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Should I stay or should I go? If you’re asking yourself “Should I get a divorce?”, I sat down with divorce attorney Jenny Hutt, who is separated from her husband, to talk about why gray divorce has doubled since 1990, why midlife divorce so often hits when the kids leave and an empty nest marriage goes quiet, and what to know before facing divorce after 50. If you’ve looked across the table at the person you’ve built a life with and realized you have nothing to say, you’re not alone.

In this episode, Tamsen sits down with divorce attorney Jenny Hutt, a New York family law attorney and certified divorce mediator, Of Counsel at Wisselman Harounian Family Law, and host of the Just Jenny podcast, to talk about why so many marriages end in midlife and how to make an honest decision about your own.

Jenny, who is separated from her husband, explains why so many couples wait until the kids are out of the house, how losing a parent can bring up the question “How much time do I have left?”, and why the “guns blazing” divorce you see on TV is not how it really works. Tamsen opens up about her own divorce 15 years ago, the shame she felt, and the $100,000 in marital debt she had to dig out of.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- Why so many marriages end after the kids leave home, and what the empty nest can reveal

- How losing a parent and facing your own mortality can change the way you see your marriage

- What gray divorce is, and why divorce after 50 has doubled since 1990

- Why it’s okay not to know yet: “If you wanna reconcile tomorrow, go reconcile. There is no judgment.”

- The four things every divorce comes down to: assets, support, parenting and custody

- Why a good settlement is one where “nobody’s happy, but everybody can live with it”

- How a consultation with a divorce attorney can help you understand your rights before you decide anything

- Why the identity shift, from taking off your rings to hearing “Just one?”, can be as hard as the financial hit

Jenny practices family law in New York, and divorce laws vary from state to state, so talk with an attorney where you live about your own situation.

If you’ve ever wondered whether your marriage can be saved or whether it’s time to go, this episode will help you think it through honestly, without shame and without judgment.

If you liked this episode, then you’ll like: The #1 Relationship Expert: Finding Real Love After 40 Is Possible with Jillian Turecki and The Narcissist Decoder: How Smart Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

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MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

- Hope Edelman on The Tamsen Show

- You Could Make This Place Beautifulby Maggie Smith

- Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage by Belle Burden

- Family law attorney Laura Wasser

- All’s Fair on Hulu

- Wisselman Harounian Family Law

- The Gray Divorce Revolution (Brown & Lin, The Journals of Gerontology, 2012)

- The Graying of Divorce: A Half Century of Change (Brown & Lin, 2022)

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Ever been told you're too much, too different, or too late? Misty Copeland heard it all and became a legend anyway. In this episode, she shares how to stop shrinking to fit, how to speak up for yourself even when the room isn't built for you, and what she's learned about perimenopause and a body that changes every day.

Sitting down with Tamsen Fadal on The Tamsen Show, Misty looks back on a career built on proving people wrong. She didn't take her first ballet class until 13, was told she was "too athletic," and still became the first Black woman promoted to principal dancer at American Ballet Theatre. She tells Tamsen how she rehearsed hard conversations before walking into the director's office, danced Firebird at the Met on six stress fractures, and gave her farewell performance with ABT in October 2025. After a full hip replacement in December 2025, she was performing at the Oscars three months later. And when Tamsen asks about perimenopause, Misty admits she was skeptical "until it hit me."

In this episode, you'll learn:

- How to stop shrinking yourself to fit someone else's idea of "right"

- How to speak up when the room isn't built for you, and how to prepare for those hard conversations first

- Why a late start doesn't have to hold you back

- How to find a safe place, and the mentors, who help you grow

- What perimenopause can really feel like, and why not all symptoms look the same

- How to be patient with a body that changes every day

- How to take on something new after a setback, one step at a time: "Let's see what happens"

- How to use your seat at the table to open doors for the women coming after you

If you've ever been made to feel like you don't fit, this conversation will remind you that you get to decide what's next.

If you liked this episode, then you'll like: How This Woman Became a Trailblazing Airline Pilot at 50 After Waiting 15 Years and “It Can't Rain Forever”: Kandi Burruss on Reinvention and What Comes Next

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Bethany Joy Lenz, star of One Tree Hill and author of the new novel The Betrayal of Cora Wexford, spent years on TV every week while secretly living inside a cult.

She opens up about why becoming a mother gave her the reason to leave, why the leaving was survival and the real healing came after, and how being on set kept her grounded through it all.

Tamsen and Joy talk about why so many capable women end up doubting themselves, why psychological abuse behind closed doors is so rarely taken seriously, and how her new novel, set in 1888, mirrors so much of her real life.

In this episode, you'll learn:

- How a good thing can slowly turn into control

- Her rule now: "If you feel like something's weird, it's weird"

- The 1 question that reveals how someone really treats you, and the response to watch for

- How to trust your gut again after years of second-guessing yourself

- What her late ADHD diagnosis taught her about how hyperactivity shows up in women

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Most of us have been taught that when something is not working, the answer is more discipline, more willpower, and more effort. Angela Duckworth, the University of Pennsylvania psychologist and bestselling author of Grit, built her career studying that idea. Her new book, Situated, asks us to look at everything surrounding that effort.

In this conversation, she explains how the people, places, objects, and cultures around us shape our motivation, behavior, and even who we become.

Angela shares the terrifying moment she nearly lost her mother during a snorkeling trip—and why it taught her to stop fighting the current and ask for help. She also opens up about a difficult period in her marriage that showed her how easily we can mistake the effects of someone’s circumstances for flaws in their character.

Tamsen and Angela discuss why we attach moral value to doing things the hard way, how the people closest to us change what feels possible, and where to begin when we cannot simply leave the job, home, or situation shaping us.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- Why trying harder can keep us trapped in a losing situation

- The four parts of your environment to examine when you feel stuck

- How objects within three feet of you influence your behavior

- Why different people bring out different versions of who you are

- What you can change when your biggest circumstances are outside your control

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Is walking enough? Is Pilates enough? How heavy should you actually be lifting? If you’ve ever wondered which exercise really protects your brain as you age, especially through perimenopause and menopause, this conversation gives you the exact weekly plan.

In this episode, Tamsen sits down with clinical neurophysiologist and Alzheimer’s researcher Louisa Nicola, founder of Neuro Athletics and host of The Neuro Experience podcast, to talk about why she calls exercise medicine for the brain. Louisa explains that, outside of medication, exercise is the most powerful intervention we have to lower our risk of Alzheimer’s disease and dementia, a disease that affects far more women than men.

Tamsen opens up about the short-term memory loss and brain fog that scared her during perimenopause, and Louisa breaks down what happens inside your brain when you walk, sprint and lift, from BDNF and lactate to the myokines your muscles release. Then she builds out a workout plan for your brain: two days a week of heavy compound lifting at around 80% of your one-rep max, one Norwegian 4x4 interval session, zone 2 cardio and 10,000 steps a day.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- Why exercise is the best non-drug intervention for lowering Alzheimer’s risk

- How heavy to lift for brain health, and why compound moves like squats and deadlifts matter most

- Why Pilates is a great add-on, but not enough on its own

- The surprising link between leg strength and brain aging: “the larger the legs, the larger the brain”

- What zone 2 training (about 65% of your max heart rate) does for the hippocampus and memory

- How to raise your VO2 max with the Norwegian 4x4, how to estimate it with the 12-minute Cooper test, and why she wouldn’t rely on your wearable

- What she says about creatine for the brain, omega-3s, and the p-tau217 blood test and APOE4 gene test you can ask your doctor about

If you’ve ever wondered whether your workouts are doing anything for your brain, this episode will help you build a plan that protects your memory now and decades from now.

If you liked this episode, then you’ll like: How Getting Stronger as You Age Can Change Everything with The Muscle Doctor, Dr. Gabrielle Lyon and The #1 Pharmacist Phil Cowley: Creatine, Greens, Electrolytes, What’s Worth Buying and What Isn’t

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MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

- Dr. Lisa Mosconi on The Tamsen Show

- Walking and hippocampus study (Erickson et al., PNAS, 2011)

- Leg power and cognitive aging in older female twins (Steves et al., Gerontology, 2016)

- The Norwegian 4x4 interval study (Helgerud et al., Medicine & Science in Sports & Exercise, 2007)

- The 12-minute Cooper test (Cooper, JAMA, 1968)

- Creatine monohydrate pilot study in Alzheimer’s (Smith et al., 2025)

- Creatine and sleep deprivation study (Gordji-Nejad et al., Scientific Reports, 2024)

- FDA clears the first blood test used in diagnosing Alzheimer’s (p-tau217)

- APOE4 and Alzheimer’s genetics (Alzheimer’s Association)

- The 14 modifiable dementia risk factors (2024 Lancet Commission)

- Sleep regularity and mortality study (Windred et al., Sleep, 2024)

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Menopause and perimenopause can leave you with questions about belly fat, brain fog, sleep problems and whether hormone therapy could help. Your jeans fit differently. You’re losing your train of thought. You’re exhausted, but you can’t sleep. Where do you start when so much feels unfamiliar?

For World Menopause Month, Tamsen brings eight leading doctors and researchers together in one episode to help you understand what’s changing and what deserves attention. These are the conversations she wishes she’d heard before she was struggling to read the teleprompter at work, leaving herself notes and wondering why she didn’t feel like herself.

You’ll hear from Dr. Sharon Malone, Dr. Lisa Mosconi, Dr. Shelby Harris, Dr. Rocio Salas-Whalen, Dr. Vonda Wright, Dr. Kelly Casperson, Dr. Avrum Bluming and Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz. Eight experts, different perspectives and answers you can come back to—all in one place.

Inside the episode:

- Why you can still have periods and be in perimenopause—and why a single hormone blood test may be misleading

- Whether menopause brain fog can improve, and why women’s experiences vary

- Why more time in bed may not mean better sleep, and how cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) works

- The difference between visible belly fat and visceral fat around your organs

- Why bone health needs attention earlier than you might think

- How menopause can affect sexual anatomy, arousal and orgasm

- What to understand about hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and breast cancer risk

- How to evaluate menopause supplements and “hormone balance” claims before spending your money

You don’t have to remember everything or make eight changes tomorrow. Start with the moment that makes you think, “Wait, that’s happening to me.” Write down your question and bring it to your next appointment.

If a woman in your life keeps telling you she doesn’t feel like herself, share this episode with her. And if these conversations have helped you, follow The Tamsen Show and leave a rating and review.

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Why do we keep choosing emotionally unavailable partners? And why is it so hard to break unhealthy relationship patterns, even when we know better? In this episode of The Tamsen Show, dating and relationship expert Sabrina Zohar joins Tamsen Fadal to explain anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, relationship anxiety, and how childhood experiences shape the way we love, date, and connect with others.

Tamsen opens up about her own history of chasing unavailable men, including her real-life Mr. Big, and how finding a secure relationship later in life changed her understanding of love.

Sabrina, author of Why Am I Like This?, breaks down the four attachment styles, why anxious and avoidant partners get caught in painful relationship cycles, and why some of us keep choosing people who can’t give us what we need. More importantly, she explains how to recognize these patterns and start changing them.

You’ll learn:

- The four attachment styles and how they affect your relationships

- Why anxious and avoidant partners get caught in a painful push-and-pull cycle

- Why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people

- How childhood experiences can influence your adult relationships

- The question to ask yourself when rejection or abandonment triggers you

- How to build a more secure attachment style

- What to know before dating again after divorce or heartbreak

- Why choosing to stay single can sometimes be rooted in fear

Whether you’re single, dating, married, or starting over, this conversation will help you understand the patterns you bring into relationships and how to stop repeating the ones that hurt you.

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Women learn early which parts of themselves make other people comfortable. After enough years, that performance can begin to feel like our identity, and the intuition underneath it goes quiet.

Dr. Ellen Vora spent much of her life inside that worldview. A Yale- and Columbia-trained psychiatrist, she built her life around science and skepticism. Then, during an acupuncture treatment, Ellen received a message she couldn’t explain away, and it opened a question her training couldn’t answer: When someone dies, does the relationship actually end? That experience forced her to reconsider what she believed about grief, intuition, and the limits of what we can prove.

Today, Ellen shares the full story behind her new book, Season of the Witch: A Psychiatrist’s Case for Magic, and why women are taught to give up essential parts of themselves in order to be taken seriously. She argues that we’ve been missing something, and the way back starts in the body.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- How being agreeable and low-maintenance can become a form of self-abandonment

- Why women have been taught to distrust their intuition

- How to distinguish intuition from anxiety, and the ways the body signals yes and no

- Why menopause can represent a rebirth rather than a disappearance

- What grief can teach us about continuing relationships with the people we have lost

- Why the “witch” archetype has always been connected to women who are no longer easily controlled

- Simple ways to become more receptive to meaning, guidance, and magic in everyday life

This is a conversation about returning to the parts of ourselves we learned to suppress, and letting life become a little more mysterious and alive.

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What do women need to know about menopause care, menopause treatment, insurance coverage and their rights in the workplace?

Jennifer Weiss-Wolf, attorney, women’s health advocate and author of When in Menopause, joins me to talk about the systems surrounding perimenopause and menopause that most of us never think about until we need them.

Jennifer has spent years fighting for women, from helping lead the movement to end the tampon tax to advocating for better menopause care, research, treatment access and workplace protections. In this conversation, we break down what is changing, where women are still falling through the cracks and what we can actually do about it.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- Why menopause care and treatment still aren’t uniformly covered by health insurance

- Why vaginal estrogen isn’t currently covered by Medicare

- What states are doing to expand access to menopause treatment

- What rights women actually have when it comes to menopause in the workplace

- Why workplace accommodations without discrimination protections can be complicated

- What to consider before disclosing menopause symptoms at work

- How to better advocate for yourself in the doctor’s office

- How to navigate the explosion of menopause supplements, creams and products being marketed to women

- Why Jennifer believes better care, education, research and treatment access could make a bigger difference than workplace accommodations alone

- How women can get involved in menopause advocacy without becoming policy experts

This is one of those conversations that makes you realize how much of the menopause experience is shaped by systems most women have never been taught to think about. The more we understand how they work, the better equipped we are to ask for what we need.

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If you’ve been searching for how to strengthen your feet, improve your balance, walk better, help bunions, choose the right shoes, or stay mobile as you age, this episode is for you.

Your feet could be telling you more about your health than you realize.

Today, Tamsen sits down with foot and gait specialist Dr. Courtney Conley to break down the simple things you can start doing now to build stronger feet, improve the way you walk, and protect your mobility as you age.

You’ll learn:

- Why your walking speed can reveal important information about your health

- The simple test that can show you how strong your toes actually are

- What to do about bunions before considering surgery

- Why balance and foot strength become so important as you age

- Whether you actually need arch support or orthotics

- The truth about max-cushion sneakers, barefoot shoes and walking barefoot

- How to tell if your shoes are changing the shape of your feet

- The simple foot exercises Dr. Conley recommends for strength and mobility

- Why toe spacers can help and how to use them correctly

- What Dr. Conley rates orthotics, insoles, compression socks, bunion correctors, massage balls, slant boards and toe spacers

Your feet are carrying you through your entire life. This episode will show you how to start taking care of them now so they can keep carrying you for decades to come.

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Breast cancer is rising in younger women, but why? And what do plastics, alcohol, fragrance, deodorant, PFAS, pesticides, and other everyday exposures actually have to do with breast cancer risk?

In this episode of The Tamsen Show, Tamsen Fadal sits down with medical oncologist Dr. Eleonora Teplinsky to separate breast cancer facts from fear and misinformation.

They break down what the science actually says about everyday products and environmental exposures, plus the breast cancer risk factors women should be paying attention to.

You’ll learn:

- Why breast cancer rates are rising in women under 50

- What we know about plastics, PFAS and environmental exposures

- The connection between alcohol and breast cancer risk

- Why dense breasts can increase risk and make breast cancer harder to detect

- What women should know about mammograms, ultrasounds and breast cancer screening

- How family history and genetic testing affect your risk

- How to better understand your personal breast cancer risk

- The lifestyle changes that actually matter

If you’ve ever wondered what you can actually do to lower your breast cancer risk, what’s worth worrying about, and what the science says you can stop stressing about, this episode is for you.

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When you lose a word, forget why you walked into a room, or struggle to retain what you just read, it can be unsettling. It can also make you wonder whether your brain is beginning to change.

In this episode, Tamsen sits down with memory and learning expert Jim Kwik to explore what affects our ability to remember and why attention may be one of the most important parts of the equation. Jim, author of Limitless and the new book Limitless Daily: 366 Keys to Train Your Brain, Master Your Mind & Win Every Day, shares his journey from being labeled “the boy with the broken brain” to becoming one of the world’s best-known memory coaches—and offers practical ways to strengthen your focus, keep learning, and begin trusting your mind again.

They discuss:

- How attention determines what becomes a memory

- Why mental overload can make us feel more forgetful

- A 60-second grounding exercise to use when you feel scattered or anxious

- Simple techniques for remembering what you read

- How to keep challenging and training your brain as you age

- The small daily practices that build focus, memory, and self-trust

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Grief doesn’t only happen when someone dies. We can grieve a divorce, a changing body, an aging parent, a career, a relationship or even the person we used to be.

In this episode of The Tamsen Show, Tamsen Fadal sits down with grief therapist and expert Meghan Riordan Jarvis to unpack what grief actually does to the body, why the five stages of grief don’t tell the whole story, and how to process loss instead of simply pushing through it.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- Why grief can show up after divorce, career changes, aging and other non-death losses

- How grief can affect sleep, brain fog, anxiety, mood and the body

- The truth about the five stages of grief

- How to recognize grief you may not realize you’re carrying

- Meghan’s six-part Grief Mentor Method for processing loss

- What to actually say and do when someone you love is grieving

- Why perimenopause, menopause and midlife can bring unexpected grief

- Practical ways to process grief instead of ignoring it

- How mindfulness, movement, nourishment, nature, rest and ritual can support the grieving process

Whether you’re grieving the death of someone you love, a divorce, an aging parent, a changing body or a version of your life that no longer exists, this conversation offers a different way to understand what you’re feeling and what to do with it.

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Have you ever looked at your age, your responsibilities, or how long you’ve been putting something off and wondered if you missed your chance?

Captain Carole Hopson dreamed of becoming a pilot from the time she was four years old. Then life got full. She built a successful corporate career, became an executive at Foot Locker, and raised two sons. The dream never left her. At 50, Carole began flying for the airlines. Today, she is a Boeing 737 captain for United Airlines.

In this conversation, Carole breaks down what starting over actually required and shares how she turned “someday” into a plan she could follow.

In this episode. they get into:

- The deadline that turned Carole’s childhood dream into a real goal

- How she prepared financially for a major career change

- Why she waited until her children were older to fly professionally

- What it felt like to be the oldest person in the classroom

- How to build a personal “board of directors” for your next chapter

- What pioneering aviator Bessie Coleman taught her about possibility

- Her mission to help 100 Black women attend flight school through the Jet Black Foundation

If there is something you keep telling yourself you’ll do one day, Carole’s story will push you to get honest about what you’re waiting for and finally give that dream a date.

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Why do your joints suddenly hurt more than they used to?

In this episode of The Tamsen Show, Tamsen Fadal sits down with orthopedic surgeon Dr. Jason Snibbe to talk about joint pain, muscle loss, bone health, frozen shoulder, and what women can do now to stay strong and mobile as they age.

Dr. Snibbe explains why changing hormones can affect inflammation and recovery, why muscle is so important for protecting your joints, and how to know when normal soreness has turned into something you should actually get checked out.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why joint pain and stiffness can increase in midlife
• How muscle helps protect your knees, hips, shoulders and back
• The strength training habits that support mobility and bone health
• What to know about frozen shoulder
• When joint pain is a sign it’s time to see a doctor
• What Dr. Snibbe says about PRP, cortisone, weighted vests, supplements and avoiding unnecessary surgery

If your body feels achier, stiffer, or slower to recover than it used to, this episode will help you understand what may be changing and what you can start doing about it.

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Why does women's sexual health still get treated as an afterthought, and what would it take to finally change that? Cindy Eckert is the founder and CEO of Sprout Pharmaceuticals and the woman behind Addyi, the first and only FDA-approved treatment for low sexual desire in women. In this episode, she explains hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD), the biological condition behind low libido that affects millions of women and is still routinely dismissed as stress, aging, or a relationship problem.

Cindy breaks down why women are told their low libido is emotional while men's sexual health issues are treated as biological, what actually happens in the brain when desire disappears, and the three question checklist she wants every woman to bring to her next doctor's appointment. She also explains why 80% of women who brought up low libido with their doctor were simply told it was normal, and what women's sexual health should actually look like when it's taken seriously.

In this episode, you'll learn:

- What HSDD is and why it's rooted in biology, not emotion

- Why women's sexual health has been dismissed as psychological instead of medical

- How the double standard in FDA drug review affects treatments for women

- Why 80% of women raising low libido with their doctor are told it's normal

- The three questions to ask before accepting "that's just aging"

- How Addyi works and who it's for

- What changed with Addyi's newest approval for postmenopausal women

If you've ever felt like your desire just switched off and been told that's normal, been handed a vague explanation instead of a real answer, or wondered if something is wrong with you instead of your body, this episode will help you understand the biology behind it, so you stop blaming yourself for something that was never your fault.

Addyi (flibanserin) is for women under 65 with acquired, generalized HSDD who have not had problems with low sexual desire in the past. It is not for men. Full safety information, including boxed warning on alcohol interaction, is available at http://addyi.com/pi.

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If you get migraines, headaches that knock you out for the day, or symptoms you can’t quite explain, this episode is for you.

Today, Tamsen sits down with Dr. Huma Sheikh, a board-certified neurologist and Harvard-trained headache specialist, to answer the questions so many people have about migraines: What actually causes them? What triggers them? How do you know if you’re having a migraine or just a bad headache? And most importantly, what actually works to prevent and treat them?

You’ll also learn why migraines are so much more than a headache, why women are significantly more likely to experience them, and what symptoms may mean it’s time to talk to a doctor.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- How to tell a migraine from a headache

- The biggest migraine triggers and symptoms

- How hormones can affect migraines

- What actually works, from Botox and magnesium to newer treatments

- What migraine with aura means and when to see a doctor

- Which popular migraine remedies are worth trying and which aren’t

If migraines are disrupting your work, your plans, your sleep, or your life, there are more treatment options than you may realize. This episode will help you understand what’s happening and what to ask your doctor about next.

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After eight seasons of co-hosting Dancing with the Stars, Brooke Burke got the call that she was being let go. At 53, she could have stayed stuck—instead, she turned that setback into Brooke Burke Body, a thriving wellness community redefining what it means to age with strength.

In this candid conversation, Brooke opens up about reinvention in your 50s, why slowing down is not falling behind, and how she learned to regulate her nervous system, lift heavy after 40, and embrace perimenopause with grace.

If you're navigating a career pivot, midlife change, or just wondering what's next—this one is for you.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

- The real story behind being let go from Dancing with the Stars and how she walked away with grace

- How she turned a career setback into Brooke Burke Body, her wellness app and community

- Brooke’s tips for nervous system regulation and how lowering cortisol helps your body finally "let go"

- Why Brooke says cardio isn't enough for women after 40 and how to protect muscle and longevity

- Her mindset shift from disconnected and high-achieving to present—and how to change your inner dialogue

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How do you know when it’s actually time to quit your job?

After 30 years as a news anchor, Tamsen Fadal walked away from the career she had spent her entire adult life building. She didn’t hate her job, she wasn’t failing, and there wasn’t one dramatic breaking point. But looking back, the signs that it was time for a career change had been there for years.

In this solo episode of The Tamsen Show, Tamsen shares the five signs that helped her realize she had outgrown her career and what she wishes she had recognized sooner.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• 5 signs it may be time to quit your job
• How to tell the difference between a bad week and actually outgrowing your career
• Why resentment at work can be a sign of something bigger
• The physical signs your job may be taking a toll on you
• Why constantly imagining another career or life is worth paying attention to
• How your identity can keep you tied to a career you’ve outgrown
• What to consider before making a major career change

If you’ve been thinking about quitting your job, changing careers, or starting over, this episode will help you get honest about whether it’s time for your next chapter.

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Why do some of us experience rejection, criticism, and disappointment so intensely—and what we can we actually do about it? Dr. Sasha Hamdani is a board-certified psychiatrist, ADHD specialist, and author of Too Sensitive: Rejection, Resilience, and the Science of Feeling Deeply. In this episode, she explains rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD)—the intense emotional pain triggered by perceived rejection or criticism that affects the majority of people with ADHD, especially women.

Dr. Hamdani breaks down why dropping estrogen during perimenopause makes emotional sensitivity worse, what's actually happening in your brain when one comment sends you into a spiral, and the three tools she uses herself to stop it. She also explains why women who've been on antidepressants for years with no relief may have been misdiagnosed—and what high-achieving women look like from the outside vs. what's really going on inside.

In this episode, you'll learn:

-What rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD) is and why it's so common in ADHD

-How RSD shows up in friendships, relationships, and the workplace

-Why perimenopause can make emotions and ADHD symptoms feel harder to manage

-Why high-achieving women may hide rejection sensitivity behind perfectionism, overpreparing, and people-pleasing

-How to tell the difference between what actually happened and the story your brain created about it

-Tools for helping your brain catch up before you react or start spiraling

-Why some women treated for anxiety and depression for years may actually need to be evaluated for ADHD

-How to start tracking your own patterns before you talk to a professional

If you've ever lost an entire night replaying one conversation, convinced yourself someone is upset with you, or felt a wave of shame hit your body before you could even think it through, this episode will help you understand what’s happening between the feeling and the reaction, so your first emotional response doesn’t get to make the decision for you.

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