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Sami Spalter’s Q+A has a surprise co-host this week. Sam Pezzullo, the guy from the viral sourdough skit, sat in on a recording, asked to come on, and ended up reading your questions Jeopardy style.

Tune in as Sami takes you inside the new house, from the shingled cottage you can’t see from the street to an inside with not one white wall. She gets into her last night in Austin putting Sunny to bed in the first home she and Andrew ever bought, how growing up with her single dad shaped the way she thinks about money, and why she stopped nickel and diming everything. She also covers Sunny’s sleep (no four month regression, because it was hard from day one), why fed is best, her top baby products, and how their nanny Joanie ended up moving across the country with them.

She closes on not drinking. Sami shares why she avoids the word “sober,” what it was like growing up around addiction, and why, coming up on 1,000 days without alcohol, it’s simply her choice.

If you’ve been sending Sami your questions, she’s answering the big ones.

Sam Pezzullo: @iamsampezz

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Sami Clarke has spent most of her life trying to get things right. In this solo episode, she shares what changed when she let go of right and wrong and started listening to what feels true to her.

Tune in as Sami gets into the practices that have helped her trust herself again. She starts small, following gut feelings on everyday decisions to build the muscle. She looks at the beliefs running in the background, like the one she found this year: that her worth came from how much she did. She talks about what human design taught her about how she works best, about building a relationship with God on her own terms, and about the boundaries she set on social media so other people's opinions stop drowning out her own.

If you're ready to stop waiting for permission to do things your way, this one is for you.

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Sami Spalter and Andrew are recording from their new East Hampton studio, and they’re finally telling the story behind the move. It looked impulsive from the outside. On the inside, it had been building for a long time.

Tune in as Sami shares what it took to let go of her mom’s home in Boca, a house her family held for 40 years that still smelled like her. She talks about learning that holding on to a place isn’t the same as holding on to a person, and about the day after it sold, when a chance open house led them to the home Sami already knew by heart from years of following its interior designer. Andrew talks about being the planner to Sami’s dreamer, and together they get into why leaving Austin wasn’t about running from something. It was about finally answering the pull toward something else.

If there’s a change you keep saying you’ll make when the timing is right, this one might be the push you need.

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Sami Clarke and Sami Spalter are recording in New York City with a conversation that started over breakfast and turned into an hour long rant they knew had to be an episode. It started in Sami Spalter's closet. She had over 30 pairs of jeans that didn't fit, and she realized she'd been keeping a whole room of tiny reminders that she wasn't enough as she is.

Tune in as the Samis talk about the energy of proving, the shoulds we never chose for ourselves, and who handed them to us in the first place. Sami Clarke shares how learning she's a projector in human design gave her permission to move differently, and why a mermaid painting she found at an art store reminded her to trust what she actually likes. Sami Spalter talks about her grandma Bubby, a Holocaust survivor, telling her she was too sensitive. She also shares how grieving her mom taught her that no one should shrink their needs to make someone else comfortable, and the night she wore jeans and a sweater while everyone else showed up in gowns. They also get into tall poppy syndrome, why their friendship works because they're so different, and how a relationship becomes a magnifying glass for who you really are.

If you've been dimming yourself to fit in somewhere, this is your reminder that the only permission you need is your own.

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Sami Clarke and Sami Spalter are together in New York City for an unfiltered Q+A, and they haven't seen a single question ahead of time. Nicole pulls the questions and the Samis answer them on the spot, with nothing off limits.

Tune in as Sami C explains why seven days of solo silence felt more like prison than self care, and Sami S shares how pregnancy finally taught her to say no and why being delusional might be her greatest gift. She opens up about being almost 1,000 days alcohol free and the tequila shot version of herself she doesn't miss at all. Sami C admits she prays through every flight, and that she once puked into her hands in an Uber to save her rating! Somewhere between the possum in the bathtub and the 6'7" twins from the bach, they also land on the one trait that makes someone instantly attractive.

If you've ever outgrown a version of yourself and didn't miss her one bit, this episode is for you.

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Both Samis are in New York City, recording back to back, and this one goes everywhere — the kind of shoot-the-shit that only happens when they're in the same room with time to actually talk.

Sami Spalter opens up about what it really looked like to extend her maternity leave when postpartum depression hit its hardest point — the moment she called Sami Clarke and said she was completely unwell, and what it meant to fully step away from a company she'd built from nothing. Sami Clarke shares her own health journey: navigating endometriosis and hormone imbalance, getting off birth control that wasn't working for her body, starting progesterone, and how getting her blood work done through Function Health finally gave her the answers she needed to actually take charge of her health.

Tune in as they talk through what it looked like to come back to FORM after all of it — finding that the team had risen, realizing where their eyes actually needed to be, and remembering who they built this brand to be in the first place. They also get into social media, Sami C's plan to return to YouTube after two years away, and the question they keep coming back to: are you building for the world to see, or building the world you actually want to live in?

If you're in a season where your body, your work, and your sense of self are all asking for something at once, this one is for you.

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Every fitness program sells you the finished version. Sami Clarke and Sami Spalter built one around the middle — and this episode is them sitting in the Hamptons mid-filming, telling you everything you need to know before day one.

Tune in as the two of them walk through what 14 days of the Transform Program actually looks like: 30 minutes of strength training a day, one signature split repeated across two weeks, with modifications and uplevels running side by side in every session because Sami Spalter is the modification and she is right there on screen with you. Sami Clarke gets into why she came back to dumbbell-only strength after 10 years of training, what it has meant to coach her best friend in real time, and why a 30-minute workout is the structure she has seen actually produce results. Sami Spalter talks about showing up on camera four months postpartum, why this is not a postpartum program even though she is in it, and what it has done for her self-worth to keep a small promise to herself every single day.

They answer the questions you sent in, cover the nutrition approach built with FORM's registered dietitian, and make one thing very clear: two weeks of consistency is not a body transformation timeline, and anything that promises otherwise is not this.

The program launches September 14th. This is everything you need to know.

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Every fitness program sells you the finished version. Sami Clarke and Sami Spalter built one around the middle — and this episode is them sitting in the Hamptons mid-filming, telling you everything you need to know before day one.

Tune in as the two of them walk through what 14 days of the Transform Program actually looks like: 30 minutes of strength training a day, one signature split repeated across two weeks, with modifications and uplevels running side by side in every session because Sami Spalter is the modification and she is right there on screen with you. Sami Clarke gets into why she came back to dumbbell-only strength after 10 years of training, what it has meant to coach her best friend in real time, and why a 30-minute workout is the structure she has seen actually produce results. Sami Spalter talks about showing up on camera four months postpartum, why this is not a postpartum program even though she is in it, and what it has done for her self-worth to keep a small promise to herself every single day.

They answer the questions you sent in, cover the nutrition approach built with FORM's registered dietitian, and make one thing very clear: two weeks of consistency is not a body transformation timeline, and anything that promises otherwise is not this.

The program launches September 14th. This is everything you need to know

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Sami Clarke and Sami Spalter are back for a shoot-the-shit life update — and this one's all about change. The kind you didn't plan for, the kind you're still sitting in, and the kind that asks you to trust yourself before you have any answers.

Sami Clarke shares the pull she's been feeling toward New York City: the month in September she booked there, the moment she almost called her landlord to end her lease early, and how she landed on loving the bicoastal life instead. Sami Spalter opens up about why Austin no longer feels like it's serving them the way it once did, and how she and Ange are sitting with the question of where to root their family now that Sunny is here.

They also get honest about women's health. Sami Clarke shares where she's at with her endometriosis and PMDD — trying progesterone, the side effects that told her it wasn't right, and what it means to advocate for yourself when the information keeps changing. Sami Spalter talks about her postpartum depression and the moment she learned postpartum depression wasn't even a named diagnosis until 1994.

If you're in a season that doesn't have a clean ending yet, this one is for you.

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Sami Clarke and Sami Spalter take a break from going deep to play the Sami Squared Game Show, where listener questions get answered on the spot with zero prep!!

Tune in as they go back and forth on some of the funniest, most unfiltered questions that are extra self aware! They get into their most embarrassing date stories, their last Google searches, who they last looked up on Instagram, their biggest red flags as people, and what they'd each be arrested for and so much more!

If you've been taking yourself a little too seriously lately, this one will fix that.

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Sami Clarke and Sami Spalter are both in the Hamptons for the summer, and the Transform Program almost didn't exist. It started when Sami Clarke looked over mid-workout, saw Sami Spalter giving everything she had, started crying, and knew they had to build something together. That moment is where this episode begins.

Tune in as the two of them share the origin story of the Transform Program and what filming it has actually looked like in real time. Sami Spalter is four months postpartum, working her way back to strength after being in the best shape of her life before pregnancy. She gets into the fear of being seen before you have results, why she committed to showing up on camera anyway, and what it feels like to be dripping sweat, wanting to quit, and doing it anyway. Sami Clarke gets into why she needed Sami Spalter to actually be in this program and how training her has reignited her purpose as a trainer.

This episode is the heart of it. A full episode with all the details, logistics, and your questions answered is coming soon.

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We are bringing this one back — and if you've heard it before, you already know why. This conversation with Jay Shetty is one of those episodes that hits differently depending on where you are in your life, and we have a feeling it's going to land exactly where you need it today.

Jay takes us into what it felt like to walk away from a checklist life and say yes to the monastery — and then yes again to leaving it. He talks about the inner voice that starts as a whisper because it's been ignored, and how following it, even when everyone around you thinks you're making the worst decision of your life, is the only way through.

We go deep on meditation without the pressure — just two simple questions, morning and night, that can genuinely shift the texture of your day. Jay breaks down the difference between self-awareness, self-liking, and self-love, and why jumping straight to "I love myself" without doing the real work underneath it never sticks.

And then there's the moment that stopped us both: you become successful by what you gain, but you become happy by what you lose. Jay unpacks what it means to let go of envy, ego, and the metrics someone else handed you — and why that inner work is the only thing that makes everything else feel worth it.

This one is a gift. We hope you feel it.

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We're bringing back one of our most-requested episodes ever — and dropping it in August on purpose. Because January isn't the only time you get to start over. The middle of the year is one of the most powerful moments to do this work, and we wanted to give you this episode as your permission slip to reset right now.

This is the full How to Win the Year framework: the self check-in ranking activity across all five buckets, what you're leaving behind, choosing your word, and the future self visualization to anchor it all. Everything we walked through at the top of 2026 — still just as relevant, still just as deep.

The first half of the year is behind you. You have data now. You know where you showed up and where you drifted. And you've still got so much runway. So grab your journal, find a quiet moment, and let yourself actually do this work.

If you set intentions in January and quietly let them go somewhere along the way, this one is for you.

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Sami Clarke is back with her self-love and growth series, and this week she's bringing her best friend and fellow creator Alyssa Lynch to the mic for the girl chat you've been asking for. These two have been having this conversation behind closed doors for years — and it's finally front-facing.

Tune in as Sami and Alyssa get into the real stuff: how they found each other at exactly the right moment in their lives, what it actually looks like to be a sensitive person navigating relationships that weren't right, and why sometimes the person who knows you best just has to look you in the eye and say "that's it." Alyssa opens up about the pattern she didn't see until she was out of it, the relationship that finally broke the cycle, and how she stopped mistaking safety for the right thing. And somewhere in between tarot cards, journal speaking in a hotel room, and crawling on the floor making TikToks in New York, these two remind you what it looks like when friendship actually holds you.

If you have a person in your life who sees the outside of the jar when you can't, this one's for both of you.

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Sami and Andrew are back together for a Q+A answering everything you've been sending in — from the emergency C-section and postpartum hormones to formula feeding, night nurses, and what it's actually like being new parents.

Tune in as they walk through the questions that hit closest to home: what Andrew's role really looked like during the birth, why day five postpartum was the hardest night of both of their lives, and how Sami is navigating postpartum depression with a new therapist and radical acceptance around her birth story. They get into the formula feeding decision — what led to it, how hard it was to accept, and why a fed baby is a healthy baby, full stop. And they're honest about the marriage piece too: finding time for yourself, over-communicating with your partner, and what it looks like to be on the same team when everything is harder than you expected.

If you're in the newborn stage or postpartum right now and some days feel like too much, this one will make you feel less alone.

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Sami booked a hotel on the island of Lanai, pre-planned every meal so she'd never have to speak, and wore a necklace that read "I am on a silent retreat" for seven days straight. No talking, no screens, no music, no journaling. Nothing. This is her honest account of what happened.

Tune in as Sami walks through her first solo silent retreat — designed on her own terms, while following the Open Gate Sangha program. She gets into what seven hours of meditation a day actually looks like, why day four nearly broke her, and the unexpected clarity that came through in the stillness. She is not sugarcoating it: this was the hardest thing she has ever done.

But somewhere in all of it, something cracked open. Because her biggest breakthrough was realizing how much she loves her life.

If you've been thinking about any kind of retreat, this one is worth listening to first.

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Sami Clarke and Sam Spalter are back on the mic together, and this one feels like being let into their actual FaceTime. Two best friends, two wildly different seasons: Sam deep in new motherhood, still navigating the rawness of postpartum, and Sami fresh off a yes-summer in Ibiza and London, sitting with the quiet ache of watching everyone around her have babies while wanting that life for herself too.

Tune in as they go there, all the way there. Sam opens up about the panic attacks, the emergency C-section shame, the breastfeeding that didn't work, and the moment she finally told Sami how low the lows really were. Sami shares a fertility diagnosis she'd been scared to face, learning she has endometriosis and PCOS, and the emotional shift from "what is wrong with me" to "how can I love you more, body." And somewhere in the middle of all of it, they talk about the grass always being greener, crying to Yellow by Coldplay in the car, and why the most healing thing either of them did was just tell the truth.

This episode is also a love letter to the friendships that don't just show up for the highlight reel. The ones who fly out at 11 days postpartum, give you permission to not form a sentence, and text you "I'm so excited to see your new normal" before they even land. If you've ever held back the ugly truth because you thought you should only feel grateful right now, this one will meet you exactly where you are.

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Sami is back on the mic for the first time since Sunny was born — and she's here to share the story she's spent 10 weeks working up the courage to tell. The one where the best day of her life was also the hardest.

Tune in as Sami opens up about a labor that went nothing like she planned, a crash emergency C-section that shook her to her core, and the postpartum journey of giving herself permission to feel all of it — not just the gratitude. She gets into the therapy, the meaning-making, the signs she held onto, and why healing really began when she stopped editing her own story.

If you've ever felt like you weren't allowed to grieve something hard because you also had so much to be grateful for, this one will meet you exactly where you are.

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Sami Clarke is back with her self-love and growth series alongside Nikki Novo — spiritual teacher, intuition guide, and host of the Soul-Led Living podcast — for a conversation about what it actually looks like to leave the old rulebook behind and start feeling your way forward.

Tune in as Sami and Nikki get into the real middle of living a soul-led life: why worry is just a blanket you pull over yourself when you're about to level up, how to tell a sign from a test when the same person keeps showing back up, and what to do when you follow your intuition and it still doesn't go the way you planned. Nikki shares the story of the heartbreak that accidentally launched her entire career — and why real intuition gives you the next step, never the full guarantee. And somewhere in the middle of it all, Sami opens up about what it finally took to stop running from her feelings and discover the clarity was inside them the whole time.

If you're in the in-between right now, not quite sure what's on the other side but feeling the pull anyway, this one's for you.

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Sami Spalter is back in her nesting series and nine months in, she's sharing the six mantras that have carried her through every appointment, every body change, and every wave of doubt. The actual words she came back to when pregnancy got hard.

Tune in as Sami gets real about the strength she endures, the journal entry from Hoffman that pulled her through it, why she believes worry is just a negative prayer and what it actually felt like to stop doing it, the moment she had to consciously let go of who she used to be in her body and choose to focus on who she was becoming. She shares the mantra she wrote in her journal every single day, the meditation where she asked her baby girl if she was okay and actually heard something back, and why reminding herself that her baby chose her, with all her imperfections, her big personality, the home she's building — finally quieted the doubt.

If you're somewhere in this pregnancy journey right now, terrified, in awe, grieving, grateful, or all of it at once — this one was made for you!!

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