Podcast
Boss Bitch Radio w/IFBB Pro, Diane Flores
Welcome to the Glow-Up Era of Boss Bitch Radio — where health meets hotness, mindset meets muscle, and becoming iconic is more than just a vibe — it's a full-body, full-soul reclamation!
Hosted by IFBB Pro, fitness veteran of nearly 20 years, and unapologetic truth-teller Diane Flores, this show dives deep into the journey of what it really takes to step into your power. From losing 100 pounds and stepping on stage 16 times to building multiple fitness businesses and navigating motherhood, relationships, and reinvention — Diane has lived it, coached it, and now she's here to talk about it.
You'll hear solo episodes, guest convos, and unfiltered stories that might make you laugh, cry, and definitely feel seen — with the occasional espresso martini, In-N-Out Burger detour, and a perfectly chewy chocolate chip cookie along the way.
No sugar-coating. No pretending. Just real talk to help you stop settling and start becoming your most iconic self.
So if you're ready to glow the hell up and take action in your one wild life, hit subscribe, grab your headphones, and let's go — baddies welcome!
- Episodes
- 429
- Releases
- Weekly
- Typical length
- 31 min
- On air since
- 2021
- Latest episode
- 1 month ago
Episodes
429 episodes, newest first
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41 min
Everyone Is Wrong About Exercise - Especially For Women Over 40
Season 1, Episode 435
Show notes
I've spent 20+ years in the fitness industry, and after leaving bodybuilding, I had to completely rethink what exercise means to me.
In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I'm breaking down the 5 pillars of exercise for longevity: strength training, Zone 2 cardio, sprint interval training, mobility, and balance. I'll walk you through what I personally do each week and why I believe women over 40 need to think beyond weight loss and calorie burn.
I'm also sharing why I approach HIIT differently for women in perimenopause and menopause, how I incorporate strength training, walking, Pilates, mobility, and sprint intervals into my routine, and why getting strong now can make a huge difference as we get older.
If you're a woman over 40 who wants to prioritize strength, fitness, longevity, and healthy aging, this one's for you.
And remember: consistency beats perfection every damn time. ❤️
#WomenOver40 #StrengthTraining #HealthyAging
Key Takeaways:
00:30 — Why Fitness Advice Is So Damn Confusing
02:55 — The Wellness Event That Made Me Think
08:42 — Stop Chasing Calories
12:53 — Exercise for Longevity: The 5 Pillars
13:42 — Pillar #1: Strength Training
18:58 — Pillar #2: Zone 2 Cardio
23:28 — Pillar #3: Sprint Interval Training
31:04 — Pillar #4: Daily Mobility
34:17 — Pillar #5: Balance
37:02 — The Mindset Shift: Train for Longevity
38:37 — My Weekly Takeaways + Resources
Links mentioned:
Check out Bryan Johnson's "Everyone Is Wrong About Exercise" and see his take on the five pillars of exercise and longevity: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNuORofHhrk
Try ClassPass and use my link to get 20 BONUS CREDITS. Explore Pilates, yoga, strength training, cycling, and more - all in one place!
https://classpass.com/refer/QDFSEM2C18?u
Want more? Join the newsletter! Behind the scenes of the pivot, brand partnerships, real life in progress, and the things I'd only tell you in a DM: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter
Connect with Diane:
Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/
Come find me on Instagram and reply to my Stories. I actually read everything and your opinion literally shapes the brand work I do: https://www.instagram.com/thebossbitchdiane/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro
Are you a brand looking to work with me? I create content for brands I actually use and love. With 19 years of marketing and sales experience and an audience of women over 40 who are done being ignored by the brands that should be speaking to them.
View my portfolio and let's talk: https://buffbunny.my.canva.site/diane-flores-ugc-portfolio
Freebies:
Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide
My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements
Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide
Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint
Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program
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28 min
The Brutal Truth About Women's Bodybuilding
Season 1, Episode 434
Show notes
In Part 2 of Competitive Bodybuilding Truths You Need To Hear, I'm getting even more real about the side of women's bodybuilding that nobody really talks about.
I'm talking about GLP-1s and appetite suppressants in contest prep, losing your period, RED-S, perimenopause, post-show binge eating, relationships, body image, and the emotional cost of making bodybuilding your entire identity. I'm also sharing why your stage body is something you're "renting for the day" - not something you're meant to live in forever.
After nearly 15 years in bodybuilding, almost 20 competitions, becoming an IFBB Pro, and coaching women through contest prep, I'm sharing what I wish more women knew before stepping on stage and what I've learned now that I'm on the other side of it.
If you're considering competitive bodybuilding, currently in contest prep, or wondering what really happens to women's bodies and lives behind the scenes, this episode is for you.
#Bodybuilding #WomensBodybuilding #ContestPrep
Key Takeaways:
01:18 The Truth About GLP-1s in Bodybuilding
05:21 Losing Your Period Isn't a Flex
07:18 Contest Prep, Hormones & Being Over 40
08:59 Why Post-Show Recovery Matters
12:51 Nobody Really Cares - Do It For You
14:24 Take ALL the Photos While You're Lean
15:52 The Toll Prep Can Take on Relationships
19:40 Who Are You Without Bodybuilding?
21:24 What Bodybuilding Actually Taught Me
24:53 Am I Happier Now?
Links mentioned:
Haven't listened to Part 1 yet? Go back and catch it here first: https://bossbitchradio.libsyn.com/competitive-bodybuilding-truths-you-need-to-hear
Want more? Join the newsletter! Behind the scenes of the pivot, brand partnerships, real life in progress, and the things I'd only tell you in a DM: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter
Connect with Diane:
Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/
Come find me on Instagram and reply to my Stories. I actually read everything and your opinion literally shapes the brand work I do: https://www.instagram.com/thebossbitchdiane/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro
Are you a brand looking to work with me? I create content for brands I actually use and love. With 19 years of marketing and sales experience and an audience of women over 40 who are done being ignored by the brands that should be speaking to them.
View my portfolio and let's talk: https://buffbunny.my.canva.site/diane-flores-ugc-portfolio
Freebies:
Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide
My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements
Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide
Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint
Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program
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52 min
Competitive Bodybuilding Truths You Need To Hear
Season 1, Episode 423
Show notes
I spent nearly 15 years in bodybuilding, competed almost 20 times, became an IFBB Pro, and coached other women through contest prep. So why did I eventually walk away?
In this episode, I'm getting brutally honest about the side of women's bodybuilding that nobody really talks about - steroids and performance-enhancing drugs, post-show rebound, body image, genetics, the insane cost of competing, judging, coaching, posing, and what happens when bodybuilding becomes your entire identity.
I'm sharing what I wish someone had told me before I stepped on that first stage, including the reality of contest prep, what happens to your body after a show, and why "just stick to the plan" isn't always enough.
And this is only Part 1. Next week, we're getting into perimenopause, your cycle, fat burners, GLP-1s, and how bodybuilding can affect your relationships.
#Bodybuilding #WomensBodybuilding #BodybuildingWomen
Key Takeaways:
00:13 Why I Stayed for So Long
01:45 What Happened After My First Show
03:39 How Bodybuilding Became My Identity
06:07 Becoming the Go-To Bodybuilding Girl
10:15 When I Started Seeing the Cracks
12:14 My Biggest Backstage Wake-Up Call
14:48 The Reality of Post-Show Rebound
17:46 The Biggest Post-Show Danger Zones
20:06 Why You Never Really Come Out Ahead
22:00 How Much Does Bodybuilding Actually Cost?
24:43 The Real Cost of Competing
26:22 Can You Actually Make Money Competing?
28:11 The Ego Trap of Bodybuilding
28:45 You're the Product, Not the Customer
29:47 Why the Goalpost Keeps Moving
33:06 Where's the Protection for Athletes?
34:45 Red Flags to Watch for in a Coach
36:54 The Reality of Life After a Show
39:55 Why Posing Can Make or Break You
43:09 Steroids, Drugs & The Genetics Factor
47:54 The Health Risks You Can't Undo
48:47 I Literally Passed Out Trying to Win
50:58 What's Coming in Part 2 + Share This Episode
Links mentioned:
Listen to last week's episode here: https://bossbitchradio.libsyn.com/is-bodybuilding-actually-healthy-a-pros-honest-answer
Want more? Join the newsletter! Behind the scenes of the pivot, brand partnerships, real life in progress, and the things I'd only tell you in a DM: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter
Connect with Diane:
Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/
Come find me on Instagram and reply to my Stories. I actually read everything and your opinion literally shapes the brand work I do: https://www.instagram.com/thebossbitchdiane/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro
Are you a brand looking to work with me? I create content for brands I actually use and love. With 19 years of marketing and sales experience and an audience of women over 40 who are done being ignored by the brands that should be speaking to them.
View my portfolio and let's talk: https://buffbunny.my.canva.site/diane-flores-ugc-portfolio
Freebies:
Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide
My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements
Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide
Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint
Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program
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40 min
Is Bodybuilding Actually Healthy? A Pro's Honest Answer.
Season 1, Episode 422
Show notes
After 15 years competing, a pro card, and coaching women through prep, I'm saying the thing this industry avoids: bodybuilding, bikini competition prep, and extreme dieting come with real costs - lost menstrual cycles, RED-S, thyroid and bone density problems, post show blues, and binge eating that hits 7 out of 10 competitors. I was on steroids for half my career, so this isn't theory.
#Bodybuilding #WomensHealth #REDs
Key Takeaways:
00:43 Why I Had to Talk About This
01:38 That Instagram Clapback
02:14 My Bodybuilding Background
04:23 Let's Talk About Steroids
06:57 What Happens After a Show
10:30 What Bodybuilding Taught Me
14:22 Why Golf Isn't the Same
17:02 Can You Really Have a Healthy Relationship With It?
20:21 When You Lose Your Period
21:29 WTF Is RED-S?
25:12 The Reality of Coming Off Steroids
30:15 Why Contest Prep Isn't Exactly "Normal Life"
33:44 Jay Cutler and the "Box" Mentality
36:17 What I Want You to Ask Your Doctor & Coach
38:00 My Final Thoughts
Links mentioned:
Read the 2026 study exploring disordered eating, exercise addiction, and body image among competitive bodybuilders - Disordered Eating, Exercise Addiction, and Body Image in Competitive Bodybuilders (2026, n=60)
Explore this case report on the physical and psychological effects of preparing for a first bodybuilding competition - Case Report: First-time Bikini Competitor — physiological and psychological responses
Learn more about RED-S, its warning signs, and how low energy availability can affect your health - RED-S — National Eating Disorders Association resource page
Want more? Join the newsletter! Behind the scenes of the pivot, brand partnerships, real life in progress, and the things I'd only tell you in a DM: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter
Connect with Diane:
Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/
Come find me on Instagram and reply to my Stories. I actually read everything and your opinion literally shapes the brand work I do: https://www.instagram.com/thebossbitchdiane/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro
Are you a brand looking to work with me? I create content for brands I actually use and love. With 19 years of marketing and sales experience and an audience of women over 40 who are done being ignored by the brands that should be speaking to them.
View my portfolio and let's talk: https://buffbunny.my.canva.site/diane-flores-ugc-portfolio
Freebies:
Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide
My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements
Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide
Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint
Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program
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44 min
Body Image After 40: How I'm Making Peace With It
Season 1, Episode 421
Show notes
In this episode, I'm getting really honest about body image, comparison, aging, and the pressure we put on ourselves to get back to our "old" bodies. After years as a professional bodybuilder and coach, I've learned that getting leaner, winning trophies, or hitting a certain number on the scale never actually fixed how I felt about myself.
I'm sharing what I've learned about comparing myself to other women, being attached to my former physique, and realizing that sometimes the jeans aren't the problem. The real question is: How am I showing my body love?
We'll talk about body confidence, social media, self-care, getting older, and why loving your body is something you practice - not something you have to feel first.
If you've ever struggled with body image or wished you could get your old body back, this one is for you.
#BodyImage #BodyConfidence #WomenOver40
Key Takeaways:
01:08 Why This Isn't a "How-To"
03:28 What 400+ Women Taught Me
06:27 The Comparison Trap
10:56 Is Skinny Really Sexier?
15:03 When You're Judged by Your Old Body
20:30 The Jeans Trigger That Got Me Thinking
30:09 Making "Love Your Body" a Verb
34:56 When Fitness Isn't Your Whole Identity
37:32 Your "Embrace" Documentary Assignment
41:21 Be More Intentional With What You Consume
43:20 Your Final Challenge
Links mentioned:
Watch Taryn Brumfitt's Embrace documentary and challenge yourself to rethink the way you see and treat your body: https://youtu.be/b5-pVIcA1e8?is=kGglRKKFwew1Ce39
Want more? Join the newsletter! Behind the scenes of the pivot, brand partnerships, real life in progress, and the things I'd only tell you in a DM: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter
Connect with Diane:
Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/
Come find me on Instagram and reply to my Stories. I actually read everything and your opinion literally shapes the brand work I do: https://www.instagram.com/thebossbitchdiane/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro
Are you a brand looking to work with me? I create content for brands I actually use and love. With 19 years of marketing and sales experience and an audience of women over 40 who are done being ignored by the brands that should be speaking to them.
View my portfolio and let's talk: https://buffbunny.my.canva.site/diane-flores-ugc-portfolio
Freebies:
Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide
My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements
Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide
Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint
Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program
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47 min
Why I'm Choosing a Softer Life Over Hustle Culture at 48
Season 1, Episode 420
Show notes
If you've ever felt like your life looks successful on paper but doesn't feel good anymore, this episode is for you.
I'm Diane Flores, and after nearly 20 years in the fitness industry, I made the scary decision to walk away from the career that defined me. Now I'm documenting what it really looks like to reinvent yourself in midlife, build a creator business from scratch, and design a life that feels lighter, calmer, and a whole lot more aligned.
This month, I'm sharing exactly how I contracted nearly $9,000 in creator income, why I actually sent fewer pitch emails than before, and the biggest lessons I've learned about brand deals, saying no, protecting my energy, and creating a business that supports the life I want - not the other way around.
If you're a woman over 40 who's craving change, questioning your career, feeling stuck, or wondering if it's too late to start over, I hope this conversation reminds you that it's absolutely not!
#MidlifeReinvention #SofterLife #WomenOver40
Key Takeaways:
01:21 Why I Walked Away From My Old Life
04:01 What "Delulu Maxing" Actually Means
05:39 Breaking Down My July Income
06:37 How I Price Brand Deals
11:51 The Paid Brand Deals I Landed
19:56 Gifted Deals: Worth It or Not?
23:25 Why I'm Done With "Girl Math"
26:16 My Free Stuff Wake-Up Call
27:21 The Best Gifted Deal So Far (My Sauna!)
28:34 The Haircare Brand Fail
31:10 Creating Content With My Daughter
33:22 What's Coming in August
36:04 Welcome to Soft Maxing September
37:59 Why I'm Focusing on Longevity
41:54 The Boundary Challenge I Want You to Try
45:54 Before You Go...
Want more? Join the newsletter! Behind the scenes of the pivot, brand partnerships, real life in progress, and the things I'd only tell you in a DM: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter
Connect with Diane:
Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/
Come find me on Instagram and reply to my Stories. I actually read everything and your opinion literally shapes the brand work I do: https://www.instagram.com/thebossbitchdiane/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro
Are you a brand looking to work with me? I create content for brands I actually use and love. With 19 years of marketing and sales experience and an audience of women over 40 who are done being ignored by the brands that should be speaking to them.
View my portfolio and let's talk: https://buffbunny.my.canva.site/diane-flores-ugc-portfolio
Freebies:
Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide
My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements
Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide
Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint
Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program
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43 min
Beth Feraco on Sobriety, Menopause & Fat Loss After 40
Season 1, Episode 419
Show notes
What happens when you completely reinvent your life at 42?
In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I sit down with Beth Feraco to talk about the life-changing decision that set everything else in motion. After quitting alcohol at 42, Beth rebuilt her life from the ground up - finding sobriety, discovering fitness, growing a successful coaching business, and helping thousands of women over 40 take control of their health.
This conversation goes far beyond fitness. We get honest about alcohol, menopause, hormones, fat loss, strength training, GLP-1 medications, social media, and what it really takes to create lasting change. Beth shares the lessons she's learned over the past 11 years and why the simplest habits are often the ones that make the biggest difference!
If you're navigating midlife, struggling to lose weight, feeling overwhelmed by menopause, or wondering where to start, this episode is packed with practical advice and real-life experience.
#WomenOver40 #Menopause #FitnessOver40
Key Takeaways:
00:14 Meet Beth Feraco
02:27 The Moment Everything Changed
04:33 How Fitness Saved Her Life
06:58 Starting a Fitness Journey at 42
08:30 Do You Really Need to Quit Drinking?
11:17 The Truth About Menopause
13:32 Finding the Right HRT Doctor
16:56 The Habits That Actually Work
18:10 Supplements vs. Real Results
18:40 The Truth About GLP-1s
20:43 Portion Sizes Changed Everything
23:39 Why Beth Still Tracks Macros
24:26 How She Grew on Social Media
26:23 Being Yourself Online
28:19 Why She Doesn't Plan Content
30:51 Turning Down Brand Deals
32:59 The Reality of Work-Life Balance
34:30 A Day in Beth's Life
36:35 Growing Beyond 1-on-1 Coaching
39:22 What's Next for Beth
41:18 Get Out of Your Own Way
Links mentioned:
Connect with Beth Feraco:
Instagram: @bethferacofitness
TikTok: @bethferacofitness
Podcast: Cut the Crap with Beth & Matt
Check her out on her website: https://bethferacofitness.com/
Need support? The National Alliance for Eating Disorders offers free resources, treatment referrals, and support for anyone affected by eating disorders https://www.allianceforeatingdisorders.com/
Want more? Join the newsletter! Behind the scenes of the pivot, brand partnerships, real life in progress, and the things I'd only tell you in a DM: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter
Connect with Diane:
Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/
Come find me on Instagram and reply to my Stories. I actually read everything and your opinion literally shapes the brand work I do: https://www.instagram.com/thebossbitchdiane/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro
Are you a brand looking to work with me? I create content for brands I actually use and love. With 19 years of marketing and sales experience and an audience of women over 40 who are done being ignored by the brands that should be speaking to them.
View my portfolio and let's talk: https://buffbunny.my.canva.site/diane-flores-ugc-portfolio
Freebies:
Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide
My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements
Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide
Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint
Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program
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34 min
I got the body. I still hated it.
Season 1, Episode 418
Show notes
If you've ever thought, "I'll be happy when I lose 10 pounds," this episode is for you.
As an IFBB Pro who competed in 16 bodybuilding shows, I reached my leanest at 128 pounds - and I was the most miserable I'd ever been. In this episode, I'm sharing the truth about body dysmorphia, extreme dieting, hormone health, and why losing weight didn't give me the happiness I thought it would.
We'll talk about why the scale isn't the best measure of health, how chasing the "perfect body" can steal your joy, and what truly matters if you want to feel strong, healthy, and confident.
If this episode speaks to you, share it with a woman who's been waiting to live her life until she loses the weight!
#BodyDysmorphia #WeightLossJourney #Bodybuilding
Key Takeaways:
00:43 If You're Waiting to Lose 10 Pounds...
01:56 What Being 128 Pounds Was Really Like
04:03 The Reality of Contest Prep
05:10 When the Compliments Start Rolling In
07:47 The Truth About Body Dysmorphia
11:35 What Happens After the Goal Is Over
14:49 Learning to Heal My Relationship with Food & My Body
18:16 Why I Stopped Comparing Myself Online
19:12 The Scale Isn't the Whole Story
23:33 Why I Don't Trust BMI
27:21 Would I Do Bodybuilding Again?
28:52 What I Hope You Take Away from This
32:53 If You're Struggling, Please Reach Out
34:09 One Last Thing Before You Go
Links mentioned:
Need support? The National Alliance for Eating Disorders offers free resources, treatment referrals, and support for anyone affected by eating disorders https://www.allianceforeatingdisorders.com/
Want more? Join the newsletter! Behind the scenes of the pivot, brand partnerships, real life in progress, and the things I'd only tell you in a DM: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter
Connect with Diane:
Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/
Come find me on Instagram and reply to my Stories. I actually read everything and your opinion literally shapes the brand work I do: https://www.instagram.com/thebossbitchdiane/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro
Are you a brand looking to work with me? I create content for brands I actually use and love. With 19 years of marketing and sales experience and an audience of women over 40 who are done being ignored by the brands that should be speaking to them.
View my portfolio and let's talk: https://buffbunny.my.canva.site/diane-flores-ugc-portfolio
Freebies:
Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide
My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements
Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide
Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint
Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program
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33 min
7 Signs Your Body Is Begging for Change (I Ignored Mine 3 Years)
Season 1, Episode 417
Show notes
7 Signs Your Body Is Begging You to Make a Life Change (I Ignored Them for 3 Years)
In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I'm sharing something deeply personal - the seven warning signs that kept showing up before I finally made one of the hardest decisions of my life: closing the business I'd spent nearly two decades building.
The truth? It wasn't one dramatic moment. It was years of subtle signals that I kept brushing aside. The work I once loved started feeling heavy. I couldn't sleep. My creativity disappeared. My mind was consumed by the same problems every single day. Looking back, my body was trying to tell me something long before my brain was ready to listen.
If you're a woman over 40 feeling burned out, emotionally exhausted, disconnected from your work, relationship, or even yourself, this conversation is for you. Whether you're questioning your career, your business, a relationship, or simply the direction your life is heading, I hope these signs help you recognize your own patterns before you spend years stuck like I did!
#WomenOver40 #BurnoutRecovery #PersonalGrowth
Key Takeaways:
00:39 Why I Started This Podcast
01:32 The Instagram Poll That Changed Everything
02:46 Why We Stay Stuck Way Too Long
05:25 The 7 Signs I Couldn't Ignore
05:41 When What You Love Starts Feeling Heavy
07:40 The Sleep & Overthinking Spiral
09:33 Constantly Asking, "Am I Crazy?"
12:20 The Tiny Thing That Finally Broke Me
14:07 When You Finally Hit Your Limit
15:36 The Mindset That Helped Me Move Forward
19:53 Fix the Root, Not the Symptoms
21:30 Sponsor Break: iVologist
22:27 The Part I Didn't Tell Anyone
23:24 Why I Disappeared From Social Media
23:50 The Program That Changed Everything
25:42 Learning to Feel Instead of Suppress
27:08 How I Learned to Trust Myself Again
30:08 What Is Your Body Trying to Tell You?
31:18 Send This to the Friend Who Needs It
31:50 Delulu Updates & Behind-the-Scenes
32:47 Thanks for Listening ❤️ Come Say Hi
Links mentioned:
Ready to feel like yourself again? Visit Ivologist and use code DIANE50 for 50% off!
Watch my inspiring conversation with Tracy Litt, "You're Not Behind, Broken, or Stuck — You're Becoming." If you're feeling stuck or standing at a crossroads, this episode is exactly what you need: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fRUwXFZG-bM
Didn't catch the previous Delulu Maxxing episodes? Listen here:
Episode #2 - https://bossbitchradio.libsyn.com/i-made-almost-4k-in-15-days-on-purpose-this-time
Want more? Join the newsletter! Behind the scenes of the pivot, brand partnerships, real life in progress, and the things I'd only tell you in a DM: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter
Connect with Diane:
Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/
Come find me on Instagram and reply to my Stories. I actually read everything and your opinion literally shapes the brand work I do: https://www.instagram.com/thebossbitchdiane/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro
Are you a brand looking to work with me? I create content for brands I actually use and love. With 19 years of marketing and sales experience and an audience of women over 40 who are done being ignored by the brands that should be speaking to them.
View my portfolio and let's talk: https://buffbunny.my.canva.site/diane-flores-ugc-portfolio
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25 min
When Anxiety and Depression Are Actually Perimenopause
Season 1, Episode 416
Show notes
It Was Never in Your Head: When Anxiety & Depression Are Actually a Hormone Problem
If you've ever been told you have anxiety or depression without anyone checking your hormones first... this episode is for you.
In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I dive into a conversation that I believe every woman needs to hear. Too many women are walking out of doctor's offices with prescriptions for antidepressants without ever getting a full hormone panel. While medication absolutely has its place, I'm asking a different question: What if your hormones are part of the real story?
We're talking about how estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone affect your mood, sleep, energy, motivation, brain fog, and anxiety - especially during perimenopause and menopause. I also share my own experience with hormone changes, why I believe so many women are being misdiagnosed, and the lifestyle habits that can help support your hormones before we even get into treatment options.
This episode isn't about fear or blaming doctors. It's about becoming your own advocate, asking better questions, and making sure you're getting the full picture before accepting that feeling anxious, exhausted, or emotionally flat is "just part of getting older."
#Hormones #Perimenopause #Menopause #MentalHealth
Key Takeaways:
01:41 The 3 Hormones That Control Your Mood
02:46 Why Estrogen Affects Your Happiness
03:58 Progesterone, Anxiety & Better Sleep
05:26 Low Testosterone = Low Motivation?
08:50 Why So Many Women Get Misdiagnosed
10:26 The Stats That Will Shock You
12:26 Why Blood Work Should Come First
13:39 Simple Habits That Actually Help
19:10 When Healthy Habits Aren't Enough
20:39 Getting Real Answers with Hormone Testing
22:39 What I Hope You Take Away From This Episode
Links mentioned:
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Sources & References
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Menopause & Depression Risk (SWAN Study): Research shows women are 2–4 times more likely to experience a major depressive episode during the menopause transition. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21306662/ https://www.swanstudy.org/womens-health-info/depression-menopause/
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Antidepressants vs. Hormone Therapy: Approximately 1 in 3 women in perimenopause are prescribed antidepressants or anti-anxiety medications for mood symptoms, though current guidelines recommend considering hormone replacement therapy (HRT) when appropriate. https://pharmaceutical-journal.com/article/letters/assessing-the-suitability-of-antidepressant-use-during-perimenopause
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CDC (2023): Women are more than twice as likely as men to take antidepressants (15.3% vs. 7.4%) https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db528.htm
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How Estrogen Affects Mood: Estrogen plays a key role in regulating neurotransmitters such as serotonin, dopamine, and GABA. Fluctuations in estradiol levels during perimenopause and menopause can significantly influence mood https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7075107/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0378512224001828
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2025 Research on HRT: A recent study suggests that hormone replacement therapy - particularly when combined with testosterone - may reduce the need for antidepressants in menopausal women https://academic.oup.com/jsm/article/22/Supplement_1/qdaf068.081/8119509
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32 min
My First Full Month as a Creator: Every Number, No Filter
Season 1, Episode 415
Show notes
Delulu Maxxing: If You Don't Ask, the Answer is Always No - My First Full Month, Every Number
In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on everything that happened in June - from exactly how much I earned to how many brands I pitched, what actually landed, what completely fell apart, and the biggest lesson I've learned so far: if you don't ask, the answer is always no.
I break down my real numbers, including the paid brand deals I signed, gifted partnerships, and the hundreds of pitches and follow-up emails that happened behind the scenes. You'll also hear about a collaboration that unexpectedly fell through, the daily system I've been using to stay consistent, and why persistence has been far more valuable than talent or luck!
If you're thinking about becoming a content creator, building a UGC business, reinventing your career after 40, or simply need the push to bet on yourself, I hope this episode reminds you that reinvention isn't about having everything figured out. It's about taking the next bold step before you feel ready.
#ContentCreator #UGC #WomenOver40
Key Takeaways:
01:31 The "Just Ask" Mindset That Changed Everything
03:28 How I Made Money This Month
05:41 The Truth About Gifted Brand Deals
09:50 My Pitching Numbers (The Real Receipts)
13:07 The UGC Apps I'm Using Right Now
15:31 Why I Only Pitch Brands I Actually Love
18:20 The Brand Deal That Fell Through
20:25 My Simple Daily Pitching Routine
23:16 This Week's Homie Hookup
24:46 My Current Delulu Goals
29:44 Your Growth Assignment This Week
30:47 Final Thoughts & Newsletter Update
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Episode #2 - https://bossbitchradio.libsyn.com/i-made-almost-4k-in-15-days-on-purpose-this-time
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27 min
I Made Almost $4K in 15 Days (On Purpose This Time)
Season 1, Episode 414
Show notes
Delulu Maxxing: I Made Almost $4K in 15 Days - On Purpose This Time
If you've ever wondered what it really looks like to rebuild your career from scratch, this episode is for you.
I'm pulling back the curtain on the first 15 days of June and sharing exactly what happened after I decided to stop waiting for opportunities and start asking for them.
In this episode, I break down how I landed $3,225 in paid brand deals, another $760 in gifted products, pitched nearly 250 brands, and why being audacious has completely changed the direction of my career. This isn't a "how to become a content creator" tutorial - it's the messy, honest, behind-the-scenes reality of starting over, figuring things out as I go, and showing you the numbers most creators never share!
#ContentCreator #UGC #WomenOver40
Key Takeaways:
01:58 Breaking Down My June Numbers
02:45 My Gifted Products Strategy
04:34 How I Pitch Brands Like Crazy
08:52 The Confidence & Systems That Changed Everything
13:51 How I Landed a Podcast Sponsor
15:56 Sponsor Spotlight: Ivologist
16:59 Deals I'm Working on Right Now
20:50 My Take on Activewear Brand Ads
24:50 Final Thoughts: Be Audacious
Links mentioned:
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Didn't catch the previous Delulu Maxxing episode? Listen here: https://bossbitchradio.libsyn.com/delulu-maxxing-i-burned-down-a-19-year-career-retired-the-fitness-girl-and-stopped-waiting-to-feel-ready
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Are you a brand looking to work with me? I create content for brands I actually use and love. With 19 years of marketing and sales experience and an audience of women over 40 who are done being ignored by the brands that should be speaking to them.
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23 min
I Burned Down My 19-Year Career and Started Over
Season 1, Episode 413
Show notes
Delulu Maxxing: I burned down a 19-year career, retired the fitness girl, and stopped waiting to feel ready
What happens when you close a business you've built for nearly 20 years and decide to start over?
In this first episode of my new Delulu Maxing series, I'm taking you behind the scenes of one of the biggest pivots of my life. After stepping away from my coaching business, I found myself unexpectedly diving into the world of UGC (User Generated Content), brand partnerships, and content creation - and somehow made nearly $4,000 before I even realized what was happening.
If you're thinking about reinventing yourself, becoming a content creator, building a personal brand, or simply chasing a dream that scares the hell out of you, welcome to Delulu Maxing!
#UGC #ContentCreator #WomenOver40
Key Takeaways:
00:38 Welcome to Delulu Maxing
01:47 Life After Closing My Business
02:44 Why I Call Myself "Delusional" (In a Good Way)
04:23 My Pivot Into Content Creation
05:46 What UGC Inbounds Actually Are
06:58 Why I Turn Down Easy Money
07:56 The Power of Having an Emergency Fund
10:46 The Huge Gap in Gen X Marketing
14:45 How I Taught Myself UGC Fast
18:22 Doing One Scary Thing Every Day
19:30 I Need Your Help Shaping This Journey
21:52 What's Coming in Future Episodes
22:49 Wrapping Up: Stay Audacious AF
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20 min
What Nobody Tells You About Starting Over (Part 2)
Season 1, Episode 412
Show notes
Yapping About... Expired Relationships, Jumping Without a Parachute and What Nobody Tells You About Starting Over (Part 2)
Welcome back to Boss Bitch Radio. I'm Diane, and in this episode I'm joined by my baby sis, Tina, for Part 2 of our very real, very unfiltered conversation about divorce, motherhood, and what life actually looks like when you decide to walk away from a marriage that's not working anymore.
We talk about what it's really like being women over 40, divorced, raising kids, and trying to figure it all out without a perfect plan. From the emotional buildup before leaving, to setting a "this is the day" deadline, to actually having that hard conversation - nothing is sugarcoated here. Just honest sister-to-sister talk about what it takes to finally choose yourself!
We hope this feels like a conversation you didn't know you needed, but somehow feels familiar anyway. If you listen all the way through, come say hi and tell us what part hit home for you - we'd genuinely love to hear it.
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#LifeAfterDivorce #WomenOver40 #SingleMomLife
Key Takeaways:
01:10 Setting the "this is the day" deadline
03:08 Basically living like roommates at that point
04:19 The actual divorce conversation
06:20 Protecting your safe space + boundaries
08:06 No plan, just knowing you have to go
08:45 Finding your strength again
10:46 That feeling of freedom after leaving
12:35 Why the kids always come first
14:52 Advice for anyone stuck: pick a day
18:13 Wrapping it all up
19:13 Outro + what's next
Links Mentioned:
If you're enjoying our sister yap sessions, here's the episode my little sis and I recorded back in 2022 - give it a listen: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/boss-bitch-radio-w-ifbb-pro-diane-flores/id1558918378?i=1000584460433
Listen to the Part 1 of this yapping session episode with my lil sis here: https://bossbitchradio.libsyn.com/yapping-about-trauma-that-made-us-funny-our-mother-wound-and-the-sister-who-changed-everything-part-1
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Are you a brand looking to work with me? I create content for brands I actually use and love. With 19 years of marketing and sales experience and an audience of women over 40 who are done being ignored by the brands that should be speaking to them.
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47 min
The Mother Wound and the Sister Who Changed Everything (Part 1)
Season 1, Episode 411
Show notes
Yapping About... Trauma That Made Us Funny, Our Mother Wound and the Sister Who Changed Everything (Part 1)
In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I'm sitting down with my baby sister, Tina, for one of our favorite things to do - an unfiltered sister yap session.
We cover everything from growing up as daughters of divorced parents to navigating our own divorces, healing family wounds, raising kids, and figuring out who we are on the other side of some of life's hardest seasons. This conversation is full of laughter, honesty, and the kind of stories that only sisters can tell.
Tina and I didn't grow up together in the traditional sense after our parents divorced, so we've had a unique journey of finding our way back to each other throughout adulthood. In this episode, we reflect on our childhood, our Portuguese family culture, our relationships with our parents, and the lessons we've learned from staying in marriages longer than we should have.
If you've ever experienced divorce, struggled with family relationships, worked through the mother wound, or simply enjoy listening to honest conversations between sisters, I think you'll see a little bit of yourself in this episode.
Grab your coffee, settle in, and come hang out with us!
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#DivorceRecovery #FamilyHealing #MotherWound
Key Takeaways:
01:25 Why Watching Your Man Do Yard Work Is Weirdly Hot
02:50 Dad Always Smelled Like Dirt and Fresh Air
03:20 The Portuguese Kids Reel Had Us Crying Laughing
05:13 The Story of How We Grew Up
07:11 When We Ended Up Raising Our Kids Together
09:58 How We Got on the Topic of Divorce
12:54 The Moment We Knew It Was Time to Leave
16:22 Mother Wounds, Dating, and Setting Standards
19:50 Preparing for the Divorce Conversation
20:49 Life After Having a New Baby
22:52 The Text Message That Changed Everything
24:29 The Final Straw in Our Marriages
25:05 The Mexican Dinner That Sparked a Confession
25:52 Playing the Victim and Relationship Dynamics
27:24 Staying Together for the Kids
28:49 Trauma, Dark Humor, and Sister Bonding
30:00 The Pain of Secret Remarriages
32:49 How Parenting Becomes a Mirror for Healing
36:12 Losing Our Sister, Lisa
41:41 Living with the Fear of Marfan Syndrome
45:25 Remembering Lisa and Wrapping Up
Links Mentioned:
If you're enjoying our sister yap sessions, here's the episode my little sis and I recorded back in 2022 - give it a listen: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/boss-bitch-radio-w-ifbb-pro-diane-flores/id1558918378?i=1000584460433
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12 min
Coaching Icks, Soupy Ears, and Being That Girl for Your Plants
Season 1, Episode 410
Show notes
Yapping About Soupy Ears, Coaching Icks, And Being That Girl For Your Plants
I'm Diane, and this is Yaps & Reps with my daughter Eash (aka "Eash Da Beast").
In this episode, we talk about a viral question from a bodybuilding group: how fast should your coach actually respond to you? The answers were all over the place - from minutes to days - and it opened up a bigger conversation about expectations in online coaching.
We break down what realistic coach communication looks like, why 24–48 hour responses are usually the sweet spot, and why boundaries matter in coaching (without turning it into an emergency hotline).
We also get into overconsumption, TikTok Shop culture, impulse buying, and how fitness prep changes your mindset around spending and distractions.
Real talk, fitness life, and everything in between - come hang out with us!
#FitnessCoaching #BodybuildingCoach #FitnessPodcast
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Key Takeaways:
00:24 — Trying not to overconsume everything
01:13 — Earbuds brand deal talk
02:15 — Filming gym B-roll struggles
02:53 — Tiny ears side quest
03:17 — Setting up June goals
03:26 — What you should expect from coach replies
04:46 — The "goldilocks" response time for coaching
06:24 — Prep life vs lifestyle clients
08:08 — Why clients need to be a bit self-sufficient
09:48 — Jack's coming home + Red Rock plans
10:41 — Plant mom updates 🌱
11:23 — Wrap-up + goodbye
Links Mentioned:
Go follow Coach Eash on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/eash_da_beast/
And don't forget to check out her YouTube videos too! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmxEvxOAIV9uaxcgEPse4mg
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15 min
Coaching For Sleepy Glutes, Snack Goblins & Being Nice To Your Face
Season 1, Episode 409
Show notes
Why aren't your glutes firing during workouts? In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I'm sharing a real coaching call from my Healthy and Hot community where we talk about sleepy glutes, glute activation, nighttime snacking habits, healthy routines, and learning how to be nicer to yourself.
We dive into glute training tips, why soreness doesn't equal progress, how to stop late-night snacking, and mindset shifts that actually help you stay consistent with your fitness goals.
If you're working on building stronger glutes, healthier habits, better routines, and more confidence - this episode is for you!
#FitnessPodcast #GluteWorkout #GluteActivation
Key Takeaways:
01:03 Celebrating mirror confidence moments
01:59 Night shift life & random snack cravings
03:11 7 days sober win 🫶
04:54 Why sore glutes don't always mean better workouts
07:23 Tips for "sleepy glutes" & better activation
09:56 Protecting your low back during glute workouts
11:01 Cutting back on late-night snacks & screen time
13:13 Easy wind-down routine ideas
14:13 Final thoughts + share with your gym bestie
Links Mentioned:
If you're ready to get support and clarity, you can book a coaching call with me here: https://calendar.app.google/DCeVm6vNip6HCeREA
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17 min
How To Stay Consistent When You Don't Feel Like It
Season 1, Episode 408
Show notes
In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, I'm getting real about something so many women struggle with but don't always talk about honestly: consistency. If you've ever felt stuck in the cycle of starting over, waiting to feel motivated, or falling off every time life gets chaotic, this episode is going to hit home.
In this raw coaching-call-style conversation, I break down why motivation isn't actually the answer, how your habits affect your mindset more than your moods should, and why learning to show up for yourself - even on the messy days - is the real work. We're talking fitness, mental health, self-worth, resilience, healing, and all the deeper stuff that goes way beyond workouts and meal plans.
You'll also hear powerful moments from women inside my 21-Day Healthy & Hot Reset Challenge as they open up about sobriety, depression, consistency, confidence, and learning how to stop negotiating with themselves. It's vulnerable, funny, emotional, motivating, and packed with the kind of tough-love mindset shifts you probably needed to hear!
If you're tired of falling off track, struggling with motivation, or feeling like you can't stay consistent no matter how many times you restart, this episode is for you.
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#ConsistencyIsKey #MotivationMindset #SelfDiscipline
Key Takeaways:
00:18 Why Staying Consistent Feels So Hard
02:02 Motivation Isn't Enough
04:06 Stop Talking Yourself Out of Habits
05:20 Pride, Vulnerability & Being Honest With Yourself
07:32 The Real Work Beneath the Surface
08:41 Community Wins & Bouncing Back
11:37 Consistency Beats Going All In
13:09 Actually Applying the Work + Getting Support
14:38 Breakthrough Call Invite
16:08 Final Push to Get Moving
Links Mentioned:
If you're ready to get support and clarity, you can book a coaching call with me here: https://calendar.app.google/DCeVm6vNip6HCeREA
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48 min
Yapping About Routine, Confidence, And Acting Like That Bitch
Season 1, Episode 407
Show notes
I'm Diane, and I'm here with my daughter Alysha (aka Eash Da Beast), and in this episode we're sitting down just 8 days out from her bodybuilding show - peak week is officially in full swing!
We're talking through what life really looks like right now in prep: the low energy days, carb thoughts taking over everything, shredded lettuce cravings, and the routines that come with getting stage-ready. We also break down what typically shifts this close to show day when it comes to food, cardio, water, and mindset, and why keeping things as consistent and simple as possible becomes the main focus.
We also get real about the day-to-day experience of peak week - sleep, sodium, cravings, and trying not to overthink every little change in the mirror. And of course, we still end up talking about post-show food dreams… because that's basically part of prep at this point 😅
If you're into bodybuilding prep, fitness journeys, macros, or just honest conversations about discipline and life in the grind, you'll enjoy this one!
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#BodybuildingPrep #ContestPrep #BodybuildingLifestyle
Key Takeaways:
01:58 One week out game plan 03:57 Peak week rules we're sticking to 05:38 Sodium + water myths (let's clear this up) 07:30 Post-show food talk already starting… 10:51 What prep does to relationships 15:20 Random coffee hack detour 17:12 The reality of content creation 20:01 The YouTube monetization grind 23:09 Dream brand collabs we'd love 24:15 UGC deals + sponsorship talk 26:46 Marco Polo love 28:03 Why we're obsessed with Marco Polo 28:21 Pitching to sponsors behind the scenes 29:40 Workout split wins lately 30:09 Treadmill running updates 32:02 Hockey cardio plan (yes, really) 33:20 Vegas heat check 33:46 Rapid fire either/or 36:38 Gym headphones debate 37:45 Gym music overload problems 39:12 Obsessions + icks 40:52 Focus, discipline, and coaching talk 44:28 Ingredient house memories 46:06 Wrap up + where to find us
Links Mentioned:
Go follow Coach Eash on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/eash_da_beast/
And don't forget to check out her YouTube videos too! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmxEvxOAIV9uaxcgEPse4mg
Grab the Fiber Made Simple freebie TODAY! https://build-with-beast.kit.com/fibermadesimple
Apply for her coaching here 👉 https://build-with-beast.kit.com/2464da9b0f
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My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements
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47 min
Yapping About Manifesting, Gym Celebrities, And Being Delulu
Season 1, Episode 406
Show notes
In this episode, we're getting real about routines, confidence, fitness prep, mindset shifts, and why you need to stop waiting for the "perfect moment" to enjoy your life. Alysha opens up about being just 16 days out from her bodybuilding show, surviving five months of prep, refeeds, gym fatigue, and the mental side of chasing a goal. Meanwhile, Diane shares what it's been like getting back into her routine after vacation, dealing with food guilt, bloating, and learning how to return to healthy habits without punishment or extremes.
We also dive into client wins, journaling prompts, building confidence in your body, gym mindset, identity shifts, and why true transformation goes way deeper than the number on the scale. Plus, we introduce our fun new segment: Gym Main Characters 😂
If you've ever struggled with getting back on track, consistency, motivation, body image, or feeling confident in the gym, this episode is for you!
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#FitnessMotivation #WeightLossJourney #GymConfidence
Key Takeaways:
00:50 Life Lately Check-In
01:58 The Reality of Refeed Days in Prep
05:56 Why Good Gym Friends Matter
07:10 Resetting After California
11:23 Client Wins & Mindset Shifts
14:44 Journaling Your Way Through Change
18:49 Getting Back Into Your Routine
22:44 Becoming That Girl Energy
24:30 Confidence Comes From Doing Hard Things
25:39 Posting Online & Building Confidence
27:49 Being Yourself > Seeking Approval
30:25 Protecting Your Energy & Relationships
32:47 Stop Overthinking Decisions
35:42 Gym Main Character Moments 😂
41:22 Your "That Girl" Homework
43:55 Final Thoughts + Fiber Talk
Links Mentioned:
Go follow Coach Eash on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/eash_da_beast/
And don't forget to check out her YouTube videos too! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmxEvxOAIV9uaxcgEPse4mg
Grab the Fiber Made Simple freebie TODAY! https://build-with-beast.kit.com/fibermadesimple
Apply for her coaching here 👉 https://build-with-beast.kit.com/2464da9b0f
In case you missed out the "Fiber is that b*tch this year" episode, listen here :https://bossbitchradio.libsyn.com/fiber-is-that-btch-this-year
Ready for a reset? Jump into the 21-Day Challenge today:
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Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter
Join my coaching program here 👉 https://www.bossbitchradio.com/healthy-and-hot-method
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Connect with Diane:
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Freebies:
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Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide
Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program
Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide
My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements
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