You Make Sense

Building a genuine sense of worth takes more than simply telling ourselves we're worthy. Sarah explains why positive affirmations aren't enough to change how we feel about ourselves, and how to actually shift your experience by working at the nervous system level. Discover how learning to love and accept yourself from within can expand your capacity to receive love and embrace more of the life you want.

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00] Introduction
• [00:43] How your sense of self-worth affects your ability to receive
• [08:36] Ways early experiences can undermine your sense of worth
• [11:53] How protective parts try to earn love
• [15:26] How feelings of unworthiness can lead us to settle for less
• [16:20] Building your capacity to receive more goodness
• [18:45] Your internal sense of worth shapes your relationships and experiences
• [20:30] Becoming your adult self and learning to take up space
• [24:31] Positive affirmations alone aren't enough to build self-worth
• [25:17] Using parts work to reconnect with and love your younger parts
• [37:51] Question 1 - Why do I stay in relationships that aren't right for me?
• [44:24] Question 2 - How can I heal the young part of me that feels unloved?
• [50:10] Question 3 - Why do I only feel okay when the people I love are okay?

RSVP for Sarah’s FREE Live Training:
Ready to take the next step on your healing journey? Nervous System Starter Kit is a FREE, 75-minute live training to help you regulate your nervous system, understand your attachment style from a somatic lens, and get into the driver’s seat of your experience.

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NOW ENROLLING — Join Sarah’s 16-Week Program:
Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a completely redesigned 16-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more!

Join before the doors close on November 18:
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Quotes:
“If we learned to survive on breadcrumbs, if we learned that we had to earn our worthiness, then we are really going to struggle to experience the abundant, full life that we want.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:05:23]

“If we want to build more goodness in our life, it starts as an internal job, and then we have other folks help us along the way, and we are able to bring in more abundance, more goodness.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:17:20]

“When we, bit by bit, do this work of loving and valuing ourselves the way we were inherently supposed to be loved and valued, everything begins to change, and we allow other people to do that for us.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:20:11]

“Our system only will believe what it feels.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:24:54]

“We have to learn what it's like to be the highest version of us, regulated us, parent us.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:25:24]

You’ll also learn the confusing or contradictory ways your nervous system may react when experiencing safe love for the first time and tangible steps you can take to begin finding more ease, trust, and safety in your relationships. Listen in for a compassionate and honest guide on what to expect when entering a close relationship and how to filter out social media advice that lacks nuance.

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00] Introduction
• [02:58] How childhood trauma affects intimate relationships
• [06:54] A breakdown of what ‘roads of familiarity’ are
• [10:15] Using somatic parts work to prepare for healthy relationships
• [15:08] What the ‘road of your deepest desire’ is
• [20:01] Building your capacity to receive safe love
• [22:23] How these concepts relate to your attachment style
• [30:33] Why your parts and nervous system need disconfirming experiences
• [37:16] Question 1 – Why do misunderstandings alway turn into big fights?
• [45:44] Question 2 – How do I stop caretaking my partner?
• [50:40] Question 3 – How do relationships impact the state of my nervous system?

RSVP for Sarah’s FREE Live Training:
Ready to take the next step on your healing journey? Nervous System Starter Kit is a FREE 75-minute live training to help you regulate your nervous system, understand your attachment style from a somatic lens, and get into the driver’s seat of your experience.

Click below to save your spot (replay available for a limited time):
https://bit.ly/sp-nssk

NOW ENROLLING — Join Sarah’s Revamped 16-Week Program:
Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a completely redesigned 16-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more!

Join before the doors close on November 18:
https://bit.ly/sp-yms

Connect with Sarah on:
Email Community —https://bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletter
Instagram —https://www.instagram.com/sarahbcoaching/
Website —https://www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/https://sarahbaldwincoaching.com

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Quotes:
“When we don’t have the proper information that’s actually backed by science, we can end up going down the wrong roads of our lives.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:02:21]

“Even though those painful patterns of the past that we tend to repeat relationally cause us some pain, they are known, and that’s why we are drawn to them.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:08:37]

“We have to build the capacity to receive the good. You see, your nervous system only has the capacity for what it knows. – So when you receive that beautiful, healthy love, your system says: ‘It’s too much!’” — Sarah Baldwin [0:20:01]

“If a relationship is right for you and you have experienced a blueprint in the past of love not being secure and full and not just breadcrumbs, then it’s going to be very challenging at first, and so, you’re going to feel dysregulated.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:21:27]

Reflecting on her own experiences of pushing people away, Sarah unpacks how understanding the younger parts behind our decisions can help us replace self-punishment with compassion. She also discusses the importance of grieving what we've lost or never received, using the metaphor of pruning a rosebush to show how loss can make room for new growth. Listen in to discover how understanding your past can help you move beyond regret and open yourself to the life still waiting for you.

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00] Introduction
• [00:49] How regret can keep you stuck in shame and self-blame
• [07:52] Why regret usually happens after an experience ends
• [12:17] Sarah's experience of pushing away people who tried to love her
• [15:10] Understanding the protective parts behind self-sabotage
• [20:13] How younger protective parts can drive decisions you later regret
• [24:28] Exploring the protective patterns behind your own regrets
• [29:07] Reparenting your younger parts with compassion
• [38:15] Why grieving the past makes room for new experiences
• [43:08] Question 1 - How do I heal shame and regret over decisions I made because of childhood trauma?
• [48:54] Question 2 - How do I keep believing in the life I want when healing takes so long?
• [55:05] Question 3 - Does somatic completion need to be repeated to fully resolve trauma?

Join the 3-Day Expansion Experience:
​​You know you’re meant for more — so why does moving toward it feel harder than it should? Inside Expansion, Sarah is going to give you science-backed tools to help you regulate your nervous system, support your younger parts, and take tangible steps toward the life you want.

RSVP now for only $37:
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Take Sarah’s FREE Quiz:
Feeling stuck in your life? Not sure where to start with somatic healing? Sarah’s free quiz, “What’s Keeping You Stuck,” will equip you with free tools and a personalized guide to better understand your nervous system specific to you.

Click below to get started:
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Connect with Sarah on:
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Quotes:
“I spent the majority of my life, unfortunately, pushing away the people that tried to love me the most.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:12:47]

“There are protective parts of you whose sole job is to ensure that the vulnerable part they protect never, ever, ever experiences the pain you experienced in the past again.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:15:50]

“[Your protective parts] don't want to blow up your life. They don't want to make things fall apart for you. They most certainly don't want you to miss opportunities in your life.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:22:42]

“Remember, it's not adult you doing [these things]. It's a younger part that is just trying to protect a vulnerable part of you.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:24:19]

“I'm walking you through this because I want you to actually feel the empathy for your younger parts and what you've been doing unintentionally to them.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:32:23]

“Grief means being with what was and also what never was, which makes room for what can be.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:39:20]

You’ll also learn three key components of expansion: working with your nervous system, understanding trauma feedback loops, and becoming the adult self or warrior your younger parts need. Rather than forcing change through insight or willpower, Sarah explains why healing involves showing the body that what was once dangerous can now be safe, one tolerable step at a time. Listen in to learn how working with your nervous system and protective parts can help you move toward the life you want.

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00] Introduction
• [00:42] Why every living thing wants to be fully expressed
• [02:27] What blocks you from becoming more fully yourself
• [10:46] Why healing is part of expanding into the life you want
• [12:44] Three components of living an expanded life
• [17:26] #1: The nervous system as the foundation for expansion
• [28:12] #2: Understanding roads of familiarity and trauma feedback loops
• [31:17] #3: Becoming the adult self your younger parts need
• [36:08] Taking tolerable steps toward the life you want
• [40:39] Question 1 - How do I balance purpose, relationships, and other parts of life?
• [45:19] Question 2 - Can trauma be healed when you cannot consciously remember it?
• [51:13] Question 3 - How do I navigate childhood trauma while caring for an ailing parent?

Join the 3-Day Expansion Experience:
​​You know you’re meant for more — so why does moving toward it feel harder than it should? Inside Expansion, Sarah is going to give you science-backed tools to help you regulate your nervous system, support your younger parts, and take tangible steps toward the life you want.

RSVP now for only $37:
https://bit.ly/yms-sp-ee

Download Sarah’s FREE Workbook:
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Connect with Sarah on:
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Quotes:
“We don't heal just to heal. We heal so that we can be us.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:11:44]

“The life you want [is] for you, and it's our healing that gets us there.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:12:49]

“We need to overall bring regulation to our nervous system, and we need to show it, not tell it, that the things that were once dangerous are now safe.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:25:58]

“Our nervous system and our protective parts are saying, ‘Here is how I know how to navigate life and be safe.’ Because remember, their priority is not you living your full expanded life. Their priority is you surviving.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:29:42]

“Adult you is the only one that can lead the way into the expanded life you are here to live.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:33:50]

Real transformation begins not with willpower but with a felt sense of internal safety. Drawing on Polyvagal Theory, Somatic Experiencing, and Parts Work, Sarah shares tangible tools to help you shift from survival mode to genuine ease. Join Sarah to discover how regulation transforms not only your mindset but your entire lived experience, one safe, grounded moment at a time.

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00] Introduction
• [02:07] The connection between dysregulation and negativity
• [02:39] Understanding the six states of the nervous system
• [04:30] Why the nervous system is hardwired for survival
• [06:52] Neuroception and your orientation to the world
• [10:15] Your nervous system shapes your thinking
• [18:01] Working with your parts to find more ease and inner peace
• [26:31] Somatic tools to begin orienting toward the positive
• [37:50] Question 1: Understanding what regulation really means
• [46:10] Question 2: Why feedback triggers negative responses
• [54:40] Question 3: Healing the scarcity mindset surrounding money

Get on the Waitlist for Sarah’s 16-Week Program:
Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a 16-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more!

Click below to get on the waitlist for limited-time reduced pricing:
https://bit.ly/sp-yms-waitlist

Connect with Sarah on:
Email Community — https://bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletter
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Sarah goes on to explain the difference between being a narcissist and having an avoidant attachment. While they can sometimes appear similar from the outside, avoidant partners have a deep desire for connection but often push it away out of self-protection. Listen in for a nuanced understanding of attachment wounding and how to find clarity on your own relational dynamics.

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00] Introduction
• [00:51] Difficult behaviors don’t always indicate narcissism
• [03:15] Understanding the origins of narcissism
• [07:54] Why narcissists often seek out codependent partners
• [11:50] Repair, ownership, and empathy
• [17:39] Common traits associated with narcissism
• [19:41] Why you can’t heal someone else’s narcissistic part
• [22:08] Healing changes your baseline for love
• [25:30] The difference between avoidant attachment and narcissism
• [28:20] Why avoidantly attached people want connection and push it away
• [31:08] Building capacity for closeness, connection, and intimacy
• [34:14] Using your adult self to distinguish narcissism from avoidant attachment
• [35:28] Question 1 - How do I heal when family dynamics pull me back into old roles?
• [50:24] Question 2 - Is my partner wrong for me if they remind me of a narcissistic parent?
• [01:02:43] Question 3 - Is my nervous system reacting to old trauma or something truly unsafe?

Get on the Waitlist for Sarah’s 16-Week Program:
Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a 16-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more!

Click below to get on the waitlist for limited-time reduced pricing:
https://bit.ly/sp-yms-waitlist

Take Sarah’s FREE Quiz:
Feeling stuck in your life? Not sure where to start with somatic healing? Sarah’s free quiz, “What’s Keeping You Stuck,” will equip you with free tools and a personalized guide to better understand your nervous system specific to you.

Click below to get started:
https://bit.ly/yms-sp-quiz

Connect with Sarah on:
Email Community —https://bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletter
Instagram —https://www.instagram.com/sarahbcoaching/
Website —https://www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/https://sarahbaldwincoaching.com

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Quotes:
“When we are in dynamics with a narcissist, we'll notice that there really is no capacity to properly repair.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:11:52]

“[Narcissists] are unwilling to see reality in any other way than they see reality.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:12:14]

“The more that we heal, here's the beautiful thing that happens: I change my baseline for what love is.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:24:19]

“An avoidant attachment is absolutely and completely something that can be healed. Full stop.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:31:07]

“What we have to do, if we have an avoidant attachment, is build our capacity for connection, co-regulation, closeness, attunement, intimacy, being exposed, being seen, and being known.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:31:51]

You’ll also learn why protective parts may block you from pursuing what you want, and how healing unfolds through cycles of expansion and contraction as the nervous system gathers evidence that the present is safe. By taking tolerable steps and bringing this work into everyday life, you can build your capacity to navigate triggers and experience more of who you are. Find out why healing can feel so elusive and how to recognize progress even when it doesn’t feel like it.

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00] Introduction
• [00:49] The counterintuitive nature of healing
• [03:24] The nervous system as the foundation for healing
• [10:01] Building your capacity to receive the good
• [12:49] How becoming more embodied changes what you tolerate
• [14:20] Processing deeper layers of trauma as your capacity grows
• [16:05] Resolving coupling dynamics
• [20:43] Reconnecting with your needs and deepest desires
• [22:20] How healing can change your perception of reality
• [23:39] Renegotiating relationships as your needs change
• [24:23] Why regulation doesn’t mean never getting triggered
• [24:59] The expand/contract experience of healing
• [27:12] Taking tolerable steps toward the life you want
• [29:10] Healing happens through living, not just therapy
• [30:43] Grieving what you lose as you heal
• [33:29] Question 1 - What is the connection between physical and mental health?
• [37:51] Question 2 - Can healing result in physical symptoms or weight gain?
• [43:23] Question 3 - How do I navigate family members who refuse to heal?

Get on the Waitlist for Sarah’s 16-Week Program:
Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a 16-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more!

Click below to get on the waitlist for limited-time reduced pricing:
https://bit.ly/sp-yms-waitlist

Take the FREE Quiz:
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Last 20%: Workbook

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Quotes:
“It can be really confusing when we hit certain points of the healing process, and what is forward might feel like backward to us.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:01:10]

“We have to show, not tell, our nervous systems that we are actually safe.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:10:28]

“The good things don't always feel good at first.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:10:39]

“The only way to live a fully embodied life is [by having] access to all of the human experience, to all of our feelings, and [by] living in our bodies today. We are not living in the body of a traumatized part of us from the past.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:20:24]

“[The goal is] not to orchestrate a life where you never get triggered; it's to know the route out of being triggered.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:24:53]

“We heal through our living, not just through being in therapeutic containers.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:29:17]

Much of the catastrophizing we experience is actually a result of protective parts that formed in our early childhood to keep us safe. You’ll learn how to come to the aid of these parts by first accessing your most capable, able adult self. Listen in for a compassionate guide on how to find lasting relief and step toward the thinking patterns you truly desire.

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00] Introduction
• [01:47] Focusing only on positive or negative
• [07:22] Why you may always assume the worst
• [15:46] Giving the vulnerable part safety from your adult self
• [21:28] Why traditional talk therapy isn’t enough
• [28:48] Accessing your adult self
• [33:38] The power of internal co-regulation
• [40:32] Question 1 – How do I stop sabotaging my healthy relationship?
• [51:08] Question 2 – How do I manage fear and anxiety about my health?
• [57:51] Question 3 – How do I eradicate the shame I feel about my parts?

Get on the Waitlist for Sarah’s 16-Week Program:
Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a 16-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more!

Click below to get on the waitlist for limited-time reduced pricing:
https://bit.ly/sp-yms-waitlist

Download the FREE Workbook:
https://bit.ly/yms-sp-workbook

Connect with Sarah on:
Email Community —https://bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletter
Instagram —https://www.instagram.com/sarahbcoaching/
Website —https://www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/https://sarahbaldwincoaching.com

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Quotes:
“I can be with what is not okay, and I can still be okay. This can only happen when we are anchored in safety.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:06:56]

“When we have a protective part that is anticipating a dangerous future or catastrophizing about how things will go wrong, it is going to put us in a state of dysregulation.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:11:50]

“Your protective parts will do anything to ensure the dangers of the past don’t happen again.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:13:55]

“We believe thoughts when there is an affect attached to it.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:24:53]

“When I experience hard things as adult me, it will never, ever, ever be like the hard traumatic things I experienced as a child because there’s an adult here now. And that’s me. And that is the work that sets us free.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:37:39]

Healing requires more than understanding where our wounds came from. Sarah explores how somatic healing and parts work are necessary components to bringing resolution to painful childhood experiences. By learning to become a steady, regulated presence for yourself, you can begin to release and shift old survival responses. Discover how healing developmental trauma can help you build greater safety within yourself and with the people you love.

Episode Highlights:

• [00:00] Introduction
• [00:56] Healing developmental trauma requires a somatic approach
• [08:16] Implicit memory and how trauma lives in the body
• [10:15] How attachment trauma shapes adult relationships
• [15:25] Using somatic parts work to heal attachment wounds
• [19:23] Why intimate relationships can activate developmental trauma
• [20:57] Becoming the safe, regulated presence your younger parts need
• [22:32] Why healing developmental trauma requires consistency and support
• [25:13] Relearning connection through nonverbal experiences
• [28:37] Question 1 - How do I rebuild my sense of self after parentification?
• [35:44] Question 2 - How do I heal abandonment that affected multiple developmental stages?
• [44:24] Question 3 - How do I set boundaries as my role within my family changes?

Get on the Waitlist for Sarah’s 16-Week Program:
Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a 16-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more!

Join the waitlist for limited-time reduced pricing:
https://bit.ly/sp-yms-waitlist

Connect with Sarah on:
Email Community —https://bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletter
Instagram —https://www.instagram.com/sarahbcoaching/
Website —https://www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/https://sarahbaldwincoaching.com

Download the FREE Workbook:
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Submit a Question:
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Quotes:
“The number one most important thing that a baby or a child needs is a safe adult's regulated nervous system.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:02:05]

“Implicit memory is the type of memory that we have when it comes to trauma. It is not orderly, and it lives and is experienced in our bodies and our nervous system.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:08:59]

“The reason you struggle in relationships, if you do, is because your system had to adapt to a caregiver who could not successfully securely attach to you.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:11:23]

“A secure attachment means that you had a caregiver who was predominantly anchored in regulation in their nervous system.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:11:37]

“We have to also become the person that our parts feel safe with.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:16:10]

“When it comes to healing developmental trauma, our young parts aren't supposed to have to actually do anything, except be picked up and held by us, and for us to say, ‘Let me take what is too much for you.’” — Sarah Baldwin [0:21:59]

“You can't piecemeal your healing journey. You have to have support.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:23:40]

We explore the connection between our spiritual nature and the healing process, along with the spiritual and scientific foundations of parts work. Sarah explains how to begin working with your parts and what integration actually means. You’ll be invited to examine your self-protective behaviors with curiosity, compassion, and awareness, which is a powerful step toward deeper healing and a fuller experience of being alive. Your system already knows how to heal; it just needs to be shown the way.

Episode Highlights:
• [00:00] Introduction
• [01:33] Another way to think of spirituality
• [07:28] How the nervous system protects us
• [13:36] Regulating your nervous system
• [16:39] Our spiritual nature
• [21:33] The spiritual quality of parts work
• [24:22] The science of parts work
• [32:31] Tools to begin working with your parts
• [38:00] What integration truly means
• [43:44] Question 1 - Why does nothing ever seem to pan out in my purpose?
• [49:05] Question 2 - How do I take steps forward to actually help my parts?
• [53:55] Question 3 - Is parts work beneficial for everyone, including those with personality disorders?

Navigating Your Nervous System is NOW ENROLLING:
Want to work with Sarah in a live capacity? The doors are now open to her 6-week live program, Navigating Your Nervous System, designed to help you get into the driver’s seat of your experience and start feeling better on a daily basis.
Click below to learn more:
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Download Sarah’s FREE Workbook:
Not sure where to get started with somatic healing? Sarah created a FREE trauma-informed workbook called "How To Gain Control Over How You Feel" to help you step toward a life filled with more freedom, ease, and empowerment.
Click the link below to download:
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Connect with Sarah on:
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Quotes:
“Healing is embodied.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:02:36]
“The truth of the matter is when we over-pathologize, we inhibit our healing.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:03:12]
“So much of the challenges and suffering we are experiencing is rooted in our nervous system not knowing that the past is over and not knowing that we are safe.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:07:28]
“Your system knows how to heal, it just needs to be shown the way.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:40:17]
“Healing truly is the most beautiful love story.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:42:34]

You’ll learn about the four primary states of your autonomic nervous system and how each one directly impacts your lived experience. Then, Sarah will guide you through gentle steps to begin accessing your ventral vagal complex, which is the key to living a more free, empowered life. This conversation is a starting point to finding tools and support that lead to lasting change. If there’s an episode not to skip, it might be this one.

Episode Highlights:
• [00:00] Introduction
• [02:50] Understanding your autonomic nervous system
• [06:52] Ventral - your state of regulation
• [10:57] Sympathetic - your state of mobilization
• [15:59] Dorsal - your state of shut down
• [17:21] The love story of your nervous system
• [23:26] Freeze - your state of tonic immobility
• [26:02] Why am I dysregulated when I’m actually safe?
• [31:32] The importance of consistent neural exercises
• [36:58] Question 1 - Can everyone benefit from a somatic approach?
• [52:13] Question 2 - How can we help our younger parts if we are not regulated?
• [59:06] Question 3 - Where is the best place to start in Sarah’s programs?

RSVP to Sarah’s FREE Live Training + Q&A Series:
Ready to take the next step with nervous system healing? Join Sarah for “Unlock the Life You Desire,” a 2-part somatic healing series to help you experience more joy and aliveness, and step toward the purpose that’s calling you.
Click below to save your spot (limited time replays available!):
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Navigating Your Nervous System is NOW ENROLLING:
Want to work with Sarah in a live capacity? The doors are now open to her 6-week live program, Navigating Your Nervous System, designed to help you get into the driver’s seat of your experience and start feeling better on a daily basis.
Click below to learn more:
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Quotes:
“Your entire lived experience is rooted in what is happening in your nervous system.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:06:15]
“The foundation, not just of all healing, but of a happy life, is that we are primarily anchored in our ventral vagal complex.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:10:05]
“Your nervous system is your most loyal companion. It has never left your side. It is a true and utter love story.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:17:22]
“If you’re finding yourself primarily rooted in dysregulation, it is not unsolvable. It is not happening because something is wrong with you.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:29:52]
“There is no one size fits all for the healing journey.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:37:48]

Instead of seeing these behaviors as flaws, Sarah invites you to view them through a more compassionate lens. You’ll also get tools to regulate your nervous system and reparent your younger parts, so that you can move beyond survival and break free from self-sabotaging cycles. Join Sarah for a powerful episode that will help you see yourself with greater understanding and move toward the life you truly want.

Episode Highlights:
• [00:00] Introduction
• [00:44] Celebrating 100 episodes
• [06:46] The purpose of coping strategies and self-sabotage
• [08:58] Common coping and numbing strategies
• [16:29] Why you shouldn’t instantly remove coping strategies
• [18:41] How self-sabotage protects us from what feels unsafe
• [20:23] Understanding how the nervous system and parts work together
• [22:57] How protective parts keep us from the life we want
• [29:00] Reparenting younger parts to create lasting change
• [34:00] Question 1 - Why do I pull back after putting myself out into the world?
• [39:55] Question 2 - How can I help my teenager develop healthier technology habits?
• [48:42] Question 3 - Why do I still self-sabotage when life is going well?

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Quotes:
“Here's what's important to understand: self-sabotage and coping strategies are not sabotage; they are our nervous system and our protective parts trying to keep us safe.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:07:15]
“The purpose of a coping strategy is to numb us or disconnect us from whatever it is that we are experiencing in our body that does not feel good.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:07:28]
“Self-sabotage is not meant to destroy your life. Self-sabotage is actually self-protection.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:18:45]
“We have to actually build a relationship with these parts of us. Instead of just trying to get out of that prison that we're in and step towards the life we want, we have to turn towards the young people who are inside of that prison with us. Those are your younger parts.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:29:08]
“When it comes to coping strategies or self-sabotage, I want you to remember every person on the planet is using these to some degree. You're not alone.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:31:26]

Through personal stories and practical examples, Sarah offers a compassionate framework for recognizing when the past is shaping your perception. She explains the importance of nervous system regulation in accessing your truth and why it is essential to also reparent your younger parts. Listen in to better understand your inner signals and strengthen your ability to recognize and trust yourself.

Episode Highlights:
• [00:00] Introduction
• [00:49] The difference between intuition and a trauma response
• [01:33] Why every part holds its own truth
• [03:48] How the nervous system determines what is safe
• [11:06] Recognizing the markers of a trauma response
• [16:04] What intuition actually feels like
• [22:28] Learning to access your intuition
• [25:19] Question 1 - How can I stop the same thoughts and feelings from returning when I'm dysregulated?
• [43:58] Question 2 - How do I know if I'm trusting my intuition or protecting myself in dating?
• [51:51] Question 3 - Does healing require feeling every painful emotion from my past?

RSVP to Sarah’s FREE Live Training + Q&A Series:
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Quotes:
“Everything you experience is a truth to a part of you. It just might not be the truth of adult you.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:01:38]
“When you're in adult you, the you that's anchored in this present moment, that is when you make contact with your truth and your intuition.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:01:48]
“If you are not anchored in this present moment, that means that a part of you, a younger part of you, is present in your body. That occurs when we become activated or triggered in our lives.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:02:01]
“Too many of us are not following our right life. We are instead going down roads to keep us safe from a past that our nervous system doesn't think is over yet.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:10:31]
“When I'm dysregulated, I am not going to inquire about what my truth is in this moment, because I am not actually in this present moment.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:12:36]
“The most important thing to understand is that your intuition primarily lives in regulation.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:16:11]
“Only when you are anchored in adult you do you know what your truth and intuition is.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:42:50]

Rather than trying to rationalize your way through difficult emotions, Sarah explores the science of why healing begins in the body. She unpacks how the nervous system learns to disconnect from emotions that once felt unsafe, why this protective response made sense in the past, and how gently reconnecting with sensation is an important step in resolving trauma. Through practical examples and compassionate guidance, Sarah shows it is possible to move beyond survival and return to a more fully expressed way of living.

Episode Highlights:
• [00:00] Introduction
• [00:47] Signs you may be suppressing your emotions
• [03:39] Why we disconnect from our experience
• [07:38] The repercussions of suppressing your emotions
• [15:38] Why healing begins by reconnecting with the body
• [17:13] Learning to safely move emotions through the body
• [23:25] How parts work supports emotional healing
• [26:42] Question 1 - How can I safely feel emotions that I'm afraid of?
• [30:43] Question 2 - Why does so much anger come out in my relationship?
• [35:35] Question 3 - Is it possible to heal from dissociation?

Navigating Your Nervous System Opens Soon:
Want to work with Sarah in a live capacity? Navigating Your Nervous System is a 6-week live online program designed to help you get into the driver’s seat of your experience and start feeling better on a daily basis.
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Quotes:
“In order to live a fully expressed life, we need to have access to our ability to not only feel each emotion, but to be present to it and to allow it to pass through us.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:04:36]
“For many of us, we are going about our lives having experiences that evoke an emotion, and instead of allowing the emotion to be present, we reflexively push it away. Pushing it away, my friends, doesn't mean pushing it out of us. Pushing it away means stuffing it inside of us.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:07:40]
“We can only feel fully seen and known when our internal world is made expressed in our external world.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:15:02]
“It is not possible to talk your way into your feelings or talk your way out of what you're feeling.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:15:38]

In this episode, Sarah explores how our nervous system works in tandem with our younger parts to protect us. We must first learn how to recognize who is in our experience at any given moment before we can begin changing unhealthy patterns and breaking free from old survival responses. Listen in to explore how understanding the nervous system can profoundly change the way we experience ourselves and respond to the world around us.

Episode Highlights:
• [00:00] Introduction
• [01:32] How your nervous system shapes your reality
• [03:33] How past experiences can distort present-day perception
• [07:47] Understanding why your nervous system “time travels”
• [13:54] Recognizing when your reaction does not match the circumstance
• [16:58] Learning to distinguish your adult self from younger parts
• [19:04] Anchoring into adult self to understand your present truth
• [23:16] Recognizing when relationship conflict is triggered by past experiences
• [33:02] Question 1 - Can fantasizing be regulating for my nervous system?
• [45:24] Question 2 - Why do I struggle so much with my husband’s moods?
• [54:42] Question 3 - How do I stop comparing myself to other people?

RSVP to Sarah’s FREE Live Training + Q&A Series:
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Quotes:
“Your autonomic nervous system is creating your perception of yourself, others, and the world around you. Essentially, it's creating your reality for you.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:01:34]
“Everything that you feel is a truth to a part of you; it just might not be the truth of your adult self today.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:07:38]
“Why do we want to have a real understanding of whose perception we're experiencing at any given moment? Because if you don't understand this, then you are not going to be driving yourself down the roads that are actually right for you in your life.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:18:03]
“Nobody knows what your truth and perception of reality is based in today, except for you.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:18:57]
“Here's how you know you're in your adult self when it comes to your truth: it will never be black and white; it is nuanced.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:20:40]

In this episode, Sarah explores what it means to anchor into the truth of your adult self and explains why protective parts can make it difficult to see your relationship clearly. You’ll learn why romantic relationships naturally activate unresolved childhood wounds, how partners can reveal the parts of you that still need healing, and how conflict can become an opportunity for repair rather than a sign that a relationship is failing. This episode offers a compassionate perspective on finding clarity and making decisions from your truest self.

Episode Highlights:
• [00:00] Introduction
• [01:19] Why only your adult self knows whether you should stay or leave
• [03:29] Recognizing when younger parts are driving your decisions
• [07:40] Showing up as your adult self in relationships
• [10:25] How romantic partnerships activate unresolved childhood wounds
• [15:51] Recognizing relationship triggers as invitations to heal
• [20:34] Turning relationship conflict from a battlefield into a garden
• [22:31] Why healing requires partners who are safe and willing
• [24:39] Anchoring into your adult self in relationships
• [28:52] Building the capacity to receive love
• [29:56] Knowing when it may be time to leave a relationship
• [39:11] Question 1: Should you leave a relationship that began from survival?
• [46:33] Question 2: Can you fully heal if your partner isn't doing the work?
• [52:53] Question 3: Why do some people sabotage relationships they deeply value?

Join the Waitlist for Navigating Your Nervous System:
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Get on the Waitlist for Sarah’s 10-Week Program:
Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a 10-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more!
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Quotes:
“We have to begin anchoring in our adult self, that is the arbiter of truth, that is your place of knowing.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:06:57]
“One of the primary reasons we come together with another person is that we, by design, pick folks who perfectly poke at our unresolved wounding, that is by design, and that is a gift to us.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:10:40]
“Your partner poking at those old wounds is not them creating the old wounds.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:17:09]
“Your job, not [your partner’s], is to begin rescuing that part of you and reparenting that part of you.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:27:03]
“What you feel isn't always the truth to adult you; it is a truth to a part of you. Our job is to decipher the difference.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:55:57]

Sarah unpacks how the autonomic nervous system drives repetitive cycles in the way we think, behave, and relate to others, and why simply trying harder is not enough to create lasting change. She explains how early experiences can shape the patterns we unconsciously repeat throughout life and how identifying and reparenting our younger parts can help us shift those responses. By learning to understand and work with these deeper survival responses, it becomes possible to break old cycles and begin creating lasting change from the inside out.

Episode Highlights:
• [00:00] Introduction
• [01:03] Understanding the trauma feedback loop
• [03:12] Why we keep repeating the same painful patterns
• [08:35] How the autonomic nervous system drives our lived experience
• [09:12] The roads of refuge and familiarity that keep us stuck in old patterns
• [12:53] Reasons our nervous system resists our deepest desires
• [14:55] Why we consistently choose what feels familiar and safe
• [17:22] How unresolved childhood experiences shape adult relationships
• [19:16] Why awareness alone is not enough to create lasting change
• [20:49] How to interrupt the trauma feedback loop and reparent younger parts
• [24:57] How to separate present relationships from past experiences
• [28:09] Question 1 - Can healing happen when the origin of trauma is unknown?
• [31:40] Question 2 - How do we begin healing intergenerational trauma?
• [35:03] Question 3 - How does childhood emotional neglect shape the nervous system?

Join the Waitlist for Navigating Your Nervous System:
Living a full, expansive life starts with nervous system regulation. If you’re looking for practical tools and support on your healing journey, you can now get on the waitlist for my upcoming 6-week LIVE program.
Everyone on the waitlist receives access to limited-time pricing:
https://bit.ly/sp-nyns-waitlist

Download Sarah’s FREE Workbook:
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Quotes:
“If you aren't in the driver's seat of your nervous system, this vehicle, then it takes over on cruise control, and it begins to guide your life, not you.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:11:54]
“More often than not, the road of our deepest desires is going to mimic or remind our system of things that were once dangerous in the past, or inhibited for us.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:13:23]
“To change the patterns in our lives—it’s not something that you can force yourself into. You can't just say ‘I'm not going to get triggered by that thing anymore’, because being triggered is a subconscious process.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:26:50]
“We have to understand what parts are present when [our] patterns get triggered, and we have to reparent those parts. And when we do that, the patterns in our lives change in the most beautiful ways.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:27:04]

For many of us, navigating friendship in adulthood can feel surprisingly complicated, especially when healing starts to change how we connect with people. Sarah unpacks how our nervous system shapes the way we relate to others, why we might experience loneliness during periods of growth, and what it takes to build the kind of community that helps us feel supported and deeply connected. This episode is a timely reminder that finding your people and building meaningful relationships are essential to our sense of connection and belonging.

Episode Highlights:
• [00:00] Introduction
• [01:42] Why no one person can meet all our emotional needs
• [04:23] Your relationships as a reflection of where you are in your healing journey
• [08:08] How healing and growth change your relational dynamics
• [12:51] Why personal growth can create grief and loneliness in friendships
• [14:54] The need for flexibility as relationships evolve
• [17:35] Why deep connection can feel difficult when the nervous system feels unsafe
• [19:13] Building community as an adult and learning to seek connection intentionally
• [33:29] Question 1 - Why do I struggle to maintain close friendships?
• [37:27] Question 2 - Why do I overshare and feel ashamed afterward?
• [46:41] Question 3 - How does nervous system regulation affect the relationships around us?

Get on the Waitlist for Sarah’s 10-Week Program:
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Click below to get on the waitlist for limited-time reduced pricing:
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Take Sarah’s FREE Quiz:
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Quotes:
“We're at a time in our world where I think one of the most undervalued things that we all need is intimacy in platonic relationships.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:00:38]
“If we are deficient in having community and having close, intimate, platonic relationships, we are going to feel a sense of loneliness, even if you have an amazing partner, because no one person can be everything to you.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:04:08]
“Finding friends as an adult is like dating, it really is.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:20:57]
“We're supposed to function in a way where we are in community, we are in connection, where you experience intimacy not just with your romantic partner, but you experience deep intimacy with your friends.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:29:28]
“The more that you can show up authentically as you—imperfectly perfect—the more it allows people to see you. So, when people see you, and you see them, you experience intimacy; being seen and being known.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:52:06]

So many of us get trapped in these unhealthy cycles because we learned at a young age that achieving was how we earned and received love. But it’s absolutely possible to shift this. By falling in love with all parts of you, especially those that only feel significant when striving, you will be able to find fulfillment and heal your attachment to ambition. Sarah offers a compassionate guide to letting go of the external quest for ‘enoughness’ and reconnecting to your inherent worthiness.

Episode Highlights:
• [00:00] Introduction
• [02:00] Ambition as a positive thing vs. ambition as a prison
• [05:57] The ramifications of letting ambition take over your life
• [11:32] What you actually need to lead a full life
• [18:42] What happens when our needs are imbalanced
• [24:07] Why you may find your life lacking in fullness
• [32:37] Reparenting protective parts around striving and ambition
• [39:34] The two things you need to do to start healing
• [48:16] Question 1 – How do I make the dating process enjoyable?
• [56:47] Question 2 – Can I heal and find my purpose while in a romantic relationship?
• [01:06:21] Question 3 – How do I know when it’s time to leave my job?

Join the Waitlist for Navigating Your Nervous System:
Living a full, expansive life starts with nervous system regulation. If you’re looking for practical tools and support on your healing journey, you can now get on the waitlist for my upcoming 6-week LIVE program.
Everyone on the waitlist receives access to limited-time pricing:
https://bit.ly/sp-nyns-waitlist

Download Sarah’s FREE Workbook:
Not sure where to get started with somatic healing? Sarah created a FREE trauma-informed workbook called "How To Gain Control Over How You Feel" to help you step toward a life filled with more freedom, ease, and empowerment.
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Quotes:
“Purposeful means: ‘I am able to use the skills that I have to provide service for the world, and when I do that, I feel a sense of fulfillment.’” — Sarah Baldwin [0:14:12]
“[If] we don’t do this work, it leads to a life that is perpetually lived in a way that lacks the balance that we need to have fullness.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:34:35]
“No one can rescue us from our [lives] except for us.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:37:01]

Drawing on somatic healing and parts work, Sarah shares how early experiences and family dynamics become our blueprint for connection and why lasting change requires more than simply trying to choose differently. She explains how reparenting younger parts can shift our baseline for love, helping us build healthier relationships from the inside out, and why healthy partnership is not about being rescued, but about learning to meet yourself first with the love and care you’ve always deserved.

Episode Highlights:
• [00:00] Introduction
• [01:42] Why finding the right partner is not a matter of luck
• [06:30] The nervous system as the hidden matchmaker
• [09:24] Family roles and the relationship patterns we carry into adulthood
• [13:41] Why trying to choose different partners isn’t enough
• [14:52] Reparenting younger parts to change your baseline for love
• [23:51] Building the capacity to receive healthy love
• [26:15] How healing continues after finding the right partner
• [29:42] Question 1 - How do I know if I’m co-regulating or just seeking reassurance?
• [36:40] Question 2 - Why do healthy relationships feel threatening?
• [41:39] Question 3 - How does healing happen within an existing relationship?

Get Started with Nervous System Regulation:
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Join the course for only $67:
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Quotes:
“You think that you are your own matchmaker, but do you know who actually is making the match for you? It is your threat detector.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:08:58]
“Whatever our baseline for love was as a child is going to be our baseline for love today.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:13:41]
“When you actually fall in love with your parts, what happens is you change your baseline for what love is.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:19:28]
“When you draw in that right partner for you, what's going to happen is the last bits of our healing will come to the surface.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:26:17]
“When you fall madly in love with the parts of you that are inside of you that are waiting to be loved by you, you will fall madly in love with the person who arrives that reflects that same love back to you.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:48:01]