Win Make Give with Ben Kinney

Emotional decisions ruin businesses, relationships, and bank accounts. In this episode, Bob Stewart and Chad Hyams break down why making choices in the heat of the moment destroys performance—and how to gain total control using the science of the 90-second chemical flush.

Discover a 6-step framework to flush emotion, separate facts from fiction, and start making decisions that protect your long-term legacy.

Key Takeaways:

The science behind the 90-second pause and why staying angry is a choice.

How to run the HALT diagnostic before making major strategy calls.

Using logic as the steering wheel and emotion as the fuel.

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• Ben Kinney: https://www.benkinney.com/

• Bob Stewart: https://www.linkedin.com/in/activebob

• Chad Hyams: https://chadhyams.com/

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There is a fine line between stepping up for someone and enabling them to stay dependent.

When you keep solving the exact same problem for the same person, your help isn't changing their situation—it's just making you their first call next time. True generosity builds someone's capability, choice, and dignity. Controlling help keeps you at the center while hiding behind good intentions.

In this episode of Win Make Give, we tear apart the difference between giving real relief and feeding your own need to be needed. Learn the four critical questions to ask before stepping in, how to handle pattern rescues with employees, friends, and family, and how to give support that actually drives growth instead of resentment.

Hit play to audit your help, establish clear boundaries, and ensure your support actually builds the people around you.

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• Ben Kinney: https://www.benkinney.com/

• Bob Stewart: https://www.linkedin.com/in/activebob

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Most leaders try to fix culture with big speeches or complex strategies, but true transformation happens in the daily operating system.

In this episode of Win Make Give, Bob and Chad sit down with keynote speaker and leadership expert TJ Sweet to unpack how simple, deliberate shifts in perception can completely revolutionize how your team shows up for each other, your clients, and the work itself.

TJ breaks down The Gratitude Effect, sharing practical tools to reconnect with purpose, make better decisions under pressure, and close the silent gaps in trust and communication that quietly drain performance.

Connect with TJ at https://tjsweet.com/

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Liz Landry discusses her transition from business operator to owner, inspired by a challenge from Phil Jones. She shares insights from Sir Richard Branson's mentorship, focusing on removing business friction points and creating unique customer experiences. Liz emphasizes the importance of finding freedom within work, rather than seeking escape from it. Hosts Chad Hyams and Bob Stewart explore these themes, encouraging entrepreneurs to redefine their business roles for better satisfaction and efficiency. Liz's new book promises strategies to help business owners transform their approach and achieve greater fulfillment.

Get the book From Operator To Owner

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Stop letting overthinking paralyze your execution. In this episode of Win Make Give, Bob Stewart and Chad Hyams dive into one of the biggest momentum killers in life and business: failing to balance patience with decisive action.

Apex performers don't act on impulse, nor do they get trapped in analysis paralysis. Chad and Bob break down how to gather the right information fast, cut through the noise, and make confident, high-execution decisions that drive predictable results. Stop waiting for the "perfect" moment. Listen in, make the shift, and turn your plans into immediate action.

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Most of us learned about money by accident, from watching our parents, making mistakes, or never talking about it at all. In this episode, Bob Stewart and Chad Hyams share how they're teaching their own kids to earn, save, and give, and why money habits may be the most important thing you pass down. It's practical frameworks for every age, plus the real stories from their own households.

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In this episode, Bob Stewart and Chad Hyams break down why high performers stay stuck when faced with big decisions and how to build momentum without getting trapped in overthinking. We examine the line between gathering critical information and falling into analysis paralysis. Moving from confusion to clarity requires making decisions with purpose and executing with zero hesitation. You will learn how to cut through the noise, align your daily habits with your long-term goals, and establish a repeatable framework to stay accountable to your results. What is one decision you are avoiding today, and what step will you take right now to solve it?

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Explore the essence of business connection with Dr. Jamie Shapiro, an organizational psychologist and author of "Connected Culture". Hosts Chad Hyams and Bob Stewart dive into the importance of leader vitality and team cohesion in creating thriving organizational cultures. Dr. Shapiro discusses the significance of small steps in combating burnout and shares insights from her 5C model for team assessment. Uncover how trust and care within teams not only enhance leadership but also energize and boost overall performance. Discover actionable strategies to improve workplace connections and foster a positive culture.

Connect with Jamie at https://connectedec.com/

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Chad Hyams and Bob Stewart dive into the challenges and strategies of managing finances, focusing on the importance of budgeting over simply tracking expenses. They discuss personal experiences, including how lifestyle creep can affect financial stability and share insights from the Win Make Give wealth series. Listeners will gain valuable tips on prioritizing expenses, setting up effective budgets, and avoiding common financial pitfalls as they recount their journeys towards better financial discipline. Whether you're familiar with financial planning or just starting out, this discussion offers practical guidance.

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• Ben Kinney: https://www.benkinney.com/

• Bob Stewart: https://www.linkedin.com/in/activebob

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Join Chad Hyams as he interviews Blake Bauer, author of "You Were Not Born to Suffer." Dive into Blake's transformative journey from personal struggles to discovering self-love and holistic well-being. Explore practical strategies for achieving a balanced mind-body connection, mastering emotions, and fostering self-care amidst a demanding entrepreneurial world. Blake shares insights on meditation, nonviolent communication, and establishing healthy boundaries. This episode challenges listeners to embrace responsibility, nurture self-respect, and realize their life's miraculous potential. Perfect for those seeking personal and professional growth.

Connect with Blake at https://www.unconditional-selflove.com/

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What can iconic television characters teach us about high performance, leadership, and personal growth? A lot more than you might think.

In this episode, Bob and Chad break down four larger-than-life fictional personalities and extract the real-world business and mindsets that drive them. From unleashing unstoppable daily energy and mastering your competitive advantage, to surviving the dangerous traps of unchecked ego and playing the hand you are dealt, we explore how screen legends translate directly to real-world execution.

Tune in to discover:

How intentional enthusiasm transforms ordinary moments into legendary opportunities.

Why true confidence relies on knowing your numbers and owning your sharpest edge.

The critical warning sign that ego is beginning to undermine your empire.

How to stop playing the odds and start playing the room when high-stakes decisions are on the line.

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• Ben Kinney: https://www.benkinney.com/

• Bob Stewart: https://www.linkedin.com/in/activebob

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Explore the entrepreneurial journey of Nick Friedman, co-founder of College Hunks Hauling Junk, as he discusses scaling a business from a college startup to a national brand. Hosts Chad Hyams and Bob Stewart explore Nick's experiences on Shark Tank, the significance of being a "Chief Repetition Officer," and strategies for successful business expansion. Learn how maintaining daily habits and consistent communication are vital for both personal and professional growth. Discover insights into franchising, grassroots marketing, and leadership development in this engaging conversation.

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Nick Friedman Website: http://nickfriedman.com

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College Hunks Franchise Information: https://www.collegehunksfranchise.com

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College Hunks Hauling Junk and Moving: Official Website

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Chad Hyams and Bob Stewart dive into the complexities of ego, discussing its impact on self-esteem and self-importance. Drawing insights from Ryan Holiday's book, "Ego is the Enemy," they explore the balance between passion and purpose, using examples like renowned coach John Wooden and NBA stars Shaquille O'Neal and Kobe Bryant. Highlighting the importance of continuous learning and maintaining humility, the hosts share personal stories and strategies for keeping ego in check. They also emphasize the benefits of focusing on others and the pitfalls of pride, especially in the age of social media.

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Chad Hyams and Bob Stewart dive into stories of resilience with guest Marcus Aurelius Anderson, the author of "Acta Non Verba." Unpacking the crucial theme of actions over words, Marcus shares his life-changing journey from military paratrooper to navigating paralysis, highlighting the power of gratitude and facing adversity. Learn how to flip life's challenges into opportunities and why everyday actions speak louder than intentions. This conversation blends personal insight with practical advice on embracing discomfort and transforming it into a catalyst for growth and change.

Connect with Marcus at https://www.marcusaureliusanderson.com/

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00:00 Exploring Stoicism and Life Changes with Marcus Aurelius Anderson

04:48 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Failure in Entrepreneurship

06:43 Embracing a Legacy Through the Name Marcus Aurelius

08:59 Overcoming Adversity and Finding Gratitude in Life's Challenges

16:02 Finding Gratitude in Adversity and Genuine Challenges

20:06 Transforming Adversity into Opportunity Through Radical Gratitude

23:52 Embracing Adversity and Overcoming Hesitation in Life

28:05 Introducing Micro Adversities to Build Resilience in Children

30:26 Overcoming Inaction by Embracing Determined and Immediate Action

32:54 Marcus Aurelius Anderson Discusses Books and Kentucky Derby

34:51 Overcoming Adversity Through Immediate Action and Determination

Chad Hyams and Bob Stewart welcome Shawn Nelson, founder of LoveSac, as they delve into the brand's innovative journey from giant foam bags to modular sofas. Shawn shares insights from his book, "Let Me Save You 25 Years," offering lessons on entrepreneurship, the power of intuition, and the importance of company values. Discover how LoveSac's commitment to quality and adaptability has fueled its growth, alongside strategies Nelson uses to communicate core values across his team. This episode offers a rich narrative on taking risks and believing in a long-term vision.

Connect with Shawn

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Shawn Nelson's Instagram: @seanoflovesac

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Shawns Nelson's book: Let Me Save You 25 Years

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Podcast: Let Me Save You 25 Years.

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00:00 Interview With Sean Nelson on Popular Home Product

02:39 The Journey of LoveSac: From Giant Beanbags to Sectional Sofas

08:32 LoveSac's Forever Philosophy and Sustainable Furniture Revolution

10:57 Lessons from Love Sack's Journey: Mistakes, Miracles, and Growth

12:20 Persistence and Innovation in the Face of Expert Doubt

14:18 Lessons in Leadership and Building a Successful Business

19:52 The Power of Visualization and Self-Image in Achieving Success

25:45 Values-Based Leadership and Building a Lasting Company Culture

32:22 Shawn Nelson's Journey of Building Lovesac's Brand and Community

From Spider-Man slinging across the MCU to Green Lanterns lighting up HBO, superhero stories are everywhere—and for good reason. But what if you don't need a radioactive spider bite, alien origin, or high-tech suit to unlock extraordinary results in your life and business?

In this episode of Win Make Give, Bob Stewart and Chad Hyams break down how to discover and deploy the real-world "superpowers" you already possess. They explore how your personal origin story builds unmatched resilience, why willpower operates like a Green Lantern ring, how to build your own Justice League, and the daily tactics needed to defeat your biggest internal supervillains: procrastination and self-doubt. Tune in to turn your natural strengths into non-negotiable execution.

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Chad Hyams, joined by guest Stefan Whitwell, delves into the multifaceted nature of wealth, emphasizing its intersection with health and purpose. Sharing personal insights from Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and unexpected life lessons, Stefan reveals how liquidity can expose personal challenges like identity dissolution. Discover strategies for maintaining presence, the significance of self-care, and how to prepare for life's transitions, all while assessing your personal and professional goals. Tune in for a thoughtful exploration of achieving balance and meaning beyond financial success.

Connect with Stefan at https://www.whitwelladvisors.com/

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Chad Hyams and Bob Stewart dive into the world of sports card collecting at the National Sports Card Convention alongside Ben Kinney and Kevin Kaufman. They explore valuable lessons in business and life, from understanding the true value of patience, negotiation, and reviews to the power of nostalgia and the ripple effect of kindness. The episode highlights insights from navigating the vast convention space, negotiating deals, and fostering meaningful connections. Join them for engaging reflections on the intersection of business strategies and personal passions in the sports card industry.

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An alcoholic as a teen to a fire fighter saving people to a personal trainer transforming live, Jerzy Gregorek joins Chad Hyams on today's episode to talk about the lessons he has learned through his life and in a gym that can transform you physically, mentally and financially.

Connect with Jerzy at https://thehappybody.com/

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Most business owners complain that nobody cares about the business as much as they do. Well... of course they don't—you own it! But there is a massive difference between a paycheck-collector who checks boxes and an intrapreneur who takes true ownership of outcomes. If your team acts like robots, it's usually because you built a factory instead of an environment that fosters leadership.

In this episode of Win Make Give, Bob Stewart and Chad Hyams break down the 6-step playbook to bridge the Ownership Gap. You will learn how to stop assigning to-do lists, implement the "3-Before-Me" problem-solving rule, teach your team the financial scoreboard, and create clear guardrails that empower your people to think, act, and deliver like business owners.

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