normal,” how stress and mental health can show up in the bedroom, and why preventative sexual healthcare deserves just as much attention as the rest of your health.
And yes, we also discuss doctor Googling, STI testing, pelvic floors, menopause, communication and why some of us need several people to tell us to call the damn doctor before we actually do it.
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31 min
Episode: 91 - Is This Cheating? 10 Relationship Scenarios That Blur the Line
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What actually counts as cheating anymore?
Deleting messages? Paying for OnlyFans? Keeping a dating app? Having coffee with an ex? Liking someone's sexy selfies? Or fantasizing about somebody else during sex?
In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we're throwing out real-life relationship scenarios and deciding whether they're cheating, disrespectful, completely harmless... or a giant red flag waiting to happen.
Because the biggest problem might not be cheating itself. It might be assuming your partner is playing by the same rules you are.
Tell us in the comments: What's something YOU consider cheating that your partner might not?
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22 min
Episode: 90 - Topless Is Legal in Canada… So Why Aren’t Women Doing It?
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If a man walks down the street without a shirt, nobody bats an eye. If a woman does it? Suddenly everyone has an opinion.
In this episode, we’re talking about women going topless, the legal battle that helped change things in Canada, Go Topless Day, breastfeeding, body image, safety, cameras, nude beaches and the massive double standard around women’s breasts. Because having the right to take your top off and actually feeling comfortable enough to do it are two VERY different things.
And we have questions: Would you go topless if nobody judged you? Would men still support topless equality if it meant all boobs, not just the ones they wanted to see? 😏
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25 min
Episode: 89 - HIV Isn’t a Thing of the Past: Why Testing and Awareness Still Matter
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HIV isn’t just a health issue from the past. In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, Vicki, Amber and Coralie discuss rising HIV diagnoses in Manitoba, common misconceptions about who is at risk, STI testing, condom use, dating, stigma and why open sexual-health conversations still matter.
They also look at how HIV treatment has changed, including U=U — Undetectable = Untransmittable — and why getting tested is about information, not judgment.
For Canadian HIV information and resources, visit CATIE.ca or the Public Health Agency of Canada.
This episode is for general education and awareness and is not a substitute for medical advice.
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9 min
Episode: 88 - NSFB Quickie: 7 Ways to Increase Desire (Without Blaming Each Other)
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Low libido isn't just one person's problem. It affects both partners, and the conversation often turns into blame instead of understanding.
In this NSFB Quicky, Amber shares seven practical ways couples can reconnect, reduce pressure, and better understand what's really behind a changing sex drive. From stress and sleep to responsive desire, flirting, and communication, these are simple changes that can make a big difference.
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25 min
Episode: 87 - 6 Simple Ways to Bring Back the Romance (and the Sex)
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Think better sex starts in the bedroom? Think again.
This week we're talking about six simple habits that help couples reconnect, rebuild intimacy, and bring the spark back into long-term relationships. From flirting during the day to reducing stress, date nights, affectionate touch, and actually talking about sex, these small changes can make a big difference.
Whether you've been together for two years or twenty, this episode is packed with practical ideas you can start using today.
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23 min
Episode: 86 - Can an Orgasm Manifest Your Dream Life? The Truth About the O Method
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Can an orgasm help you attract success, confidence, money, or even love?
The O Method has exploded on TikTok, claiming that combining orgasm with manifestation can help turn your goals into reality. But is there any science behind it, or is this just another viral wellness trend?
In this episode, we break down what the O Method actually is, why so many people swear by it, what psychology says about visualization and goal setting, and whether the real power comes from the orgasm... or from changing how you think and act.
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15 min
Episode: 85 - National Hand Job Day: Why Men Won't Tell You What They Like
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Ever wondered why your partner says "whatever you want" instead of telling you what actually feels good?
For National Hand Job Day, we're skipping the step-by-step advice and talking about something much more important: communication.
Why don't more men speak up? Is it to protect feelings? Avoid awkwardness? Or do they simply not care as much as we think?
We dive into why feedback in the bedroom feels so uncomfortable, why every partner is different, and why asking questions beats assuming every single time.
💬 We'd love to hear from you.
Do you think people avoid giving feedback in the bedroom because they're trying to protect feelings... or because talking about sex still feels awkward?
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20 min
Episode: 84 - Female Masturbation: What Nobody Ever Taught You
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Most women were never actually taught how their bodies work.
In this episode, we're talking about female masturbation, why so many women struggle with solo pleasure, and practical techniques that can help you enjoy your body without shame, pressure, or unrealistic expectations.
Whether you're completely new to exploring your body or you've been relying on the same routine for years, this conversation might change the way you think about pleasure.
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