Podcast

swimming toward the shark

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

As I was preparing to get my SCUBA certification, I asked my instructor what I should do if I saw a shark while diving. He told me that the best thing to do is to remain calm because sharks sense fear. Then he said IF a shark should become too curious and verge on aggression, the best thing to do as a diver is to – are you ready for this? – Swim. Toward. The Shark.

That blew me away.

What a powerful analogy for facing our fears. When fear gets too close, too curious, and tries to send us swimming for shore, the best thing we can do is look it in the eye, swim toward it, and watch it scurry into the deep.

And that’s how “swimming toward the shark” was born. I chose to use the word “swimming” rather than “swim” because it’s not a one and done directive. Growth and evolution are ideals we must choose to pursue every day. They require a firm commitment to look fear in the face and keep it from getting too comfortable. To keep it in check so we can keep swimming toward self-discovery and our full potential.

Episodes
24
Releases
Daily
Typical length
6 min
On air since
2026
Latest episode
4 days ago

Episodes

24 episodes, newest first

  1. ep. 24 repairing the head-heart disconnect

    Episode 24

    Show notes

    In this essay, Katherine explores the importance of reconnecting the head and heart to navigate emotional challenges, emphasizing the role of therapy and self-awareness in managing anxiety. She shares personal experiences and practical tools that have worked for her for processing emotions and maintaining mental well-being.

    17 min
  2. ep. 23 friendships

    Episode 23

    Show notes

    Katherine explores the different types of friendships we encounter throughout life, emphasizing the importance of understanding their nature and the lessons learned from them. She reflects on her personal experiences with friendships that have evolved over time, highlighting the significance of effort and adaptability in maintaining meaningful connections.

    8 min
  3. ep. 22 'failures of kindness'

    Episode 22

    Show notes

    Inspired by Professor George Saunders' commencement speech at Syracuse University, Katherine reflects on personal experiences of kindness and regret, particularly through the lens of childhood interactions with a marginalized classmate.

    8 min
  4. ep. 21 the world she witnessed

    Episode 21

    Show notes

    Katherine reflects on the life of her grandmother, Evelyn Mae Fitzgerald Boozer, who would be celebrating her 100th birthday, highlighting the profound changes in society, technology, and family dynamics over the decades.

    6 min
  5. ep. 20 chances

    Episode 20

    Show notes

    The conversation explores the multifaceted nature of 'chances' and how they influence our lives, particularly in the context of unemployment and personal growth. It delves into the emotional journey of adjusting to newfound freedom while grappling with the guilt and uncertainty that comes with it.

    8 min
  6. ep. 19 slow takes

    Episode 19

    Show notes

    The essay focuses on the theme of slowing down and practicing gratitude through silent observation, as inspired by Rachel Schwartzmann's work. Katherine shares her reflections on her home and the various elements that contribute to its story, emphasizing the importance of mindfulness and appreciation.

    3 min
  7. ep. 18 alchemy

    Episode 18

    Show notes

    Katherine discusses her intention to cultivate a more deliberate writing practice in the new year, inspired by Suleika Jaouad's "The Book of Alchemy: A Creative Practice for an Inspired Life." She reflects on her experiences with daily creative practices, the challenges she faces, and the importance of self-forgiveness in her journey of self-improvement.

    5 min
  8. ep. 17 encountering the grand

    Episode 17

    Show notes

    Katherine shares her profound experience visiting the Grand Canyon for the first time, emphasizing the beauty and healing power of nature. The conversation explores the journey to the canyon, the emotional impact of witnessing its grandeur, and the reflections on the significance of such experiences.

    4 min
  9. ep. 16 embracing enchantment

    Episode 16

    Show notes

    Katherine shares her transformative experience at the Big Magic retreat with Elizabeth Gilbert, highlighting the mindfulness practices and creative inspirations she gained. She reflects on her journey of submitting her debut novel and the importance of meditation and presence in her creative process.

    5 min
  10. ep. 15 'when breath becomes air'

    Episode 15

    Show notes

    The conversation explores the emotional depth of Paul Kalanithi's memoir 'When Breath Becomes Air' and reflects on the beauty of enduring relationships, regardless of their length.

    5 min
  11. ep. 14 when fear becomes our comfort zone

    Episode 14

    Show notes

    Through reflections on air travel, Katherine pinpoints the fallacy anxiety tells us - that the worry is what keeps the bad thing from happening - and how to rewrite the mental narrative.

    10 min
  12. ep. 13 do collections preserve our past or weigh down our future?

    Episode 13

    Show notes

    Katherine explores the emotional and physical implications of family collections, questioning whether they preserve precious memories or create bulky burdens that follow us into our futures.

    5 min
  13. ep. 12 thoughts and prayers

    Episode 12

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    Following the tragic school shooting in Uvalde, Texas, Katherine highlights the need for change and accountability in the face of gun violence. Her essay emphasizes the importance of swapping our anxiety paralysis for disrupting the power pipeline and demanding accountability from elected officials to protect and preserve the rule of law.

    10 min
  14. ep. 5 coming in for a landing

    Episode 5

    Show notes

    Katherine's recurring tornado dreams take on a different ending this time, conveying the emotional journey of overcoming fear and stress. This essay explores the symbolism of the dreams and the personal growth they can sometimes reflect.

    4 min
  15. ep. 4 further on down the road

    Episode 4

    Show notes

    In this essay, Katherine explores the theme of transition and change and how to separate the "stuff" from the sentiment in the process.

    3 min
  16. ep. 11 syncing with my sandbox

    Episode 11

    Show notes

    Katherine shares her experience of finding time for herself and embracing the gift of freedom and relaxation. She draws inspiration from a podcast and reflects on the universal advice given by the podcast guest, famed author and spiritual seeker Elizabeth Gilbert. The conversation delves into the importance of nourishing oneself, identifying top-line behaviors, and creating space for personal growth and connection.

    7 min
  17. ep. 10 sleep interrupted

    Episode 10

    Show notes

    In this essay, we'll take a journey through a unique method for falling back to sleep after waking up in the middle of the night, using visualization and mindfulness techniques to relax the body and mind.

    10 min
  18. ep. 9 me? codependent?

    Episode 9

    Show notes

    This essay reflects on Katherine's struggle with codependency in relationships, realizing the need for change and growth. She learns about the concept of codependence and its impact on her life, leading to a journey of self-discovery and understanding. Through reframing and releasing, she aims to detach with love and build healthier, more meaningful relationships.

    9 min
  19. ep. 8 you're going to be okay

    Episode 8

    Show notes

    This essay explores the natural expression of vulnerability and the need for reassurance, the power of sharing and processing pain with others, and the healing power of human connection in overcoming pain and fears.

    4 min
  20. ep. 7 sawubona

    Episode 7

    Show notes

    Katherine discovers the Meditative Story podcast and listens to an episode that resonates deeply with her personal experiences of anxiety and childhood fears. The episode features a story told by Dr. Susan David, a psychologist and author, and explores the theme of creating space for feelings and acknowledging emotions.

    23 min