Podcast

Sleep Training for Babies / Postpartum, Overstimulated, Naps, Baby Sleep, Newborn, Infants

Health & Fitness, Kids & Family, Mental Health, Parenting

Are you sick of feeling like you can’t show up for yourself or your kids as the mom you want to be, due to exhaustion? Do you crave time alone to fill your own cup, but can’t get it due to your children not sleeping? Are you tired of feeling dysregulated, exhausted, and overstimulated? Are you ready to be a more present and patient mother?

I am so thankful you’re here, mama. This podcast will help you find more rest, joy, and peace in motherhood, by getting your baby or young kiddo to start sleeping through the night!

Hey, I’m Alexa. A mom, wife, and Jesus lover who spent the first 6 months of my newborns life feeling beyond exhausted, anxious, and like a zombie just going through the motions. I wasn’t able to be a fully present mom or enjoy motherhood. Being riddled with anxiety and sleeping 3-5 hours a night just wasn’t working anymore…for me, my marriage, or my son!

I was afraid to start sleep training, thinking maybe it wouldn’t work, or it would negatively affect my son’s development, or hurt our attachment. However…it did just the opposite. Sleep training changed our lives; my son was happier and well rested, my mental health slowly got better, I was able to BOND and be present with my son, and my home finally had some peace and predictability.

However, I felt like my sleep training experience was missing something. It wasn’t customized specifically for my family, I had a lot of questions that didn’t get answered, and I could have used some non-judgmental support and encouragement while walking through the process! So, I created it for you. I went to work and got certified as a Sleep Training Consultant and a Postpartum Doula, so that I could create a space for moms to get complete support as they walk through sleep training their babies in a way that feels good for them.

Inside this podcast, you will find sleep training solutions and tips for children aged newborn-6 years old, encouragement and community (you are not alone!!), tips on how to bring routines and predictability to your home, and how to feel a sense of joy and peace in motherhood again. So go reheat your coffee- I’m sure for the 10th time today ;) - and listen up, mama! Because you matter, too!

Learn: mamamatterstoo.com/call
Contact: alexa@mamamatterstoo.com
Connect: instagram.com/mama.matters.too
Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

Episodes
71
Releases
Twice a week
Typical length
19 min
On air since
2024
Latest episode
4 days ago

Episodes

71 episodes, newest first

  1. EP 70 // What an Overstimulated Mom Actually Needs From Her Spouse (And How to Ask Them for Help)

    Episode 71

    Show notes

    You love your family, but sometimes one more “Mom!” or “What’s for dinner?” feels like more than you can handle. If you’ve ever snapped at your spouse and then felt guilty, this episode is for you.

    We’re talking about what an overstimulated mom actually needs from her spouse, why “just tell me what to do” can still feel exhausting, and how to ask for help before you reach your breaking point. You’ll hear practical examples of what to say, how to share everyday responsibilities, and encouragement that needing support doesn’t make you a bad mom.

    If baby night wakings are adding to your overwhelm, book a Sleep Clarity Call so we can create a clear sleep plan for your family.

    Book your sleep clarity call here: mamamatterstoo.com/call

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    Free guide: Why Your Baby Is Waking Every 2–3 Hours (And What To Fix First)

    https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/guide

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    19 min
  2. EP 69 // Baby Night Wakings: What to Fix First When You’ve Tried Everything

    Episode 70

    Show notes

    Does it feel like you’ve tried everything to stop your baby’s night wakings, but nothing seems to work? You’re exhausted, you’re second-guessing every decision, and you just want to know what to fix first.

    In today’s episode, I’m walking you through three places to start when your baby is waking frequently at night. We’ll talk about feeding and comfort, bedtime habits, and how to spot patterns in your baby’s schedule so you can stop guessing and feel more confident about your next step.

    If you’re ready for personalized support, book a Sleep Clarity Call at https://mamamatterstoo.com/call. We’ll look at your baby’s sleep together and create a plan that works for your family.

    Your baby matters, but you matter too, mama. ❤️

    Book your sleep clarity call here: mamamatterstoo.com/call

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    Free guide: Why Your Baby Is Waking Every 2–3 Hours (And What To Fix First)

    https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/guide

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    22 min
  3. EP 68 // How to Sleep Train Twins: Reduce Night Wakings and Get Longer Stretches of Sleep

    Episode 69

    Show notes

    Feel like someone is always awake? If you’re feeding one twin, rocking the other, and wondering how you’ll ever get longer stretches of sleep, this episode is for you.

    We’re talking about how to sleep train twins with a manageable bedtime routine, a plan for night wakings and night feedings, and support that considers each baby’s needs. You’ll learn what to do when they wake each other up, how to approach overnight feeds, and why progress doesn’t have to look identical for both babies.

    Book your sleep clarity call here (yes, it's the same price for twins!): mamamatterstoo.com/call

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    Sleep training method explained episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sleep-training-for-babies-postpartum-overstimulated/id1732963842?i=1000789864925

    26 min
  4. EP 67 // Postpartum Hormones or Anxiety? Why You May Not Feel Like Yourself

    Episode 68

    Show notes

    Do you love your baby but feel like you’ve lost yourself? If you’re overwhelmed, emotional, or constantly worrying, you may be wondering whether it’s postpartum hormones, anxiety, or exhaustion.

    In this episode, we talk about how hormonal changes and postpartum anxiety can overlap, the difference between baby blues and symptoms that deserve more support, and practical steps for talking to your healthcare provider.

    You don’t need to know exactly what’s wrong before asking for help. Your mental health matters, and seeking support doesn’t mean you’ve failed as a mom.

    Need someone to talk to? Call or text the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-852-6262 (1-833-TLC-MAMA) for free, confidential support, available 24/7 in the U.S. This is a support resource, not an emergency line.

    If broken nights are adding to your overwhelm, book a Sleep Clarity Call at https://mamamatterstoo.com/call for a personalized baby sleep plan. Sleep support can complement professional mental health care!

    19 min
  5. EP 66 // Baby Waking Every 2 Hours? What to Fix First

    Episode 67

    Show notes

    Is your baby waking every two hours, leaving you exhausted and wondering whether it’s hunger, their nap schedule, or how they fall asleep?

    In this episode, we walk through three things to check first: feeding and comfort, bedtime sleep habits, and your baby’s daily schedule and overnight routine. You’ll learn where to start, common mistakes to avoid, and one simple step to help you stop guessing at every wake-up.

    If you’ve tried everything and still don’t know what to change, this episode will help you find a clearer next step.

    Ready for a plan that fits your baby? Book your Sleep Clarity Call at https://mamamatterstoo.com/call.

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    Free guide: Why Your Baby Is Waking Every 2–3 Hours (And What To Fix First)

    https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/guide

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    22 min
  6. EP 65 // Feeling Unseen in Motherhood? God Sees You - With Jenessa Wait

    Episode 66

    Show notes

    Do you ever feel like you’re doing so much for everyone else, but nobody sees how hard you’re working? Between feeding your baby, managing naps, working, and keeping your home running, motherhood can feel exhausting and unseen.

    In this episode, I’m joined by author, speaker, and mom Jenessa Wait for a conversation about how God sees you in this season, even when your days feel repetitive and you wonder if you’re moving forward.

    We talk about recognizing God’s work in everyday motherhood, knowing when to wait and when to take a step of faith, and making room for your gifts and dreams without adding more pressure to your plate. Jenessa also shares encouragement from her book, Moving with God, for the mom who feels stuck or wonders, “Is this all I’m doing with my life right now?”

    Mama, the work that goes unnoticed still matters. And you do, too.

    Connect with Jenessa: https://jenessawait.com/

    instagram.com/jenessawait

    Preorder her book here

    Ready for a clear plan for your baby’s sleep so you can stop second-guessing every bedtime and night waking? Book your Sleep Clarity Call at https://mamamatterstoo.com/call.

    39 min
  7. EP 64 // How to Get Your Baby on a Sleep Schedule Without Watching the Clock All Day

    Episode 65

    Show notes

    Does planning your baby’s naps feel like a full time job? You’re calculating wake windows, checking the clock, and wondering if one short nap has thrown off the whole day.

    In this episode, we’re talking about how to get your baby on a sleep schedule without watching the clock all day. You’ll learn how to create a realistic morning starting point, use wake windows as a guide, and adjust naps and bedtime when things don’t go as planned.

    If you want more predictable days without feeling tied to a perfect schedule, this episode will help you take the next step with more confidence and less overthinking.

    Ready to stop guessing about your baby’s sleep? Book a Sleep Clarity Call and leave with a personalized plan for naps, bedtime, and overnight wakings: https://mamamatterstoo.com/call.

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    Free guide: Why Your Baby Is Waking Every 2–3 Hours (And What To Fix First)

    https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/guide

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    15 min
  8. EP 63 // Anxiety in Motherhood: What Does the Bible Really Say?

    Episode 64

    Show notes

    You’ve prayed about it, but you still feel anxious. Does that mean you aren’t trusting God enough?

    In this episode, we’re looking at what the Bible says about anxiety and how it applies to motherhood. We’ll talk about bringing your worries to God without pretending you’re okay, focusing on today when your mind jumps to every “what if,” and asking for support without guilt.

    If your baby’s sleep has you dreading nighttime and second-guessing every wake-up, a Sleep Clarity Call can help you leave with a personalized plan for bedtime and overnight.

    The price increases from $97 to $197 on Monday, October 5. Sunday, October 4, is the last day to book at the lower price!

    Book your call: https://mamamatterstoo.com/call

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    FREE GUIDE: Why Your Baby Is Waking Every 2–3 Hours (And What To Fix First)

    https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/guide

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    Is Sleep Training Biblical? The Answers Every Christian Mom Needs

    17 min
  9. EP 62 // Should I Feed My Baby Every Time They Wake? Sleep Training and Night Feeds

    Episode 63

    Show notes

    Should you feed your baby every time they wake? If your baby wants to nurse all night, you’re exhausted, and you’re worried about taking away a feed they still need, this episode is for you.

    We’ll talk about the difference between sleep training and night weaning, what to consider before reducing overnight feeds, and why you can work toward longer stretches of sleep while keeping feeds your baby needs.

    Want help figuring out what applies to your baby? Book a Sleep Clarity Call and leave with a personalized plan for bedtime, night wakings, and feeding that fits your family.

    The price increases from $97 to $197 on Monday, October 5. Sunday, October 4, is the last day to book at the lower price!

    Book here: https://mamamatterstoo.com/call

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    18 min
  10. EP 61 // The Mental Load of Motherhood: Simple Systems That Actually Help

    Episode 62

    Show notes

    Does it feel like you’re the one who has to remember everything—the appointments, the groceries, the school forms, what’s for dinner, and what the baby needs next? That’s the mental load of motherhood, and it can leave you exhausted even when you haven’t stopped moving all day.

    In this episode, I’m sharing three simple systems to get some of those reminders out of your head, make the week feel more manageable, and share responsibility at home. You don’t need a perfect routine. You need a place to start.

    And if broken nights are making the mental load feel even heavier, a Sleep Clarity Call can help you make a personalized plan for your baby’s bedtime and overnight wakes.

    Book your sleep clarity call here: http://mamamatterstoo.com/call

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!):http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    FREE guide: Why Your Baby Is Waking Every 2–3 Hours (And What To Fix First)

    https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/guide

    Join the Facebook group!https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    13 min
  11. EP 60 // 4 Steps to Get Your One Year Old Baby to Sleep Through the Night

    Episode 61

    Show notes

    Is your one year old still waking multiple times a night to nurse, take a bottle, be rocked, or come into your bed?

    In this episode, I’m walking you through four practical steps to help your one-year-old sleep longer stretches and work toward sleeping through the night. We’ll talk about creating the right daytime schedule, separating feeding and rocking from falling asleep, choosing a consistent response for night wakings, and gradually reducing overnight feeds when appropriate.

    You’ll learn how to comfort your baby while still giving them the opportunity to develop independent sleep skills. Because you don’t have to choose between being responsive and setting healthy, age-appropriate boundaries.

    Ready for a personalized plan? Book your Sleep Clarity Call at mamamatterstoo.com/call

    15 min
  12. EP 59 // How to Be More Present With Your Kids When You’re Exhausted

    Episode 60

    Show notes

    Ever spend the whole day with your kids but still feel like you weren’t really with them? When you’re exhausted, being present can feel like one more thing you’re failing at.

    In this short episode, I’m sharing three simple ways to connect with your kids when your energy is low. You’ll learn how to find one small moment for full attention, connect without forcing yourself to play when you’re drained, and come back together after a hard moment. You don’t need to be present every minute to make your kids feel loved.

    If broken nights are leaving you exhausted, book a Sleep Clarity Call at mamamatterstoo.com/call. We’ll make a personalized plan so you know what to change and how to respond at bedtime and overnight.

    Book your sleep clarity call here: mamamatterstoo.com/call

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    FREE GUIDE: Why Your Baby Is Waking Every 2–3 Hours (And What To Fix First)

    https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/guide

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    13 min
  13. EP 58 // Sleep Training Methods Explained: Which One Is Right for Your Baby

    Episode 59

    Show notes

    If you’ve ever searched for sleep training methods and immediately felt overwhelmed by terms like Ferber, cry it out, the chair method, or pick up, put down, this episode is for you.

    Alexa breaks down the most common sleep training methods, explains what each one actually looks like, and helps you determine which approach may be the best fit for your baby’s temperament and your family’s needs. You’ll also learn why the gentlest-sounding method isn’t always the easiest, what to consider before getting started, and why consistency matters more than choosing the “perfect” method.

    If you’re tired of Googling every wake-up and second-guessing every decision, book a Sleep Clarity Call at mamamatterstoo.com/call. You’ll leave knowing exactly what needs to change, how to respond at bedtime and overnight, and what to do when things don’t go perfectly.

    Book your sleep clarity call here: mamamatterstoo.com/call

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    FREE GUIDE: Why Your Baby Is Waking Every 2–3 Hours (And What To Fix First)

    https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/guide

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    13 min
  14. EP 57 // The 2 A.M. Spiral: How to Stop Googling Baby Sleep in the Middle of the Night

    Episode 58

    Show notes

    Do you find yourself Googling baby sleep at 2 a.m., desperately trying to figure out why your baby is awake and what you should do next? One article says your baby is overtired, another says they need longer wake windows, and suddenly you’re even more anxious and confused than when you started.

    In this episode, we’re talking about why Googling temporarily relieves sleep anxiety but often makes the spiral worse. You’ll learn three questions to ask before changing your baby’s sleep approach and how to create a simple “not tonight” list for the worries and decisions that do not need to be solved in the middle of the night.

    If you’ve read all the baby sleep advice but still don’t know what to do when your baby wakes tonight, book a Sleep Clarity Call at mamamatterstoo.com/call. Together, we’ll turn all that conflicting information into one clear, personalized plan for your baby

    Book your sleep clarity call here: mamamatterstoo.com/call

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    FREE GUIDE: Why Your Baby Is Waking Every 2–3 Hours (And What To Fix First)

    https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/guide

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    13 min
  15. EP 56 // Sleep Training a 9-Month-Old: Schedules, Night Wakings, and Separation Anxiety

    Episode 57

    Show notes

    Is your 9-month-old suddenly waking all night, fighting naps, or screaming the second you leave the room? In this episode, we’re talking about realistic 9-month-old sleep schedules, wake windows, night feedings, sleep associations, and how to handle separation anxiety without giving up every sleep boundary.

    You’ll learn what may be causing the wake-ups, what a two-nap schedule can look like, and how to respond more consistently at bedtime and overnight. Because two babies can have the exact same sleep struggle for completely different reasons, this episode will give you a practical starting point, not a one-size-fits-all plan.

    If you’ve read all the baby sleep advice but still don’t know what to do when your baby wakes tonight, book a Sleep Clarity Call. Together, we’ll figure out what is actually keeping your baby from sleeping and create a personalized plan for naps, bedtime, feedings, and night wakings, so you can stop guessing and finally feel confident in how you respond.

    Book your sleep clarity call here: mamamatterstoo.com/call

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    FREE GUIDE: Why Your Baby Is Waking Every 2–3 Hours (And What To Fix First)

    https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/guide

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    19 min
  16. EP 55 // How to Run Your Home When You’re Exhausted and Everyone Needs You

    Episode 56

    Show notes

    If you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, and feel like everyone in your home needs something from you, this episode is for you. We’re talking about how to keep your home functioning when you have very little energy left, without pressuring yourself to keep everything perfectly clean or organized.

    You’ll learn how to decide what actually needs to get done, create simple routines that reduce your mental load, ask for meaningful help, and release the guilt that tells you a good mom should be able to handle everything.

    And if your baby’s sleep is Blurting you stuck in survival mode, book a personalized Sleep Clarity Call at mamamatterstoo.com/call.

    Book your sleep clarity call here: mamamatterstoo.com/call

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    FREE GUIDE: Why Your Baby Is Waking Every 2–3 Hours (And What To Fix First)

    https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/guide

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    22 min
  17. EP 54 // Sleep Through the Night Without Cry it Out: Free Live Workshop Tomorrow

    Episode 55

    Show notes

    Is your baby waking every one to two hours, fighting bedtime, or relying on feeding, rocking, or being held to fall asleep? You don’t have to choose between continuing to feel exhausted and leaving your baby alone to cry.

    In this special episode, I’m inviting you to my free live workshop, Sleep Through the Night Without “Cry It Out”: 3 Gentle but Effective Changes to Help Your Baby Wake Less and Sleep Longer.

    During the workshop, you’ll learn:

    • What may actually be causing your baby’s frequent night wakings
    • How sleep pressure and bedtime timing affect overnight sleep
    • How to gently change the way your baby falls asleep
    • How and when to respond during night wakings
    • What to consider before night weaning

    The workshop is happening Wednesday, September 2nd at 12 p.m. Central Time on Zoom.

    REGISTER HERE: https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/workshop

    11 min
  18. EP 53 // What No One Tells You About Postpartum and Life With a New Baby with Nina Spears of The Baby Chick

    Episode 54

    Show notes

    What does postpartum really look like behind closed doors, and why don’t we spend as much time preparing for life after birth as we do preparing for the birth itself?

    In this episode, I’m joined by Nina Spears, Founder and CEO of Baby Chick and author of The Baby Chick Guide to Positive Pregnancy. We’re talking about the realities of postpartum and life with a new baby, including the hidden mental load of motherhood, the pressure to have a picture-perfect experience, and the practical support new moms actually need.

    Nina shares how moms can prepare their mindset, body, relationship, support system, and home for the transition into parenthood. We also discuss how partners can become proactive members of the postpartum team instead of waiting to be told what to do.

    Whether you’re currently pregnant, newly postpartum, or already navigating motherhood with a young baby, this conversation will help you feel more prepared, supported, and understood.

    Check out all things Nina & The Baby Chick here: https://www.baby-chick.com/

    FREE workshop: Sleep Through the Night Without “Cry It Out”. Sign up here: https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/workshop

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    Book your sleep clarity call here: mamamatterstoo.com/call

    42 min
  19. EP 52 // Can I Sleep Train My Four-Month-Old Baby?

    Episode 53

    Show notes

    Can you sleep train a four-month-old baby, or is four months too early for sleep training? In this episode, we’re talking about when to start sleep training, how the four-month sleep regression affects your baby’s sleep, and the signs that your baby may be ready.

    You’ll learn why I recommend waiting until the most disruptive part of the four-month sleep regression has passed, what gentle sleep training can look like at this age, and how to improve bedtime and night wakings while still responding to your baby’s needs.

    If your four-month-old won’t sleep, is waking frequently at night, taking short naps, or suddenly fighting bedtime, this episode will help you decide what to do next.

    FREE workshop: Sleep Through the Night Without “Cry It Out”. Sign up here: https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/workshop

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    Book your sleep clarity call here: mamamatterstoo.com/call

    16 min
  20. EP 51 // How to Sleep Train When You Have Postpartum Anxiety

    Episode 52

    Show notes

    If you’re struggling with postpartum anxiety, the idea of sleep training your baby can feel overwhelming. What if they cry? What if you do something wrong? And is it even possible to improve your baby’s sleep without making your anxiety worse? In this episode, we’re talking about how to approach sleep training as an anxious mom, including gentle sleep training methods, handling nighttime anxiety, and creating a plan that supports both your baby’s needs and your mental health. You don’t have to choose between being a responsive parent and getting the rest you need.

    FREE workshop: Sleep Through the Night Without “Cry It Out”. Sign up here: https://mamamatterstoo.myflodesk.com/workshop

    Instagram (feel free to dm me anytime!): http://instagram.com/mama.matters.too

    Join the Facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/mamamatterstoo/

    Book your sleep clarity call here: mamamatterstoo.com/call

    28 min