Podcast
The Slumflower Hour
As the manosphere rises and men continue to terrorise us, how will you decide what your own happy ending looks like? Join Chidera Eggerue aka The Slumflower on her debut, much-awaited podcast The Slumflower Hour - the domain for disobedient women who date men! Is he really 'busy' or is he bored of you? Do you have the patience to practise your own boundaries? Should you follow your instincts or should you follow your impulses? Watch and listen to The Slumflower Hour every Friday! WARNING: This podcast might just be your man's worst nightmare, beware...
- Episodes
- 175
- Releases
- Weekly
- Typical length
- 37 min
- On air since
- 2022
- Latest episode
- 5 days ago
Episodes
175 episodes, newest first
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31 min
PRICE HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE
Season 4, Episode 40
Show notes
Does money make you feel uncomfortable? Are men taking advantage of your nervousness to ask them for stuff? Is it too daunting to make a man feel like he needs to be materially beneficial to your life?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she gives you bad girl ideas that would never want you hearing... ;)
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1 hr 7 min
PASSIVE MEN
Season 4, Episode 39
Show notes
Is that man still loitering even though you rejected him? Does he seem to conflate debating with flirting? Are you getting the vibe he's trying to throw subtle jabs?
In this episode, join Chidera as she warns us all to watch out for the 'sapiosexual' men!
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29 min
HE'S JEALOUS OF YOU
Season 4, Episode 38
Show notes
These men secretly want to be us so bad. Watch out for men who will seek your hand in courtship just to COMPETE with you...
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she drags men for filth!
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44 min
REALISING YOU WERE TOO GOOD FOR HIM
Season 4, Episode 37
Show notes
Why do we always realise we were too good for these men after things end?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the post-breakup clarity we all need to pick up where we left off and take our power back once and for all!
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26 min
PUNISH HIM
Season 4, Episode 36
Show notes
When was the last time you punished a man and why was it so long ago? What can women do to gain and hold more leverage in their relationships with men? And what can women do to enjoy holding the power and administering punishments without feeling terrible?
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29 min
THE UNMARRIABLE WOMAN
Season 4, Episode 35
Show notes
There are just some women in this world who are far too complex, untameable and powerful to be confined to the limitations of 'wife'. The power that comes from embracing being a disobedient, 'unmarriable' woman who cannot be bent or manipulated, is a power that we should never sleep on as women.
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29 min
PROTECT YOUR VULNERABILITY
Season 4, Episode 34
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Do you tend to wear your heart on your sleeve? Do you often find yourself giving more than you get from men? Is your vulnerability something that is often rough-handled and treated with impatience?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the urgency of women protecting ourselves emotionally from men, and why being guarded isn't the worst thing in the world.
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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41 min
GIRL, SLOW DOWN...
Season 4, Episode 33
Show notes
Do you have a tendency to rush things with men? Do you find that things tend to start intensely then burn out fast? Does long distance really deserve the bad rep it gets?
In this episode, Chidera recounts her experience being long distance with a guy she met on a dating reality show - and why distance in relationships helps women develop grounding, leverage and control if they're willing to pay attention. (Spoiler: I am not dating the man being discussed)
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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54 min
THE MALE EGO
Season 4, Episode 32
Show notes
In a world that is governed by men's weak egos, what steps are you taking to make the world a tougher place for them? In a world where men select women based on the praise and validation they'll receive from other men, what can you do to monopolise your power and benefit from this more?
Join Chidera as she dissects the male ego and discusses tips and tools to use men's egos against them.
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29 min
TRAIN HIM!
Season 4, Episode 31
Show notes
Did you know that men are a breed of dog? Did you also know that it's your responsibility to dictate how you deserve to be treated in a world where men already feel entitled to overriding your rules?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses non-formulaic methods of teaching men how to treat you - because ultimately, your standards are yours to set!
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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28 min
DATING AS A MAN HATER?
Season 4, Episode 30
Show notes
Is it possible to hate men and still date them? Yes, just like men are misogynists who still relentlessly chase the comfort, warmth and love of women! Sarcasm aside, in a world where women face brutal consequences for being so loving, kind and accommodating with men, what does dating life look like when women restrict men and reduce our kindness?
In this episode, join Chidera as she recounts her experience going on a reality dating show - and how she allowed herself to like a man without letting her values go.
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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43 min
THE WOMAN WHO IS WILLING TO WALK
Season 4, Episode 29
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Have you finally had enough? Have you finally developed the backbone to leave these men behind? Does your ability to walk away scare men? This episode is most certainly for YOU!
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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28 min
THE PERFORMATIVE MAN
Season 4, Episode 28
Show notes
Is that man wearing allyship like a costume? Does he suddenly become a 'feminist' when the bill comes? Is he selective with your empowerment whilst being threatened by you feeling good about yourself?
This episode is going to be a spicy one!
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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35 min
OPTIMISING YOUR DATING EXPERIENCE
Season 4, Episode 27
Show notes
Let's talk about making dating work for you in an already terrible dating pool! Are you utilising the men in your life properly? Are you open to the idea of a roster and if so, are you diversifying these men's roles to their full potential?
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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43 min
THE ALPHA WOMAN
Season 4, Episode 26
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Do you fear your own power? Do you 'naturally' feel inclined to defer to men? Does the idea of a powerful woman who makes men question themselves entice you or does it make you uncomfortable?
In this episode, we talk all things power and fearlessness as The Slumflower talks about the importance of women not being scared to hold their power in the presence of the beings we birthed.
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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31 min
BECAUSE OF A MAN
Season 4, Episode 25
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The things women do for men...are they even worth it? Of course not but alas, here we are! In this episode, join Chidera as we talk about the sacrifices and leaps women take all because of men...
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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33 min
YOU ARE IN DENIAL
Season 4, Episode 24
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How long will you keep lying to yourself? Is it finally time to interfere with the story you've been telling yourself? Are there certain delusions keeping you bound to that man?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the ways we all deny reality to protect our delusions.
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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37 min
MAINTAINING COMPOSURE
Season 4, Episode 23
Show notes
How do you manage when someone puts you on the spot and tries to bully you? Or if you're caught in a situation where you have to stand up for yourself without bursting into tears?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she shares her experiences of men attempting to bully her - as well as tips and tricks to hold your own when someone is trying to shake you out of character.
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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37 min
FEMALE RAGE
Season 4, Episode 22
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Do you allow yourself to be angry or do you repress it? In a society where women's rage is stifled and suppressed, it's time we have a conversation about allowing ourselves to feel it all in full.
In this episode, join Chidera as she talks about the importance of normalising our rage during the luteal phase - and why the world must learn to adjust to us.
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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1 hr 7 min
MEN MAKE YOU SICK!
Season 4, Episode 21
Show notes
*TRIGGER WARNING*: R*pe is discussed in this episode where we talk about why men value leverage over us, how they siphon our souls and health through osmosis, and why it's important to start giving men PTSD back.
Prepare yourself to hear some horrific stories from women who have survived developing life-changing illnesses and disabilities from being partnered with men.
Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions!
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