Working Out The Kinks

In this episode of Working Out the Kinks, Jazzy and Maima are playing a little game of “Hear Me Out”, where the turn-ons might be unexpected, the celebrity crushes might be questionable, and absolutely nothing is off the table! From non-sexual turn-ons that get the attention flowing to celebrity crushes we’re ready to defend, the duo gets into the little things that spark attraction, ignite curiosity, and make someone unexpectedly irresistible.

And because no conversation about turn-ons would be complete without getting a little freaky, the hosts also reveal their favorite songs for fellatio and share the kind of spicy opinions that might have you agreeing, clutching your pearls, or questioning their taste. What makes someone sexy beyond the obvious? Which celebrity has us acting up? And what song deserves a permanent spot on the oral pleasure playlist? It's time to find out!

Tune in for plenty of laughs, unexpected confessions, spicy takes, and unfiltered conversation about sexual attraction, non-sexual turn-ons, celebrity crushes, music for intimacy, and the little things that make us say, “Hear me out!” Because sometimes the things that turn us on make perfect sense, and sometimes you just have to let us explain.

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In this episode of Working Out the Kinks, Jazzy and Maima sit down with Coach Felyne, BDSM and kink educator and creator of Trauma-Informed Consensual Kink, for a conversation that challenges everything we think we know about consent. Because consent isn't always as simple as saying yes or no. It's a layered conversation shaped by communication, power dynamics, personal boundaries, lived experiences, and the ability to recognize what we truly want versus what we feel pressured to accept.

Together, they explore the deeper layers of consent within BDSM and kink, including consensual non-consent, trauma-informed practices, and why asking “Did they say yes?” may not tell the whole story. Coach Felyne breaks down the differences between wanting, being willing, tolerating, and enduring, while highlighting how communication styles, trust, and power dynamics can influence the way we negotiate and experience intimacy.

Drawing from her journey from Mississippi and the Deep South into the BDSM community, Coach Felyne shares how her experiences, advocacy, and the perspectives of Black women helped shape her approach to consent education. The conversation also connects kink to everyday relationships, social justice, self-awareness, and the ways we navigate boundaries and access to one another, both inside and outside the bedroom.

Tune in for an insightful, eye-opening conversation about BDSM, consent, trauma-informed kink, boundaries, communication, and relational power that may have you rethinking how you approach your own relationships and interactions. Because consent isn't just about getting a yes. It's about creating the space for people to express what they genuinely want, need, and feel safe enough to communicate.

Connect with Coach Felyne:

• Instagram: @coachfelyne
• Trauma-Informed Kink on Instagram: @traumainformedkink
• Website: https://traumainformedkink.com/

Visit her website to explore her e-book, TICK 101 on-demand class, workshops, and additional educational resources.

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What if pleasure is about more than reaching an orgasm? Tantra yoga instructor and intimacy coach Krysta of KrystallTantricYogi joins Maima and Jazzy of Working Out The Kinks to explore sensory play, embodiment, and the spiritual side of sexuality.The conversation begins with the hosts’ “Kink of the Week” : sensory play and unfolds into a thoughtful discussion about engaging the senses, slowing down, and staying present. Krystal also shares how yoga led her to Tantra, why she sees the body as a compass for healing, and how desire can help us understand ourselves.In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• How sensory play can make intimacy more creative and engaging
• Why slowing down can deepen sensation and presence
• Common misconceptions about Tantra
• How shame and social conditioning can affect our relationship with pleasure
• The importance of listening to your body, honoring boundaries, and building self-trust
• How desires can offer insight into who we are

To learn more about Krystal and her teachings head to KrystalTantricYogi.com, or her Instagram and TikTok (@KrystalTantricYogi), and on her YouTube channel, Shakti Realized. Her secondary Instagram account is @SexExplained, and she has a Patreon by the same name (https://www.patreon.com/sexexplained).

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In the seventeenth episode of Working Out the Kinks, Jazzy and Maima are headed back to Secrets Hideaway Resort for Part 2 of the POC Takeover! After their first experience, the duo returns for another weekend of kink, connection, exploration, and, of course, plenty of foolery.

This time, they're getting into their kinky experiences from the weekend, giving listeners an honest review of the event, the energy, the community, and everything that happened behind the scenes. From memorable play experiences to the realities of navigating a POC-centered lifestyle event, Jazzy and Maima keep it candid about what worked, what didn't, and what left them questioning the experience.

The conversation also takes a deeper look at playroom safety, etiquette, and the importance of creating respectful spaces within the kink community. Because while kink should be about exploration, pleasure, and connection, safety and consent should never take a backseat to the fun.

Tune in for an unfiltered recap filled with kinky experiences, play party realities, safety conversations, laughter, and all the behind-the-scenes chaos you've come to expect from Working Out the Kinks. Consider this your invitation to pull up, get comfortable, and hear what really went down at the POC Takeover.

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In the sixteenth episode of Working Out the Kinks, Jazzy and Maima are joined by Jay Bee, a Shibari rope artist exploring the emotional, psychological, and energetic dimensions of rope. But what if rope isn't really about bondage? What if it's about learning how to let go?

Together, they unpack the deeper meaning behind Shibari and rope bondage, moving beyond knots and restraint to explore trust, vulnerability, presence, communication, and connection. Jay Bee shares insight into how rope can become a powerful pathway for self-discovery and intentional intimacy, while the conversation examines the difference between control, surrender, and submission.

Whether you've never touched a piece of rope or you're already familiar with the world of Shibari, this episode invites you to look at rope from a different perspective. Instead of focusing on technique, Jazzy, Maima, and Jay Bee explore rope as relationship and what it can reveal about the ways we communicate, connect, surrender, and show up vulnerably with another person.

Tune in for a deeper conversation about Shibari, BDSM, consent, trust, surrender, vulnerability, and erotic connection, and discover why sometimes the most powerful thing rope can do isn't tie us up, but help us untangle something within ourselves.

Connect with Jay Bee:
Instagram: @consent_llc
https://www.instagram.com/consent_llc/

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In the fifteenth episode of Working Out the Kinks, Jazzy and Maima invite listeners into the world of sacred sensuality, exploring how intentional pleasure practices can deepen our relationship with our bodies, sexuality, partners, and ourselves. Rather than focusing on techniques or performance, the duo dives into the power of creating rituals around pleasure and how practices like journaling, breathwork, mindfulness, and tantric-inspired exercises can support self-awareness, emotional connection, intimacy, and erotic embodiment.

From building a personal Pleasure Chest filled with tools that inspire exploration to creating intentional moments of connection, Jazzy and Maima share the rituals and habits that help them slow down, tune in, and experience pleasure with greater intention. But, of course, they couldn't have a conversation about pleasure without spilling a little tea! The duo gets into some steamy Kinky Confessions that may genuinely shock you, proving once again that there are always a few surprises hiding beneath the surface.

Tune in for a conversation about sacred sexuality, sensuality, intentional pleasure, kink, intimacy, and the art of becoming more connected to yourself and your desires. Because pleasure isn't just something you experience, t’s something you can practice, cultivate, and make sacred.

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In this episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima get real about the side of the lifestyle that doesn't always make it into the highlight reel. From awkward mishaps and unexpected encounters to experiences that were more freaky than fun, the duo looks back at some of the moments that had them laughing, cringing, questioning their choices, and learning along the way.

Because the lifestyle isn't always pleasure, freedom, and picture perfect moments. Sometimes it's uncomfortable, unpredictable, and downright weird and that's part of the journey too. Through candid storytelling, laughter, and unfiltered commentary, Jazzy and Maima explore the duality of lifestyle experiences and the lessons that come from the not so fun moments. Tune in for the stories that prove sometimes you have to experience the weird, the awkward, and the unexpected to figure out what actually works for you.

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In the thirteenth episode of Working Out the Kinks, Jazzy and Maima hand over the mic to their listeners! After asking their followers to submit their burning questions, the duo sits down to answer a mix of racy, hilarious, thought-provoking, and downright unexpected questions about pleasure, relationships, kink, the lifestyle, and everything in between.

No topic was off the table as they shared their honest opinions, personal experiences, and a few answers that may have even surprised each other. From questions that had them laughing to conversations that made them pause and get real, this Q&A proves that sometimes the best conversations come from simply asking the questions we're all too curious to say out loud.

Tune in for candid answers, unfiltered opinions, plenty of laughs, and a few moments that might have you saying, “Okay… I need to know the story behind THAT!” And if you've ever had a question you've been too shy to ask, consider this your invitation to send it in for the next round.

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In this episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima sit down to spill the tea on their July adventures in the lifestyle. From parties and new experiences to steamy kink scenes and everything in between, the duo takes listeners along for a month filled with exploration, pleasure, surprises, and plenty of stories to tell.

As they recap the highs, the unexpected moments, and the experiences that left an impression, Jazzy and Maima reflect on what they're learning about themselves, their desires, and navigating the lifestyle along the way. Through candid storytelling, laughter, and unfiltered commentary, they give listeners an inside look at their July adventures and remind us that when it comes to pleasure and exploration, there's always another kink to work out.

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In the eleventh episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima recap their experience at FetCon, diving into the people, energy, education, and experiences that made the event one to remember. From connecting with fellow kinksters and discovering new fetishes to exploring kinky vendors, attending parties, and taking in everything the convention had to offer, the duo shares their honest perspective on what made FetCon such a unique experience.

Through candid conversations, personal observations, and plenty of laughs, Jazzy and Maima unpack their favorite moments, unexpected discoveries, and the connections they made along the way. Whether you're a seasoned member of the lifestyle or simply curious about the world of kink, tune in as they explore new forms of pleasure and play, highlight the creativity within the kink community, and share what it's really like to immerse yourself in an event where curiosity is encouraged and there's always something new to discover.

In the tenth episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima recap a weekend that truly gave them the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. From a Juneteenth Wakanda-themed play party that left much to be desired to a pool play party that delivered the energy, community, and fun they were hoping for, the duo takes an honest look at just how different two lifestyle experiences can be.

Along the way, the weekend brings plenty to unpack. From demons and angel numbers and playing strip Uno to navigating creepy FetLife folks, this episode is filled with unexpected encounters.Through candid storytelling, unfiltered commentary, and a healthy dose of humor and discernment, Jazzy and Maima explore the highs, the lows, and the moments that remind you that sometimes, all you can do is work out the kinks!

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In this episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima sit down with erotic film photographer and producer and Shibari rigger Solomon Abrams for a candid conversation about rope, representation, consent, and the many ways we can reclaim pleasure and connection. Together, they explore the history and cultural associations of rope within the Black community while making space for a different perspective.

The conversation goes beyond the rope to explore Solomon's journey within the kink community, favorite kinks and fetishes, pet play, and the importance of education and ethical kink practices. They also discuss how safety and consent protocols from the adult entertainment industry can offer valuable lessons for the BDSM community, as well as the growing visibility of Shibari within communities of color.

And because we're Working Out the Kinks, we're not just talking about rope, we're getting hands-on! The episode wraps with a beginner-friendly rope demonstration where Jazzy and Maima participate while putting communication, negotiation, and safety into practice. Tune in for candid conversations, thoughtful perspectives, plenty of curiosity, and a closer look at why Shibari is so much more than just tying someone up.

Connect with Solomon Abrams and explore more of his work at http://www.thesolomonabrams.com/ and on YouTube (@mistersolomonabrams), Patreon (patreon.com/solomonabrams), Facebook (Solomon Abrams), Instagram (@mistersolomonabrams), TikTok (@mr.solomon.abrams), and X (@urban_american).

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In the eighth episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima recap a weekend spent exploring two very different play parties, each offering its own unique vibe, energy, and approach to the lifestyle. As they compare their experiences, they reflect on how atmosphere, community, and intention can shape the way a space feels—and why finding environments that align with your comfort and desires is just as important as the experiences themselves.

From memorable moments and unexpected observations to candid conversations about navigating different dynamics within the lifestyle, the duo shares the highs, the surprises, and the lessons they took away from the weekend. Through honest storytelling, laughter, and unfiltered commentary, they continue to demystify kink culture, encourage intentional exploration, and remind listeners that there's no one "right" way to experience the lifestyle. Only the way that feels authentic to you, should be considered the “right” way.

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In the seventh episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima welcome their first guest, Lady Imara, a seasoned FemDom, kink educator, and community leader with over 14 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle. Together, they explore her journey into kink, what it truly means to embody the role of a FemDom, and how power, trust, and authenticity have shaped her evolution within the lifestyle.

From breaking down common misconceptions and calling out "fake doms" to sharing lessons learned through years of experience, the conversation offers an honest look at the realities of dominance beyond the stereotypes. The trio also dives into another round of "Kinky Confessions," sharing humorous mishaps and unforgettable moments that remind us no one is immune to a little awkwardness. Through candid storytelling, educational insights, and plenty of laughter, this episode continues to challenge stigma, celebrate intentional exploration, and encourage listeners to embrace kink with confidence, curiosity, and informed consent.

To connect with Lady Imara and follow her journey, find her on FetLife under the username LadyImara.

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In the sixth episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima dive into the complexities of dating and alternative relationships within the lifestyle. From navigating expectations and communication to embracing the highs, learning from the lows, and redefining what healthy connection looks like, they share their personal experiences and the lessons they've learned along the way.

The duo also returns with their signature "Kinky Confessions" and "Kink of the Week" segments, offering candid insights into the realities of building relationships that don't always fit the traditional mold. Through honest storytelling, laughter, and unfiltered conversation, they continue to challenge stigma, celebrate authentic connection, and encourage listeners to explore relationships that align with their desires, values, and evolving sense of self.

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In the fifth episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima take a step back to reflect on the lessons they've learned throughout their journey in the lifestyle so far. From navigating mental health and emotional well-being to revisiting old kinks and refining what truly brings them pleasure, they explore how curiosity and experience continue to shape their evolving desires.

Through candid conversation, personal reflection, and plenty of laughter, the duo discusses the importance of giving yourself permission to grow, change, and embrace what feels authentic in every season of your erotic journey. Tune in for honest insights, relatable moments, and a reminder that sexual exploration isn't about having all the answers, it's about creating space to learn more about yourself along the way.

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In the fourth episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima conclude their two-part recap of the Beyond Lifestyle POC Takeover at Secrets Hideaway, diving deeper into the experiences that made the weekend both unforgettable and unexpectedly enlightening. From exploring knife and wax play to navigating body image in lifestyle spaces, they reflect on the moments that challenged their perspectives and expanded their understanding of pleasure, vulnerability, and self-expression.

The duo also shares the hilarious story of getting kicked out of the playroom, proving that not every lesson comes without a laugh. Through candid storytelling, personal reflection, and unfiltered commentary, they continue to demystify kink culture, celebrate body positivity, and encourage listeners to embrace curiosity, confidence, and authenticity on their own journey toward sexual liberation.

In the third episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima take listeners behind the scenes of their experience at the Beyond Lifestyle POC Takeover at Secrets Hideaway. As the first part of a two-part series, they unpack a weekend filled with new experiences, meaningful connections, and unforgettable moments shared within a community centered on pleasure, exploration, and inclusion.

From shibari and impact play to themed parties and the unique energy of the takeover, the duo reflects on the people they met, the scenes they explored, and the lessons they learned along the way. Through candid storytelling, laughter, and honest conversation, they continue to break down misconceptions about the lifestyle while celebrating the beauty of curiosity, community, and embracing your authentic self.

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In the second episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima dive into their candid experience visiting Paradise Lakes, offering an honest review of the local nudist resort and reflecting on what it means to explore spaces centered on freedom, community, and self-expression.

The duo also introduces their "Kink of the Week" segment, providing educational insights into kink culture while continuing to normalize conversations around pleasure and sexual exploration. Through laughter, personal stories, and unfiltered commentary, they invite listeners to embrace curiosity, challenge expectations, and continue their own journey toward sexual liberation.

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In the debut episode of Working Out the Kinks, hosts Jazzy and Maima, introduce themselves and share how their friendship, experiences in the lifestyle and kink community, and commitment to pleasure inspired them to create the podcast.

As two Black women navigating sexuality, self-discovery, and personal empowerment, they discuss their journeys toward sexual liberation, what they've learned along the way, and what listeners can expect from future episodes. Tune in for candid conversations, educational insights, vulnerable storytelling, and a fresh perspective on pleasure, relationships, kink, and living authentically.